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Gay friend has cancer 2015-11-16 16:53:46 Post No.16468617
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My best friend is gay and he's dying from colon cancer. It's spread to the rest of his body and he's been going through treatment for the last couple years but it looks like his time is pretty up. He has maybe a month or two left in him. He told me he's always been in love with me and always wanted to be with me.
Would I be gay to take one for the team and make his wish come true? I feel like this is something I should do.
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>>16468617
Don't do it out of pity or to feel good about YOURSELF. He's not gonna be there no more, so think about the kind of memories/regrets you don't want with you the rest of your days.
Enjoy your AIDS.
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If he means that much to you then you should do it. But get him to have an std check first. It would be a double tradegy if you joined your mate in a dirt nap
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Are you going to fuck an ass full of cancer or is he fucking you?
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Home and car burglary prevention? 2015-11-16 16:25:06 Post No.16468534
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I live in a college neighborhood in a downtown area, naturally this makes every apartment on the ground floor a prime target for burglaries and vandalism. In the past there have been several incidents of loitering and suspicious behavior, and recently an escalation into resident car/home burglaries (including my car).
While nothing of immense value was stolen, I'm still wary and annoyed by the whole ordeal. I've already initiated the process to get stronger lights and fake security cameras installed to discourage future incidents, but I'm uncertain how effective this will be- especially if I'm away on travel. Aside from moving into another apartment complex, what are my options at this point?
tl;dr: What are some preventative measures recommended to keep your car / apartment safe in a crime prone environment?
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fake security camera? why not a real one?
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Live in an area with less blacks. Not even joking used to live in downtown Minneapolis, moved to an area that's almost exclusively old white people, and I haven't had to deal with shady nogs for over 2 years.
Moving is literally the most effective solution, shooting a nog or putting fake ass cameras out won't save you.
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Lock your doors and windows. Seriously you have no idea how many break ins don't actually require them busting shit down. Other than that get a dog and don't leave anything valuable in your car.
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What difference does it make if I look pathetic contacting my ex?
yeah, she might giggle and make fun or whatever but who cares. who the fuck am I?
I miss her, I am desperate... she is better than me. So fuck it right?
I don't care if we are just friends or whatever, she was everything to me, and that's ok if we cant be together but I cant stand feeling like I don't have my soul anymore.
someone talk to me...
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>>16468470
find a new gal
seriously that is your best bet
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>>16468470
Nothing lies down that road but heartbreak and bitterness, friend.
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No matter what happens, you will never feel satisfied. And if she takes you back, you will resent her for not loving you as much as you love her.
Don't do it. It is soul poison. You will see all your fond memories of her twisted, corrupted. Keep the nice memories, and walk away. Maybe things will work out with her in another life.
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Hooker etiquette? I bought a hooker last week, paid for my time and told her beforehand that I wanted to do anal. She said no problem, gave me price and we started into it. About 10 minutes into the assfuck she told me I need to stop because its starting to hurt. I was kind of awestruck so I just pulled out and let her finish me with her hand. Am I wrong for feeling ripped off? I paid for my time and she ripped me off. She basically said screw you when I asked for part of my money back when I told her I didnt get what I paid for and she started crying. She eventually gave me $15 bucks bad but I still feel shafted. Has anyone else been through something similar? Was I wrong for feeling how I felt? Pic related mfw
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>>16468443
She's a dumb bitch, shit happens, fuck it and don't cal her again.
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>>16468453
Op here, you are right I just wanted to know if I am justified for feeling this way and demanding a partial refund from a hooker. I felt kind of bad when she threw a five and ten dollar bill at me while sobbing her eyes out then running out of the motel room.
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>>16468461
She cried her eyes out because you reminded her that what she does is pure business and the only reason she gets money is because you get pleasure out of it and not because she's so great. Feels shit to be a whore and being used.
How do I get over anger? I'm the typical angry little shit.
>Awful abusive parents
>Awful life choices
>Procrastination in key life events
>Stuck at home until I can get a job good enough to support me or I graduate college
>Awful luck with girls
It feels like I only see red. Walking through my house all I do is shoot dirty, threatening looks at everyone, but not because I'm a jerk, but because if I don't they'll say something rude or mean to be. I always have to be the biggest jerk or nobody will leave me alone. By now I'm pretty sure my entire family feels like I'd punch their jaw off, and honestly, they're not wrong. I've always been a good fighter, I've fought my dad before in public when I was am minor and it took two grown men to break us up. I almost beg for someone to try to mess with me so that I can beat them within an inch of their life. Actually, I feel that way about anyone that's ever done wrong to me, so almost everyone. And now I feel like I'm so angry, that I'm going to really hurt somebody. I don't know what to do.
