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I don't know what to do with my life 2017-06-03 11:39:17 Post No.18382127
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I don't know what to do with my life
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I want to go outside, go everywhere I want. But the only thing that stops me is Social Anxiety.
>No friends
>live in a ghosttown
>only old people here
>Society is a piece of shit
>Can't meet any cute girls
When I was 16, I had so many friends, I was pure confident, had a gf until I moved out of the city and now I live in a boring shithole were you only see old grumpy people.
After that I've lost my confidence and my charme, my ability to speak fluently. Now I can't even say a sentence without any stutter. I thought it's okay to stay a bit alone. I was never so wrong in my life. Its been 5 years and I'm still alone as fuck. I really try to engage to the people, I try to talk with some strangers in days were I'm in a good mood, but they're mostly not interested or they just look at you as if you were an alien. I'm not ugly, I'm hygienic, I dress pretty okay and I don't have any creep moments, I'm just a normal human. In moments like these, I just wanna go home and just shut everything down.
Now I'm always at home, mostly asking myself why I've fallen so deep. I tried to motivate myself with movies, workouts, cardio. But sometimes there are moments were I stare the wall for 5 seconds and I Immediately get sad for no reason. Sports and other shit helped me to make my sadness go away for a while, but my motivation vanishes every day and I don't know how to deal with that anymore.
I can't go outside anymore, because there is no point for me leaving my house. But I want to, I want to meet new people, but I don't know how I can do that alone. I've read so many books, watched so many videos, yet I'm still scared to interact and seeing their reactions.
Btw I don't do any drugs such as alc, cig, weed, ....
I've learned that being alone has no future. And I've learned that humans are shit and most of them have no empathy or mercifulness. The world is very cold.
I know it's not really helpful for me to post here, but it's better than nothing I guess.
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>>18382127
look up the "law of attraction"
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Life is very cruel. VERY.
This world isn't really the best place to enjoy stuff, although some things are enjoyable in it.
You can't eat as much food as you want, your stomach will eventually be full and the food will exit it through you the next morning as a pile shit.
You can't wear all the beautiful clothes, they will eventually wear out and get torn.
You can't be young and handsome forever, for that your body will slowly degrade and lose cells after a certain age.
However, the only thing that empowers a human to go through this shitty life is Survival.
Myself i am a Muslim, before i became a muslim i was quite a normal guy like you, a bit confident, used to go out often, enjoyed my nights out and whatnot..
With all that, everyday before going to bed i felt very empty and depressed. I felt like i have no real goal to devote myself to other than enjoying these minute things, i attached myself to them.
After i decided to follow a religion and give it my full devotion, i realised that this life isn't worth living without the true desire to put all your energy into one huge dream, doing whatever it takes you to achieve it.
This dream of mine consists of five words, I want to die happy.
I'll do whatever it takes to do so that the day i pass away i have a smile on my face. whether it is by being productive, innovative, creative, helpful to others, giving charity.. Fulfilling my purpose on earth as a human being and leaving nothing but positive impact behind me.
Find yourself something to indulge in and fully devote yourself into, social anxiety is shit, but not making the best of your life is shitter.
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>>18382199
i want to die happy to. but i don't need to join a religion to do that.
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How can I tell if someone's a lesbian? 2017-06-03 11:00:02 Post No.18382001
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How can I tell if someone's a lesbian?
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2017-06-03 11:00:02
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I got it wrong at least 20 times in the last week. I just want to find people like me, not even just a date, its nice to have friends you can relate to. I try to send a loud and clear message with a buzzcut and a plaid shirt, but what else can I do other than wait to be noticed?
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Online dating, gay bars, gay clubs & organizations. It's tough out there. Gays/lesbians aren't that common at all
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>>18382001
Realize that you have a mental disorder stemming from the fact that one or both of your parents either neglected or abused you, and that no lasting, meaningful relationship can come from your disordered desire. You will only ever find desolation and torment.
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>>18382014
Rofl
This nigga going all Leviticus over her, mad respect for the lord
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Should I take the position? 2017-06-03 10:54:14 Post No.18381977
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Should I take the position?
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2017-06-03 10:54:14
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I work for state government agency. I make 32K. I applied for a position that offers 37K. However, I will lose my supervisor status and have to pay for health insurance again. After doing the math, I end up losing 2k. Also, I lose some other perks like telecommuting and chill bosses. The only reason I want the position is money because frankly government sucks for money but its my comfort zone, free school for life and other benefits.
