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I just noticed whenever i exhale, my heartbeat slows down, and when i inhale it gets faster. I'm somewhat worried about whether this is normal or not.
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Have you tried turning it on and off?
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>>18702267
This. A reboot should help
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I'm no expert but it may behoove you to remove the part and see if the issue continues
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I'll make this short and I'll give more details if you ask, but pretty much I've had a falling out with my roommates over something stupid.
One of my roommates is a pharmacist and I said something along the lines of "I feel like pharmacy is more of a job instead of a career." I had meant to make the distinction between a job and a career clearer but I'm not good with words.
Long story short she hates my guts and had resorted to snide comments and general disregard for me. We had considered each other friends before but she had called me names even before I had made my misspoken comment. Apparently she had been stressed out because of work (Later learn she was complaining because she has to stand all day.) Recently I had a talk with her fiance, my other roommate, and he said he might be able to get us to talk it out.
He just got back to me today saying she doesn't want to talk and she is still mad even months later because she can't let anything go. He said he had another solution. That he would amend the lease, give me my deposit back and give me 400 dollars to move out. Basically telling me to move out..
I'll answer any questions if you want more details.
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If she hates you even months after the incident, I wouldn't count on this getting any better.
Move out.
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>>18702191
sounds like the one time you described pharmacy as a job instead of a career wouldn't have led to your current situation unless there was something bigger and more serious contributing negatively to the picture.
but you should just forget that drama and move out. Room-mates suck big time, go solo asap.
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>>18702191
"I have nothing but contempt for your life choices and the future you have put yourself into debt to achieve. So why are you angry at me?"
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Hey gang, so my girlfriend and I are separated by approximately 5000 miles (Massachusetts to Hawaii) and I'm kinda up in the air on this whole open relationship thing.
We started dating a little over a year ago, I took her virginity my senior year of college, her junior year as a kind of friends with benefits situation. After that she had sex with one other partner, I had sex with like 5 or 6 before we decided that we wanted to only be with each other and start formally dating. Now we've always had distance, when we were friends with benefits we would meet up roughly one to two times a month making the drive from New York to Pennsylvania where she lived. When we started dating it was flying between Pennsylvania and Georgia which we could do every month or every other month. Now she's moved to Boston where she got a kick ass finance job making bank and I've moved to Hawaii cause I'm a military fag.
The question now is, what do? Plane tickets cost roughly $1000 to fly so we can't so it every month. The amount of times we could see each other has been severely reduced cause she can't just easily take off from work so maybe twice a year for a week, for the next 3 years. I would say we have a healthy relationship, despite having a 6 hour time zone difference, and we heavily text throughout the day and usually call when I get off work and she's going to bed. I think marriage is in the cards someday, potentially once I can move back to the mainland. Still, I'm a bit of a stranger in a foreign land. I don't really have friends out here yet and as such she suggested I download bumble and tinder to meet new people and said we could open our relationship up if I desired. That sounds appealing but at the same time the idea of her being with anyone else is pretty appalling to me and I dunno if I could take that.
Any advice, /adv/?
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she is already sucking dick but for sure have a candidate and will do it regardless what you say
opening up the relationship means she can do it without guilt, i think your relaitonship is fake, and unless you move close in the very near future it will be over eventually
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Well you have three options
1. Spend thousands of dollars trying to keep your relationship closed
2. Break up with her
3. Open your relationship
2 is somewhat inevitable, but if you have an open relationship and you're seeing other people then it won't be so bad. In fact, if you have an open relationship and still talk honestly every day or so then you might actually stick together, maybe.
But 1 is unsustainable both financially and emotionally. Humans crave physical affection and companionship, and neither of you can offer that. And even if you are able to afford a plane ticket back and forth frequently, the financial stress would also break down the relationship.
When it comes down to jealousy, about being worried about her fucking other people, the "cucking" so many incels on this shitty site are terrified and aroused by, think of this: would you rather have her fuck around and be with her once every few months or have her fuck around and never be with her at all? Because either way, she's gonna fuck around eventually. And so will you.
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As someone who went through a LDR since junior year of high school to sophomore year of college, i highly suggest breaking it off. You can be one of the very few that make it out and end up marrying but in doing so you'll go through a very rough and annoying time your college years. She already suggested downloading tinder to see other guys, i think shes gonna find a guy who is just more convenient for her to date. Besides she can fuck him and kiss him while you really cant without shelling out a grand. Its gonna be hard but its really gonna be for the best for the both of you. I thought i was never gonna find another person as amazing as my ex , but after 4 months on tinder i found my current girlfriend who i love as much but in a different way. When you get in a new relationship, never compare them to your ex in your mind. They dont deserve that. They are both completely different people and it will be a new different kind of love.