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>>16468396
get rid of your ego...
you need to accomplish shit to get over your anger. Get a job, move out of your parents, pay your debts, find a good girl, fug her
then your anger will disappear, in the meantime... just try not to do anything that will make your situation worse. example: breaking the law, getting into unnecessary conflicts, interacting with shitty people.
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>>16468396
37. Thus, in order to avoid serious psychological problems, a human
being needs goals whose attainment requires effort, and he must have a
reasonable rate of success in attaining his goals.
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>>16468432
I keep trying, I can't find a job after the last one I had a few months ago. I'm still looking, while I continue school. I have no luck with girls and honestly I don't think I'd care if I had the money for a hooker every now and then.
I don't know how to get rid of an ego. Or even how to approach that mentally. All I can think is kill and ostensible future success.
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Am I being too forward? 2015-11-16 15:15:19 Post No.16468383
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>Girl starts snapchatting me
>Sends me pic of her thigh gap, talks about sex a lot, asking me my preferences, saying she has condoms, all that
>Wants the d.jpg
>Stay with her one night, nothing happens
>Feel like it was my fault, say I get a do-over
>She stays at my place the week after, nothing happens
>That night, say something to the extent of asking if we're going to have sex or not
>"Hearts still with ex" blablabla
>Texts me after she leaves, saying she's not just going to jump in bed with me
>Tell her that's cool and I understand where shes coming from with her ex, but her snapchats said otherwise
>We chill again tonight
>Few hours, but again nothing happens
>Text her saying I don't know whether she's looking for sex or a relationship or what
>"I enjoy hanging out with you, and want to be friends"
So I guess I should drop it huh. Trust me, she's the one who insinuated sex in the first place. But its not like I can just kiss her out of nowhere and instigate that shit when we're chilling right? Should I just drop her?
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>Starts talking about sex
>Still attached to her sex
>Not going to fuck you immediately
>Explicitly says she wants to be friends
I won't even be harsh, just stop talking to her. You don't need to play into that bullshit.
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>its not like I can just kiss her out of nowhere and instigate that shit when we're chilling right?
Nigger are you 4 real?
You really think a girl is going to initiate sex with you? The whole girls are sluts things have affected girls and for the worse, in their fucking stupid minds they believe if they don't initiate shit they are not a slut and they was raped making it a-okay.
The key to fucking a girl in the modern age is to actually fuck her, there is no sitting about waiting for her to say "Yes anon you can put it in the warphole of pleasure"
Kiss that bitch, tell her snap chats are often faked and you gotta check out the real goods with your own eyes, and if she seems uncomfortable be the alpha your dad was when he convinced your mum to let him go bareback and go wild on that bitch until shes begging you for the D.
You literally went full Beta and friendzone material when she arrived, if it's that hard for you discuss fucking over texts so it's already planned for you when she arrives.
You won't get any pussy sitting there awkwardly waiting for her to do anything.
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>>16468465
I'm leaning more toward >>16468458 , but also feel like the fact she wanted it in the first place means I still have a chance. I dunno though.
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Preferring people of your own race 2015-11-16 14:55:05 Post No.16468340
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>Dated girls of other races (East Asian, Indian to be specific) in the past
>These days just want to be with a girl of my own race
Anyone else know this feel /adv/?
Is it common?
Is it natural? I just feel much more comfortable around white girls. Little things like body language are so much more comprehensible.
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>>16468340
No shame in having preferences. It's not a reflection on your character. A basic building block for a relationship is being comfortable with the person you're dating.
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>>16468344
Hypocritically, I don't really like it when white women date non-white men, but that's not an issue if I'm with a girl who hasn't dated interracially.
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I think that's ok. I'm way more sexually attracted to guys of other races, but i also feel more comfortable around white boys, I hate myself for that.....
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Boyfriends being super sketchy with his ex, she's sending me screen shots of him saying i'm jealous and insecure when she likes his shit (which is true, she needs to fuck off) but now I just don't feel right about this at all.
Honestly /adv/, when you're in a relationship with someone why is communicating with your ex necessary? my ex and i are on friendly terms but we don't talk. she messages him every few months and it's irritating. Why can't he just tell her to fuck off? She also told me a bunch of shit I never knew about which is fucking with my head so much.
I love this guy so much we've been through so much but i've always had bad vibes about his ex and their relationship and i don't know what to do now. He thinks it's all fine and that he was just trying to make things better on both ends but wtf!
