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I'm 26. Should I date a 20 year old boy?
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Does the 20 year old boy want too date you back ?
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>>18378908
Yes he confessed his feelings for me
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>>18378905
No. Younger boys are stupid as fuck. It's not worth it.
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Is there a way I can gradually condition myself to prefer overweight girls? Like by watching niche porn or other psychological techniques. I currently prefer petite or fit girls. My girlfriend is on the fat side (not obese but chubby), and my sexual attraction to her is low, but I love the shit out of her and don't want to leave her.
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Its easier if she just fucking ate less
She'll live longer
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If your girlfriend is merely chubby and not obese, then why'd you post a picture of a morbidly obese woman? It just seems like a weird thing to do to me
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>>18378551
i figured it would be attention grabbing and get people to read my post because its such a bizarre photo.
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You know how it's ultimately up to you in the end to get out of the slump?
I know.
I just think something broke in my head.
Life hurts.
How do you get out of the slump where getting out of it doesn't make any sense?
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You work out? If not, start pumping the iron lad.
That's general adv, what kinda slump are you in?
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>>18378452
It's as if talking about it hurts.
I feel so weak.
Words are so absurd.
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I'm trying to figure that out too, OP. I'm nearly out of school with a useless degree and a shitton of debt. I got here because of passion, but now that I'm here, and the structure of school is fading away, it's getting harder and harder to hold onto.
My boyfriend asked me if I toook $300 from him.
I told him I didn't (I didn't) and it really hurt that he even asked me. He said the only ppl that have been on his house are me his mom and sister, he asked them and they said no and he doesn't think they would, so basically it comes down to me.
Im really hurt. He also said that his mom has taken money before without asking and then told him and he doesn't think she would take it without telling him. She hasn't had a job for more than six months and I have no idea how she's even surviving. I've borrowed money from him several times but I've always and would always ask! If he said no then I would :"deal. It obviously wasn't some stranger in his house Bc they would have taken all of it not that little.
I kinda think it was his mom and I always got weird vibes around her and I'm worrried she's trying to blame it on me or something.
He said he doesn't think I took ans that he was just asking but I'm rally hurt and feels like he probably thinks it might still be me Bc he doesn't wanna admit his own family stole from him.
Help! Waht should I do? I feel so shitty
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>>18378377
Also he said it happened recently so he's been triple checking his money to make sure
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bitch why'd you take the money
give it back
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You need a smarter boyfriend. I have known thieves in the family yet I leave money in the house where it's easy to find and steal and then bitch when it's missing? Something's wrong with this story or he's a total moron.
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Girlfriend got "raped", need advice. 2017-06-02 10:57:19 Post No.18378320
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Hey /adv/,
I need your advice since I'm fucking furious right now.
So my gf went to a rave tonight in a city that's probably a three hour drive away from where we live. Two hours into the rave she calls me and says "something has happened". During the next 30 minutes of the call I have to drag out all the information out of her, and apparently some guys had surrounded her on the dancefloor, and one of them had proceeded to put two fingers inside her pussy, after which she ran away. She told me this while crying and obviously being very chocked. She spent the rest of the evening calling and texting me, saying that she feels dirty and also kinda implying that it was her own fault even though it wasn't.
Now, I really love this girl but there's so much bugging me about this.
>I told her to not wear shorts but she did anyway.
>Some guy put his fucking fingers in my gf (and don't judge me, but the physical part of it, meaning his actual fingers being inside MY gf REALLY bugs me).
>She's going to be emotional as fuck and I don't know how to handle it
>She probably won't have sex with me for god knows how long...
So please give me some advice guys, how do I deal with this when talking to her? How can I help her?
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Oh boi
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For starters its best to put it all into perspective. Thank god it was only two fingers and nothing more, some girls and guys are brutally gang raped, this was fortunately no where near as severe.
You may find peace of mind in finding out information on the guys and filing a police report.
Best you can do is talk it out, consider therapy, or probably best of all, buy some knuckle dusters and teach those guys a lesson.
