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Why are there so many Mama's boys lately /adv/?

I just noticed that a bunch of the guys I know who are in their 30's and 40's are still living with their parents or still being bankrolled by their parents.

I recently started dating again and the last three guys I dated I learned too late have been living at home with their parents, they seem nice but then after a few weeks, I learn they are still glued to their mama's titties. One guy was being completely bankrolled by his parents at 42 years old.

Not sexy. Especially when the guys make it clear that they have no intention of ever moving their parents from the top priority position if the guy ever gets married.

Has this always been a trend? I haven't been single for long but every other guy I've met so far has been a Mama's Boy and living off of their parents.

Trying to look elsewhere for men, but these guys just keep popping up out of nowhere.

How can I avoid running into these guys in the dating pool? They seem to be everywhere
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Yes, there have always been people like this. There probably always will be.

Don't be so picky about your dating pool. I don't try to "avoid running into" certain people. I just talk to those whom I find attractive. If there's something I don't like then I walk away. That's the point of dating. You're talking about pre-selection for a selection process. That's silly. Just ask the question about job and home within the first two minutes of conversation.
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>>16472956
These guys shouldn't even be in a dating pool, do a favor for the next girl, and break their confidence
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Oh boy, I'm 21 and feel pretty useless for still living with my parents. I don't want to suck them anymore.

Here on my country is really common people living with their parents til 30s or more. I read once it's a poor country thing.

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Should I go along and try to get into if so what book? If not what do I do.
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Buy the game and read it when she's around.
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What kind of books?
What interests you? horror, fantasy, etc.
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Idk I havn't tried

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My fiance puts his family over me.

I have talked about it many times but he still does it. He knows it upsets me. He is 27 and his mother babies him and guilts him into doing things and she always plays me off as the bad guy.

I love my parents but I know that he should be first to me because he is the one I am going to spend my life with.

It is a really big turn off.
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>>16472758
well, he's right to do that, they are still his family and you are not yet... Why would he put you over them? Because maybe someday he'll marry you? C'mon...
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You sound like a stupid bitch.

>He loves his family and doesn't give me enough attention

Is what I heard.
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>>16472762
We are getting married in a couple months. I be fine if it was normal things but his family are not really a good enviroment they try to leech off him and his dad is an alcoholic. In the past he had dreams of advancing his career but they are so insecuire they told him not to do it because they liked the money he was bringing into their house. They belittle him into making decissions that he was not okay with and anytime he speak up for himself his alcoholic dad would come after him. I have been helping him become more confident to follow his dreams and his family does not like that because they know he will be off living independtly and will not be able to leech his money anymore. I be cool if he helped them out but the father just takes all the money and spends it on alcohol. I have not seen my fiance in a couple months because he has been traveling for his career and they want him to stay at his house all the nights he is here when I can not get one night with him and I work all the days he is in so I can not stay there.

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it's been almost 3 weeks since i've been dumped and i've lost around 13 pounds
the only thing i can really tolerate is water, fruit, and maybe a baked chicken breast
is there anything i can do?
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>>16472701
>give me your food?
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>>16472706
Who are you quoting?
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>>16472701
Give yourself time to grieve. Allow your body to go through every emotion. The less you fight your emotions, the better your emotional recovery will be.

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What did she mean by this?
We were right next to each other when we texted this. I was joking around pretending not knowing who it was because we stopped hanging out for a while.
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it's just a friendly banter, doesn't mean anything
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>>16472684
Forgot to mention we had a light history
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>>16472699
What the fuck is even light history? She's just fooling around, you didn't really think she meant 'love me' in a literal 'be romantically involved with me and make to me sweet love', did you?

Bottom line, girls say shit like that, unless there's 100 other signs she's really into you, it means literally nothing. She was playing along with you, it's basically like saying to a friend who just brought pizza home 'I love you so much'...

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General advice and lifehack thread
Feel free to ask and post
Starting from some /fit/
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Is drinking wine effeminate?

For the past 5 years I've usually just gotten either whatever is available or the cheapest possible alcohol (by quantity), which always ends me up drinking the same brands of beer or the same barley spirits. This is somewhat boring, so I thought I'd try and broaden my horizons.

So I considered trying to learn to drink something nicer.

Is it worth it to learn to stomach red wine, if you don't care about food? Or is wine just a women's thing?
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>>16472613
My goal is to have a good time despite of being clinically depressed and having been so for all of my adult (and, argubly, entire) life.

I'd also like to avoid losing my phone, keys or wallet and/or having them stolen, and not get sexually molested. So getting less drunk might be the key here.

Mixing drinks is girly. I drink straight from the bottle, whatever it is.
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>>16472607
>>16472613
>>16472628
>girly
You guys are so fucking insecure. Drink what you want to drink. Nobody is going to stop you. And if someone makes fun of you, so fucking what. You're having a good time.

If you let what other people think affect your decisions, you have zero willpower and can probably be convinced to take it up the ass from a firehose.
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>>16472628
Please next time post with a Pepe or a Feel Guy as your pic. It helps me know which posts to hide.

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What do I say???
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"Please hold while I consult 4chan on how to have a casual conversation about board games."
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>>16472454

Kek
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>>16472463
" muzak "
"For quality assurance purposes, this conversation may be recorded."

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Do I have a mental disorder?

Basically when I was young I moved around a lot.
I realized that I like to make good friends with people like really close then completely leave them without a trace. I pretty much love the feeling that they are miserable.

I either do it because
1. It happened to me and I wan't others to feel like this
2. I wan't to feel wanted and their misery makes me feel wanted.
3. I like to torture people with emotions.
4. I see it as a way of taking another step forward in life
Or maybe a combination.. idk

What do I do about this /Adv I legitimately feel kinda good doing this kinda thing.
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>>16472442
fuck you
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>>16472449
>>16472483

Thx for fueling my hatred.

