Guys my girlfriend of almost 4 years thinks shes asexual and i agree because shes never been great at sex and its uncomfortable subject for her and im depressed because im never gonna have good or meaningful sex again in my life because i dont want to break up over that but i cant have good sex with her, i havent cummed in 3 months and she never initiates or brings up the subject its always forced and i have to be super direct and that ruins it for me and its hard to talk about sex with her
Meanwhile my other friend who im super close with is in a great sexual relationship and she seems perfect in that sort of way and thats the kind of sexual relationship i want. Its easy for us to talk about shit and i talk about how shitty our sex life is with her alot. Should i ask her to talk to my gf about it or what should i do ahhh
>tldr my sex life sucks with gf, how do i fix
>pic related obv isnt my gf
>>18005742
You're sexually incompatible and there are other girls, break up. She should allow you to sleep around if she wants to stay with you.
>>18005742
Well do you want to fuck her or fuck other girls? Is having an open relationship out of the question?
Like can you still date but is it ok to have a FWB? thats something you two should discuss
>>18005742
if a girl isnt willing to fulfill you sexually than why does she care if you sleep with other women? i mean i udnerstand thered be SOME insecurity there but regardless, yo uare going to have sex again, you will leave her, your human, and you're a man, you have a breaking point
Was she always that way? Is it a sudden change?
Talk to her about doing other girls on the side. It's either that, breaking up, or forgetting sex.