My boss' boss pulled me aside and wouldn't outright tell me but it was heavily implied they are going to offer it to me. He advised that I don't take it and hold out for the position above me. The pay is the same but I keep my supervisor status. Furthermore, there is more room for growth. The position I applied for has no growth unless the directors die or retire and they're all in their 50s so we're looking at a decade, whereas in my position every year my boss' position opens up. Furthermore, I am more qualified for boss' boss position.
The other issue is that I need money lol 32K don't go far
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>>18381977
Take the insurance and quit spending your money on hookers you should be ok
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>>18381977
if 32k isn't taking you far perhaps you should analyze spending
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>>18381988
I'll bite. Rent is 1350, so trying to find apartment that is 1k. Spend $100 on gas. Electricity is $50-100 normally $75. Phone is $40. Internet is $60. My main source of income depletion is my kid on the weekends and food and I guess child support when I finalize the divorce.
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Girl Laughed at my 7 inch penis 2017-06-03 10:41:05 Post No.18381931
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2017-06-03 10:41:05
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Took a girl back to my place who I really liked and she laughed at my dick size. We had sex, but it was awkward. My girth is O.K... too, at 5.3 inches. Was she just trying to hurt my feelings or?
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>>18381931
she was probably a virgin and watches too much porn or it was more of a surprised laugh
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>>18381931
sounds like a dumb bitch and that you dodged a bullet.
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Sounds like a conceited little bitch, move on
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Okay guys, really need your help here. My friend has this girlfriend and her mom is insane. I'm good friends with the some of the girls friends too, and they told me that my friends gf's, the crazy one, is undocumented. She's illegal. What should I do? Do I report it? Please help guys:(
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>>18381890
Yes you do you can't put life insurance on a illegal
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>>18381890
Mexicans are invading the US and reproducing much faster than whites. They have destroyed entire regions and forced all the white people used to live there out.
Deport them.
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>>18381890
It's really none of your business, dude, just do nothing. What's so "insane" about her anyway? If she's hurting people, then maybe you should think about it. But if this is just your friend's relationship drama, then you should stay out of it and focus on your own life
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Should I break contact? 2017-06-03 10:15:31 Post No.18381872
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I met a girl at the university, we became friends, I was frequently invited for coffee and chat at her flat with her roommates (all female). After half a year I realized I had feelings for her, so I confessed.
She rejected me, so I said I can't be friends with her anymore. Now her bff is messaging me on facebook, telling me that it is not "her vision of being an adult" to cut ties with people just because something like that happened.
And honestly, I'm puzzled, because she said before that I shouldn't lie to my feelings and confess, and now she tells me to lie to myself again. What do you think?
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Tell her that in your vision of being an adult its not worth (girls will probably prefer you to say "easy" or "possible") you investing time in an unequal relationship where you have feelings that aren't reciprocated.
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>>18381872
You be cool about it dude and you secretly get rich and throw a big boat party to show them you don't give a fuck
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I think that you shouldn't care about her "vision of being an adult".
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I was asked out to a coffee date and I told him I wanna get few drinks instead. Am I do it wrong? I just don't like it when sitting in a coffee for a first date. Bar with music is much more relaxing.
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nah. if he seems weird just clarify. if he still doesn't get it then it probably wasn't much of a match.
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>>18381764
i dont even like coffee so i usually change the date too if thats what they suggest. as long as you make a suggestion it shows you're interested. just saying 'sorry i dont like coffee' and leaving it at that isn't great cuz it leaves them in a weird place.
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>>18381770
I meant do I sound like I'm too open? Usually guys offer drinks and I never met one for a coffee except when I was pretty young. I don't know if he has a wrong idea that I'm up for hook up
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Why are girls so complicated ? 2017-06-03 08:24:33 Post No.18381651
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Why are girls so complicated ?
