3 weeks ago i moved into my college dorm.
during an RA meeting, an indian girl transfer student started talking to me. she was nice, but weird at the same time. she stood really really close to me when i talked, literally felt like she was gonna kiss me
couldn't understand much of what she was saying but long story short she ended up asking me if i wanted to go to chicago with her this summer and also asked me if i wanted to go to the local history museum with her the next day
"ill let u know anon.jpg"
*she gives me her number*
i've been doing good at avoiding her, but today in the food court she was right behind me in line and of course came up to me and starting talking.
"why didn't u text me anon" etc etc
me: sorry got busy!
me: *gets order and starts to leave*
anon: so we're eating at our hall or here?
me: uhhhh i'm eating here
anon: ok we'll come find you when we get our food (anon is with a korean exchange student that doesn't speak english)
me:....ok
>they sit down and eat with me
>anon asks if i want to come study french at her dorm after we eat
>wtf.jpg
>sorry anon i have a class at 8
that's the only way i escaped. now i have to go incognito mode and can't get a shower for another hour in case she sees me and knows i lied to her
i don't want any contact with this girl in the long term. i'm just being nice because i'm not a dick and it's not in my nature to blatantly tell people to fuck off
today she told me she's moving to a new residence hall right next to the one we're currently in, but will still be using the art studio in this one
should i continue to ghost her or what? i feel like i should say something so it's not all "u didn't text me" every time i bump into her
i don't know if i even told her i didn't want to hang out that she would get the picture. in the past when i tell annoying people that, they still stick around
what do i do?
i'm a girl btw
She's just trying to make friends, one who speaks English, by the sounds of it.
Just be straight-up. Say you feel uncomfortable and that she's coming on a little strong. Worst that can happen is she thinks you're mean, in which case, problem solved.
Honesty isn't always the best policy, but it can work wonders sometimes
>>18701014
that's why i feel bad for ghosting her because i know she's just trying to make friends and i don't know how many she has, but at the same time i literally feel like i have to put on a super smart nice girl next door facade when i'm with her and i don't like it
Just carry on doing whatever and if she comes up just stick with the being busy story and just be boring
>>18701058
Why don't you like her?
>>18701065
she just comes off as odd to me... hell she asked me if i wanted to go to chicago with her 10 minutes after i met her
in my spare time i usually hang with my friends and drink/smoke weed
in her spare time she studies french for fun
not that that's a bad thing, but i like separating my school life with my social life and she's just very boring to me
the "study french" thing means make out...
>>18701082
She's gay for you. How freaken dense are you?
>>18701135
i don't think she's gay she's just weird and foreign