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I'll try to keep it short and sweet.
I'm a 28 year old lawyer and I have come to a fork in the road. Some days I enjoy my job, and other days I fucking hate it and think I can't do this for the rest of my life. The way I see it I have three realistic options:
1. Continue working where I currently am. The pay isn't great but the hours are good and the senior partners like me and want me to progress. The money will get better as time goes on and I will have a comfortable life. I can walk to work and I have a lodger which provide a good source of supplemental income.
2. Work for another law firm for double the money, but the hours will be longer, my commute will be 2 hours each way and my hourly take home pay will decrease due to paying more tax.
3. Quit law and join the Army (British) as an officer. I am near the end of the application process and they need to know imminently whether or not I wish to continue with my application as I must commence training before May 2018 due to my age. This career path appeals to me because I think it would suit my character/personality more and there are plenty of opportunities to develop leadership skills, see the world, make friends for life etc etc. Please ignore any ethical issues for now.
I quit my current job, join the Army, and then get injured or don't make it through the intense officer training for whatever reason, the firm I am currently at would be very annoyed that I had left and would not take me back. I would then be forced to work somewhere with a longer and more costly commute.
I think that the EASIEST and SAFEST option is to stay where I am and try to make the most of it. However, I am aware that the easiest and safest option ins't always the best.
What do you guys think? Has anyone else already had to make such life decisions? Any advice welcome.
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Sandhurst is for puffs, you'll get through it no issue. Girls get through that shit, you're in better shape than some girl, aren't you?
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>>18702202
Yes, I've always stayed on top of my fitness and I've still got 9 months to prepare. I am just thinking worst case scenarios.
Have you been through RMAS?
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But on a serious note: you've gotta ask yourself are you comfortable doing what you're doing right now or will you always regret not becoming an officer? I regret joining the military at times but at the same time it's been a good experience for me and brought about a lot of cool life experiences I know I wouldn't have had if I had done the civilian side of things. Now I'm not saying the military is for everyone, it sucks a lot of times too and you can have some shitty toxic leader that just destroys your life but that probably applies to every job. The military isn't going to change you into some other person, but it may make you more confident and he'll take you out of your comfort zone which is beneficial in like, everything in life. It's your life though bro.
Just b ur self :^)
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So ive been dating this girl (coworker) for two solid months. (She made the first step if that matters later)... We were really getting along with each other and started to develope feels. The problem was that we both knew our relationship is a bit complicated due to her being 5years older and from a neighbour country (she only works here). Also our job was quite demanding for both (we worked 13h a day, 7 days a week, since the end of may. I worked from 7am-21pm, she from 9am-23pm) and we had little time to actually go out on dates or hang out outside of work in general.
So a few days ago she came to me telling me she wants to break up because she doesnt see me as a partner (but still loves me as a friend.) She told me that she is doing this now because she wouldnt want to pretend and make the end even harder if we tried to push the thing further. Fyi it was obvious that she was quite upset about having to do this.
I kinda understand why this would happen.
Let me add that we probably spent only 7-8 days together where we could actually relax and be who we are (like normal dates). We never had any fights but she did say that some things i said made her uncomfortable.
In 10 days she is leaving to visit her family for a bit less than a month.
What should my further action be? I can give her time but i do not want to lose her as a lover.
How/when can i ask her for a second chance? Should i even do that? Or should i try to just be friends and make her change her mind once she clears her thoughts (lets say when she returns from the trip)?
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Did you bang?
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>>18702147
Yes quite a few times (but in my opinion not enough in the last few weeks). And when we did, it wasnt just a few minutes thing but a few hours of inimate sex.
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>>18702139
so is this the love story of a Mexican seasonal bean picker and her Hispanic American boyfriend?
if it is I think you should move to mexico with her.
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I've fallen in love with my best friend but she has a bf, it feels like im in constant heartache, what the fuck do I do?
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Dont be a fag and get over ir
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suck his cock. since it's been in her mouth it would be as if you shared a kiss :^)
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>>18702099
Ive never been properly in love before, i dont want to let go :(
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Well thanks a lot, fucknuts. I tried being confident and making a move on a girl, and now I'm suspended from campus and have a pending court case.
