Hello, I am currently fighting with my best friend and currently it seems it will go on until I apologize.
The thing we are fighting about is that I have different groups of friends, about 4, and I don't like to mix them. Its as simple as that. She belongs to one of them and has friends in another group. I have said to her previously that I become uncomfortable if I hang out with both of them simultaniously. She is mad at me for keeping them apart, which according to me I am not doing, since I am just refraining from hanging out with both of them at the same time, If they want to hang out I won't stop them and I don't think its wrong. I just ask her to not expect me to be there as well.
Am I at fault here?
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your friend is just being stupid
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Thanks for replying. Other opinions are also welcomed. Im just trying to see the best course of action.
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>>18703029
It sounds like your friend wants you to organize some kind of hangout that is ideal for her. Just tell her if that's what SHE really wants she should do it herself. It's not your job.
Don't let her use you.
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Hey /adv/ I think I may have a problem. Im average/slightly above average looking guy, I work, I go to uni and have actually lot of opportunities to get laid and go out with people etc... But I literally dont want to. Im not shy either, but I feel absolutely no drive to go out and do something... like ever. I have been living like this for 19 years now and my parents say that I will have nothing to remember once Im old Im not sure if something is wrong with me.
I mean I want to have fun and gf but when Im about to do anything I realize I would have to spend time with other people and immediately reject the thought. For example I didnt go out even once this summer even though I had lot of invitations. I just worked and played on PC.
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bump
same problem here
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Why exactly do you see this as a problem? Do what makes you happy.
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>>18703039
It obviously doesnt make me happy, the weird thing is that Im not depressed or sad either. My parents are kinda right. Im just wasting my life away. Im feel like a robot that just does things it needs to survive and nothing else
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>be man
>be derpessed
>family and friends tell me to man up
>tv tells me its my own fault
>there is no institutional help so they are basically teling me i dont matter
>non profits tell me its because im a man and i should become a woman
>psychatrist tell me to take drugs
>drugs dont work
>they tell me to take more drugs
>psychologist tell me to spend some time outside and keep repeating meaningless words to myself
>help websites tell me there are 7 signs of suicidal people
>i match every one of them
>wikipedia tells me male suicide is just a normal thing nowdays and im likely to end up doing it
>im probably am
>im completely out of options
>maybe im just suppossed to go away, maybe i was a mistake and i shouldnt have happenned in the first place
>everyone has always treated me like a mistake, everything ,akes me feel like i am a mistake, who needs me around nyways? nobody does, i may aswell be dead already
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>be boy
ftfy
You need to increase your testosteron, mate. Serious.
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start working out and eating fruit and veggies youll feel good after and maybe become /fit/ along the wat
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>>18702901
>adv tells me im just a boy and i need to work out
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How to never think about sex 2017-09-08 03:31:50 Post No.18702889
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How to never think about sex
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I'm 32 years old, married, with a young child and I'm in school full time and work full time.
My wife is currently a stay at home mom and I love her to death. I think she is the most attractive woman I've ever seen even now.
She no longer wants sex and feels twice a month is ridiculously too much. She blames many things but in the end....
I've tried making her life easier, doing chores, showering her with gifts and praise, and when that didn't work, trying to be cold and distant. I tried being sensitive, being overly manly, tried being myself.
Nothing works. I still love her to death and it's heart breaking she doesn't even want to hold my hand anymore or show any kind of affection, but I'll never leave her.
How can I make my sex drive completely 0? Monks and stuff do it but I'm not exactly sure how.
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Try couples therapy.
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>>18702892
She refuses any therapy because she says nothing is wrong.
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>>18702897
Something is clearly wrong.
Tell her how much her lack of affection is bothering you and if she won't make any effort then... I'm not sure what there is to do.
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Why do you wake up in the morning? 2017-09-08 02:52:37 Post No.18702826
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Why do you wake up in the morning?
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Why do you wake up in the morning?
