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First thing you could do is to stop bringing the topic of an ex up. Second, change the topic to something that would make him feel better such as complimenting his personality or how he does his hair. Third, when he mentions how all the girls want your ex tell him something cheesy like "Not all the girls. I picked you over him"

>>18239861
Well is your ex better looking than your bf?

Women don't realize how much they talk about their ex's and then wonder why their current bf is insecure.

>>18239873
I try to ignore my ex and not mention him unless it's very necessary.
The other two pieces of advice were amazing. I'll try to follow them.
Thanks

>>18239815

Do you have repetitive motions or hand gestures that you do for inexplicable reasons? Do you often lead an empty or aimless existence, sometimes going through life doing nothing? Do you have trouble socializing? Do you have fits of temper or rage? Do you often find yourself not getting the big picture? (this is typically observable by others) Are you very literal and do you struggle with colloquialisms?

just some things to consider

You do not
Get over it

>>18239815
Try asking your doctor.

You jump over higher and higher obstacles as traning a couple of months and you should be good. Im 6'2 i can reach but the ball is too high, if you have big hands it would be easier

>>18239802
Any suggestions for some household objects to use?

>>18239795
Yes, you can dunk at 6'. Jack Ryan does it

>>18239779
So all this happened in one day? The world can be shit sometimes. You're just bummed out, it's not really a problem until you only have days like this for a long time. That's called being depressed. Do something meaningful with your day tomorrow, and see if you feel any different.

Obviously I'm not you but I often got like this during time off at uni. I didn't have anyone I really liked hanging out with and didn't have much to do over the summer, the days would melt into eachother and I'd do fuck all for the entire duration of them. It got me really down.

What do you generally do during the day? Hobbies? People to talk to? If you're just letting time go by and don't really have a goal, a thing to do or a real purpose then that might be the root of this problem.

>>18239816
Thing is it has been slowly building up the last couple of months. And I am doing meaningful stuff in my life. I don't know I am really confused at this point

also, I forgot to mention, this is our backyard, they had them open the gate on the side of our house and enter our backyard through the gate. just to paint a better picture.

jesus christ...

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>>18239768
You know what to do, op

>You just make friends until college and then start loosing them faster than you can make new ones?

Even though I'm only in my second year of college, I've found myself in a simular situation OP. The only difference is that I'm not in touch with my high school friends. Mainly because they were introverts that barely did shit, had a lot of drama and were immature to begin with. So i'm kind of glad I cut ties with them.

>>18239709

Good question, man. I'm 30 and turn 31 next month, and I'm kind of experiencing the same thing, even with single people. They just want to sit in their houses and watch Netflix, or the kids/girlfriend take up all of their time.

Unfortunately I think it's definitely a pervasive thing we have to deal with at our age. What I think it might be is finding a group of friends that live a similar lifestyle to you, and making them your new closest pals. But I don't really know where to find them yet. My work friends were a great resource, but I moved to a work-from-home situation, so that's gone too now.

Open to any recommendations from other anons... or if you're in Vegas, down to go get a beer, haha.

>>18239746
I barelly had friends in HS, and the few I had were really shitty ones, so I definitly don't miss them. But I do miss good friends with whom to talk to about work, personal problems and so on. I tought I had friends like that but for some reason they all seem to be living too perfect lifes to care about anyone who isn't.

>>18239761
Yeah that's what I'm at a loss with. College and work are the two places that come to mind where you're forced into social interaction, meeting new people and making new connections. But recently I've been spending more and more time in 4chan just for the sake of having someone other than my gf to talk to, even though I have a perfect relationship with her, it gets tyring to always talk to the same person.

I used to be in a lot of online forums and still have some virtual friends, but most aren't really intimate, and even though a few are, I miss someone to go out with.

I'm in brazil but if I was in Vegas I'd sure be up for it

>>18239690
You applied for cashier position. There are tons of hourly jobs you can apply for. I worked as a dishwasher for a year (in highschool though).

Had a friend in similar position as you though in his mid 20's. He got a job at a bakery while he continued applying to managerial-type positions, and he even had a 4-year degree!

Point is, just gotta apply to whatever shit job you can find and take the first one to accept you.

>>18239732
As a bonus for doing so, my friend impressed the interviewers for the managerial position by actually taking some obviously shit and temporary job. Instead of just doing nothing and waiting for the actual job you want.

>>18239690
>everything else requires experience

Apply anyway. Not every employer can find the ideal employee for the open positions, so they sometimes have to take what they can get. You just have to to write a convincing application letter, get an invitation to an interview and then convince them that you could do the job despite your lack of experience. It doesn't hurt to try and you just might get lucky.

You need physics for CE, now? What retard decided that?

Also pre-cal is literally as hard as math gets. After that it goes from difficult to tedious.

Go into programming or project design

>>18239692
1. Nobody is talking about CE.
2. At some universities CS is considered part of engineering, thus including physics
3. If you actually think "math doesn't get harder than highschool math" then I don't even know what to say and am completely and utterly speechless. And I don't even need to throw complicated names of topics around you clearly won't understand, anyhow. Your statement is just the most ridiculuous thing I've heard in 10 minutes on this site and that means something. Oh my boy.

halp pls

Cant you just move closer to the lecturer? Front seats?

Just respond with the easier "I'll tell you after class" when he's asking for help. Or "I actually know about and I can tell you more about it after class" when he's trying to talk about a general topic.

