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Any men married a fat chick? 2017-01-30 07:59:26 Post No.18005844
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Any men married a fat chick?
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I recently went on a date with a girl I met online. She was a lot fatter than I expected but she is a trump supporter, shoots guns, white, redpilled.
I'm trying to figure out if I should keep dating her or not. I don't find myself that attracted to her but I can't stay single forever. What should I do?
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>>18005844
bump just for the sheer fun your post has brought me
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>>18005844
>a lot fatter than I expected but she is a trump supporter, shoots guns, white, redpilled
my type of girl
OP you hit gold
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I suppose there are people who marry people they're not actually attracted to. Although I can't imagine why.
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For the past 3 years I've gone on some dates (through a lot of effort, mind you) and while they weren't necessarily romantic, I wanted to get to know the girls I was dating a lot better and try to work something out with them. A few of them ended up being just trashy golddiggers, while the others friendzoned me after the first date.
I don't know what I'm doing wrong. My roommate is cool with me borrowing his car when I need to (too broke to afford my own, atm) and I have somewhere we can go after the date if we wanted to watch a movie or play some vidya or just chat. I'm unemployed at the moment, but I have no problem keeping a job and they usually pay pretty well. I'm a 22yo male, and I mean, I'm not the greatest looking guy in the world, I know how to cook, and I'm a pretty nice guy. That said, I'm shy, but I feel like there's a connection between myself and another girl and I'm comfortable, I'm a pretty fun guy, I guess.
I'm just really lonely at this point and want to find a good relationship, and hell, even just someone to lay next to one night and just chat would be nice, but no one is willing to give me a shot.
Is there anything I can do to help or am I just forever alone?
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Oh, and more or less getting friendzoned kills my confidence. It's like I get so far just to get shut down, and I put forth all that effort for nothing. It just sucks.
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>>18005825
Stop trying to find a good relationship
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I know that feel bro. Keep it together, work out, try to look good, keep your social circle big, and keep trying. All I can say honestly. Good relationships are hard to find.
I'm on a similar boat. Was able to get a few dates through an extreme amount of effort (had to change so many habits and make myself a better person) and was lucky to get a girlfriend for a while. Didn't really go anywhere though, we had differences early on and broke up before we made it to bed. Sucks because I worked so hard to be the best that I could and all that got me was heartbreak and more loneliness. I don't have the motivation to go through all that again, so I guess I'm stuck being alone for a long time.
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Opinions on this situation? 2017-01-30 07:32:46 Post No.18005815
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So there's this cute girl at my work (barista at dunkin(kms)donuts) and she's giving me some...peculiar signals.
She laughs at most of what I say, and one time even exclaimed "I don't know why but anon, everything he says is so funny" and we get a long pretty well, talking about politics and sharing funny things on our phones occasionally. Today, she made an odd gesture to me- she was laughing and giggling with our coworker hysterically and links arms with me, pretending to playfully get away from my other co worker (both girls joking around). She goes behind me and keeps giggling. But she has a boyfriend, so I'm kinda
>>ok whatever.
But she and her friend also check out guys in front of me too (usually on my phone ignoring their feverish trifling). So to recap
>>thinks I'm very funny
>>comfortable enough to link arms
>>with anon
>>but has a bf
>>checks out and makes remarks
>>about other guys in front of me.
So really, I'm looking for opinions or wwyd if you were me responses?
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You really don't want to chase up a lead when she's got a bf. If she's willing to play with you while she has a bf then she'll definitely do the same to you.
Leave it, look for other girls, come back when she is available if you're extremely keen. Some girls are just naturally flirty.
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She is comfortable with you. Like a gay best friend that she can talk about periods with and shit.
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>>18005878
We'll we aren't that close but I get the gist of what you're saying. Idk if you're right though
>>18005876
Hmm I see. Thank you.
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I'm 28 years old and have a huge fear of having a real job.
I always had jobs that paid me a lot but demanded me only like once or twice a week. Or jobs that I could do but I was basically alone and no one was monitoring me.
