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What's there to live for? You just get older with time until you shrivel and wither away into obscurity.

The older I get, the more dull and painful life appears to be. How the fuck does anyone live day happily? It's a monotone hum.

Why live?
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>>18703277
Ice cream is pretty good.
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>>18703293
So life really does just suck?
What's stopping you from killing your self?
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Woman can be pretty good.

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So I'm sleeping with a married woman. I'm single she's married. I sleep with her at her house and even bounce hernyoung daughter (she's 2) on my knee while she massages my back, kisses my neck and holds my drink. Her husband works a lot and travels for work. She told me she wants my baby and is completely comfortable telling her husband it's his and easing the child as theirs. Again the husband has no idea. So should I knock her up? I know she's crazy that's why the sex is so amazing and she's absolutely gorgeous. Should I do it? The way I see it if I don't knock her up someone else will. Religious fags not needed
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>>18703272
Contributing to paternity fraud is one of the lowest acts that you can commit. I know you're a piece of shit and will do it anyway.
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>>18703272
Kill yourself.
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You are doing exactly what you're supposed to be doing. But never NEVER put a baby in a woman that you're not going to settle with. Let alone a crazy fucking bitch.

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> be college freshman
> be in relationship from high school still
> healthy relationship
> classes start
> always seem to be busy when she isnt
> she's always busy when I'm not
It's really tearing apart my sanity. This week it was a bit better in terms of the amount of time we spent together, but lately it feels like I'm not being included in her life... There were times were we wouldn't be busy and she'd make plans with others, even if I asked days in advance... Like she spent her birthday with a group of friends instead of me despite me saying I really wanted to spend it with her days before hand...
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>Be in relationship from high-school still

There are people that marry people they knew in high-school, and they live and die together.

There's something in your own brain that you're not showing us.
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>>18703244

What kind of advice do you want? All we are gonna say is "talk to her about this" and if she doesn't even try then "leave her".
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Well I'm in love with her to be honest, and I have talked to her about it, and that's why it was a little better this week. It's still very nerve racking...

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How do I stop procrastinating so goddamn much on classes? My GPA has suffered as of late, and I'm slowly devolving into a NEET, not putting in nearly enough effort, instead choosing to bide my free time with fucking video games. What steps should I be taking to break free of this cancer, get invigorated, and actually treat school like a full time job?
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>>18703204
I fear there are many of us in the same situation and with no solution.
Not having learnt to study when we could because we aced all classes is a problem no adult is willing to address.
Or even conscious of.
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>>18703210
>>18703210
I aced all my classes in high school, AP sciences, calculus, full schedule, etc. But now that I'm in uni., I've fallen into this deep, spiraling staircase of apathy and what feels like depression. Lack of interest in everything.
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I am in the same boat as you anon. My advice is to get your shit together. Do what you have to to get that degree. If adderall is the answer then take it. But most importantly set yourself a schedule, get enough sleep, study everyday. Lastly don't compare yourself to others, go at your own pace. Punish yourself for your incompetence(less tv,games,anime,no fap) and the brain will adapt.

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Are there any guys out there with really high sex drives? And I don't mean just wanting to have sex with every girl you see - that's normal. I mean you're able to have sex pretty much daily with the same girl for an indefinite amount of time.

I ask because I've only been in relationships where the girls wanted sex daily, and while I could keep up when the relationship was fresh it always starts to become a chore after a while. My exes would never initiate and after the honeymoon phase of the relationship wore off I pretty much got bored of having to initiate sex every. single. time. I need to be warmed up too, you know?

Kind of wanted to just say this and see if anyone else can relate.
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>>18703181
>I mean you're able to have sex pretty much daily with the same girl for an indefinite amount of time
That is like non-meme 92% of men between the age of 14 - 40.
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>>18703181
For my personal experience, having sex multiple times a day will kill my mood and drive me straight into a depressed state.

This said, I do not think to have a very high sex drive.
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>>18703196
The girl has to be attractive, though.

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How to escape the monotony of life?

Hey boyos, I'm 20 years old and am extremely bored of life. Nearly 3 years at the gym day in day out has started to really bore me and affect me motivation. I used to lift to get grills, once I've achieved that and now find it meh to fuck girls i have no motivation or purpose in life.

This has also happened to a lot of my hobbies such a music, fashion, 4chan, gaming etc etc. I just want to be addicted to a hobby or activity again so I can have a purpose in life. But when the core needs/hobbies of life (pussy, eating/cooking, school/work) get boring I really don't know what to do.

I feel so depressed. Please help
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I've been there, found renewed energy when I took open air activity as a staple of my free time activities.

Airsoft, hiking, camping, primitive techniques and so on. Try it, it's bretty gud to sleep on a tent on an isolated beach, with nice people, or even alone.
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>>18703116
I've done that a lot too. All I used to do when 18/19 was smoke weed and go into the woods , building shit and making fires. It was nice but I'm bored of it too.
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>>18703115

You found purpose in lifting for girls and now that they come easily you need another obstacle to overcome. What matters to you? Do you want more money? Create another goal.

