21 here. Most girls I interact with already has a boyfriend.
Why is it so hard
When a girl is single, she behaves a certain way, like hits on you a little bit or small things like that which basically let you know that she is "open to your suggestions" and stuff.
>>18588321
Find girl who no have the boyfriend
they probably wont talk to you like you friend
>>18588328
so I don't initiate first and let the girls do it so I know if they are interested?
Something like this: https://www.quora.com/Why-are-almost-all-of-us-single-when-every-girl-has-a-boyfriend
>>18588329
I wish it was that simple finding haha. But I have to keep trying huh
It's not hard, stop believing in dumb memes. Set up tinder.
>>18588424
Isn't tinder just for hookups
>>18588442
That's what /r9k/ wants you to think. Quit making excuses and do it. There is literally no downside to trying.
>>18588442
No, use it to get dates. Use dates to find gf. I met mine eight months ago, and she loves the shit out of me.
Furthermore, the correct answer to your OP: It's hard so that you can grow and get good at whatever you're trying to achieve.
t. Anon oldfag enough to consider girls your age too young to date
>>18588446
>>18588452
Not OP but, I'm going to study in a different country soon and I'm wondering if it's worth trying Tinder there?
>>18588424
OP here. I have tinder.
>>18588452
How do you find potential dates:
1. When out of uni
2. No friends but just acquaintances