How do I find a man who:
builds me furniture
owns a nice house in a good neighborhood
has a steady, regular high paying job
is affectionate: kisses and hugs me frequently and spontaneously, but doesn't try to grope me and instead is happy to receive sexual attention only when trying to conceive a child
doesn't complain, doesn't whine, doesn't attempt to criticize me in an unfair, unnecessary and/or cruel way, doesn't try to change me, accepts me as I am, accept my likes and dislikes, accepts my hobbies, accepts my interests, accepts my political views?
I am not interested in drama and abuse and misery with some uncaring man who brings conflict.
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have you tried losing weight
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i see what you did there
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>>18640440
>How do I find a man who:
>builds me furniture
>owns a nice house in a good neighborhood
>has a steady, regular high paying job
>is affectionate: kisses and hugs me frequently and spontaneously, but doesn't try to grope me and instead is happy to receive sexual attention only when trying to conceive a child
>doesn't complain, doesn't whine, doesn't attempt to criticize me in an unfair, unnecessary and/or cruel way
>doesn't complain, doesn't whine, doesn't attempt to criticize me in an unfair, unnecessary and/or cruel way, doesn't try to change me, accepts me as I am, accept my likes and dislikes, accepts my hobbies, accepts my interests, accepts my political views?
> doesn't try to change me, accepts me as I am, accept my likes and dislikes, accepts my hobbies, accepts my interests, accepts my political views?
> doesn't try to change me, accepts me as I am
>accepts me as I am
Maybe you just need to start accepting men for who they are to be happy
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So a man from Pakistan has somehow managed to contact my daughter and requested illicit acts from her even after being made aware of her age. She knows better than that and managed to acquire some personal details, how do I proceed/can. All I have is his details as she deleted the messages.
I know his Address name and what he does.
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Fyi she's 15
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>>18640439
If he's from Pakistan and you from the West, don't think you could get him caught or anything. Laws don't really work in the third world.
T. Paki.
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>>18640439
There's absolutely nothing you can do to a pakistani man, sorry. Just keep up the good work keeping your daughter educated on scum like that
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I have this situation: Ive been with a gf from like 3 months. Im currently frustrated because shes too fucking lazy, she doesnt do gifts, doesnt like to cook, she doesnt bring anything to my home when she comes, everything she brings to the relationship are texts and sex. Should i ditch her?
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>>18640403
>I'm unhappy. Should I stay?
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>>18640407
yeah, thats what im asking.
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What you get you can get from pretty much any woman so yes. You should.
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I kind of regret quiting my job on friday
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The thing is that I spoke about quitting numerous times with my relatives, because I honestly don't feel like going to work for a while.
I chose to quit, because I just wanted my freedom back and I want to spend my days how I see fit.
Thirdly, I only have a hs diploma and have around $4k saved up, I help my parents pay the bills.
I don't really miss the job nor the people I worked with, I kind off miss the fact that I had a (job)title.
I get the feeling that people will look down on me for not having a job/a title.
Like if I go on a date with someone and we start asking each other questions like: "what do you do for a living ?" " what do you like about your job" then I'd have nothing to say and she might get turned off.
Lastly, I think it would be foolish to go back at my prior job and asked my employers to hire me again.
I'm sure they'll be pissed and most likely won't take me back even though I gave my supervisor a resignation letter.
This is my 3rd job and I only worked at this last job for three weeks.
I'm pretty sure they're going to think of me as a fool if I ask them to hire me again.
What do you guys think ?
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You sound like a child. It's ok to want your freedom, but realism doesn't allow for that.
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I quit my job and regretted it too and things really did feel as awkward as you described. Also I had pretty high standards -- like I wanted a job that was at least as good as the job I quit -- so it took 8 months to get another job -- but that job was way better. I also had to fill in the gap by joining a friend's start up and he agreed to flub the dates so it looks like there was no gap in employment.
Were you working at a professional job or just some hourly thing?
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>>18640456
I was doing an hourly job as a Front desk agent at a hotel.