But that will hurt your police case ngl
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>So please give me some advice guys, how do I deal with this when talking to her? How can I help her?
First of all, this sucks and I'm really sorry for you two. Wished assholes like those didn't exist. But that's already happened, now prepare for what's next:
1) You are mad, but don't blame her. Be very very careful with that. Even if you think she is to blame, this is not really the time for that.
2) Listen a lot, speak little. Let her pour her heart out and let her make sense of the night for herself. Offer support, but don't try to "solve" or "explain" anything to her.
3) Don't push for a police report unless she wants to. Show support, don't demand it. This is basically point 2), but I wanted to be specific about it.
4) You can put this behind yourselves. Be strong. Good luck, really. No one deserves this crap.
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My GF has never had an orgasm.
Of course we've had sex (I took her virginity) but from what I can tell, she's never had an orgasm in her life before. Whenever I ask her if she "does it" alone, she always changes the subject or refuses to answer.
In bed, I've used my fingers (She won't let me do oral on her) to try and get her close to having one, and I think she's come close a few times, but every time she eventually pushes me away and suggests we just have sex.
It's frustrating for me because it's pretty one sided and I want to feel like i'm giving her pleasure. But I can never really tell and she doesn't communicate how she is feeling very well.
I feel like if we keep doing this and she never comes, she is going to eventually resent the idea of sex and feel as if it's an obligation just to please me.
Any advice? should I keep trying and hoping eventually she'll let me? or should I just hold her down and try to do it?
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>>18378222
bro, my girlfriend did this to. they get scared to orgasm. I just held my girlfriend down when i was eating her. She unwillingly came but after, she loved it. she's just scared of orgasms, some girls are.
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Ask her why she doesn't want to try oral, and explain that you really would like to explore each other's bodies together and her body isn't "gross". Get a little bullet vibrator, put on some nice music, maybe lead into it with bottle of wine or something.
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>>18378248
music while fucking is a sign its going bad.
who screws listening to music?
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Is it cheating for your girlfriend to post pics like this on social media? I'm uncomfortable she is so close to this female friend. Her friend is lesbian. My grandma saw the picture and went ape shit and texted me at work. Im worried plus her friends dog has history of biting people.
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>>18378159
What the fuck? No.
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>>18378159
Lay off the retard juice OP. It's no good for you.
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>>18378159
Uhhhh, it's nowhere near cheating. You're fucking weird if you think it is. Tell your grandma to get off social media.
As I guy should I shave my legs?
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>>18378105
No. Unless it's for your job, never shame your legs.
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>>18378105
if you want to. why should we decide that?
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I know guys who do it for aesthetics alone. no other reason unless you look like a satyr
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Want a younger, hotter wife. What do? 2017-06-02 08:33:36 Post No.18377934
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Want a younger, hotter wife. What do?
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Desperate for advice. I'm a married 31 year old, and reaching the point in life where I feel I need to make use of my last years as a "young man".
My dilemma is mostly of a sexual nature. When I met my wife 8 years ago, I was a socially awkward and slightly overweight 5'5" nerd (although not a virgin) and she was one of the few people that showed interest at me. At the time I met her, I'd say she was a 7/10 at best, but now with age she is down to a 6/10. She is also a few months older than me.
My problem is 8 years have past, and I'm now in a much better state than I was when I met her. I have a great job (>$160k in the midwest), good confidence, good personal skills, in much much better physical shape. I think the only downside is I'm in the preliminary phases of balding. Despite I'm still a nerd and 5'6" I walk around the streets and see 9/10 and 10/10 cuties and I can't help but wonder if they are in reach if only I were single. This is literally on my mind daily as I walk by girls.
The problem is..I have no good reason to split with my wife. She is loyal. In addition to working (although she doesn't make even close to as much as me), she takes care of just about every chore. She doesn't mind that I spend hours doing nothing but programming or playing video games. She doesn't mind that I don't have many close friends, she makes arrangements for most of our social gatherings. And despite her very low sexual drive...she gives me what I want when and where I want it. But nonetheless, I am bored and feel like I need something new, otherwise I'll regret it. Fortunately she had a small inheritance when we hitched, so if we do split I'll get to keep pretty much everything I've earned and she'll keep hers. I've literally been contemplating asking her for a divorce, then moving to a young city (DC, Portland) and starting anew.
