My boyfriend feels very insecure because my ex looks better than him.
He keeps bringing up my ex's looks and making jokes about how all girls want him, he fucking looked him up on facebook.
What can I do to make him get over it?
First thing you could do is to stop bringing the topic of an ex up. Second, change the topic to something that would make him feel better such as complimenting his personality or how he does his hair. Third, when he mentions how all the girls want your ex tell him something cheesy like "Not all the girls. I picked you over him"
>>18239861
Well is your ex better looking than your bf?
Women don't realize how much they talk about their ex's and then wonder why their current bf is insecure.
>>18239873
I try to ignore my ex and not mention him unless it's very necessary.
The other two pieces of advice were amazing. I'll try to follow them.
Thanks
>>18239898
What do you mean you try to ignore your ex? Does he still contact you or do you still see him frequently or is he sometimes successful and you guys talk or see each other? Why would it be necessary for you to mention your ex? You have a kid with him?
>>18239897
>Well is your ex better looking than your bf?
Yes.
I don't talk much about my ex, if at all. They met at a students activity.
>>18239913
Well then your bf isn't blind and you should pay attention to how you act and what you say about your ex. It's possible you don't hide it very well what you just admitted.
>>18239908
He texts me sometimes, I ignore him. We meet from time to time with other friends.
Sometimes I mention my ex if I saw him that night, or if I'm telling a story about my youth that involve him.
We don't have kids.