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How to weed out shitty women when dating? How to identify good women in this modern age?
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Does she look like she has slept with more than 2-3 persons in her 20s?
Dont go for them.
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In order to respond, I wish to know what is it you are calling "good women".
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>>18585778
This.
What are you looking for in a partner OP?
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I have a few blemishes on my nose. What do I use to conceal them? Pls help it's my first time.
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>>18585742
>conceal
... concealer? i think that's a thing.
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>>18585754
Yes I guess what I mean is how do I know which one to buy.
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>>18585782
I'd say to go to a makeup store and talk to the workers there. I'm not an expert in it but there's probably powder, liquid, and cream concealer. Each one has their pros and cons. You'll also need to figure out if you've got dry, oily, or combination skin, though I guess you'd only need to figure out what kind of skin your nose is working with. Then it's just a matter of matching your skin tone
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So what's a normal amount of 'covering your fucking shit' in todays day and age? Do I need to start screenshotting literally every fucking text and record every convo with everyone in case they try to pull something? What do normal people do? Also, if it matters I've just been diagnosed with a couple mental disorders where overthinking stuff is a typical symptom.
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Overthinking it, all you'd really need to do is save conversations so in the future if something does come up you have all the proof you need.
>I've been diagnosed with a couple of mental disorders where overthinking stuff is a typical symptom
Hence why you're being paranoid; can you tell me if something happened that sparked this post? Or are you just wanting answers for future reference?
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>>18585741
>can you tell me if something happened that sparked this post? Or are you just wanting answers for future reference?
Sort of both. Tldr I had a lot of issues in my past where petty things got turned into he said she saids and my side was always shut down because of no proof. But recently something happened where I had a convo with someone at work and passed the info on to my boss because I figured it was something he'd want to know. Turns out nothing happened and I ended up looking really stupid and even though it was nothing, it would be nice to have had something to back it up if the issue was pressed. That and I'm obviously getting therapy thus the diagnoses so maybe I should be recording these sessions?
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Most women are not complete retards. If you make a false rape claim, you destroy a guys life, his mother and father's lives, you spit on all the actual rape victims throughout history and you go to jail yourself (if caught) and will never be hired in your life.
It's an atomic bomb. You only use it if a guy actually rapes you. And I mean actual rape.
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boyfriend's family are thieves 2017-08-03 03:12:21 Post No.18585632
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boyfriend's family are thieves
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>went to his place today
> $300 in bag
> We go to his room to cuddle for like an hour
> left my bag in his living room where his mom and brother were watching tv
> look inside my bag as I'm walking home and all my money is gone
Did his mom literally steal my money? The bitch doesn't like me, but seriously? I kind of want to distance myself from my boyfriend now because I just don't know what to think about him and his shady family
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Hmm...
That's crazy... Very delicate to bring up too.
Isn't there any younger person in his house, like the brother? Maybe he did it out of childish behaviour, who knows...
But you really feel like it's a deal breaker, I would tell him and break up.
If not, telling him now might not be good. Maybe do it again with some proof and then tell him what happened by the second time it does, with proof.
Now, having a broader vision on the facts, I'd advise you to remake your steps that day. Who knows, maybe you left it somewhere? Maybe you were stolen before entering his house?...
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>>18585632
Tell your bf about this. Let him talk to his mom himself. He kind of owes it to you at this point. Don't leave it like this, get the money back, OP.
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>>18585632
No matter how you approach this you need to get away from this guy. Either his mother or his brother took your money. If you want to tread light say I had 300 when I came to your house and when I left the money was gone. Can you look around your house and see if its there somewhere? You ask for his help in finding it but do not stop if he comes back and says he cannot find it anywhere.
I just realised i haven't fapped for 2 weeks. In fact, i didn't even have a boner. I'm 28 years old, 84 kg at 1.79 cm tall , 10 % bodyfat and with a resting heart rate of 45 so i don't think circulation/blood pressure is the problem here.
