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Sup guys.

I actually am in a bit of a dilemna so I came here since we're all anonymous.

So small backstory to help you guys understand the situation I am in. Basically my father's got a girlfriend and that girlfriend's got 3 daughters. There are no blood ties between me and these 3 daughters at all.

Now my issue is that last night, me and one of the 3 daughters actually ended up making out and sleeping together (didn't have sex though).

We both really like eachother but I feel like we're walking in a twilight zone because of the relationship our parents have, so I thought I'd get some opinions from you guys.

Thanks in advance for reading.

Pic unrelated.
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How old are you and your father's girlfriend's daughter? It isn't incest, you literally have no other relation. Plus you didn't even have sex. This is almost cute.
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Bumperino
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>>18004676
I'm 22, she's 17 so the age gap isn't even that big. I do appreciate your advice by the way. I know in theory it's not bad but the social stigma is still there.

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Will try ecstasy for the first time tonight, I'll take one of these two:
>Green Pacman
>Green Pokemon
Any general advice? Have someone taken one of these? Am I going to fucking die?
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>>18004635
Not enough information
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>>18004635
take half of each

/thread
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Take one. Won't kill you (I know guys who would take 7 in a night, one every hour O.o)

You might want to play online games a lot.

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How to stop being a loser, socially?
I hate being treated like shit most of the time.
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>>18004592

How do you feel like you're being treated like shit? Without assuming anything, I can suggest that you hang out with other people
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>>18004592
Stop caring, turn your filter off and speak freelym
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desu man you need to do some serious reflection and figure out who you are

there are 100% people who will like you no matter who you are, you just need to accept it first

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I lost my temper 2 days ago and put my hand through a car window.

My hand is pretty fucked up, but for the most part it's all healing okay, except for pic related.
The deeper cut (lower thumb) is the worst cut out of all of them, but it's bleeding constantly at a VERY slow rate and it doesn't seem to be stopping.

I've salt watered it, cleaned with antiseptic and iodine spray. Patched it up with gauze and bandages, kept pressure on it and kept it still as much as possible.

The skin around the cut looks like its beginning to heal, but it is still bleeding ever so slightly out of the deepest part.
So what is wrong here? Have I caught a vein? Can anyone help?
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Just go to the hospital
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>>18004585
You need stitches, dumbass.
Got any super glue?
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>>18004585
I doctor would probably stitch it up.

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How do I get her off my mind and life?
>Be 15
>Crush since freshman year of high school
>Be 22
>Still talk to her and like her

I mean I know it's stupid, but I don't know what to do.
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do you hobby - it helped me
try to find another girl also
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>>18004570
I've tried both things. Didn't work.
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>>18004553
Just ask her out

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Hey guys, I want to finger my girlfriend. She's a virgin and it hurts her when I put my finger in, not even half an inch. I love to eat her and she loves to be eaten until she cums. I was wondering if it would be a good idea to slowly put my finger in her when/while she's cumming? Or if there's a better way? This woman just discovered her body, she's horny and loves to cum and I want to give it to her.
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She'll tell you when she's ready.
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Not all women can get into penetration/fingering. Hell, most women find extreme difficulty getting off to penetration alone.

What you can do is try fingering her while you're stimulating the clit. Do not do anything you haven't discussed though. Don't try and surprise her or anything.
You might find you just have to work together and experiment. But if she doesn't want to experiment, then respect her wishes.
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>>18004517
/thread

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Have you used it?
Did it work?
Does your dick still work?
Post your experiences on fin
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>>18004512
Just fly to cuba/romania/brazil and get a cheap hair transplant. Results will be permanent and your dick will work.
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>>18004531
I've only just started to lose hair
Thinking about stopping it before it becomes a problem
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>>18004512
26 here. Been on it roughly a month. I am not very bald, just noticed some moderate thinning in the crown and mid scalp and I flipped a shit. Hoping I can keep my hair for a couple decades longer; some guys can maintain for life on fin. Your results in the first year are a good indicator of whether or not you'll respond well to the drug hair-wise.