Pls take a minute or so to think about it, if you can. Like why do you ACTUALLY wake up.
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My dog wakes me up whether I like it or not
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>>18702826
Because it's goddamn fun.
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>>18702826
Because my consciousness turned on.
Because there was nothing to stop me from not waking up.
Because alarm clock rang.
Because chemicals in my brain triggered state of alertness in me.
Because I have a habit of waking up at that time.
If you arent satisfied with these answers maybe you should be more specific with your question.
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I'm afraid of fucking everything. Especially of being away from family. I can't live like this. How do I stop being scared of everything?
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>>18702800
Do things by yourself and see it's not so bad.
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>>18702804
Started doing that a week ago. It's KINDA better? But I still feel the constant need to run.
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>>18702800
do the things you're terrified of and realize there's no reason to be. or, you could continue to shelter yourself and be afraid forever
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How do I stop being useless? 2017-09-08 02:34:48 Post No.18702793
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How do I stop being useless?
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This is probably a question that cant be answered that easily. Im still gonna ask it.
I have a lot of talent in a specific field, and could definetely make some cool things if I started doing them. But I dont. Im too lazy. But I dont want that. How do I start doing things instead of shitposting the whole day? Please give advice.
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>>18702793
Get off 4chan and go do it you twat. It's not that hard, just pay attention to what you're doing and whenever you catch yourself heading to 4chan or other time-wasting sites, just stop and give yourself something productive to do.
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>>18702793
Find a reason to do something useful. By the way, you won't find that reason online. You need to get of your ass and start doing shit.
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>>18702793
>How do I start doing things instead of shitposting the whole day?
You can't. You're here forever, you fucking pleb. Didn't you read the sign on the way in? Did you think it was some kind of fucking joke?
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I am a 25 year old NEET who graduated with humanities MA a year ago and done nothing since. I cant really get a job with my degree and I dont see any point in working for minimal wage since my family is a bit wealthy so I am not strapped for cash. My mother offered me 100K Euro to start any business no strings attached just to set me up in this world(I cant just have this money in cash). How the fuck should I go about this? Where do I start? Which buisness should I start? What would you do anon? Also I am europore.
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>>18702734
Go study something which actually lands you a job.
Or
https://www.mcdonalds.com/us/en-us/careers.html
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>>18702734
>step 1: Use that money to buy Security Analysis by Benjamin Graham and Margin of Safety by Seth Klarman
>step 2: Study the fuck out of Value Investing
>step 3: Research a fuck ton of companies in countries with strong economies trading well below their intrinsic value
>step 4: wait til stocks reach their sell order
>step 5: profit
Or
Use that money and flip real estate
there's no point starting a business if a) you dont understand how and b) you dont have a solid business plan
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>>18702744
Well I cant say that you are entirely wrong but getting a whole other education might prove a bit inconvenient for me. Also in what would I get that education? If it were a matter of a year after witch I would get guaranteed income then I would do it, but spending years to get another degree that might not net me any money is not something I would like to do.
>>18702750
I will definitely check out for personal interest but my mother will never give me money to buy stocks with, she believes that its worse then going to he casino.
I was thinking about opening a real estate agency in one capital of a third world country I lived in for a while. The average price of a house is 200-500 k USD and they basically dont have the concept of real estate agencies and they mostly sell to people they know or friends of friends. I am trying very hard to think what is wrong with this business model and so far I cant think of a reason why this is a bad business. Maybe there is a cultural idiosyncrasy that I am not aware of that will prevent people from using those services but otherwise I find it difficult to think of a reason why this wouldnt work.
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Do any actually exist? How do I go about getting one?
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>>18702709
Stem.
>inb4 dumb or lazy
Pic related.
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>>18702709
Do phone support
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Financial controller
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So, I'm in a church social group.
And I live next door to a bunch of people I know from church. They all just went to the city for a night out and
I totally wasn't invited.
