Short vs long labia

>>18239331
I've got 2 inches hanging out of me and I have YET to meet a dude who's enthusiastic about it. Met plenty that were ok with it, but preferred innies, and a handful of dudes who flat out left when they saw it, but never any that were like "Awe yeah"

There are some dudes on here I've seen claim to like it. But I've just never had such luck irl.
Anyway, I'm just a fellow roastie though, so I know my experience isn't really what you were looking for. Just put in my 2 cents.

>>18239350
Thanks for the reply.. i havent measured it (i cant find my measuring tape). I feel like as long as he doesnt SEE it i should be okay. Since he'll be doing it in the dark i should have nothing to worry about unless even though he cant see it he'll still be turned off because he can feel it :/

A girl having long labia is like a guy having a short dick. A nice personality and good looks in other places should more than make up for it, though.

I've dated girls with long labia before, and the only time you really get a good look at a girl's pussy is when you're 69'ing.

>>18239368
Do you get turned off by guys with shorter/longer penises?

>>18239390
Yes if we're not dating and i dont love him. Which is the case with my fwb guy.. he doesnt love me and we're not dating so i guess he'll care then

But it's not a big deal if they cant see it right? If they're doing it in the dark?

>>18239422
Depends if he likes the feeling of loose skin rubbing his chin.

>>18239444
Lets hope so >.< mines is pretty rough to look at (my ex didnt think so but i certainly do). So yeah i hate the way it looks but feeling it isnt bad imo its not monsterous as far as touching it goes...if im making any sense

>>18239368
Ehhh that's not really the point. If he's gonna touch it, he's gonna visualize it even without seeing it.

Oral is usually out. I've had a couple guys I've surprised with it who were enthusiastic to go down and then quickly changed their mind when they slipped a hand down my pants.

>>18239390
Does this flip flop count when you do have a preference, but it's the lesser accepted one?

I'd take a small dick over a big one any day. But less men would take huge labia over smaller labia.

>>18239449
Did they change their mind because of how it felt? Or did it have nothing to do with your vagina?

In my experience the men most enthusiastic about eating women out tend to care less about the specifics. Most women have outies and most pussies look weird if you think about them for too long. Not too mention many women who usually have little or no inner labia showing do show them when the vulva gets puffy from the blood flow as they get aroused. Not always but often.

Unless you are on the extreme end of the bell curve, don't worry about it. It is retarded to offer to eat someone out and not realize they might not have your ideal pussy.
If you smell and taste good (drink lots of water and eat pineapple beforehand) and are at least somewhat groomed, you'll be fine.

>>18239464
Okay thanks. We're both young (yes of age) and i feel younger guys are more unaccecpting on those kinds of things. He did stuff with one other girl (his ex) and im hoping she didnt have an innie because i dont want him to expect me to have one aswell. Im not sure if boys think like that though

Ive seen the good, the bad and the ugly

Best i've seen was a baby smooth innie, labia was but a trim
The bad was literally a hole (gaping) surrounded by two dumbo ears
The ugly was a girl that had hanging roast beef, a horrible smell and weird red splotches around it (i turned 360 degrees and walked away)
Honestly, if it doesnt smell like rotten fish and/or has some std-tier shit around it i don't really care if you got big lips

Ive unironically turned down roasties in the heat of the moment before but only in a casual type situation. If it was a girl id taken out and was genuinely intedested in dating id be fine with it. Innies even if theyre very prominent camel toes are just so much prettier than an arbys tier roastie. Like other anon said its sort of like having a laughably tiny dick but for women.

>>18239464
>are at least somewhat groomed
This is literally 20x more important than the size of your labia.
Most men (myself included) prefer clean shaven girls.

>>18239488
Dang. We're friends. Well we just got back in contact after a while and had sex once but for like a few minutes and i didnt let him eat me out because i used the excuse "i need to shower". Well we planned it this time and i cant use that excuse so yolo i guess?? Again we just started talking again a couple weeks ago so we're not strangers but i hope that doesnt ruin our friendship/fwb if he gets grossed out by it. Or ruin the mood

>>18239482
It just depends on him (and the porn he watches, the kind of company he keeps, what common sense he has), there is no set universal standard for how (young) men handle this. If you are too nervous, sexily ask him to finger you to tease you beforehand. He'll feel how you're laid out and he can nope out of there if it's not for him before he saw you and put his face near, it'll save you some humiliation.

For what it's worth, I am likely a bit older than you (24) and have an outie as well. I'm well aware that it's not the aesthetic ideal and understand that, but life is too short to get hung up on things like that. No one's perfect and there's so much more to sex, hell, even so much more to having an attractive pussy (tightness, whether you can grip him or not, whether you're a good match in terms of depth, your smell and taste, how well you keep clean and groom yourself...) than whether or not the labia stick out. (I can also assure you that some of the guys responding that innies are superior don't fully realize that it's a package deal and in real life it's not as simple as all aspects being equal save for this. Same for dick size insecurities, actually.)
Be proud of your strong points and find someone who is respectful towards your imperfections. Ain't nobody got time for adult bullies, if someone wants to be a cunt because you don't look like his favorite porn actress, that reflects really poorly on them.