Is this crazy? What do I do..
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Well, since deep down you've already given up on your marriage, I'd say get a divorce regardless so she can maybe find someone who isn't thinking about fucking other people behind her back.
Being a balding 31 year old, though, you're probably going to have a hard time finding any meaningful relationship with a younger more attractive woman who has her whole life ahead of her, so I guess prepare to be a sugar daddy.
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Is that pic your wife? She's beautiful and you're a horrible husband, leave her so she can find better.
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>>18377934
Grass is greener syndrome.
Everyone gets wrinkly and ugly as they age, that's life. That's why you marry someone who you love for their quirks and personality, not some hot semon demon with no redeeming qualities other than a moist hole to fuck.
That being said, you seem like a dick and I recommend you divorce your (imo) beautiful wife and let her find someone who truly appreciates her.
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TL;DR - Can a relationship with a 9 years age gap ever work out? I'm 24, he's 33.
I recently met a 33 year old man and I am completely crazy about him. He's very smart, witty and shares so many of my interests. We talked briefly, but he seems like a genuinely good man and a kind person, and even my parents had a great first impression and encouraged me to get closer to him.
He asked me out on a date and I don't know if I should go, because the age gap is pretty big.
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>>18377872
define 'work out'?
traditionally this would not be even a big deal, but there were less options back then.
either way, yeah plenty of people with a 9 year gap make it til one dies, but you don't need ot enter a relationship with the intent to make it to death together.
you will have LOTS of relationships in life. only ONE can be the one that makes it to 'the end'. so why not just enjoy everyone who comes your way and discover for your self what works for your personal needs?
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When I met my boyfriend I thought he was in his late 20's, but he's nearly 40 and I'm around mid 20's. I genuinely believe we have a long and happy future in front of us. The age gap hardly ever comes up.
So yes, I think it's possible, but I think you really have to vibe well for it to work. We are passionate about pretty much all of the same things, want to write books and direct movies together, and learn from each other all time. We're growing together and it isn't just some weird age gap fetish or that he can't date women his own age. Been together two years.
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>>18377872
>tfw no gf
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, fart guy and the guy who stuffs his pants
Fuck off
>Why is there no new thread?
Create one yourself. You can use these macros: https://imgur.com/a/y6BF2
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Why are men today such submissive betas?
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Why are girls today such grotesque feminazis?
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Why do people today make such bad generalizations?
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Long story short.
I broke up with my ex 2 weeks ago after I caught her cheating
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I blocked her everywhere. and have not replied to any message she sent me ever since.
I got an email from her a few minutes ago. She says she's sick and her life is in ruins, and she just wants it all to end as everyone's lives would be better if she died.
What should I do, /adv/? I don't know if she could actually hurt herself as she's never hinted it before. I'm scared it might be serious and feel the urge to call her
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Call her parents and tell them to deal with it.
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She's not gonna kill herself. Classic narcissist tactic. She cheats on you, and then uses your conscience to twist your arm into taking her back. All she wants is to feel in control of the situation.
I cheated on my gf, it was a drunken peck on the lips at a party. I felt so bad I told her first thing in the morning. I accepted that I made a mistake and that I violated her trust. I told her because I respected her, knowing full well that she might choose to leave me. If she did I never would have threatened to kill myself. That's just so fucked and selfish. Putting her through the trauma of being cheated on, and then making her think my blood will be on her hands if she doesn't take me back. Seriously think about the kind of person it takes to have a prolonged and remorseless affair, and then when they get caught, find a way to become the victim and try to guilt you into taking them back. That is entering into psychopath territory. Stay away.