However I moved recently to help family, and the jobs I had arent as in demand here, so my work is much slower and less frequent. I'm not making enough to get by and my family is getting stressed and wants me to get a fulltime job. But some reason this thought flares up my anxiety and I have a panic. Last time I reverted to getting depressed and shutting myself off from the world for a week. I dont know what the fuck is wrong with me and I cant seem to get over this fear. I just want to keep my high paying jobs that dont need me more than 20 hours a week.
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>>18005793
You need to learn to grow the fuck up.
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>>18005800
This. You're not a special snowflake, get the fuck over it and do whatever job you can get
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What kind of jobs were you doing before?
and what kind of jobs do you do now?
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For the past few weeks I've been experiencing an on and off sharp pain in my adonis belt region, as circled in the photo. The pain is similar to a side stitch pain. It doesn't seem characteristic of a hernia; there's no swelling or lump and there's no burning sensation. It's just a sharp pain.
The pain just come and goes at random. It doesn't come when I'm doing anything specific. I don't want to see a doctor unless I absolutely have to. Do any of you know what this may be and how I might be able to solve the problem on my own?
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I forgot to say that the pain is on the left side only. I do go to the gym, but I always skip leg day.
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Colon/jejunum/ileum.
How to solve it? No idea.
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sounds like kidney stones.
they will hurt your entire lower body
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Guys my girlfriend of almost 4 years thinks shes asexual and i agree because shes never been great at sex and its uncomfortable subject for her and im depressed because im never gonna have good or meaningful sex again in my life because i dont want to break up over that but i cant have good sex with her, i havent cummed in 3 months and she never initiates or brings up the subject its always forced and i have to be super direct and that ruins it for me and its hard to talk about sex with her
Meanwhile my other friend who im super close with is in a great sexual relationship and she seems perfect in that sort of way and thats the kind of sexual relationship i want. Its easy for us to talk about shit and i talk about how shitty our sex life is with her alot. Should i ask her to talk to my gf about it or what should i do ahhh
>tldr my sex life sucks with gf, how do i fix
>pic related obv isnt my gf
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You're sexually incompatible and there are other girls, break up. She should allow you to sleep around if she wants to stay with you.
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>>18005742
Well do you want to fuck her or fuck other girls? Is having an open relationship out of the question?
Like can you still date but is it ok to have a FWB? thats something you two should discuss
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>>18005742
if a girl isnt willing to fulfill you sexually than why does she care if you sleep with other women? i mean i udnerstand thered be SOME insecurity there but regardless, yo uare going to have sex again, you will leave her, your human, and you're a man, you have a breaking point
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I know this sounds stupid but I have been so deeply depressed for such a long time now that I can't force myself to care about anything that I should care about. I am just so tired,
I am a 22 year old male in college and I just have no energy left to participate in any of the "experiences" that I should. I don't care about maintaining friendships anymore, I don't care about being social and I hate talking to people becasue I am afraid they will realise how depressed I am and try to "help" even though that help is just encumbering. I have tried therapy and medication just made me a lot worse and I hate the idea of it. I am losing myself a little bit more and more and its getting to the point that it feels like the mask is slipping in a way and people may start to notice which, as I said, is my number one fear.
I want to have all the normal things. I want to be successful and happy. I just can't find people, or a person, that I enjoy spending time with. That I like talking to, being around. I don't have anyone and the weird part is that I am beyond loneliness, I don't even care anymore. I dosen't even feel like it matters that I have eaten alone every day for years, or that I spend my weekends playing video games that I hate. I know I am not expressing myself well right now.
Everyday I think more and more about suicide and everyday I become a little more inclined towards it. The biggest thing stopping me right now is my student loan debt would go t o my parents and I can't let that happen, but I am just slipping. I care less and less daily and I am getting worried that I may try it soon. I don't really know.
Any /adv/ice?
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A recurring pattern I'm seeing in these posts is the idea that one has to adhere to societal expectations. I was fairly certain that when I woke up today, it was the year of 2017 where day-by-day people are more than welcome to do as they please with seemingly little retribution.
OP, can you and I please take a look at this particular line?
>to participate in any of the "experiences" that I should.
>that I should.
