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It's probably not worth it to take antipsychotics just for that, OP. What's your social life like?

>>18701362
I'm generally quiet, but I have a decent amount of very good friends. Not looking for a gf right now.

>>18701155
nice dubs

have you considered therapy?

>>18701143
Maybe she just watches too much porn. It's not necessarily insincerity.

>>18701143
its bed talk retard. She's does it to
one get herself in the mood and two, to get you in the mood.

Are you use to girls just laying dead while you fuck them?

>>18701146
Nooobody watches more porn than me and I still know how to be genuine in bed.

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>>18701055
I will now ENOURMOUSLY simplify your life femanon. Listen carefully:

Internet friends arent real. Dont feel bad about him and do whatever you want. Keep talking to him about whatever you need / want. If he didnt enjoy it, he would ghost you long before. You have nothing to apologize for.

Never EVER fall for long dinstance relationships aka LDR. No cuddling, no bf.

And lastly get your own qtie bf so you have somebody real to talk with and cuddle.

Have a nice day!

>>18701077
I don't agree with you at all and that is because I have experienced successful ldr friendships and relationships. I know that people behind the screen are real people and that is why I don't want to hurt or offend them. I appreciate your advice but it's not constructive and doesn't help to solve my problem.

>>18701055
Same situation with me kind of. Had this guy I was talking to. 40 years old. Talked to him for like 4 months and I was having a major crush on him. I told him something that I really regret. It was the truth but I guess that didnt matter to him. He stopped talking to me and yeah it was just done. If you're scared that your cute internet friend might ghost you or whatever, ask him right now. Ask him any question you have on your mind. I still have questions because I didnt ask.

>>18701052
Stop treating yourself as a slave. You are free man. Lie on your bed, close eyes and say aloud: i am free and i can stay like this whole day! Then realize that it is stupid thing to do, make up your mind about what you truly want and then simply do it.

Making list of your goals on paper and crafting it with dates is also good idea. Break huge goals into multiple smaller ones.

>>18701087
>then simply do i

Therein lies the problem. I have no passion, energy or will to do anything.

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>>18701105
Sometimes doing nothing is also good option. But if that was true, you wouldnt make this thread.

Seek psycholog. Maybe you have deeper problem. Or ask friends or parents to whip you into action.

By having sex with her.

>>18701035
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>>18701035
But how do i do that

When you say 'no one wants her around' - does that mean YOU don't want her around, or your other friends don't want her around too?

>How can I break it to him that he needs to break up with her or what can I do to get rid of her?
Why do they need to break up? Because you don't like her voice?

>>18701006

I don't understand your thread. So you're saying they need to break up because she has a chronic bowel disease and you don't like her voice?

My friends and myself don't want her around.

She generally isn't a nice person as she can go from nice to cold in a matter of an instant. Once she told me her interests in cutting up the people she hates with a chainsaw which is when I stopped talking to her at first. Myself and few of his closer friends agree that they don't go well together.

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I'd say ask your husband to reconsider his plan. Like, other than family, what commitment does have to Texas? It seems like you'd be better off where you're at.
If that doesn't work. Divorce him, or fake a pregnancy. Up to you

Any dude who gets married in the military deserves to be left. He should know better.

Besides, doesn't seem like either of you are mature enough to be married.

Make better choices in the future OP.

>>18701025
He's always wanted to go to UT, like it's his dream.

I've asked him, he seems pretty set on it. I really do love him, I don't want a divorce.

She's just trying to make friends, one who speaks English, by the sounds of it.

Just be straight-up. Say you feel uncomfortable and that she's coming on a little strong. Worst that can happen is she thinks you're mean, in which case, problem solved.
Honesty isn't always the best policy, but it can work wonders sometimes

>>18701014
that's why i feel bad for ghosting her because i know she's just trying to make friends and i don't know how many she has, but at the same time i literally feel like i have to put on a super smart nice girl next door facade when i'm with her and i don't like it

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>>18700993
Psycholog + CBT.

Optimistic nihilism: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=MBRqu0YOH14

>>18700993
1.: Kill yourself
2.: Find meaning in the meaninglessness
3.: Don't think about it

>>18700993
For me, I realized that meaning is created, Created by living things. The universe and inanimate objects are void of meaning they just exist. But the very existence of living things stem meaning through action and conscious thought. Every thing you do or think creates meaning. When you think to yourself the world is meaningless. That by its self is a meaning. Do not look for meaning in the universe because there is none. It does not need or want it because it is inanimate. Look for meaning in yourself because you are a creator of it. You are what you think. Your thoughts create meaning. We assign meaning to things in our day to day. That is were meaning exists. With that knowledge you can navigate life how you want. You decide your thoughts and emotional state and what things mean in your environment.

Well, let me ask you a question:
How do you want your life to be and why?