Just try to enjoy being young and having a (cute?) guy who wants to put his face between your legs.

>>18239485
>i turned 360 degrees and walked away

>>18239502
>falling for the meme

We'll be doing this all next week and im praying he's the type that doesnt care

>>18239498
Well if u guys alrdy had sex and hes back for more then he must be ok with ur roastie. Just keep it well groomed and make sure ur clean, most guys would be hard pressed to eat out any pussy if it smelt bad. I'll never forget the smell of a really gross pussy its something that really sticks itself in your mind. I always thought that was an odd phenomenon

>>18239530
I just put it in (it was dark in the room). It was really short (a few minutes). He didnt see or feel it

>>18239500
I dont ever think ive been with a loose innie even if the chick was known to sleep around. Innies are just sort of the magic pussy that not every girl is blessed with. Sort of like big dicks desu

>>18239538
>fucking in the dark
Are you 15? He's probably more insecure about his dick than you are about your roastie

>>18239545
Trust me he's not. And no im not

>>18239543
Blessed? Guess a lot of guys do prefer innies. I have the beest luck (sarcasm)

>>18239331
>>Do you guys prefer long or short labia?
Short, always short. Why? Looks young and fresh, period. Sorry you didn't win the genetic lottery in the labia section, but I doubt a guy would pull out of a sexual situation because of that, unless he's an asshole or gets uncontrollably disgusted.

>>18239551
Yup, just luck of the draw(genetics)
>tfw eugenicists were right

>>18239543
That's cool, but there's no correlation between sleeping around and a vagina disintegrating. They are designed to get fucked. And how would a vagina even exactly detect that it's getting fucked by a new dick? No slut going through different guys can keep up with a happy couple in the honeymoon phase.

I can absolutely see why innies would be prettier, but it's a visual thing and just one aspect of the pussy.

>>18239565
Hey i dont think women are assholes for turning down microdicks, ppl have preferences mate u cant blame em

So should i get labiaplasty? I want to. Or do you think that'd be dumb. It doesnt cause me pain or discomfort. Only emotional pain haha :(

>>18239331
I have only had innies lol

>>18239578
Yeah, but it's odd if everything else is right, like face, body proportions, tits, hips, thighs and, most importantly, one's character, but OH NO! GOD FORBID ONE TIT IS BIGGER THAN THE OTHER! GOD FORBID YOUR CLIT AND LABIA ARE BY 0.00257" TOO LONG!

C'mon, you're a human, not a product. Unless you're a nudist, genitalia shouldn't be a reason to reject someone, unless they look deformed, preventing any sexual arousal whatsoever.

>>18239575
Vaginas do detect when they get a new dick though, some femanons wrre posting studies about this a couple days ago here in a vagina related thread. Innies are just prettier and from mine and ppl ive known are often more tight

>>18239597
No, they don't. Don't come with that "I read it somewhere" bullshit, come with sources if you want to say something as embarrassing as this. If there was any physical way to know how many different dicks a vagina had seen, the Islamic world would've already exploited the shit out of it. There just isn't.

Tightness has to do with the design of the vagina(l canal) itself and how strong the muscles are. Whether the labia (inner or outer) are bigger or not, or the clitoris is bigger for that matter, are completely unrelated. Saying differently is like saying that there's a link between how big your dick is and how your balls look.

>>18239596
>unless they look deformed
Thats what roasties look like to guys though. We talk about it very often, there are even forums dedivated to that shit. A wrecked lookin vagina with deli flaps aint natural or visually appealing. Your vag wasnt born with 2 inch lips laydee

Also i find lopsided tips and big old puffy nips cute desu but roasties are more universally accepted among men as gross

>>18239611
Okay yeah cas im tight aswell and dont have an innie so i thought that claim was weird

>>18239614
But some guys like it and my ex did, well was fine with it atleast and i hope this new guy will be okay with it

>>18239611
Naw senpai gunna have to disagree with u there

t. Femanon

My vag tightened to accomodate to my current bf after a month and me and my gfs have noticed this b4. Exercising helps too

>>18239460
I asked and he specifically said he doesn't like going down on longer pussies, "too much to deal with" as he put it. Suppose he didnt want a mouth full

>>18239618
It's broscience. Honestly if I were you I would leave this thread. There's good people here but also lots of trolls who like to rub salt in the wounds if they sense insecurities. You had a guy who loved you and went down on you and that's more than plenty of posters here can say. Don't expose yourself to their trash talking. Even if they are serious, which you can't know for sure, it doesn't matter, only a select few will get to see your pussy and only their opinion on it should mean anything to you. Don't anxiety-binge on this stuff just so the phrasing can haunt you. Especially if you're not experienced enough to know better.

