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Anyone? Is there any way to fix this?

Seriously, just openly tell your partner's what you are and aren't comfortable with. If people fap to vore and enjoy being pissed on it doesn't seem so unusual that you're just not a kisser.
It's a positive you enjoy body kissing though, that can really make up for the lack of kissing.

>>18707312
I've heard that kissing is a key factor in getting people aroused and also for pair bonding because of the chemicals we swap in our spit. Doesn't that mean that this is a flaw I need to fix?

>>18706466
Download a free photo editing software and do it yourself, you lazy cunt.

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>>18706466

Not a nerf gun but pretty close i guess

>>18706606
Yeah ive got this one saved, thanks anyway

If you have the money do it.

I do have the money.
Can you describe how was your first time ?

I only had an attempt to lose my virginity with one and it was awful, mostly because of me. Nowadays I'd hire one if I had the need without a doubt.

>>18706391
Novelty always becomes routine; you will grow to a similar spot with the new guy given some time. He's on his best behavior at the moment due to his desire to impress you so you actually know very little about him.

Your troubles with the current guy could be infinitely worse with a different person; you must weigh whether it worth risking something that works for something that, in all likelihood, won't.

>>18706391
fuckinv internet ruining human interaction

>>18706397
This will also sound super shallow but I will mention the new guy is rich so it could be a more comfortable choice

>>18706403
I agree, if it wasn't for this I'd have no problems being with my bf. I think. It's just that I want to be the girl in a relationship and he doesn't ever sort anything out and I have to do everything, the other guy seems far more controlling which is nice

>>18706344
>I'm wondering if good ones exist
They don't
Flash Drive>Aux Cord>Blu tooth>Cassette Spoofer>FM Spoofer

My 86 Olds doesn't have even a cassette player so I'm stuck with one.

>>18706355 is exactly correct.

I would recommend looking into getting an aux jack. With my old car, it turned out that the head unit had two RCA jacks at the back, so all I needed was a $2 3.5mm female to RCA adapter cord which I easily strung out of the console farings or into the glovebox. Saved me a lot of money as I was considering buying a whole new unit.

Look at the manual and/or pull it out and look at the actual thing.

>>18706373
That is really interesting, thanks for the tip. What year was your car?

>>18706341
You have to be 18 to post here

>>18706341
people this retarded shouldn't be allowed to reproduce anyways so maybe its good she cant find it.

>>18706341
Hymens have different shapes.
There are some cased of imperforate hymen (but you would notice before now because it doesn't allow menstrual blood to get out of the vagina and causes strong abdominal pain) or microperforate hymen (the hole in the hymen is very small).

Use a mirror/phone and look down there.

>>18706333
desu I'd just put up with it, what will you do when you get out? do you have work lined up? a place to stay?

>>18706375
Have literally nothing guaranteed right now. College might not take me and if they don't I'll have to work at a factory making windows, but for some reason id reckon I'd be happier

>>18706422
become a mechanic , fixing shit gives me a sense off accomplishment , ergo fix military shit
> us combat engineer
Yes faggots retards break tanks like a bitch

>>18706332
Go the fuck to the hospital. Internal infections aren't something to joke about. Get in contact with a physician, doctor, hell, a vet for christ's sake.

>>18706332
What color has your pee been?

>>18706362
Same as usual. Today there was some smegma. Or fungus, which could have grown due to how much I've been washing it with water.

>>18706340
I am very afraid of getting out of my apartment.

I will wait some five more days, then do a urine test.

>>18706311
Anon the parents job is to teach them ways to live a godly life. Once they become adults the parents can't control what they choose to do. Some don't even make it to adulthood before making their own adult decisions like having promiscuous sex. I should restate that, once the children reach the teen years it's harder to control what they can and can't do. And then once they become adults less can be done.

They are their own person and are allowed to make their own decisions. Some turn out worse than others for a period of time, or even indefinitely.