I don't know what to do :(
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I also really don't wanna have to go through a break up during end of semester times. I'm already stressed out enough and now thinking about this is fucking with me
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>>16468316
>every few months
You are just insecure. This is a normal level of contact.
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>>16468316
>she's sending me screen shots of him saying i'm jealous and insecure when she likes his shit
How did that conversation go? Both of them laughing about it, or him just venting or something?
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I'm not a hunk but I'm not that unattractive am I ? I've been rejected alot lately and been getting no replies for about 6 months on my okc I'm really trying to put myself out there
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>>16468300
No homo but you need to grow out your hair bro. And possibly shave.
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>>16468300
>I've been rejected alot lately
might I know how you engage in a conversation with a woman?
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>>16468300
Grow out your hair or grow out your beard. You're not ugly, but you don't have the right hair for your face.
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Is college necessary? 2015-11-16 13:51:23 Post No.16468216
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Sup /adv/, i could use some insight, I'm a community college student and i hate it. i hate going waking up early, going to school and knowing that I'm wasting my time. My credits most likely won't transfer to a real college, the classes I'm taking are boring or otherwise stupid (i haven't learned anything useful), and i feel like all I'm doing is wasting time and my mom's money.
I have a good idea of what i want to be in life and that goal is will take time and money to achieve. I feel like i would rather get a shitty job and help my family pay for stuff rather than just soak up money on an education that won't mean anything.
Is college worth i? Should i just drop out and get a full time job?
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>education that won't mean anything
>credits won't transfer to a real college
The fuck are you doing? On both fronts. I would never waste time at a CC that isn't at least recognized by state schools, and I would never waste time in college if I didn't believe the degree I was working towards was beneficial.
What do you want to be in life, anyway? 99.99% of all jobs require education, whether that's school or sticking your face in manuals and how-to books, so I pray that you don't feel this way towards learning in general.
Also, protip: take fun classes.
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>>16468264
I'm hoping on just owning a convenience store, i very much doubt that requires a real education.
The community college i am going to is recognised, maybe i phrased it wrong. Some of my classes or credits nost likely won't transfer into a business school which i was planning on doing before realizing that it's a shitty waste of time.
The only course i really like is my history class and that's about it, the rest of my classes suck.
I realize that i don't know what I'm doing in college and so i just want to gt out before i waste any more time and money.
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>>16468298
If you think owning a convenience store doesn't require at least self-teaching, you're in for a rude awakening. That's owning a business, and it comes with the same problems owning any other business does.
Well, I guess that depends on the school and the system. Me personally, I can transfer my credits to any school in my state(Maryland) with virtually no hassle.
Take fun classes. Taking classes we hate is part of life unfortunately. Either try to satisfy your credit req with a more interesting class, or deal.
You sound like you're better off leaving school, to be honest. Which is usually hard to say because most people have no clue what they'd do outside of school, but you have some semblance of a plan.
Tell us, how would you work towards owning a convenience store?
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I keep having these terrible terrible dreams and I don't know why
they are no night terrors, I have had those as well; but these are just dreams
if I was to put them on a scale of 1-10, a genocide would be a six
that is how bad they are
after I have one I can't eat or sleep for days, I feel like killing myself just to get them out of my head, and I get flashbacks of them in other dreams afterwards
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The only posible medical cause is sleep apnea.
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>>16468221
I do not think the cause is medical, If I did I would ask my doctor
I asked him if there was anything I could take to stop me dreaming, and he started quizing me
like a baker who tried to force bread down your throat
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>I asked him if there was anything I could take to stop me dreaming, and he started quizing me
>like a baker who tried to force bread down your throat
lol what are you saying
see a therapist
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Choosing a path in life 2015-11-16 13:41:51 Post No.16468196
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TL;DR: I have no idea what to do with my life and it's stressing me out. I don't want a 9-5 white collar job or to be stuck in a routine but knowing that doesn't help me much. Right now every career I can think about looks dim and uninteresting in the long term.
I'm in my first year of college studying something I don't like and I'd like to do something else but I don't know what.
My family tells me I should get into law because I'd be good at it (I'm a Frenchfag, and the law industry here isn't as bloated as in the USA) but I don't want to work in an office sucking corporate ass. Anything that involves a 9-to-5 routine and a very sedentary lifestyle makes me depressed. I've done internships in two big IT corporations and I could never be satisfied with a career in such an environment.
