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>>18700514
What's the appeal with white women anyways? /pol/ need not reply.

>>18700563
Lots of minorities try to date white women because they think of it as a reputation boost.

r/asianmasculinity is one of the more notable and amusing examples.

I'm a gril and want to go on a date with this cute guy I work with who has a lot in common with me. I haven't ever asked anybody on a date in my life, though, and I don't really know if I'm his type. I'm physically attractive, probably a solid 7/10, but I'm autistic as fuck and only know how to talk about anime and reptiles with people I'm not close friends with. He's super confident and jokes around a lot with me but I never know how to respond because I'm bad at coming up with stuff on the spot so I just kind of giggle awkwardly. I don't want to make things weird if he thinks I'm a weirdo, so what should I do?

Most 'superfoods' don't have miraculous effects unless you're consuming them in unrealistic quantities. Just focus on eating a good, balanced, unprocessed diet.

My friend does it.
It is just a fad.
All the nutrition in wheat grass you can get from other things for less.
You don't need any special shit to be healthy, just a good diet.

what kind of veggies should I start eating to have a good diet?

>>18700407
>dead time
more like dead inside

Say this before each conversation: "please make it concise. I have work to do." It's polite, and you are telling them that you have shit to do.

>>18700437

>more like dead inside

pretty much

if I said that every time I'd be outcasted and probably let go, and the older guys as annoying as they are, they are good mentors but holy fuck they are your average boomer trump supporters, I honestly feel like I'm getting dumber interacting with them every day

I can't be rude because they aren't being rude either, I work for 8 hours a day but technically I only really am working for 1 or 2 hours out of that day so its not like I have real work to do anyway

the rest is spent just bullshitting and listening.

What do you do op?

Working out and nofap.
Most people will shit on me for saying this but testosterone is created within you so you can probably will it out by meditating (theoretically).

So you'd like to wear your own greatness? Good, this is where it begins nigga. But you gotta be patient - this will take anywhere from two months to a year. It all starts with self-imposed discipline being the core value.

Let's begin:
+ Buy a quality water distillation unit and use it daily
+ Do this whilst researching/attempting intermittent/prolonged fasting
+ Consume a quality source of iodine at least once per week. This is just what the thyroid requires to process testosterone. (Some sources include: seaweed, pink himalayan salt, certain supplements and REAL FOODS)
+ Eliminate ALL of the following from the diet: sugar; gluten; modified foods; proccessed foods; puffed up foods; milk. These all put a great strain on the immune system (ultimately lowering that T)
+ Eat REAL, ORGANIC food. You may have to search hard for a source but it's very worthwhile
+ Always check the labels nigga, if you grandma couldn't tell you what it is don't shove it in your mouth
+ No large meals after evening, this will slow the natural human growth hormone production in the body
+ Lift weights (for maximum benefit, do this later in the day)
+ Consume Raw Apple Cider Vinegar regularly as this has a strong akalising effect on the body ultimately giving your immune system a lighter load to deal with

These are a few of the things that have helped me significantly. Most importantly of all - do your own research and stay absolutely committed to yourself. Realise that fitness and health, although closely tied, are not the same.

Best of luck!

>>18700457
>>18700480
Good stuff. Thanks, muh dudes.

Copius amount of lsd. Youre already fucked so whats the worst that could happen? Maybe youll unfuck yourself

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>>18700780
>>18700372
No. Seriously, don't even think about it.
Schizos got unnatural high levels of serotonin on their brains but low levels of glutamate.
If you smoke pot, eat shroms or take LSD you are going to fuck yourself even further OP, stims and hallucinogens almost always raise serothonin or adrenaline, for example, cafeine is harmless because it only raises adrenaline levels.
That's why so many shizos are addicted to fast food with artificial glutamate and umami flavours on it, and that's also why so many schizos smoke, because nicotine is a stim that lowers serotonin and rises glutamate.
>TL;DR: Don't do what this faggot says, and stay away from tabaco and trash food, if you want nicotine get gum or waterdrops with nicotine on it.

You probably got disorganised schizophrenia (also called hebephrenia) and as a fellow lunatic I can advice some things to you:
>Drink milk, serotonin can fuck up you calcium absortion. That's why some meth addicts got so fucked up bones.
>Create an schedule
>Create yearly, weekly and daily list of what you want to do and do it!
>Exercise. Do cardio. A must.
>Avoid shitty food.
>Recognise psychotic episodes on time (around 5%). Avoid paranoid thinking and magical thinking.
>Avoid deepening flat effect and autistic behavior, show some kindness.
>Don't do day dreaming.
>Don't talk others about it too much, some maybe comprehensive, others will think you got slip personality.
>Don't do logorhea or words salad. Don't answer just yes or no to answers. Elaborate in a good way.
>Don't share your illogical thoughts, other will laugh at best like cruel morons, at worst they will never to talk to you again or spread romours.
>Understand yourself and others in the spectrum to share experiences and avoid the same errors they do
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clans_of_the_Alphane_Moon
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bWaFqw8XnpA
>Care less about society and its problems. We are just humans after all. Don't be paranoid about nothing.

>>18700372

>And /adv/ on how to overcome it and get back into life

A dedicated team of mental health professionals and a reliable medication regiment. I've been in the mental health field for nearly two decades and I've never handled one case of an untreated, unmedicated schizophrenic successfully managing their symptoms. Gaining independence in your life is possible but the road of finding the right treatment plan for you is a long and hard one. As far as my knowledge of mental health goes its literally the only way.

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You are one low test beta-cuck, and you need to lift weights. You need more testosteron.

>>18700342
I don't think it's actual fear. If someone intimidates me like that, I feel anger combined with fear of the situation escalating into a fight. It's normal.