The thing is that I always kept complaining (in my head) that I want to go home and draw or play guitar, go on a ride with my bike, sleep, etc.
I've also been thinking about going to college before it's too late (I'm 23) but I need to get a passport to receive student loans (I only have permits)
The good news is that I have more than enough money saved up for a passport and it'll just take a few months to finally get it.
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Mentoring a 10 y/o Syrian boy 2017-08-20 02:43:26 Post No.18640356
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I'm being given the chance of mentoring a 10 y/o (probably a refugee) boy.
I've never tried to mentor someone before - but I feel like a have a lot of stuff to show this little guy you know? Show him what's good instead of fleeing and being scared of the world. Take him to the Zoo, Museum... Help him find himself and discover things that he likes.
It's volunteer work and I'm 23 y/o starting my studies the 29th of August in another city (33 kilometers from where I live - going to take the bus or move there I'm not sure of that yet).
Going into surgery to fix both my feet (once at a time) the 22nd of August.
Not sure if I'm in a good position to take this fella under the wing even tho my guts are pushing me to do it and going in that direction. I feel like I would be good at the job - but then again... My own situation.
Why is my mind telling me to do it, /adv/?
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You could make a huge difference in little bro's life. He doesn't care if your feet are healing, teaching him how you see the world and a way to look at things that arn't his probably terrible life could change him. It's a good thing anon.
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Thank for the encouraging words friend. It's much more about time then it is about my feet healing and me walking around with crutches. I really want to get a good start in school - and not jeopardize the effect it was on me mentally. You know what I mean?
Am I being selfish or?
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>>18640405
nah, it's always reasonable to look out for #1. if it's something you really feel a drive to do, just balance time for him like you would a hobby. except it means a lot more than playing dota or something.
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>be invited to a group dinner
>pretty much everyone brings their significant others with them (except for me of course)
>meet a few new people including one girl
>we all sit at a large table and the girl actually decides to sit right by my side, a bit away from her friends actually
>chats me up and introduces herself
>my autism shows and I just awkwardly talk to her a bit before the conversation dies down
>feel like shit because a nice girl talked to me and I couldn't even do shit
>fast forward a few months
>come to a new work and there is a dinner/party with coworkers
>by some coincidence she's there too because she works there
>before the party there's some discussion panel and she again sits right by me
>the dinner happens in a different place, and again, she sits by me
>later we get around to talking again, no autism this time because alcohol, even get a little away from the place to talk in a more silent area
>there's a dance which goes around the room and picks people up to connect to it so that it forms a sort of a snake (hard to explain)
>the "snake" comes round my way to pick me up so I just join and am immediately directed not to the end of it (as it should be) but behind THE girl
>later on we talk more and it's cool but notice what looks like an engagement ring on her finger
>immediately any bit of hope inside me dies
What are the chances this was not an engagement ring and just some random piece of jewellery? She seemed like such a nice girl.
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>>18640349
you have to be more proactive man, you're waiting for get lucky
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>>18640364
What the hell does that even mean, anon?
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wait are you sure she didn't have a ring on a few months earlier?
Also some girls just wear rings to scare off creeps (probably at her workplace?)
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So my gf wants me to engage in BDSM with another guy as the dominant while she watches.
She has been talking about how her fantasy is seeing men get dominated by other men sexually and she recently told me that she wanted to see me dominate another guy sexually.
Now i know how it feels not being able to experience your kinks in a relationship so i can relate. Also i am straight.
I really want to do it for her sake to please her but there are a few problems.
If i were to fuck a guy i would probably not be able to get an erection so the male has to have extremely feminine features. There is sumething about grinding up against a hairy asshole, legs, chest, arms, dick and set of balls that feels wrong.
If i were to go through with it and cant get it up or become too disgusted what do i do? It's not like i can stop mid session.
Should i do something i am extremely uncomfortable with just toplease her sexual fantasy. If anyone of my past relations had asked me i wouldn't even consider it.
I am never this indecisive.
Thoughts?