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>>18377629
You sound like a girl ffs
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Hey /adv/. So I'll explain more in depth, but I'm gonna start with the punchline here so you know the score. I've been trying to get back with an ex who dumped me in december (we've fucked a few times since then, but we aren't sexually active currently and I want her to be my girl ideally, more than fwb would be the goal). She dumped me because she lost attraction and maybe a little bit because of trust issues. But we are best friends but she knows I'm still in love with her, does cause problems occasionally but she can't expect me to be over it.
What makes me think I might have a chance to at least start fucking her again is that she has been flirting with and ultimately rejecting scumbags, but she is attracted to them no doubt. Last night she had a dream in which she fucked me and an actor from a tv show separately. Out of everyone, it wasn't the previous ex she still isn't over, the douchebags she is attracted to, or anyone, but me and a celebrity. Tells me she does in a way miss fucking me. How do I bridge the gap between her having this dream and her getting back on the dick?
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To go a little more in detail, we started off a few months after she broke up with her ex. She was pretty much raped by my "best friend" and then we broke up once and she fucked her ex the day after, then got back with me in a few days. Really hurt me and made it hard for me to be strong and confident in the relationship, I didn't react to shit well during this and after we broke up, I think she lost respect and came to see me as less of a man. And my dick is too big for her, frequently causes pain when we fuck. So there are a few factors at play.
She's an emotional mess and younger/less mature than me but I love her and I want her back. At the very least I want to get back in her guts, she's the best piece of ass I've ever had. I was really scared she was gonna fuck or date some of the scumbags that have been flocking to her but even though she said she wanted to or might, she never did. She hasn't fucked anyone since I last laid her in march. She's horny as hell. But she isn't emotionally ready for sex after all this shit happened, she cries during or after sex since being used and lied to by people. If I flirt with her she sometimes rolls with it but usually blocks my advances or gets mad. But she appreciates the attention and ik she secretly takes comfort in my intense sexual attraction to her and my intense feelings for her. She calls me a rebound but I think she's just honestly tying all the negative shit that happened through our relationship to me and can't own up to her mistakes. And much of our relationship is a blur to her because she was addicted to xanax, just recently got totally clean.
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>>18377315
Please someone throw their $0.02 in here, I am really broken up over this girl and I feel like I have a chance to reel her back in, make her feel taken care of, satisfied sexually and loved. I want to spark the feelings she initially had (says she was feeling that way because of loneliness and her situation or that she was lying to herself, but she's admitted she had a crush on me prior to me making advances), but I've tried for so long in such unsubtle ways I don't want to fuck it up. Up to this point I thought of it as a long term waiting game.
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So you love her and you want to do everything you can for her?
Be there for her and comfort her. Don't confuse this with flirting.
Don't be surprised when she starts fucking other guys even when you helped her tho.
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I'm a devote Christian. Should i date thia girl that's a wiccan?
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Obviously you shouldn't.
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>>18377256
Of course not, they're insane larpers
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More details, OP. Why do you think it'd be a bad idea? Why do you think it'd e a good idea? Expand a little. Tell us where you're at.
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I'm gonna cut contacts with my best friend. I can't be with her, I love her and the more time we spend together the more I love her. She's lesbian and can not ever reciprocate feelings I have towards her. She knows about what I feel. We've talked about it and I told her that I will handle it and stay friends with her, that was three weeks ago, I'm in love for more than a year with her. She told me that if I'd came to conclusion that I can no longer see her, it'd be wrecking to her. I am her best friend as well.
She is my only friend though. I don't have anyone but her. When I have her in my life, I feel like I matter to someone. After she'll be gone, there will be nothing. A big gap in my heart, I don't have family, relatives, only friends I have are those who I see at the bar routinely. Just those superficial people we all have in our lives who just came on the scene sometimes.
Never had a gf like her in my life, never even had a friend that I'd be as close as with her in my life. Good friends are hard to come by, but I feel that when she'll find someone, it will be absolutely destructive to me. I'm a mess just like that and I think that seeing her with someone else would just fuck me up for good...why the fuck does the life have to be such a cunt? He showed me literally everything I ever was looking for in a girl and then said - fuck you.
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What's the question even
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>>18377074
good.
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>>18377333
Fuck you fullhouse man.