One of them walked upto me and asked me to meet me for coffee this weekend because he's bailed on our plans the last three times
(One for a movie second for a hang out and three for a board game)
Is it reasonable to be pissed off?
Like I was actually planning to go to the city where they are with my room mate but his girlfriend had work early in the morning so we didn't.
Do I have a right to be upset?
How can I tell my friends this without coming off badly?
I know if I wanted to go that badly I could have asked but I saw them when they were already dressed and prepared getting into their cars to leave.
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pls notice me
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>>18702707
set your boundaries. confront them and tell them you're upset over it. if you don't put your foot down now you'll continue to get walked all over
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get in confrontational mode and let them be aware that its not christlike to ditch brethren.
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It's been like a week since I've watched porn,, should I keep going or fap
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>>18702703
Fap to your imagination.
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>>18702703
>implying stupid horny teens can not fap
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>>18702703
If you dont mind wet dreams and coming in your bed while you sleep, keep at it bro.
Otherwise understand masturbation is fine if it isnt interfering with your life in any extreme way.
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Does anybody here have experience with brain/mood improving supplements? I'm trying to find a healthier alternative for caffeine. If so, what would you recommend and do they have diminishing returns?
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5 htp
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Cocaine
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>>18702682
Caffeine in the right dosages is actually healthy. For example 2-3 cups a day is totally cool for the body
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can you guys share with me methods on how to prevent yourself from masturbating ? i just want to break this habit of mine
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I started heading out more due to school/work and at first I wanted to jack off to the thought of every single girl I saw but eventually that became a chore and now I fap maybe once a week or two weeks at most. It also helps that when you're home to find another habit instead of jacking off. I recently picked up civ and that's a good distraction
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>>18702641
Masturbating gently on your bed before sleep with closed eyes under 10 minutes is healthy and desired. If you need more, adopt sport, play csgo, find gf, read book, eat ice cream. Fact you have free time for fapping means you have time for other activities as well.
Porn is the real poison.
https://yourbrainonporn.com/
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>>18702641
Just go jogging and lift. It's not that hard.
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Someone was caught sleeping on the job yesterday. One of the managers caught this person in the department's office.
Now my department's supervisor is getting on the group as a whole and saying the next step is Performance Management will step in.
I'm curious as to how this could effect me. I tend to do my job and carry about my business, not bothering anyone.
Far as my surprervisor is concerned I do my job well.
How does this all work though if Performance Management steps in?
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>>18702635
OP, here sorry for a spelling error. I'm typing this on my phone.
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>>18702635
If you dont break the rules then it doesnt matter at all. Things will get more strict and you should expect someone to get fired no matter how small of an issue they find.
>>18702638
Never admit this.
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>>18702698
So in other words I have nothing to worry about, but my coworkers who keep messing around do?
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Hey /adv/,
20 year old, soon to be 21, here. I've been pursing a law degree for a couple years, and I can't help but feel like this isn't the thing for me. At first I wasn't sure whether it would be that I actually disliked the subjects or that I was just too lazy and that I didn't enjoy them because it meant working, which I wasn't used to/that it would get better later on. I, also, failed a year, and I might end up dropping out.
A problem that I have is that, even if this is truly not the thing for me I just don't know what might be, I honestly have no idea what I could do, so I feel trapped and with increasingly less options. It just feels like I'm wasting my life and fucking myself over, Is it already too late for me? Am I a failure and should I just accept it and off myself?
I honestly don't know how could I turn my life around out of this. I've been really demotivated these years.
Thanks in advance.
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I hope I didn't come off as too angsty.
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>>18702786
I'm feeling the same way. Got a BFA in theater. Almost definitely gonna drop out of my MFA. No idea what the fuck to do
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>>18702799
Yeah, it's just a mess.
At least you have a BFA, though. I haven't got anythingto my name outside of the high school degree.
Theatre is pretty cool, though, from what I've seen. What's putting you off about it?
It does seem like quite a risky job, though, which is a shame.