What? You should do as you please. As you said you're of collegiate level, so I assume you feel that you should enjoy going to clubs, watching sports with the boys, and hooking up with the hottest catch you can on the weekends.
This is not the case. I invite you, no seriously, find your own fun in life. Stop looking towards standards and norms to dictate what is fun and what is not. If for some strange reason you found rubbing your ass against a wall to just be the most pleasurable, fulfilling thing on the planet then by all means man that is your jam!
There are also tones of hue-hue forever alone in your post. This is another misconception. This is a misconception that you need other people to enjoy life and once again this is simply not the case.
Sit back and relax man, for real. Stop stressing about perceived external expectations. Sit back and chill the fuck out, and ride this wave. Along the way you're going to pick up some things that you enjoy, so enjoy them when they come and say goodbye when they go. Nothing is forever, and you and your life is no exception.
Take a seat, grab some popcorn, and observe and take in all the sights and sounds this world has to offer because either now or later you are going to die. And you're never coming back.
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>>18005753
Actually good advice, thank you.
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>>18005753
Also, try eating said popcorn when you're high and you have some nice quality headphones on playing your favorite music. Mother fucker come back to this post and tell me you're not smiling. Grab a god damn spoon and slam some Ben n' Jerrys when you're blitzed off your bagel, and tell me that you don't feel so damn nice.
There's a lot to enjoy in this life man, you just have to find your respite.
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Am i making a good choice ? 2017-01-30 06:30:34 Post No.18005706
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One part of me wants to go to college but i don't feel smart enough and i don't feel very motivated to,the other half just wants to become a mountain man and live in a cabin.
>what should i do
I really like the mountain man idea but i just think people will think I'm stupid for not going to college.
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Much like your image here is fictional, so to is your idea on how being a mountain man would be. Go to school, and be proactive with your studies. You're probably much more intelligent than you make yourself out to be.
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something like this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3ODu2RZIuXk
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While I'm not comment on whether becoming a mountain man is a good or bad idea, I'll say you can go to college at any point.
I feel that much of the reason there's a push for people to go straight to tertiary education is that once you start making adult money doing more menial tasks (for instance, picking up a trade/manual work in Australia or even things like retail) you're going to become accustomed to that and not want to bother with higher education.
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>living in texas
>need a social to get my id
>need a form of id to get my social
>don't have anything of the sort, only my birth certificate, a united healthcare card from 2012 and mail with my name on it
What do I do? You need an ID to get your social, and you need a social to get your ID, but I don't know it. My mom knew it, I'm pretty sure, but she's dead, so I feel like I'm pretty fucked here. Maybe she wrote it down, but if she did, it's in some shitty rotting house a few hours away, buried under fuck knows what, but going there's not really an option for me right now. Fuck man, what the hell do I do?
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Birth certificate is good id
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>>18005692
Doesn't an ID need a pic, though?
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>>18005669
http://www.dps.texas.gov/DriverLicense/identificationrequirements.htm
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>be me, 19 yr old girl
>def not raped but sexual abused a few years ago
>totally okay with making out with people
>they start to think I'm pretty bold and good at sex because of that
>meet a cute girl from that group of friends
>casual dating? not really a relationship
>get home from a party completely drunk
>start kissing when she push it further
>get a horrible flashback and jerk back
>when qt asks whats wrong say it's because I'm not actually a slut and I don't have sex with friends
>she laughs and understands but I can see her sad face when I say "friends"
I know being honest is the best answer but even through I trust her deply I can't, how can I get over those shitty thoughts? im horny as fuck but I cant allow someone to touch me without getting an ugly feeling
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ptsd therapy prob
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I watched some Ted Talk the other day about PTSD and how they where successfully treating soldiers who had it by making them create art. You could try drawing/painting your abuser and it might help.
No idea if the treatment for different types of PTSD are interchangeable but that's all I got other than see a therapist.