>meet girl at orientation
>kick it off well
>invite over for netflix
>she seems excited
>night she's over
>cuddling against me
>"oh shit, she's into me!" so I thought
>squeeze her tight, she squeezes tight back, rinse and repeat a few times
>goingforthekill.jpg
>me (whispering): "want to get a little more comfortable? ;)"
>her: "huh?"
>me (slight stuttering): "w-wanna get a little more uncomfortable?"
>her: "what do you mean? o_o"
>me: "uhhhmmm..."
>her (louder): "what do you mean!?"
>me: *nervous breathing*
>her: "you didn't just say to me..."
>me: *blank stare*
>her (getting angrier): "you didn't just say that to me!?"
>me: "...."
>her: "you realize that's sexual harassment, right?"
>me: "what!?"
>her: "THAT'S sexual harassment! Unwanted advances, that's sexual harassment!"
>me (flashing back to the seminar on sexual misconduct): "n-n-no, I wasn't really trying to...!"
>she looks at me like I just shot a dog in front of her
>she then jumps off the couch and barricades herself in my room
>calls security while I try to calm her down outside the door
>hear a knock
>ohfuck.webm
>open door to a beefy man and skinny woman in police uniform
>woman talks to girl, man talks to me, both jot notes
>end up being escorted out of dorm in cuffs
>sheriff waiting outside
>escorted to station, get booked, and have to spend the night in county jail
>next morning a lawyer tells me what's going to happen while making me sign some papers
>get the news that I'm both suspended for the rest of term and have to appear in court soon
>mom and dad are pissed and cut me off
How fucked am I? From what I learned from freshman orientation and the sexual misconduct seminar is that I'm pretty much screwed.
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>>18702088
I'll take "Things That Never Happened" for 1000.
Don't reply to bait.
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>>18702093
If I could slap you across the god damn face I would.
Sup /adv/ sorry for the long post.
Basically I really made my life fucking complicated in one night. I fucked up.
I'll give a bit of a backround.
So i've been dating this girl (lets call her kate) for over a year now. Everything was great last year, we both had our friends at our college and everything seemed to work. However this year it hasnt been the same, most of her friends left and she has basically been living at me. I am now her life and she is reliant on me for basically everything (aside from finances). She was super jealous of a few of my friends who happened to be girls so I stopped seeing them. Kind of isolated myself and we basically land up spending 24/7 together. Its all been getting a bit much for me, I tried speaking to her about it but nothing seems to change, however part of me is hoping next year it will be different because we might both be moving to her hometown to do masters at a college there and she will have friends there.
Now the one time I land up going out for drinks with my friends (she was even reluctant to let me go basically) I fuck up. I get pretty drunk, its a bit of a blur but my friends tell me the bartender tried to makeout with me. I remember speaking to her, but dont remember everything. My friend apparently pulled me away and they werent completely sure if I made out with her or not. I dont know myself. Anyway I feel super shit about it afterwards when I sober up, felt like a sack of shit because I kind of proved all Kates "irrational" insecurities right.
I walk past the bartender on campus the next day and she really isnt attractive so fuck knows why I did what I did.
On the same night while speaking to one of my friends who happens to be a girl and is also in a relationship. She basically tells me that she has fantisised about me and that she has feelings for me. I guess I kind have always had onetis when it comes to her, so now I have no fucking idea what to do. Why am I such a prick.
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Sorry if I structured the post like shit or if my english is bad (not my first language).
So the friend that told me she has feelings for me, I made out with her a couple of times in first year, but I messed things up because I was awkward back then. We somehow stayed good friends and i've always had a thing for her, I just kind of feel she might be bad news.
I really have no fucking idea what to do now. Should I tell my girlfriend? Should I wait things out until next year and see if it gets better? Im just so scared of putting all my eggs in one basket, Kate and I will have to live together next year if I move to her hometown. I was fine with that idea until now.
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>>18702094
Solution : Threesomes
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>>18702082
Hmm considering how awful you felt about potentially having cheated (just a make out anyway who cares) I would not advise cheating. You have to choose which girl you love more, simple as that.
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i got these weird blisters, hurts like shit to touch. what are they?
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side view
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Do you get them on your feet as well? Do you have pains and aches(specifically of the bone)?
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>>18702084
Did you eat citrus fruit and then go out in the sun without washing your hands?