>>18239625
Ya i've heard ppl on 4chan i think /gif say they preferred longer labia but ive never met someone irl who actually thought this

>>18239630
That's so mean! Did you not see that coming? Was he a nice guy or were you not suprised because he was douchy or a judgemental guy

>>18239581
Ive considered it too. Will just say if the price didnt noep me out, the risk of being nerve damaged down there and unable to feel anything ever again did.
Its not a huge risk as I recall, but it was too big for me. Plus holy shit, i saw some of them pictures of the healing process. Shits terrifying lookin. Theyre all black and blue down there and swollen to all hell for months.

>>18239626
Exercising can help if it involves muscles in the right region, sure. But the "shrinking", what the fuck? Quite sure you just (intuitively or consciously) trained your kegels by pressing more into him from the inside than you would with a bigger guy. Vaginas most be somewhat elastic but they aren't shapeshifters.

>>18239614
Your "roasties" don't have anything to do with frequency of dickening. Read some anatomy and biology books for a change, promise?

>>18239630
Ya sort of things guys talk about irl. Its a biological response imo. Roasties just dont look "healthy" i guess they definitely elicit a response of disgust. I dont know the word to use, what would femanons use the word to describe microdicks?

>>18239634
I was just curious because i know there's two types. And i wondered if boys prefered one or just didnt care. I've had lots of oppurtunities (im very pretty) but fuck i just cant get over how it looks so i turned them down or made excuses. I hope my personality and face makes up for it

>>18239646
>equating what most vulvas simply look like to a literal medical condition
Fuck off, troll.

>>18239637
I mean it was a hook up. So it was whatever.
I was much more hurt when the guy I lost my virginity to at 16, whom I was as in love with as a 16 year old could be and had been dating for almost a year casually mentioned that he wished his first pussy was an innie and low key regretted wasting that experience on my pussy.

Randos I expect to not really give a fuck about my feelings, he was a nice dude i wouldnt say anything negative about him, just had a preference and because I would be out of his bed in an hour didnt care to sugar coat it.

>>18239650
I dont think he's a troll. If that's his opinion that's his opinion. I wish guys didnt think like that cas i have that but oh well

>>18239644
When did i say it was due to dickenings? Roasties are an outlier and not typical of most ladies, i notice they occur more often in asian chicks. Im sorry but this is 4chan and brutal honesty is something u should come to expect here. Roasties are gross m8 stop reeing at me like some r9k virgin for ur shitty genetics

>>18239660
They're not typical? I thought they were normal. Im still insecure but i thought they were a little common. I dont want him to expect i have an innie because im young

>>18239650
>most vulvas are roasties
Kek (citation needed)

By microdick i meant 2/3/4 inches i.e. genetically inferior

>>18239331
FWIW, I know a girl who got upset when a guy wouldn't fuck her because he thought her innie made her look like a young child. It's one of those things that just comes down to personal preference, but that preference never really gets a chance to get expressed until both parties are emotionally invested.

Say you're white and blonde and have small breasts and large flaps. Everything else gets selected for right off the bat. If he only likes big titted Asians, he probably won't even walk up to you in the first place. If his preference is blondes with small breasts and small labia, you'll look perfect to him right up until he's got your pants off.

There's not a good solution here since describing your vagina in detail to people you've just met is a bit off putting, regardless of how it looks. You can try having sex at the very start of the relationship, when you're not emotionally invested yet and there's no harm in deciding not to continue for whatever reason, but then you're the very definition of "ROASTIES REEEEEEE!" Which is fine as long as you don't give a shit about the people REEing at you, but a lot harder if they're family or close friends.

So yeah, I guess just let things turn out however they turn out. Hiding under sheets with the lights off isn't going to help anything, though.

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>>18239660
Did I miss something or isn't this cringy term "roastie" supposed to be insulting due to apparent promiscuity? The only /r9k/fag I'm seeing is you. Here, let me show you the door >>>/r9k/

Post a pic of it op and can can tell you

>>18239647
Look, do men prefer innies? Yeah, sure. If you show them pictures most would pick an innie. Some care more than others but most would say an innie looks cleaner/prettier to the eyes. A preference for outies exists as well, typically because there's more to feel during oral and because the lips hug his dick on the way out.

The first difference is that a guy being with you isn't just seeing "an outie". By the time he's going to have sex with you (he doesn't even have to love you at that point, just be taken with you personally) he will be psyched to have sex with YOU. To see your face change when he pleasures you and hear what noises he can get you to make. That's not the same as taking a random poll where you are literally just talking about the concepts.
Furthermore, as I said, it's always a package deal. Let me break down some other stuff guys care about, besides how your lips look.