>had conservative christian parents
>would get my ass fucking beat bare ass with a belt if i did something as simple as yawn in church
>turn 12, more freedom, bed time at 8 instead of 7
>oldest siblings who are 17 and 18 go fucking nuts and start smoking weed, drinking, and doing other drugs
>parents find out, don't know what to do
>older brother fist fights with dad and he gets kicked out
>older sister smokes so much weed but parents eventually parents don't even care
>they learn from their mistakes
>let me stay up till 9 now, i can eat cereal whenever I want, I can watch M.A.S.H instead of having to take a nap when it comes on
>older siblings chilled out and became good people
>I got more freedom as I got older, they didn't care if I had a few beers or chewed a little bit of tobacco by the time I was 16
>I became a good person with a great ethic because of my freedoms

i think it's more freedom = more self control = better people in the end.

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>>18706311

It can be many things; Social influences, pure circumstance, personality [conflicts].

That, combined with personal agency. As long as people have free will, they will, you know, use it.

My parents did everything right and I still went to the dark side. My sister turned out perfect.

>>18706309
I hate to say it...But probably because lighter skinned children are more likely to get hired in this economy than darker ones.

>>18706317
Where I live it's not true. But I am taller than everyone else and my friends say they wish they were like me (half white)

>>18706376
strong belief in eugenics and false understanding of better genes .
Whatever messed up reason they rationalized this through .
They did it for you, to have the best possible future you can get .
it's horrible and unfair to your dad but he must've consented to it at a point, since he did raise you with all his love .
Anon, if anyone could tell you the real reason for why this did this it's your parents but you should know that they did it only for you .

>>18706301
Why though? What hinders you from forging long lasting relationships?

>>18706307
He's retarded.
>>18706301
You have to change. What do you have to offer other people that it's worth spending time with you? Nothing? Then you get no friends, that's life. Relate to people, talk about what they care about. They're probably thinking Oh fuck, Anon is texting me when you don't leave them alone you needy little faggot. You don't make anyone care. Some people aren't going to even if you try. Change your approach because whatever you're doing isn't working dipshit. You can make friends, but being insecure or needy is a sign of emotional instability which puts people off. Stop giving a shit if they don't initiate contact or don't respond, you're probably annoying as fuck to deal with. I would never be friends with someone like you if I knew they'd throw a fit if I didn't respond or text first. Grow up bud. It's entirely possible to make connections with other people, gradually, organically, it's not something you can force with someone.

>>18706301
Desperation is an obvious state of mind, and one that will lead to loneliness. Stop looking for connections, and friends. Stop needing other people, and start becoming content with yourself- that is when these relationships will start to appear.

>>18706285
Yo man thats some twisted logic. Have you ever looked at someone in a nice car and felt bad about yourself? This post is throwing up crazy red flags about your self esteem. You should talk to a therapist or something.
Ignoring that most people buy nice cars because they like the look and feel of them. Either aesthetically pleasing or power. Lots of people who work on nice cars also like them if they can customize them and make them run primo like fast and furious.

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>''Let's see Paul Allen's card''

>>18706285
Nope. I drive a nice car because I like working on cars and it (like my 4 previous cars) started out as mechanically sound yet hoopty as fuck looking pieces of shit that I was neither proud nor embarrassed to drive. I'm pleased with myself for learning how to restore cars and not at all looking to shame others for having a different (or no) hobby.

Do whatever you like though. Personally comparing myself to others over anything is eventually going to lead me to depression so I make a choice not to do it.

dtf?

>>18706275
This guy isn't wrong.

>>18706266
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>>18706256
Get a south korean girl, a lot of them want surgery anyway.

>>18706264
what is the best way to meet south korean girls, without going to south korea?

Tinder?

>>18706269
Toronto

>>18706230
That's a stupid fucking question. I don't believe you're in a top 20 school or have the ability to move to a top 10 school.

>>18706230
Pick a professor. Not a school.

>>18706231
What's stupid about it? Getting professor positions can be heavily influenced by going to Stanford vs. like, UMD, is what I've been told by multiple people in the field

I don't mind taking a little extra time to assure I best my chances, if it sets me back any i.e. assuming I can't re-pass quals or something or don't transition research groups well