Take some time and actually come up with a reply. Unless you don't wanna, in which case that's cool, but if you do, I'll read it and see what you got going. Also, what degree is it?

>>18700988
What do you write?

You should definitely try speaking your mind out. Find someone in your who you can have a nice conversation with (if you do have someone) and tell them what you are feeling. If you don´t, then (even if they aren´t the most comprehensive of people) try talking to your parents. You are their son and they should love and listen to you no matter what. Speaking may seem terryfing and pointless, but it will definitely be a relief. If non of this works, then you might have to try some more drastical options like getting the fuck outta there nigga. Good luck, if you need any more advise or just someone to speak to just say so, i´d be happy to help

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>>18700904
Ask them for number asap. Flirt. Tease. Dont take it seriously. Ask them on date asap.

Spend at least few hours getting godtier selfie. Shave, new haircut, suit up, daylight, 100 selfies, smug face and pick the best photo.

http://www.improveyoursocialskills.com/conversation

bump, need help too

>>18700904

Don't give a fuck. Go from convo to meeting up quick; its Tinder, you don't need a week of build up. So long as you can at least pretend like you don't take yourself too seriously and don't care if she ghosts you then things will work out fine. For some reason any latent desperation you may have is amplified online so seriously don't give a fuck. Girls go on Tinder because they don't want a super serious date so don't be serious.

>>18700875
What edition is it ?

Also usually they welcome any woman there.

>>18700888
The gender thing is a little intimidating, but I'm more worried about being a beginner. Also, I guess being both. When you're a man and you're clueless you're just clueless, but as a woman when you act foolishly it's often attributed to your gender. I worry that might be more thing in a place with fewer women.

I haven't bought the handbook yet but somebody told me that the 5th edition is the one I should get.

Also, are there any good YouTube channels that can teach me the basics? I see the value in having a handbook for reference, but I'm more of an auditory learner.

>>18700875
I got into it through my coworkers, this 39 year old lady who plays diablo and tabletop with her husband. Pretty cool folks. I don't know what it's like at a shop but it's a niche hobby. No one is going to turn away someone who wants to learn because they're a woman. Just watch what the other players are doing and ask questions if you need to. Magic is not for everyone. You might like deck building games like clank. It's easy to learn and pretty fun when you get a game going

Unless you're naturally talented or genuinely interested in STEM, don't do it. At best, you'll land yourself a good job but be miserable. At worst, you'll be just as unemployable as you could have been with any degree.

And if you don't know what you want to do, take a year or two off to decide. That would give you time to give being an author a go (an English degree really won't help with this, by the way) and you can get a job for money and work experience alongside it.

>>18700853
Do whatever the hell you want, OP. Life's too short to be trapped in a career you hate. I study a STEM meme career (Bio) and you have two options in here.
1. Academia: Become a competitive asshole, fuck with your lab partners' experiments so they won't succeed (I've seen it happen), become your professor's pet until you can get your PhDs and Masters and a bunch of papers that say you're cool and compete all your life for grants and faculty positions.
2. Industry: You can follow the industry path where you get to work for a company, hopefully get a decent paycheck and benefits but all your dreams of being a researcher go to trash. Your academia colleagues will laugh at you for "selling out" and being a slave to "evil" companies.

In a nutshell, going for a STEM degree is only for those who are really REALLY interested and invested in it. It won't net you a lot of money (unless math degree 300k starting) and you'll probably be unhappy for the rest of your working life.
In my opinion, you should choose learning a skill and at the same time work on being an author, fuck the English degree, you don't need that to write.
Best of luck, OP.

Anything that involves a majority of women is meme. I don't say this in a sexist way, either.

Plz

>>18700816
Just take 10 minutes and fix it with more chicken wire like you should've when it fell off.

>Was i wrong
No, stuff happens, and crappy broken things tend to break again. If you're going to fix something right then do it properly the first time. Only an idiot takes a shortcut only to have to re-take it again.

>what do?
Should have just lied to your ex and told them you'd get it fixed, whether you actually do or not is irrelevant, but because obviously you seem to care about their input into the matter. What do you do now though? If you care about what you're ex thinks then you'd call them and tell them you'll get it fixed, again whether or not you do this is up to you.

Can't you just pick a normal taxi company? it's usually the same price, decent cars, they have apps now, only difference is that they have a physical office you can walk into.

If that's fine you can phone them right now and ask how much. It's not like they close.

>>18700821
Do this, fuck Uber and Lyft for increasing marginal profits by forcing employees and consumers to assume more risk.

>>18700821
Yeah I gotta say, I got in with uber because everyone was saying how much cheaper it is than taxi's but fuck, I ordered one to take my drunk ass home last weekend. 14 miles and cost me like 30 bucks. Taxi would have been about the same.