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2017-06-03 08:24:33
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I know the "girls being complicated" is such a cliche, but so far from experience it showed to be true. The thing that I hate the most are the so called "Games" they play (men do this too, but for some reasons women do it more)
Without further ado, story time
So I met this girl a while back, we started chatting it all went great. After I was confident enough she was into me I called her on a date
>YES!!! she said
>Don't try not sleeping after our date anon ! she said
So we go out on a date, it all goes great we talk for hours and we go on our separate ways. By the date she seems to be really into me, the fact that we talked for some 4hours and never lost subjects to talk about. We don't do anything on the first date so I decide to call her on another date. That night she texts me first
>oh anon, you have to take me camping with you sometimes :) :) :) :)
>this is it.jpg
>I call her on a second date
>Uhh, sorry but this whole month is full for me, I have to go to Austria and I have collage finals :/
She rejects me, so I go on my way. I recon she didn't really like me as much as I thought she did. But still, the fact that she messaged me keeps me a bit bitter
>I text her again just to see her response
>she is definitely not interested
>short responses
>the conversation stops when I stop texting her
Message taken, obviously it's not going to happen
>a week or so passes
>she texts me late at night
>something completely random
>we chat again
>it seems like before
>she continues texting me every few days or so with random topics
>pick my balls up
> say "well I have nothing to lose"
>ask her out again
>Uhh sorry ________ (insert bullshit excuse)
>wtf.jpg
And to this day, she still keeps texting me every 4-5 days with random bullshit even after rejecting me 2 times. I don't want to play this game so I am playing the un interested here and our conversations are usually short, she sends a joke a respond and so on.
What is her end goal, she is obviously playing me ...
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>>18381651
You're wasting your time
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>women do it more
mostly because they are the ones being pursued. dont get me wrong there are extreme gender differences but your ideas about them are skewed because you pursue women.
ive been on boht sides, pursuing men and women and i find that its really the same deal, the same 'games'.
in this case its not even a game though.
she literally told you shes not interested, you got the point, and just because she texts you you think 'wow she must be in love with me now' and then you get mad that shes rejecting you again.
she already rejected you a few times and you say 'WOW I GUESS ILL DO IT AGAIN' then when history repeats its self you say 'WHAT GAME IS SHE PLAYING?'
its not a game. shes okay being frineds, so she texts you as a friend. you are the one who keeps trying to escalate this
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I'm just sick of this bullshit, either leave me alone or date me
The thing that I ate the most is that I remember almost all of my exes doing this to a degree or so. I was once caught in a break-up rollercoaster that lasted for more than a 40 days and consisted of ex texting me during every few days
What is wrong with people
Should I get a divorce? Been having trouble for a few years now and things seem to be getting worse instead of better. My husband has been being really lazy, he won't work or help with the kids or the house. All he dose is sit in the computer all day. I've tried talking with him but nothing ever changes. I'm so sick of woking my ass off while he just sits on his. I'm 6 months pregnant and work all the time to support us and our kids and he is just so unmotivated. Like he won't even be involved with our kids or spend time with any of us. I'm just really getting feed up and don't know how much longer I can keep going like this. Feel really alone and like I don't have a partner at all.
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Really any advice at all would be very appreciate
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>>18381583
My wife's friend has this same problem. They are getting evicted from their house now . Love doesn't pay the bills
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>>18381658
I make sure our bills are payed, even if I have to work when I'm not supposed to. I was told I needed to be on bed rest but I can't just not have any money coming in. And there is a serious lack of love at this point I can tell you.
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Is there any way to make your voice deeper?
My voice is very high for a man and it makes me insecure.
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I got a higher than average voice too anon, nothing you can do, but try to love yourself desu
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w33d or vaping
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>25 years old
>Awkward, nice guy syndrome and no girlfriend
>Lost my virginity a few years ago by pure chance because a drunk girl at a large gathering felt sorry for me
>Went out with her for a month and couldn't cum during sex at all
>She broke up with me because I was selfish and a nasty person
>Find myself eye raping every cute girl in my city when I leave my flat
>Masturbating 3-4 times a day and addicted to thinking of perverted things
>Still can't handle conversation with women or even discuss sex with them
How do I get out of this? I cant stop thinking about sex and women, but I can't talk to them either if I try to.
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>couldn't cum during sex at all
>Masturbating 3-4 times a day and addicted to thinking of perverted things
Stop masturbating so much. You the death grip
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>>18381526
You pervert. Go get your hooker on Backpage
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>>18381526
>Lost my virginity a few years ago by pure chance because a drunk girl at a large gathering felt sorry for me
Had no idea that pity sex was a real thing.
Also you were at a large gathering and I'm presuming there was a significant number of women there, how are you not able to talk to women?
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I lost my virginity to someone I didn't really like. They were ugly and kind of shitty as a person. I feel like I should have waited for someone I liked before having sex. I mean the sex was fucking amazing, like really amazing but the person was kinda ugly. Am I overthinking this? I'm not sure how I should feel anymore.