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How do I approach people?
There's getting out of the house, yeah sure. But that's the first part.
How do I actually start a conversation with random people? Not even romantically speaking, just making friends. Explain to me like I'm an adult man who hasn't properly socialized for 15 years.
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I, too, would like to know this.
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Join a gym or find a hobby that requires you to socialize like playing basketball. I find it easier to adjust in conversation when playing sports because it forces you to interact with other people.
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>>18702378
If you stick with a gym. People who go regularly will recognize you more and might even throw a compliment. You're easily respected in that environment if you go from fat or skinny to muscle. Win/win in my book.
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Will learning PUA make a difference in my dating/sex life?
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I'll let you in on a secret, those PUA types can only pick up literal prostitutes.
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It can push you to at least try. Which is an improvement to never trying.
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>>18702066
It's just that I'm in my third year of uni and have not gotten laid, no game. Am I a lost cause?
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This is my first time posting on here. I need advice on what to do because I think I have a hemorrhoid. I think I've had two for a while but I never noticed it. Today as I was using the restroom I felt it bigger. Even as I wiped I felt the "inflated" part of my anus. I took a photo of my anus to analyze it and it seems like I do. They're not as bad as the ones you Google up and it looks like you're shitting out some purple ball or bleeding out your ass, they're just probably the size of dimes. What can I do to treat it at home? I don't have time to consult a doctor. Thank you in advanced
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>>18702011
dip your finger in vaseling and put it in your rectum(shove it up your ass).
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recycle your cum by swallowing it all after you jerk off and don't miss a drop or you're gay
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>>18702032
Its almost as if I posted on /b)
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/adv/ I've got a bone to pick with you.
All you little shits overcomplicate things. Think about your problems... depression, >tfwnogf, weakfag, anxious, relationship problems... now think about the solutions to those problems.... THEN STOP THINKING, and fucking solve your problem. Holy shit. Your problem is not fucking complicated, you can overcome your pathetic obstacles in life with 10 seconds of hard thinking... Quit shitting up /adv/ you faggots.
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>just be yourself
>just have a good jawline and rich parents
>just make sure you were in the foot ball team
>get a 4.0 and make friends
>just get a girlfriend
>just make sure your life is perfect
>just be white
>just be born with a silver spoon and generations worth of privilege
>just do what i did
:^)
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I'm on Tinder, OP, I'm trying, NoFap has boosted my horniness so I want a GF, otherwise I don't see the point, but I'm trying
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>>18701958
None of that is bad advice, and you're bad for making it seem more complicated than that. Entirely my point.
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Enrolled in my first semester which my parents. I don't want to be here, I'm not suited for college. My parents told me I am "too smart" to not go to college and threatened to kick me out of the house if I did not go. I feel stuck, but I have hope because I have 5k saved up. How do I approach this situation? Pic unrelated
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>>18701918
>Enrolled in my first semester which my parents
*Paid for
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>>18701918
If they're paying take advantage of it. If they're not prepare your exit strategy. Hell, prepare it anyway because they're already holding shelter as blackmail which is abhorrent and when you start failing, which you will by the sounds of it, they'll kick you out anyway.
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>>18701918
stop being an ungrateful little shit and thank your parents for paying for your education. Don't major in anything other than a hard science or you're wasting your time and their money. Someday you'll realize what a huge favor they are doing you.
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GIOYC - Get It Off Your Chest
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Continuing on from this thread: >>18694568
Which was preceded by: >>18687678
Vent, ask for advice, write letters, etc.
Also, there was quite a bit of discussion last thread about depression and mental illness, so here is a YouTube channel I recently found pertaining to that subject matter: https://m.youtube.com/#/user/KatiMorton
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>>18701905
How do I accept the fact that my ex might, if not already, get over me before I get over her and start dating a new guy? Like, I know I'm not entitled to her but just. It's so hard to move on. I keep lying to myself saying that it'll be okay and we'll get back together. I guess it's just hard not knowing what's going on in her life anymore. I wish I didn't feel stuck in this place of attachment to her. I want to move on and be happy but I won't let myself do it.
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>>18701912
How long were you together, and when did you breakup?
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Oh my God! We exchanged numbers. For two autist to do that, is something right?
Jesus Crispy Christ, I want to text her, but we should wait. It's mostly so she can contact me after the hurricane passes. She's made me worry must less.
Fuck, I am elated and terrified at the same time.