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>>18700342
white people don't commit crime
false-flagging nig detected

>>18700336
Do the just friends thing and give him time to work out his shit. Don't poke or prod him into changing because he will come to resent you for it.

>>18700364
His mental health probably cannot improve.
He has been seeing a therapist for at least 5 years, and he is mostly functioning - but his issues will always stay here.

>Don't poke or prod him into changing because he will come to resent you for it.
I don't believe it is possible to change for others, or to "fix" people.

>>18700371
>His mental health probably cannot improve.
Would it get in the way of having a healthy, fulfilling relationship?

>I don't believe it is possible to change for others, or to "fix" people.
Me either, as gay as it sounds, change comes from within.

>>18700298
Either you're just some slag he's trying to fuck or he's intentionally using the distance to make you want him

He is married. I do that with my mistress

>>18700298
If the no contact bugs you then you need to talk to him about it, obviously. It's one thing to shit your pants when you don't get a response for a couple hours and a completely different thing if he hasn't responded to you in days. If he's interested then he'll make it a point to make you feel wanted.

>>18700292
Well you are still in shock and you'll deny and you'll get mad and then you'll kinda accept it and then you'll do all that over again a few times. Then it will hurt less and less and less. It happens to us all, usually more than once. You will live.

>>18700299
i guess i just have a little hope that she will come back and it could get better due to her saying she still has feelings for me and will miss me ect. it'd be easier if i knew there was no chance whatsoever that she'd come back.

>>18700309
I lost a girl two days ago and I know for fact that she has no feelings for me and doesn't want me to return.

This hurts the worst.

Shit times you have there Im afraid.
Although i imagine your brother would want to help you must remember that they were his parents too, chances are he is still hurting the same as you.

As you have never been employed, do baby steps.
It does not matter what job you apply for but at least it can build you a cv for later on in life, there are recruitment/employment agencies that can help guide you to being employed.

You have to keep in mind its a long-game. Plus you will have good days and you will also have bad days, it happens to all of us no matter where we are.

>>18700276
Any qualifications? Maybe go back to do a course? There should be social networking events and key thing is then more you expose yourself to social situations, the more comfortable you will be. My condolences for your parents.

You're 21, you can go out and get a job yourself. You don't need your brother to hold your hand.

I assume they were born hearing-impaired and think nothing more.

>>18700246
I think it's perfectly fine and think nothing of it honestly

>>18700246
Kinda hot if it's a qt girl with a positive personality. The two girls I've known and messed around with 1 were both pretty outgoing and didn't feel sorry for themselves compared to stupid ass normies who think their lives are so unbearable and get hung up on the tiniest things.

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The bro code is only for you and your friends if in any case just say it's fair game if you both spot someone. The I was her first is retarded as shit fi they act like that let the girl know she will probably be disgusted by that guy. Also it doesn't matter how many types you stepped back the girl you randomly meet on the street won't even know that. Now good luck Anon and slay some puss.

>>18700132
civilization has rules so that you can live with other guys and not chimp out and murder them for existing in your environment. Go pushing their buttons enough and you'll end up getting smashed.

>>18700157
Thats exactly what I believe. Theres a vibe they give off though, and it can get intense. You can just FEEL the "Get the fuck away from me (I feel super threatened)" and I have yet to find a way that I can push against that without him pulling the girl with him. You're right, I need to let the past versions of myself and the methods I used stay exactly where they are and move to newer, better ways of interacting. I don't have any friends that are the "slay" mentality, theyre all vidya obssessed fuckboys that are determined to stay that way. Breaking out on my own has been, difficult. Thanks holmes.

>>18700167
Thats fine. I haven't been in a fight and I fully intend to lose my first one. I wont lose the one after. Is that really the biggest issue? Some dude wants to fight me? My mind is telling me the way it will go is

>>See girl
>>Shes with weak man
>>Giving the look of "someone get me the fuck away from him"
>>Talk to girl
>>Man say "Look at all this dudes flaws. Typical hippie pos
>>Pulls girl away
>>He gives dirty looks like "Thats right fucker, I won before you walked up here. Don't follow because I know I have nothing and thats why I'm walking away"

That shit stings me more than any physical pain the average person is willing to inflict on someone.

>>18700129
There are a lot of laws that prevent you from turning those things into money. Sorry, you aren't going to find a place on this planet at this current time that will allow you to do that.

Not to say you aren't able to, just like I"m able to shoot my neighbor. If you want to make money just talk to people until someone says "I'm looking for X, know anyone?"

Get friends to find customers for you, that is how people around here do it.
Do some research online about the street value of each pill than set a price.
Best way to sell quick is to undercut the street value by a few dollars.

University students will buy the vyvanse for ~$7 each. Assuming your hydromorphone are dilaudid, those can sell for a lot, but I don't know the price in Canada.
Safest way is to make connections through your friends, like a previous poster said.

>>18700096
>What do?
Its never going to happen. Wish her well and move on with your life.

>>18700096
Be a gentleman and move your interests to other pursuits. It's happened to me many times and yes the heartbreak is so difficult, but don't only do this for her do it for yourself. I don't know you, but I feel your pain and I want you to live your life and not hold yourself back with a conflict like this.

She is keeping you around as an emotional sponge while she finds someone else.
Ghost her ass and you can easily fuck her again.

My man I was in the same situation, heres what you do, visit a dermatologist and see what treatments there are
ALSO you need to use salcyclic acid (dont know how spell it) look it up and see the benefits of it, it makes your skin look clearer and helps skin produce more collagen

>>18700133
It worked wonders for me and I noticed a difference after 6 weeks

>>18700133
Yeah I've heard of salicylic acid but I didn't know that it can help with scars.
I'll check it out. Thanks.