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>>18381454
virginity is just a concept created by big surgery to sell hymenorrhaphy.
don't let yourself be ruled by the jews and their enslavement methods.
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You're fine. Stop thinking so much.
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>>18381454
Virginity used to be somewhat Holy, up until the 50-present. Don't worry too much.
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I FINANCIALLY SUPPORT MY MOTHER
I AM OVER 30
ALSO A VIRGIN (WIZARD LOL)
SHOULD I MOVE OUT AND LET MY MOM WHO IS DISABLED BECOME HOMELESS AND POSSIBLY DIE
OR SHOULD I LIVE HERE FOREVER AND KEEP FINANCIALLY SUPPORTING HER
PLEASE GIVE ADVICE
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>>18381205
You stupid fuck. You get life insurance first then you lose her on a road trip to Vegas somewhere.
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>>18381205
You're sweet. Put her in a home, OP.
There is housing to support disabled people.
Do some homework, find a good home for her.
<3
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>>18381217
YEAH SOUNDS LIKE SOMETHING A FAGGOT WOULD SAY
ARE YOU A FAGGOT?
>>18381218
THANKS I LIKE YOU :) :) SHE IS ALSO LIKE 50-SOMETHING AND WOULD NEVER GO TO A HOME. ALL SHE WANTED WAS TO BE A MOM AND A WIFE BUT HER LIFE FUCKED HER OVER SO NOW SHE ONLY HAS THIS HOUSE LEFT. SHE DOES NOT WANT TO LOSE THIS HOUSE AS IT WOULD ESSENTIALLY CRUSH HER SPIRIT, THIS IS WHY I AM STUCK
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there comes a time where I grow really fucking sick of people and the goddamn trends of these times. To the point that it drives me bitter, but it cant be helped I cant stop the world from being soo fucking ignorant and cancerous
and seriously fuck fidget spinners.
its getting to me to the point that I cant stand being around people anymore, I know I am not alone when it comes to these things how do you handle these kinds of things without losing your mind?
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Nah, over time I just come to accept that people will just be people and nothing really I can done to control it.
I just learn to ignore what is not to my interest and to learn what interest me.
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you might come off as edgy but you have a point
my advice is try moving around, to difference cities, different countries. not every person on earth is a monumental fucking idiot. if you live in bumfuck, california or something of course your view on people is going to be skewed because you're surrounded by retards.
even if there are lots of retards in big cities, there are more chances that you'll meet non-retarded people. also try travelling. I was in the south of germany for a long time and it reminded me just how genuine and intelligent people could be. I don't mean polite in the "fake american smile at everything" way or intelligent in the "i have six degrees in lgbtqrajdsg-ology because my parents are rich as shit", I mean actually nice people
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I give it an honest effort to ignore it, Its hard to keep my opinions and views to myself. This is seriously going to destroy my social circles, not that i need them; i just dont want to be a dick to people that i like.
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ITT: Ask The Opposite Gendr Anything 2017-06-03 05:32:38 Post No.18381065
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ITT: Ask The Opposite Gendr Anything
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Bradon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, fart guy and the guy who stuffs his pants
Fuck off
>Why is there no new thread?
Create one yourself. You can use these macros: https://imgur.com/a/y6BF2
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Women, do you ever go to the party wanting to fuck somebody, determined to score with the first acceptably attractive guy who looks your way?
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If you're a thicc girl how do I get close enough to use you for a while?
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Afraid my answer is fairly useless but seeing how no one has replied so far - I really like the idea in my head when I'm feeling thirsty as fuck, but I'm pretty sure I'd never do it. Simply because it's difficult for a woman to be very assertive and empowering about your sexuality because everything is culturally stacked against you. So being bold about your needs can sort of feel like making jokes in a setting where you can only have fun as long as you are 100% sure that those people are laughing because of you and not at you. As soon as I feel like wanting sex makes me less in the guy's eyes my arousal is gone - and that happens a whole fucking lot. I want to have sex with someone who sees it as a mutual thing, as having fun with each other. That's hard to cling to when you can tell that to him, you're letting yourself be used.
Also for the record I have friends who have had one night stands with complete strangers and knew beforehand that they'd like to get laid. But how he approached them (whether or not he made the initial move) was still ultimately what made them go for it.