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So I'm not sure how to approach this - it's really not a big deal but I need to hear some reactions.

I'm in a class in college that's a video class like movies. It's a very involved class, a few hours, and for the most part we all want to be there. But in the class, there's two girls who are just not caring at all, typical basic bitches. So, I'm not hugely popular in the class, buts a small workshop class, pretty hands-on. There seems to be some goofsters, we're all cool.

Or so I thought; today I saw on one of the edgy nerdy but still were cool kid's snapchat story of one of these basic bitch chicks they'd taken some facetious snapchats of me from aside. One was captioned "oh <anon>" and the other focused on a short video of me where the chick turned to her basic bitch friend with a sarcastic look.

Now let me be clear because this IS 4chan, I'm a normalfag for the most part, I'm a stoner type but I don't draw undue negative attention to myself, if anything I'm a funny enough guy where I get basic respect. But for people to have exchanged snapchats (of course I was sick the day this literally happened, I even jokingly called it out) and for these chicks to be calling me out as the center of the joke when they're largely disliked in the class. Like people joke about them and shit, and it wasn't like everyone was talking a bunch of shit about me, but for me to see that they have me like that behind my back and this other kid this kid who socially would be "on my level" to them looking at it, (well to be fair he showed me) it's insulting.

I don't expect to be social king but I keep myself out of negative attention most of the time. Then the kid took a snapchat of ne and sent it to this chick in the class (a nerdy girl herself who seems to respect me and our little group in the class) and they were like oh it's perfect (it was just a pic of me awkwardly smiling mid-talking as I wasn't ready) and he made
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it his contact pic for me, and I took a snapchat back, and all seemed goodBut I still felt the sting of being the center of what felt like an inside joke of a class I'd felt relatively accepted in like out of nowhere. I can't stress that this was out of nowhere, I don't jump up on the desk to be an attention getter, I'm casual and I'll crack a joke here or there with the other kids but I feel about as respected as any of them.

I guess I'd let my guard down too much in the class and it really hurt, not as much from basic bitch girls because nobody else in the class really likes them to be fair but seriously I don't know if I'm taking something not worth it too seriously or what but I need to hear some analysis about this. I haven't felt this socially insecure since fucking high school dude, caught me at the wrong time.
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Also I should note as a small bit of revenge within reason, towards the end of the class, having learned after seeing the story that some of the kids traded snapchats on the day I was sick, I had an idea. I went up to one of basic bitches (who btw is chubbier than you might picture) and asked for her snapchat so I could see the next time she wants to take creepy pictures of me


Seriously this is such a small thing that's bugged me so much in the middle of what is a trying and stressful time of my life. I was surprised to see kids treat me more like a meme when I've been on the same level as them. And I know it's easy to read this whiny "feels" post and picture me as some chubby Autist who bought it on myself, but I'm really not. I'm seriously just a normal dude in that class and nobody has really had any reason to even jokingly talk shit before.

Sure with the nerdy kids the snapchat could just be a joke but considering that he had just shown me the snapchat story it rubbed me the wrong way
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Bump with goatn

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>tfw "I only see you as a friend anon"
>"We can still hang out as friends though, I just don't like you in that way."

Should I even bother? I feel dead now.
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Hard to say. If you want to be friends go for it. My wife and I started in the "Just friends" situation. I also know another couple where she said the sand thing. They're engaged now. Not saying that'll happen for sure, but nothing is certain.
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Don't do it to yourself.

By all means be friendly if you have to see her. Don't be friends. At least not this soon. Not worth the badfeels.
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Grow up; get over her; move on; there's 7 billion people in the world, I'm sure you can associate your life with one other person since you can be happy alone; fucking beta.

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Anybody here know anything here about the legality of sending negative emails?

I sent an email via an old email account wishing the founder of a new anti-privacy app would kill themselves or suffer a great illness in the near future. They emailed me back saying the police had traced my IP address and added it to their file, and not to email again or they'll press charges.

Am I fucked?

I don't think what I sent was technically a death threat since I didn't threaten anything. I realize it was edgy.
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Yes. We're on our way to you. You're going downtown!
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>>16472237
Seriously, I am someone who is prone to panicking and imagining the worst outcome will come true. Is it likely she's just bluffing? I mean I made sure to avoid saying anything like "I'm going to...."
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>>16472247
Prone to panic? Then you shouldn't start shit. You're a fool, but you're fine.

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Is it normal to go to a bar alone without drinking, just so I can socialise/find some friends

I'm a 19 chick who never drinks, and is wants to go a bar for the first time.
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>>16472222
No
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>>16472229
Fuck
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>>16472222
No, but you'll want to at least order something, doesn't have to be alcohol.

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I'm going to kill myself today.
Please drop any wisdom you have.
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>>16472219
Stop being a drama queen.
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the night is darkest right before the sun rises
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>>16472224
After you learn sensitivity

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>hired at a small office, 20ish employees
>nearly all the males are gay; even the non-flamboyant guys were gay
>on break with coworker, she says I just "missed the hottest guy"
>everyone in office says I am very well-dressed
>was invited to drinks with the girls + one gay guy last week

Does everyone think I'm gay, too? Should I keep my mouth shut about being straight? I mean purposely being ambiguous about my personal life.
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>Admit you're straight
>Get fired for being straight
>Sue because discrimination
>Become rich
>Get mad Tinder hoes.
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Fuck them in the ass, your male dominance will prove to the others that your straight.
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You don't have to explain or justify your orientation to anyone. If it comes to someone flirting with you or you're actually interested in dating a girl from your workplace, then I would say make it apparent that you are straight.

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