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I never told anyone and it was probably 3 years ago, also the person that did it is part of my closest friends group so I see him regularly and he probably thinks I don't remember cause I was pretty drunk and never mentioned it
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I need to get the fuck away from an emotionally manipulative and absolute control freak of a parent. I'm pretty much being forced under duress to join these programs for aspies even though I know that the taxbux funding the programs get would be of far greater value if it was spent on other people that actually needed them instead. Most of it is part of the standard curriculum or electives available to anyone and would be of no additional use for someone that can actually interact with others with pretty much no issues at all.
I already feel like I'm going off the deep end slowly, they claim the wishy-washy "it'll be great for you!" but in reality, I know it'll be a blemish that if I don't do something about, it'll fuck me over permanently in the long-term as I'd like to actually do something meaningful with my life instead of being doomed to being a minwage slave for eternity. Also, the /g/od in me realizes that the privacy of some of my personal info that I'd rather not reveal willy nilly to everyone is forcibly being shit on as a result too.
As much as I'd rather like to have an amicable departure, I just don't see that happening anymore. I'd like to be able to move out in as soon as 2 weeks. 2 weeks might be too soon (and is just a best case scenario), but I'd rather not push it off. I've thought about going to a different province, but that's definitely not happening anytime soon, so I'll probably be settling for somewhere else local. I'll probably have to do it all literally overnight without any form of warning. Having this rage slowly boiling is definitely unhealthy for my well-being, sometimes I've felt that I need to walk around and let it explode, because man is it ever getting harder to not do so directly at people as the days go on.
Any other anons have some thoughts or similar experiences to share? Particularly dealing with sudden moves caused by shitty circumstances, whether or not they've been sudden or have been slowly building up in my case.
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Similar experience here.
Left moms house as soon as i turned 18. Took out student loans and lived in the dorms for a couple of years until i found a job and got my own place.
Learn to blend in socially. Mimic peoples behaviors and mirror them. Study social psychology and body language and youll become charismstic. Learn to network to get where you need.
I work an IT job now after being away from my psychotic, toxic schizo of a mother and i make 54000 a year. She still finds ways to creep into my life, but has no control over things i do here anymore.
Change is hard, you have to power through it like a badly cooked meal.
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>>18005649
Two weeks is too short. If you're wanting to leave your parents, you need to have everything you need before you go. My brother was in a similar situation: here is his story.
I think your parents are the same as mine: they don't care about your opinion and supersede what they think is "right" over you and will not allow you to do anything else. My brother decided to just leave one night without any warning to my parents (we still talk and hang out together). He left, just like you plan to, with a superficial idea of what he was leaving behind and what his parents could do.
Here's the reality: my parents were angry at my brother, and instead of thinking about why he left, they got angry and started to ruin his life. My brother was smart enough to steal his birth certificate and passport from my parents and any legal documents he could find. He had work to get to, so he didn't think much of it.
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MY parents then decided to fuck with him. They still had his SSN and birth certificate copies with him, so they co-signed his name on all of their credit cards and insurances. Within 3 months, my brother's credit score dropped 100 points. He also started to get bills for items he never really used or bought. There were car invoices for new bumpers and tires. There were medical bills for vague doctor visits. There was all these bills that he had no idea where they came from. It was my parents: they had decided to run up bills in his name in order to get him back to the house in a fit of rage.
Within 6 months, my brother could no longer afford rent and lived in his car for 6 months after that. He slowly got off my parent's shit, but at a huge cost. There was ~$20K worth of money drained from him. It was impossible for him to get anywhere to rent due to the credit score.
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How am I supposed to open a conversation on tinder? I really don't want to fuck it up with this one girl I matched with but I'm an autistic weirdo so I don't know what to do.
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>>18005643
Take pictures of yourself eating pancakes and send them to her. Seriously.
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>>18005643
You're already fucking it up.
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>>18005690
Touche
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Should I convert back to Islam for better marriage options? I want a loyal wife who wants lots of kids and I don't see that potential in a lot of the other people I know. I'm also attracted to Arab women who tend to be Muslim.
I don't mind putting up with Islam's rules, but I think it would be dishonest to call myself a Muslim and follow a religion I don't believe in for my own benefit. My hypothetical wife would probably be pissed off or depressed if she found out I didn't really believe in Islam.
What should I do? If that's too open-ended, what should I not do?