For your information, he is in the absolute wrong. You are not doing anything wrong because he's working against your interest.
However, if he's actually talking while the professor is trying to lecture I would honestly flat out ignore him. It is extremely rude to distract someone who's actually giving a damn about the class. If he continues to do it, you are literally going to have to change where you sit. It will seem cruel but it's your grade at stake.

For future information, avoid sitting in the back of a lecture class. It always brings out the worst in anyone whether smart or dumb.

Sleep in different rooms, it will actually improve your relationship and also your sleep quality.

>>18239587
good one. he is already mad that i can't fall asleep with him glued to my body. he definitely will think i'm gone crazy if i ever had the nerves of suggesting that.

>>18239557
Lol, this dude is a kid.

Nobody sleeps well when spooned.

I have a chick who is actually the right size for me and still we move off one another when we start falling asleep.

I'm also super warm and it is annoying to sleep with me in the summer.

Everybody knows that once you ACTUALLY want to sleep you move away.

>>18239494

try not to be so narrow minded. I can understand a general dislike of sports, but if you give a few a try you'd probably fine some are fun. i thought i hated sports until i actually played rugby. so much fun. turns out saying you dont like sports is like saying you dont like fruits. theres too many kinds to just dismiss them all. i can understand not wanting to watch though, its hard to get invested without some urging from your parents in childhood.

this extends to video games as well. you say you only like single player games. and thats fine in theory, but it shouldnt hurt your soul to play multiplayer games with other people, and if that thought makes you too uncomfortable then the truth is you dont want to make friends, you are just trying to post here to prove to your self that you /cant/ make friends so you can go back to your life as is without guilt.

>>18239511
Yeah, I mean I tried quite a few as part of PE throughout highschool. Soccer, football, baseball, tennis, kickball, a few I can remember off the top of my head. Just never really enjoyed any of them. But the bigger thing is I hate being sweaty and out of breath. Hard to get to know someone when you smell like shit and cant even breathe.

As for the games stuff, i guess what I wanted to stress was I dont like fighting games. I've tried the big ones like WoW, LoL, team fortress, overwatch, and like, final fantasy whatever number it is thats an mmo. Never got into those things, too stressful and everyone takes em too seriously. I dont even like smash bros.
Only multiplayer games I've enjoyed were things like minecraft and mario party. But the latter you need a good group of friends to play with to begin with. The former is just mostly 10 year olds and I also prefer real life friends opposed to E-friends. Which is why im not sure vidya is a good hobby for me, for the kind of social interaction im looking for.

But by all means, if you have any suggestions for games that are multiplayer and NOT fighting/shooting I really would love to hear them. Like I'm being genuine, if I sound sarcastic thats not my intention. I just want suggestions on things to do because I really cant think of any that would be low cost.
(Thought about painting or photography for example, but could not afford the supplies.)

>>18239608

racing games, but my point is if you arent willing to put up with the great horror of playing a fucking fighting game ,then you arent going to make friends, it just shows that you're too narrow minded to look beyond your most basic interests.

it insists that you can only befriend clones.

Continuing

>Ben calls anything that says something good about minorities or women is SJW propaganda
>Calls all movies with non-white male main characters SJW agenda
>Called Rogue One that because minorities led by woman fight a white man
>Easily influenced by any single right wing dog whistle
>Friends and I conduct experiment
>In one week, we make him from an anarchist into a Nazi
>Ben is a hoarder, so he latches on to all information he hears
>Won't believe anything that contradicts it, even if it proves his bullshit wrong

What the fuck do I do?

But it's true! Dan is indeed a sociopathic mastermind. All you pajeets are merely pawns in his grand scheme, which he will fulfill with the almighty power of food!

>>18239379
Make Ben cut down on the sodium, Dan did nothing wrong; He's just a muppet

>>18239331
I've got 2 inches hanging out of me and I have YET to meet a dude who's enthusiastic about it. Met plenty that were ok with it, but preferred innies, and a handful of dudes who flat out left when they saw it, but never any that were like "Awe yeah"

There are some dudes on here I've seen claim to like it. But I've just never had such luck irl.
Anyway, I'm just a fellow roastie though, so I know my experience isn't really what you were looking for. Just put in my 2 cents.

>>18239350
Thanks for the reply.. i havent measured it (i cant find my measuring tape). I feel like as long as he doesnt SEE it i should be okay. Since he'll be doing it in the dark i should have nothing to worry about unless even though he cant see it he'll still be turned off because he can feel it :/

A girl having long labia is like a guy having a short dick. A nice personality and good looks in other places should more than make up for it, though.

I've dated girls with long labia before, and the only time you really get a good look at a girl's pussy is when you're 69'ing.

>>18239330
Is your dick bigger then a newborn?

Have you tried using lube? Using toys that are slightly smaller to get her ready?

>>18239330
Has she managed to have sex with anyone else? If not, it's possible she could have vaginal hypoplasia.

>>18239267
Shameless self-bump.

>>18239267
I recommend just forcing yourself to do things, don't think about anything. Be like a mindless robot and do what you have to do, then it becomes easier.

I know it sounds like "to have discipline just have discipline" but it's just like that, just do it and stop wasting time on 4chan, do what you have to do. If you need it just create a strict schedule and follow it.

>>18239574
So you're saying there is no real solution, except "just do it"?