I have absolutely 0 sexual thoughts. I 'm absolutely obsessed about a girl i was having sex with and was imo the most perfect woman i've met, but she didn't want a relationship because 'she wanted to live her life after her last relationship'. I'm just constantly angry and depressed about this, because we work together and she lives next door from me and i know one day she will bring a guy in and fuck her and i won't be able to do anything other than listening to her scream and moan like she did with me. I also can't get over that her ex was 21 years old (she is 30) and she was crying when they broke up and i have blocked her from every social media and communication possible and she won't even try to talk to me besides say hi. She lied to me about going out with another guy (her words, can confirm from friends) because she wanted to push me away. She said she loved being around me but she didn't want to have a relationship or sex with me anymore. Maybe that has to do with the loss of boners?
I have 0 interest in women anymore. Or men, i tried that too. I have no sexual thoughts at all. I force my self to fap and i still can't get it up. I workout like 4 hours a day to not stay in the house where she lives next door and to get endorphine rushes .
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>>18585575
You are just going through a process of grieving. It's all natural, you'll get over it baka desu
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>>18585575
How long since you stopped seeing this girl? It might just be too fresh.
Or you just don't feel like banging anybody. Nothing wrong with that. If you don't want sex, and don't need it, then it doesn't matter, right?
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>>18585575
You're depressed and while you should keep working out, it's not going to make the world stop turning and things feel any less awful.
I'm sorry that this happened, anon. It's going to hurt for a while so find support where you can.
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I have a crush on a girl from my Uni. She's older than me by 5 years because she was dropped out once and started all over again. We meet at some classes, but it's rarely something other than "hi" and "how are you doing". But when we actually talk, I love the way she discusses music and tells about books or just how she behaves. I also find her very pretty and I love how her face is shaped. She's also very stylish and looks elegant.
I really like her. How do I approach her?
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>>18585491
>How do I approach her
you already approached her tho, you mean how to ask her out? just ask her out
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Well... why don't you tell her what you told us here?
Not the full thing, that is, but "Hey, I really like how you know about music and says your point of view about it." wouldn't hurt, it would show you are interested in her, as well as give her a mood lift up for being complimented.
Tell her about music you like and see what she thinks of it... Be autenthically interested in her output, and try to just let the conversation flow, while showing this you just said.
Try to have fun with her, this is the most important. Don't even think about kissing or anything, just have fun. And once you do, you can always say something like "I'd love to continue this discussion some other day. How about we hit that coffee shop tomorrow after uni?" or something.
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>>18585498
B-but its not that simple
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How to overcome being obssessive 2017-08-03 02:33:09 Post No.18585490
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How to overcome being obssessive
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So ive been talking to this girl for the last 4 months and i keep checking on all these little things everytime. Like say, how long she takes to reply to my texts, if she has left me on seen, or say how long ago she was on facebook and why hasnt she striked a conversation today. Hell i even check when she is playing video game (online ) and who which other (M) friend with.We are pretty close. We talk nearly everyday, sometimes little bit sometimes alot and sort of take turns initiating but i feel like im being too obssessive. None of the things i do affect her but i feel like its wrong.
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Op here sorry for broken english, its like 12.30am and im too busy refreshing my facebook feed for a reply. Jesus...
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>>18585490
you are basically right, you are too obsessive
it's probably some genetic defection, some are born like that some arent
feels good to be free from this shit
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>>18585505
Anon please help me i really don't want to be like this. I don't think its healthy but i dont know how to stop :(
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Let me tell you why I'm pissed. Meet 9/10 partially deaf, 4' 10" Asian girl on tinder and chat her up. We are crazy about each other. Almost two days after I met her, she has a boyfriend. She claims she likes me better because we have this amazing connection, but she doesn't want to break up with him. He is a fucking 5'5" spic and I'm a 6' white male. I love that girl, but I want to rend her a little. How do I manipulate her. How do I break her down while at the same time making her fall in love with me. I want to put her on puppet strings and make her dance. And maybe get a couple fucks out of it but I won't be greedy.