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>>18640332
If you aren't gay don't do it. And don't do it to please her. I see so many threads about people complaining that their partner really wants them to do sexual stuff that the OP is never comfortable with. It's sexual abuse.
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>>18640343
Also, cuckholding isn't a gender specific thing.
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>>18640332
Just get a trap from /r9k/ or something
They can be really cute and convincing
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What does it mean when a girl is inconsistent when it comes to texting. One minute shes replying with paragraphs and sending photos and the next minute shes being really dry and acting like she doesnt want to text me
Before you all eat me alive here are some facts
>She initiates the conversation
>She talks about very personal things, things you wouldn't even tell your family
>I have history with her
>I respond to her as soon be it 1 minute or 30
>I'm not dry to her at all
>I like her and she knows am interested but i dont talk like a creep
Whats the deal here?
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>Canadian man with girl issues
You don't say?!?
Let me tell 4chan, as a Torontonian, that it is super easy to get laid in Toronto if you're not a retard; due to the significant number of men who are.
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As a girl and from what you've said, I think she's really comfortable with you. If she talks you up all night one night and is dry for a bit, it could be because something's going on with her,
Or she knows you well enough that she knows she didn't have to force conversation with you. From what you've described, I wouldn't worry about it.
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Thanks that's reassuring, i just wanted to know if there was some message am missing. I like to give her space
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I'm a 27 year old healthy male. But here is what's confusing. In my mind, I consciously do not want a girlfriend. Which is also the reason why I've never had one, but that's ok. The thing that's confusing, is that my body thinks otherwise. I get weird feelings in my chest and stuff when the thought of girls comes up. I'll even think "oh this is just biological instinct" and ignore it. It's just frustrating because it's all the damn time.
Will this fade with age?
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>>18640308
Have a wank and consider yourself lucky.
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>>18640316
Nah I'm trying to stop that Tbh. I was doing it just once a week, which turned into once every other day. I'm trying to cut back to just once every other week.
>consider yourself lucky
What do you mean?
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>>18640321
Once every other day and you thought that was too much? ONCE EVERY OTHER WEEK? Wtf is this madness? You are a very weird person.
>what do you mean?
I mean 99% of relationships are a fucking drag. And even the remaining 1% are a drag a lot of the time. When you're single you want a partner, but when you're in a relationship you remember being single and long to be back there.
I'm a jaded old cunt with a long time girl friend who I love but she's still a fucking pain in the arse most of the time. All women are, they can't help it. I envy faggots.
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I've been dating this girl for 3 months. I like her and she's fun to be around, but that's as far as it goes. I'm not really sexually ( she wants to wait until marriage for sex) or intellectually satisfied. I was never super attracted to her, it was more like she grew on me and now I find her cute. (She was in my friend group before we started dating)
The problem is that I'm not sure of how good relationships should work. Should I just wait for feelings of love to develop? I feel like all the relationships I've seen that were started because of attraction, butterflies, and all that other shit don't last because those feelings fade over time.
If I'm just going to end up in a boring sexless companionship with some woman that I respect enough to share my life with, any woman that I can tolerate should do right? However I feel like by not being with a girl that I'm crazy about, at least initially, I'm doing both me and her.
I suppose the bottom line is that I'd like to experience love, but I don't know if it lasts or if that is what I should be building a relationship on. Is it better to choose to be in a relationship that is combfortable and attempt to be happy with what you have?
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>>18640299
Dude, if you aren't satisfied, just leave. It's a 3 month relationship. If you aren't happy now, it's not going to get a whole lot better. Just end it, and go find something that does make you happy.
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Should I include Pinsir or Kanghaskan in my Pokemon Red team?
Team so far is:
Charizard Raichu Pidgeot Exeggcutor Starmie
inb4 >vp fuck those autists
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>>18640267
All you need is Kadabra in gen I-II. Alternatively, Nidoking with Thrash and Earthquake wipes the floor with most themes.
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>not using only 1 mon
I was just about to say this too.