I am 21 and still trying to lose my virginity.

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Week 1 of college has come to an end, and I once again failed to make any friends in classes. How the hell do you do it?
The only club I'm interested in/planning to return to is archery, and while I'm on good terms with the members, I can't say I'm "friends" with them either.
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>>18703114
Forgot to mention: I'm not much of a fan of drinking, and getting drunk to meet people isn't much my thing.
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>The only club I'm interested in/planning to return to is archery, and while I'm on good terms with the members, I can't say I'm "friends" with them either.

Next time you are there ask the one or more of them if they want to do a thing. That thing should probably be the least autistic of the things you like to do (other than archery).
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No friendship builds in a week, give it time with the archery club, and no one said you had to be piss drunk when talking to people at a bar, two drinks is good enough for a buzz for anyone 6 foot tall.

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>bf and I just started living together
>find out he keeps a gun in his nightstand
>this makes me really uncomfortable
>he says it's to protect me but we live in a safe area and he'd probably shoot me on accident than anything else
>he refuses to get rid of it

What do I do? It looks like this except different colors
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>>18703079
Stop being a obsessive cunt. Guns are a must in America. I live in a great well to do community but that doesn't stop a nig nog from kicking in my door. But my 45 with a extendo does.
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Shoot yourself in the pussy
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It's very unlikely that he will shoot you by accident. And when a couple guys come thru your affluent house looking for a quick buck, you'll be glad it's there.

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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
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Would it be weird to mail my boyfriend a box with a perfumed love letter and, like, a lightly worn bra and maybe matching panties? Maybe some tastefully seductive photographs of myself?

I'm a virgin, but I want to up the hotness, and I think it's fair that he gets a peak at my thoughts, my body, and my scent (ew). That's not super weird or sexual harassment or anything?

I mean, I could ask first, but I think I'd rather it be a surprise.

How would you feel?
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>>18703101
if there is no chance somebody else will see what's in that box, i say go for it. it'll surely make him happy as hell.
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>>18703053

Link to my post in the last thread as it died.

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Here's the situation. She's quite a bit younger than me (30 vs 22). I know her irl, but don't really talk to her on daily basis. I don't even see her, though we live fairly close. I'm friends with her on facebook and I just need some openers to chat her up there and something to carry the convo for a little bit.
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Is such a thing even possible?
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Why can't you talk to her like anyone else?
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I don't see her in day to day life. I would have to go out of my wife to stalk her somewhere.

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If a girl does the little 'pants dance' were she pulls up her pants and shakes her ass back and forth to fit in it snuggly right in front of is she trying to get your attention?

I feel like you'd either pull up your pants in a normal way or go somewhere else.
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Depends how she did it.

In any case ask her out
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her ass is too big for the pant size
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>>18703023
You mean in the gif or the girl doing the pants dance?

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My hips have grown too much and now when I lie on my side it's like my upper body is laying at a steep decline, how do I fix this? The added pressure is also starting to hurt a bit I think
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>>18702998
Are your hips the same size as that pic?
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>>18703001
no, I'm not a photoshopped picture.
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Come back when you finish puberty. In the meanwhile learn to sleep in a more comfortable position, or put a pillow underneath you.

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A girl recently complained to me via text that I take too long to send her a text back, does she like me?
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Oh boi
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>>18702987
Lucky fucker. Try a playful flirt back.
>Well, I hope that's the only part about me that's too long
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Tell the cunt to Fuck off, if it's so important maybe she should call you instead of sending you a text. Messages can be answered whenever you want to. There's no urgency in a text message.

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>Think about killing myself
>Only do it because it makes me feel like I'm important and intelligent
>Walked to store to buy some rope yesterday
>Couldn't find a good size for suicide
>Can't stop teetering between "Why not kill myself?" and "Wow, I sure am acting fucking stupid"
>Wondering what I'll feel/do when a noose is in my face

Damn, I feel sleek, unique, and derelict, and no-one else knows about it. I'm getting a strange mental high off of thinking about dying. It's like an extreme validation, and I feel as if I'm the only person alive in the entire world. It's like I'm LARPing, but it's also all for real.
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>>18702984
You need help dude
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Dude, you seriously need to try shrooms.
Not saying it will be nice or anything, be prepared for some shit.
But you should, because you need better access to you inner voice, and you need to face your ghosts.
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>>18703990
Not even a bad idea, maybe weed too

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What is the best way to consume ginger for "cheering up"?

And which kind of the ginger-based stuff you can buy too
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>>18702933
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ginger_tea
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>>18702972
So ginger tea is the best way to intake ginger?
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http://www.mcvities.co.uk/products/gingernuts

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