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She's manipulating me so she can have two guys around, but I want to turn it on her,
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>>18585487
Fuck off with the racism nonsense. Cannot help you when you come off as a /pol/tard.
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>>18585511
FINE. He's Mexican. I'm sorry I'm just pissed, I also expected someone better than me for her to be with, but this guy is a joke
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False Rape Accusations 2017-08-03 02:32:00 Post No.18585483
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Hey anons,
Here's the rundown on me: 19, social hermit, aspergers, depression, dissociative
I've been going to this uni for 2 years, and I know less than 10 people. One of them is this chick I got partnered with in chem lab, 27, divorced, has kid, military, etc. No romantic interest, but we talk occasionally. She brought up it was her birthday soon and I asked her if she wanted to celebrate by hitting up a movie theatre. She said sure but later she started asking some disturbing questions. She first asked if I was a psycopath, then if I was planning on raping her. I asked why she would think I would do that and she told me some chick I've never even seen before claims that I raped her. No police report, no campus investigation, I've never heard a peep about it, but somehow credible enough that a fucking adult twice my age has to ask me if I plan on raping them.
How do I fight this?
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You don't... Don't get involved.
If you didn't rape her, you have nothing to worry about. Like you said, there was no report, no investigation whatsoever... If the girl you plan on going out thinks you wanna rape her based on a third person's word that has no evidence to back it up... I guess it's their problem, not yours.
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>>18585483
Don't date a 40 year old woman when you are still in college.
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>19
>27
>twice my age
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Has anyone here ever gone to an out of state community college? My state has the worst in the country and they're far away, and I have to move out anyway so I might as well just move to a better state. I'd go for free from financial aid anyway. I just want to transfer to a good university.
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why are you posting alt-right youtubers, what's up with that shit?
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>>18585462
go to CC wherever your uni is at, that way youll get residency for tuition later
also, consider living costs since they'll probably be higher
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>>18585496
I don't know where to even go in the first place.
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What do they mean by this 2017-08-03 02:15:51 Post No.18585448
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What do they mean by this
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I've been partying/clubbing a lot these last two couple of years. What I've noticed is that the ''good guys'' never get anything or anywhere. I'm not talking about the carpet-nice-guys, I'm talking about the assertive nice guys. I've observed my friends, other lads, and myself. It's day and night, to be honest. A change in behaviour makes so much difference.
Now why the fuck is that? Contrary to popular belief, most guys don't actually want to treat women as worthless objects, yet, when we do, you're suddenly interested. It boggles my mind.
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>>18585448
What do you mean "assertive nice guys"? Because you can pull all the PUA moves by book but if you dress like a fedora, it's least impressive.
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>>18585448
Because there dad or mom growing up treated them like shit. It creates a cognitive dissonance. Where being mean to a person equals love.
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>>18585448
>partying/clubbing
There's your problem
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Long distance relationship 2017-08-03 01:54:50 Post No.18585402
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Long distance relationship
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2017-08-03 01:54:50
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Here's the situation:
>met her recently, started out great but got separated relatively quickly for two months
>at first we kept in touch constantly, messaging, phone calls, etc
>planned to go to a vacation together, be together the whole time, the whole pacakage basically
>it dwindled to a few messages a day now
>a month still to go...
Is this normal? How often couples talk to each other in ldr? She said she will be busy helping her mom and whatnot but I'm thinking that our relationship is slowly fizzling out...
Don't feel like forcing conversation and sending tons of messages because it seems overly needy.
Am I just overthinking this?
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Have you booked your vacation anon? How long have you been apart for because from personal experience the 5 month mark is where it gets really hard. Calling/talking over the phone is good too, it's much more personal than just messaging each other and you can ease into topics better
I feel you just have to hold on until that holiday and then it will spike back up
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>>18585402
It's good OP that you think about how she is going to receive communication more than you worry about yourself appearing in X manner.