No sides so far, except maaaaybe thinner semen, but it's hard to tell. I've noticed my semen being watery at various points in my life before I even knew about this drug. Dick works fine. Practically split my fuckbuddy in half a few days ago. My libido has been shot this past weekend but I attribute that more to the extreme stress of just finding out my recent ex has been fucking a ton of guys without protection (wew lad).

I was scared at first but I did my homework and read the studies, as well as the horror stories. The scientist in me (STEM background) came to the conclusion that side effects are pretty unlikely, and the serious ones (help my dick fell off etc) are lotto-tier rare. I think many of those guys claiming post finasteride syndrome either had some previous endocrine condition they weren't aware of, or, more likely, they psyched themselves into it and got validated by a community of "sufferers" and quack doctors and ambulance chaser lawyers convincing them they have some rare life-ruining disease.

I have basically had every side effect they claim for this drug at points in my life where I wasn't even taking it, just from worrying about it (try and get hard while worrying about your erection, it won't work).

Give it a try. There's a 99% chance you'll feel fine, and if you don't there's a further 99% chance you'll get better when you stop. Or just shave your shit off and move on with life, I guess.

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I went on one of the biggest porn sites for... well porn. I cklicked a little bit trough the site and ended up in gallery called "amateur webcams". Nothing wrong witht that, right?

So i thought. Except those girls looked too young. The vids also had 100,000s of views. I reported them to the site admins so they can decide for themselves what do.

Well, now im worried that i'm on some kind of list... Do i need to report the vids to the police? I really, really dont want to have anything to do with this stuff. Pls halp.

>pls no memes
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switch ISP
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>>18004471
dude, relax

nothing will happen to you

your reporting was more than enough. giving it to the police is an option if you feel so paranoid.
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>>18004480
thanks :)! I really hope so.

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>Bachelors, Research Masters, Doctorate (world top 5 uni)
>humanities
>2 years uni teaching experience
>indexed a couple of books

Who the fuck would employ me? How do I get a job? Double points for answers that let me stay in uni's city
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-humanities

You dun' goofed.
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>>18004418
Why arent you still teaching OP?
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>>18004420
Yeah I know
I teach logic, does that help?

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I've been suffering from insomnia since I was born. I never managed to fall asleep before 3-4 AM unless I was really sick or heavily medicated. Obviously, it is not compatible with school or job.

I decided to change my lifestyle and start sleeping 8 hours a day. I've been on ambien for a year and half.
I am weird after I take ambien. It makes me clumsy, very touchy/feely, emotional. It doesn't last much, maybe those 10-15 minutes before I actually fall asleep.

My boyfriend doesn't like ambien. Over the last couple of weeks he just nags me about it. He does it right before I go to bed, making me frustrated when I fall asleep - I inevitably get night terrors when this happens. I've been sleeping on the couch to avoid talking to him.

He says he can express his opinion, I think it's inconsiderate because
(1) I don't sleep without ambien, and I am not productive if I don't sleep
(2) I don't sleep well if we argue before I fall asleep
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>>18004374
I used to suffer insomnia just as bad as you. Drugs aren't the solution
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>>18004374
>He says he can express his opinion, I think it's inconsiderate because(1) I don't sleep without ambien, and I am not productive if I don't sleep(2) I don't sleep well if we argue before I fall asleep

Have you expressed that opinion to him?
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>>18004378
I never found any other way to sleep. I've been like this since I was born (for my mom's delight).

I have a quite healthy lifestyle, I do sports, I eat clean, I am in shape, I did plenty of medical tests but everything is alright. It's just how my brain is.

Anyone have any tips for writing a letter to request a payrise? Specifically for a small company where it doesn't make sense just to spout buzzwords like every example I seem to read online. Any things to avoid or things that have helped would be appreciated.

Some background - I work as a developer at a very small (and unorganised) software house. I was struggling to find work in this field when I started so I accepted a very low salary expecting it to go up after a review. That didn't happen, and after over a year my pay hasn't changed. I've been talking to recruiters here and there about other options.