I might add Blastoise I guess as I've soloed the game with him also...
Is robotics engineering a meme degree? Would I have better career prospects sticking to a more general electrical/electronics engineering degree?
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If you like programming factory lines, go for robotics.
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yes and yes
if you're interested in mechanical aspects, pick up a few mechanical courses
if you're interested in programming, either pick up some of those courses instead or just learn programming on your own
do not double major, do not minor, do not believe people who tell you to take 17 hours in one semester, do not go straight to grad school, do not skip out on internships
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>>18640252
The uni I am transferring to just lost their robotics program last semester, but I was going to major in it (software eng now)
Couple things to consider:
You will be more tied down to cities and areas where they're building plants
Robotics is a mix between electrical, mechanical, and software so while your knowledge is going to be spread out you'' have a niche degree and you'll only be specialized for one thing as a whole
It's harder to get into a robotics program on a bachelors level
It doesn't pay as well or have as many jobs as some of the other engineering disciplines (but if you're an engineer you'll be OK no matter what as far as I know)
Pure mechanical, electronic, and software engineers end up working in robotics so for certain projects you might not be so needed since you're spread out
It's still a relatively new field, if you're an engineer you're gonna be OK no matter what but I am happy I started steering towards software engineering because of reasons above
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So...
My sis-in-law has been staying with us for the last week and today she walked down to get clothes out of the laundry like this...
As a side note my wife was at the store and she's never come down like this before. She's always been flirty but I think this is her way of telling me she's interested...
Advice please!
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>>18640237
Can't really advise you unless you state your intentions. Do you want sis in law to stop? Do you want to ruin your marriage?
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>>18640255
I do find her attractive but nothing more than wank material at this point. Wouldn't cheat.
Should I tell my wife? Or just let it slide?
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>>18640260
If your sis in law won't be staying with you for long, and she's only done it once, I'd let it slide.
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Hi, i need help, yesterday i fucked a prostitute, i weared condom but i fear i could get some std in my mouth, what can i do to know besides an exam?
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Know that she's more likely to be clean than a random skank from a bar.
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>>18640236
Wait a couple of months and then get examined. If you're actually infected, then it takes time for the infection to become detectable. In the mean time, don't have sex with anyone else.
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>what can i do to know besides an exam?
kill yourself.
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Well, it is a pretty difficult situation. It all started 2 years ago when all my group of friends met this girl who everyones started to love sooo quickly, except me. I only seen her always as a friend and as a very good person. There were problems inside my group to be her boyfriend and then my best friend started dating her (everyone thought it was because he was desperate, he never had a girlfriend). I was happy for both of them, they made a good couple.
Then I started to love her soo much. I never said this to my best friend (I will name now as 'B') and as I thought it wasnt fair, I did as much as I could to stop my feelings. I dated other girls who I love but every time I failed because my feelings for Bs girlfriend (who I will name as 'A') always appeared again.
Then started all the big problems: A was one year younger than us, and B and me moved out last year to another city to start university. A and me were getting closer and closer, talking everyday since then, texting, Skype, phone... but I never treat her as my crush, only as my friend.
But then, B started to get jealous. It is not the first time that this happened, he has always been extremely jealous. And he was completely mad. He started to spy my mail to see if I was sending letters to her, he trates his gf as shit, not answering her calls and mesaages. He made all my group of friends be against me because he said I was trying to make them break. That, added to a shit year due to personal and familiar problems, made me have depression. I never told anyone about this except for A, and she helped me so much.
A didnt like how B was treating me and her, how he was begin to act and the person that he became. I hated and felt so bad for her, because and think she deserves more, and to see the person that once was my bestfriend hurting so bad the girl I love kills me everyday. But she is so in love for him, she forgives him for everything, literally everything. And I think it is not fair for her.
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And I dont want to date her, even if I think taht this is the woman who I want to be with. I only want her to be happy and to have what he deserves to have.
I dont know what to do, please give me advice.
If theres something of the story thats not too clear Ill try to explain it better.
And if you need more details, I can give them.