>in terms of vagina
Does she get wet easily? Does she taste and smell good? Does she keep clean and groom? Does she climax easily? Does penetration feel good to her? Is she tight? Can I comfortably fit balls deep?

>in terms of sex
Is she passionate? Does she take initiative? Does she go out of her way to please me? Is her body hot? Is she comfortable showing herself off to me? Are our kinks compatible? Do we like the same kind of sex and positions? Do we have a similar sex drive?

>in terms of love
Is she interesting? Does she take care of me? Is she a real partner, can she support me? Can I rely on her? Is she loyal? Does she work to please my friends/family/boss? Does she "date back"? Does she make me feel loved?

I could add many more examples in each category but you get the idea.
Do they have a preference? Yeah. Is it significant in the grand scheme of things? Fuck no. If there is any one thing you should worry about when it comes to your vagina it's tightness, because that actually influences the quality of sex he's getting. Not whether it's aesthetic enough.

>>18239656
Im rly not just being brutally honest
Read some of the femanon responses with experiences theyve had with their bfs or casual hookups roasties are just honestly gross sorry :(

>>18239674

>read anecdotal evidence to draw a concrete conclusion

This entire thread is just sour grapes.

>>18239671
Kek srry m8 but sperging out on me because you have inferior genetics is what makes up half that cesspool. I aint no robot and certainly dont hate women im just giving my opinion on vaginas

>>18239674
It's okay. I wish there was a way to know if he preffered one over the other. If he prefers innies im just gonna run XD like we should just be friends lol like trust me youd want that too

>>18239680
>thinks I have to be a womyn in order to be reasonable
>muh brutal honesty = illiterate degeneracy =/= truth on behalf of all men

>>18239685
I honestlt dont think hed mind after alrdy hooking up with u even without the lights on. Just relaxe and make sure ur clean

>>18239674
>outliers
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Labia_minora
Take a look at the pictures and ask yourself if they would put outliers on there if you aren't too busy trying to be a dick for the sake of being a dick.

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>>18239695

This is fine.

>>18239703
WTF IS THAT. I know that's a girls private but..

>>18239703
You are free to opt for penises if all but the pretties pussies gross you out, anon.

>>18239695
Im sorry but the majority of vaginas do not habe ~2inch+ labia no matter what delusions u have to tell urself. Stop being a bitter r9k tier virgin its embarassing

>>18239712

It's a corpse vagina on the page they said wouldn't have outliers. Which I guess is statistically reasonable, only 7.3 billion out of 112 billion people are alive today...

>>18239712
First thought was that someone put it up as a joke and it's some sort of angler fish or other sea monstrosity. Otherwise my only thought would be long decaying corpse but even then it doesn't make sense. The vagina is really close to the ass(hole), it's just anatomically not human to see. Where the fuck would her legs be? Maybe some decayed corpse with layers scraped off, no expert on that, but it sure as fuck doesn't look like any live person.

>>18239735
>wouldn't have outliers
No, my point was that if outies were some anomaly of nature like you make them out to be, there wouldn't be two pictures of them demonstrating the labia minora.

Sorry if I ruined your hopes and dreams but porn actresses having labiaplasty and girls being more likely to post pictures of their pussy if it looks good skew the impression you get. And because you seem to like anecdotal evidence, out of the seven women I've seen naked in my life, including myself, none had a complete innie, only one a partial innie.

>>18239747
No one here said they prefered outies so i guess i have my answer

>>18239747

I didn't know what the point of anything was. I just saw a corpse vagine and became fascinated.

Thanks for blowing my dreams of porn actresses and random cam-sluts being dead, though.

Jesus, this topic is fucking disgusting. Thanks for ruining my lunch, /adv/.

>>18239760
>04/19/17
You're welcome!!

>>18239747
you sound like an uglt nu male white knight whos gettin pityfucks from gross roastie whooooores my anecdotal evidence is the exact opposite of this but my experience is with mostly white wimminz

i fit as many buzzwords into this post as i could whatd u think of it m8e ;^)

>>18239754
Please read >>18239673 if you haven't already.

>>18239766
So as long as i dont smell, shaved, and make him really horny he wont care. Got it

>>18239754
its the general truth of it and genetics arent fair. Try not to worry over what u cant change and be comfortable in ur skin. at least ur not spergin out like the others so ur the cool kind of roastie at least in my book

>82 replies
>15 unique posters
my fav kind of adv thread tbqh

>>18239782
Lol right

>>18239778
Thanks!!

>>18239614
>Your vag wasnt born with 2 inch lips laydee
your dick probably isn't the same size as when you were a baby either

My pussy lips always looked weird ever since I was about 9 or 11 when I first looked at it

>>18239614
Girls weren't born with tits either, you think boobs look unnatural on women?