I'm thinking I'd like to do something that involves actual action, fieldwork, going to various places, but I'm conflicted since I don't know if this is just some childish idealization or if I'm actually cut out for such things.
I've always been somewhat focused on intellectual work and my peers tell me that doing something "physical" would be a waste of potential, so that makes me even more conflicted. I've been looking into the military since it sounds like it corresponds more or less to what I find interesting - action, fieldwork, and the "getting to see the world" meme. However, I'm not quite sure if that's the way to go (not to mention that my parents would commit sudoku if I enlisted right out of the blue).
Could you guys help me or point me in the right direction? I'm completely lost right now.
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Just follow your heart, that's what I always do
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I don't think I should just say "fuck it" and enlist, that doesn't sound like a very good course of action.
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I'm somewhat in the same boat. I'm a Maltafag, trying to make it as an actor thanks to all the work coming in. Problem is while I have some credits, It's still rare (this year had 4 roles) and a whole lotta nothing in between. I also don't know what the fuck to do with my life in between as if I rely on the acting money only (it's great but not frequent), I will never make enough money to be able to move to a European country and try my luck advancing my career there.
The best think I can tell you is this: try everything until something sticks. I spent a good 8 years doing everything under the sun for anywhere between a week to 3 months, courses AND jobs. Even shit I didn't even know anything about (like accounting) until I found life on set to be beautiful (when I always thought I'd be shy as fuck and incapable of it).
It doesn't help much, I'm sorry, but by trying you're at least knocking down panels until you finally find the answer. It's helped me find a goal in life, but I still need to search more for a way to pave the road.
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A female friend of mine is trying to dump her current bf, but has been unsuccessful in making him understand its over.
>She does not trust him
>She is getting assaulted by him (leaving visible marks)
>She has solid information about him having cheated on her, but no actual evidence of it (word against word)
>She is not allowed to do certain activities or "accidentally" miss his calls, or he gets very mad at her.
Even if I feel like I should not get involved, I need some advice on how to help this girl.
Imho, they are not good for each other, she does not have any feelings for him anymore, while he insists that he loves her still, and there is no reason to break up.
Every time she tries to have the talk, it ends in argument. There is allways a dangerously high risk of him assaulting her if they have the talk face-to-face.
Recent changes:
Some bad things happened to the guy the past few days, including assault. And his resolve for keeping the relationship together grew stronger, he also uses the victim-card against her.
How should I tell her to proceed?
Should I not even get involved?
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If ass kickings aren't working then I'm not sure what else will.
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>>16468155
Abusive relationships are more common than what we believe, at least that is my take of this the past few months.
The only way I would think of breaking them up would be to have an intervention with only the closest friends. But that may not be a good idea.
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And why is she still talking to him?
Been posting about my ex and deleting her on snapchat, and how i just deleted her skype yesterday thanks to you guys. 2 year relationship, broke up 6 weeks ago, because of distance
Well she just added me back and sent me a snapchat pic this morning, a pic of her face saying "hey".
Out of reaction i already sent back a pic of me (with a cool city background!) saying hey. Whatever.
Anyways, trying to think what to do next. Im still hurting about her and now she sends me a pic, for some reason im feeling like it was an accident or some shit although that would be hard to do by accident.
I have a feeling she wont even respond back...anyways, if she doesnt, idk if i should message her asking if the pic was meant for me. If she does respond, i dont even know what to do.
Anyone been in this situation before? Thanks
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Tldr my ex who im pining after sent me a pic on snapchat saying hi, what do?
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>>16468118
its bait...
You deleted her so you could move on. If she messages you with "hey" its bait to see if you are still interested. If staying in contact with her doesn't benefit you in anyway then don't respond.
Benefit you as in, she wants to fug or buy you shit or serve you in some way.
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>>16468145
lol true. i probably shouldnt have responded but fuck, i was caught off gaurd...shit. now she probably thinks im a needy fuck, doesnt she? i just sent back a pic saying hey.
should i just forget and block? wait?
god damnit, why the fuck would she "bait" me, is she a cold fucking bitch? this better not be the case.
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loser virgin here, but a woman wants to sleep with me.
Any tips or advice on what to do to prepare for when she and I meet up? Im a fish out of water here
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Tell her how pretty she is, and why it is that you think so.
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>>16468194
i mean like prepare myself physically, anything i should besides the obvious?
She's aware I'm a virgin
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>>16468112
She's made it clear she wants to sleep with you and she knows you're a virgin? Nice.
Just try not to say anything awkward or stupid, try to let her know you find her attractive and that you really wanna fuck her without coming across as desperate or weird.