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>>18005633
Everything.
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>>18005633
Don't man its not worth it
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>>18005633
Convert to christianity or something?
Loyal and wanting kids aren't even limited to conservatives, let alone any religion. They're just a personality trait and a life goal.
However if you want a submissive, wife you can treat as inferior, yeah, religion is a good place to start.
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I'm feeling a little bit at the end of my rope at the moment and was hoping someone lurking around here might be able to give me some advice.
I'm a first year college student with very little redeeming qualities. I have no drive, I'm a 4 or 5 at best when it comes to looks, I have no job, my girlfriend lives the width of the US away, I'm not passionate about anything other than my writing, my dad is paying my way through school in a program I regret getting into, I'm spiteful towards people I hate and suspicious of people I love, and I've had non-stop daily migraines for the past 3 years.
I don't really know where I'm going, but feel like I'd be best suited to a place where I can write. It's the one thing I think I'm not awful at. I imagine that being a good thing to focus on, but I have no idea of the kind of environment I would need in order to improve and eventually get me a job doing something involving writing. Any kind of writing. Preparing, editting, and managing documents may be my most work-worthy skill. I just don't know where to go from there.
I'm really grateful for whatever advice you can lend me. I want to get my life on track but I don't know where to start.
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I'd get the migraines checked out first, and I find it strange that you haven't gotten that sorted even after a week of persistence. After that, I'd discuss with your dad about changing majors. Considering you're only a year in, you're at a perfect station in academia to swap out majors.
So to recap a recap.
>fix migraines
>tell dad you're switching majors
>you're only doing pre-reqs now anywas
>voila
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>>18005662
I've wanted to get the migraines sorted, and I've been seeing my doctor about them since they started. Got multiple scans and tests and nobody can figure out what's wrong. It's unfortunate but I've had to just cope. I'm able to function somewhat normally, and I'm worried that focussing too much on a problem that may have no solution will just lead to lost time.
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>>18005627
Major in English, with some business and tech courses, and take all the tech writing and business writing classes you can. Get internships in tech or business writing.
If anyone tries to tell you an English major is worthless, remind them that somebody has to write up the reports for all those semi-literate STEM graduates out there. (It is in fact a growth field for jobs)
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Is it possible to really relax and not think about sex too much if you're going on 25 and never been laid in your life?
Because the way I see it, men are pressured to approach women and be attractive as possible. The pressure comes from both society and evolution/biology.
Biology is screaming at you to act on a reproductive opportunity. Failure to engage in sexual intercourse is a failure to successfully reproduce, and I think that's where half of the shame comes from. The other half of the shame comes from not feeling up to snuff and manly enough, or as they say these days not "high value" enough.
Of course, the caveat is that everyone gets rejected, even the high value people. Thing is, it's usually after they have been in a relationship or been on a few dates - they won't get rejected so much just off the bat. So, when someone like me gets nothing but rejection and never makes it past the first date, I know it's because I'm not "good enough". Not as an absolute value judgement, but an observation on my sexual attractiveness and "game". Until I succeed in getting laid, I can't really relax and say "sex isn't a big deal". That line comes after I deal with my personal shortcomings which causes all the women I desire to reject me.
I don't agonize over this 24/7, just every now and then, like when I think of the last girl in a line of women who have rejected me.
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It's certainly possible
>social pressure
Who even cares
>biological pressure
Just fap. Or work towards getting a girl to fuck you if you really want it that bad.
Stop caring what other people think, they don't matter. Just do what you need to do for yourself to feel good in life.
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>>18005616
I feel like getting laid would make me feel good
So then I wouldn't have to feel like I'm completely undesirable to almost every woman I meet
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I'm in the same boat man, i am so I secure I can't move forward even when a girl shows some interest. And i feel the social judgement now. As in "omg you are 25 and still a virgin. Plus I'm full neet now dropped out of college and live at home with parents. I would really like to have sex with someone but I just keep walking in the same circle that I've been walking for years. Fucking e erything up in my life cause I'm scared of some massively negative thing happening and feeling worthless all them. Which translates to no qualifications and a virgin at 25.