Ladies - I recently started seeing a girl and several alarm bells

>>18701143
Maybe she just watches too much porn. It's not necessarily insincerity.

>>18701143
its bed talk retard. She's does it to
one get herself in the mood and two, to get you in the mood.

Are you use to girls just laying dead while you fuck them?

>>18701146
Nooobody watches more porn than me and I still know how to be genuine in bed.

>>18701148
No, but I can tell the difference between them enjoying themselves and pretending to enjoy themselves.

She is pretending.

And take for example the difference between bed talk like "oh your dick feels good" and just repeatedly telling me how big it is. One is genuine and one is...well a lie.

>>18701154
how do you know for sure she's pretending though? why not sit down and ask why she does it?

It could be her past boyfriend wanted her to do it so she just stuck with it assuming you wanted it to.

She probably thinks that's what men like and is doing it cuz she thinks it will turn you on. Probably.

>>18701148
Like hang on, be honest. If you have an average size cock do you really want to hear how big it is? Does that actually get you going?
It's like a short guy getting off on being told he's tall. It just seems weird to me. Like enjoy the dick by all means, but enjoy it as it is and not some fantasy version haha

I don't know, deal with it? Maybe it turns her on to act like that. What I do know from experience is even the gentlest criticism of how a woman acts in bed is a good way to shut that pussy up tight. I mean if she's not actively hurting you with bad sex moves like (like teething or overzealous bouncing) then just go with it.

I know what you mean; it's very obvious when my gf is bored during sex and is faking being into it, but when it makes me go soft, she gets Upset, even though it's her fault for turning me off by faking it

She's a manipulative person/used to getting her way with her friends & parents, wanted to go to school for drama/singing, is overall very selfish except with me, which makes her hard to critique

Your gf might be the same - she's thinking she's being kind to you

How do you know she's faking the other noises?
How do you know your dick isn't the biggest one she's seen, or one of the bigger ones she's seen?
If you're so sure she is faking the noises, then how do you know she hasn't faked an orgasm?

>>18701169
Im totally on board with you. But my ex really showed me how fucking weird some dudes are. Her ex liked it when she talking in a cute kid voice. Its not hard to imagine some dudes like being told there cock is HUGE!

>>18701162>>18701168
I would sit her down but I've only met her a few times so I don't think it's my place atm. I'm just curious if someone who is insincere in such an intimate way could be sincere in other facets of life.
I called her out on it in bed but just very mildly by saying "stop saying that, it's freaking me out haha" in relation to the dick thing and then later "you are an actress" when she got particularly vocal.

See the real reason I'm asking is because she's also told me several times how she "really likes me" and she admittedly had me fooled. BUT she's also bailed on me twice. 2 of 5 times.

>>18701175
Because she hasn't orgasmed hahaha.