I like the atmosphere at work and the projects we do but I'm seriously earning not much over minimum wage - I don't think the base salary has been adjusted for inflation for a long time. I could realistically be doing this for more than double it somewhere else. The low pay affects where I'm able to live, what food I can buy, and seriously limits any luxuries or ability to save. People are shocked to hear it when I tell them how much, they ask me how I can even manage to live (I'm quite good at budgeting.) So the problem is that a respectable increase would be huge and not a matter of asking for 10% or something. Am I fucked?. Should I just go somewhere else?
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>>18004346
>I work as a developer at a very small (and unorganised) software house

Fellow dev here,

I used to work for a small company too and went your route, asked my boss for a raise (because i did 75% of the work) and he politely refused. I knew the company was making enough money to give me the raise i wanted (deserved, honestly) but he didn't want to give me a raise at all. So i told him that i leaving, because i wasn't being compensated for all the work i did on top of what my actual job description initially described.

Less than a week later i landed a job at a large firm with career potential, and a year later i earned double what i did before.

tl;dr don't ask for raises at a small company, find a company that's willing to pay according to your expertise
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Dont write a letter, schedule a face to face meeting with your boss, or whoever owns your payroll. The problem is 1 year isnt a very long time; basically nothing, so a large raise doesnt seem like itll be on the table unless your boss/managers like you and the work you do. Also youre doing good by keeping your eyes open for better opportunities. If you find something better by all means go for it!
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>>18004365
Wow yeah that is a very similar situation to mine. I'm technically a junior, but I'm doing way more. Other programmers who are above me in title (and no doubt pay) ask me to help them with small stuff all the time, I'm also now writing documentation to help other developers do what I'm doing. Plus I'm frequently raked into these weird high level meetings with project management / process guys (because none of them have the technical aptitude to understand wrist their processes actually are) so not really junior stuff anymore.
>>18004392
I've talked with my direct boss a number of times, he put a word through but I've now specifically been instructed to write a letter.

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I really want to suck his cock but I can't tell if he'd be ok with that. He's made some subtle references to tasting cum and other gay shit, but it's hard to tell if he's just messing around or not. Please help, I just want his cock in my mouth.
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>>18004229
try harder.
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>>18004238
How so?
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>>18004229
He might of done self sucking

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I took a personality test from this website, and i got the bitchiest one imaginable ESFJ. (https://www.16personalities.com/personality-types)
How would i go about changing myself to become more like ESTP, ENFJ, or ENTP?
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>>18004228
Fake it till you make it.

Act the way you want to be and eventually it will be who you are.
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>>18004228
ESFJ is one of the best personalities to be.
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>>18004228
Take the test when you're in a different mood.

Meyers-Briggs is pseudoscience shit.

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So /adv/, I struggled all my thirty years aganist social anxiety and chronical shyness. I slowly managed to become sociable, and recently women started noticing me
The huge problem is, I can't manage to get intimate. meaning I live situations like
>know girl
>I like her
>She invites me somewhere
>accept and then disert her telling myself ridicolous excuses
I started going to a shrink last week, but i don't expect much.
What the fuck is my problem? why i reduce myself getting back fapping to Internet when there are women that want to have sex with me out there?
is it just pressure of my sexual in experience?
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>>18004215
Where are you meeting them?
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>accept and then disert her telling myself ridicolous excuses

stop that. Follow through on your commitments.
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>>18004218
Here

>>18004222
Didn't see that. I thought they were deserting you.

Cut that shit out OP. Be a fucking man and go out with her. She clearly likes you if she wants to go out on a date The harder part is over

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There's a girl at my college(uk) who I really like and would like to try and do something together outside of college.
Problem is that I have no past girlfriends or experience in this, how should I approach and ask her.
Also she can get stressed out easily, though she's usually very happy.
Her interests are mainly art and pokemon.
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>Her interests are mainly art and pokemon.

Enjoy your rape charges.
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>>18004189
>Her interests are mainly art and pokemon.

Just a tip, girls don't really like video games that much. They say that for attention
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>>18004193
no seriously she's a big pokemon fan

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