It's pretty fair to assume she could just be very busy or go through some difficult time. You could actually even just flat out ask "You don't write so much these days, are you busy?", but of course, I don't know what kind of person she is like, for example, is she open to you or rather keeps many secrets.
At this point, you should just be straightforward, or it's going to be real awkward when you meet next time in person and you don't know where the relationship is at.
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>>18585411
>Have you booked your vacation anon?
Nah but it's like a sure thing and we both agreed to go.
>How long have you been apart
A month, we're halfway through
What's bothering me is how much the communication has diminished. We haven't spoken to each other in a while and now it has come to just a few messages.
We talked about the distance and being sincere about our relationship (we both want it to last) but the drop in communication kinda threw me off. I dunno, maybe it just a bad week or something but not sure so hence this thread.
Never been in ldr so any inputs are welcome.
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Completely lacking personality 2017-08-03 01:44:54 Post No.18585385
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Completely lacking personality
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I have a huge issue with speaking to people in every day life.
In practical situations like in a shop I have no issues asking or ordering something, but in less practical social situations I completely shut down, I can barely start a conversation, never manage to maintain one and people rarely ever speak to me anyway.
People tell me often I have social anxiety but I'm not convinced by it. I don't worry about what the other person thinks about me or if I mess up...I just have nothing to say really at all. Even on Tinder I just feel blank about chatting.
Therapists often say "Well it's fine, if you don't want to speak to people don't worry about it", which just leaves me bored as fuck all day doing everything by myself, and I'm pretty sure from past experience that people are the best source of entertainment.
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how old are you, OP?
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>>18585385
I can relate, I think
what about hobbies? what do you like to do?
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I frequently go to the gym and often cycle. I used to enjoy PC gaming a lot, but I've lost interest in most games and only really ever play games like Dwarf Fortress or Aurora 4x.
I watch fantasy/sci-fi stuff a lot with my dad and brother.
Also I like painting and playing Warhammer 40k with my "friends", but I rarely do this and struggle speaking with them too.
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Im sorry for bothering you,in the end of 2013,i have came upon a large groupe of people in my city Osijek,involved in child trafficking,they killed one little girl in the basment of one club,named Oks,whos owner is Alen Borbaš.I tried to do somethign,but i got lots of threths,One police officer told me,would we played such a hard game,if we didnt have to,and another one told me he can not talk nothing about it.I have talked to more than few people on facebook,they were mostly afraid to talk about it.I found out they bring teen girls from Bosnia,Serbia,and who knows form where else,they sell them around town as prostitutes,and occasionaly kill some of them in private sado-mazo sessions,i also belive they sell organs,form what is left of those kids.I also heard they are filming those sessions.I recently got a msg from one of them,where he admits they have connections in fbi,and sell kids to usa,its thier biggest market.If you can please help in any way.
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I really need to visit eastern europe
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https://tips.fbi.gov
tell FBI
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Why does it say 2016 in your computer
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>need booze
>lvl 25 neet with no savings
>tell mom I decided to go back to college and want money for books
>she doesn't believe my bullshit and asks for proof
>remember we have a key to her sister's house in case of emergencies
>wait for mom to leave for work
>take the train and go to my aunt's
>sit outside the house for a while, make sure she left
>go in, and look for money
>open every drawer, cupboard closet etc looking for cash
>nothing
>decide to take her laptop and sell it on craiglist later
>we get a call later that night, it's my aunt saying someone broke in and stole stuff
>the cops are all over the house looking for clues
>they are checking cctv footage from the area
wtf do I do?
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>>18585299
wow you're not even a true neet you're just a piece of shit. may as well get out your exit bag or turn yourself in since once they find no signs of forced entry they'll know it was someone with a key.
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>>18585299
Go to jail and get raped faggot. I hope you die soon.
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Hope you like being the bottom bitch buddy boy
They love lil bitch boys like you in prison