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I have to pick a book for a grade 12 ISU (independent study unit)
I'm gonna have to analyze it and write essays on it and shit.
I don't know what to pick, thought you might help me with some suggestions
(Anything between 100-300 pages)
I was thinking of:
The Alchemist
Death of a Salesman
The Stranger
Catcher in the Rye

Difficulty/ Enjoyability of the books? I don't know, just lay it on me
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Finnegans wake
Trust me you'll love it :^)
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The Road to Serfdom by FA Hayek. You'll learn something.
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Catcher in the Rye is the worst piece of crap I've ever read. You will make yourself dumber by reading it.

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I am loosing control over my life and I suspect I have add.I have always had a problem with self regulation but it's gotten much worse as of late in the time when my focus and attention is required the most and my bad habits from high-school are being carried over to uni and struggling to work at my full potential. in middle school despite my procrastination habits I did well and got into a good high-school and had a dream of studying abroad and becoming a doctor. yet I struggle to cope and often was late to class and on assignments due to me spending way more hours then required on fanfiction and Manga. as a result I could no longer attend the program in my previous high-school and had to go to a regular one.Even though the material was easier my ego was completely destroyed by my failures and I had low motivation to do much of anything except occasionally watching online college courses for academic enrichment. however, I never completed these courses. I got fed up with my attitude and cut myself of Manga and fanfiction. I tried to change my self in senior year by starting a science club and trying harder in academics in general but even then I was putting minimal effort and one of my courses had a mark closest to failing while the others were subpar. I was worried I might not get into uni.I stopped caring for myself and my grades began suffering once more and I talked to a counselor and told my parents about how I was seeing her. they got upset as they thought it would be a hindrance and wouldn't help it got worse when I asked her to give me a referral to a psych. I denied it eventually fearing that it would jeopardize my chances at becoming a doctor. I also never used to take the counselors advice. I just disconnected from her and upon the insistence of my parents to see tutor who I saw only twice I put in some effort and somehow salvaged my grades and got into a decent uni which made me happy. however,everything got a lot worse
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Now because I have lost an interest in Manga and never had hobbies or friends to begin with I'm procrastination of new more dangerous things once it was constantly chatting and now compulsively flapping which makes me fueled ashamed. on top of it I am lying to my parents about my grades and doing bad and skipping classes because it's so far and doing work till the last moment messing up my sleep schedule like today with my exam tomorrow. I can't seem to focus or concentrate and my memory is super poor and like always I rush through things making silly errors. When I was young through online medium which eventually resulted in the calling of a counselor and talking about my frustrations I reached out several times but discontinued it or was told to regulate myself better. I already know what my problems are and what I should be doing but I can't do anything. I hate myself and probably shouldn't even be posting this. I used to love learning and helping people out even listening to others vent and giving solutions but now I can't do anything. Everything feels pointless and everything leads to regret cause I am performing under my true potential and I don't want to get help so is their any hope for me? No right sorry for the long post.
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Reply please ;-;
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oh my god, I know exactly what you are going through...because I am going through it as well. I have ADHD and have the exact same problem. I honestly want to cry right now, I've never met or seen anyone with almost my exact situation.

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My boyfriend is planning on proposing to me in December, probably around Christmas. We've been together seven months, have lived together for four of those.
We recently went through a little rough patch where he betrayed me and shattered my trust in him. I still love him, but I can't accept his proposal in December because I need time to trust him again and make sure it is what I really want.
How do I go about letting him know to not buy a ring and propose?

tldr:
>bf is going to propose
>he broke our trust
>would reject proposal but still want to be with him
>how do I tell him to not propose while still being with him?
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>>16466883
How do you know he's going to propose?
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>>16466883

tell him before he buys the ring idk if those things can be returned

and note you may never recover that trust depending on what happened

good luck
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Watch him not propose and she's upset he didn't propose

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hi, just a lurker here.
i'll be 19 soon and i am tired of my living situation (at home with mom in the middle of nowhere)
i graduated highschool atleast 7 months ago and i have done absolutely nothing since then. i have no interests or goals..and my family doesn't push me to do anything either. i've got my own car, and i do house/dog sitting jobs on the side for extra cash. my plan was to just to rent a room in someones house and get a decent enough job. any advice?
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>>16466831

you're going to need $$ to move

why not try community college ? get a computer job
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:^( please
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>>16466909

i honestly don't think i'm patient/intelligent enough for that sort of thing
if i did i would want to go to a college out of state and my mom wouldn't allow it

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So my boyfriend and I had sex this morning. Earlier tonight my boyfriend texts me and asks "so what that the best yet?"

How the fuck do you answer a question like that?
It felt pleasurable, as it does with every other time we've done it, I don't keep track of when it was more pleasurable or not.
If I say no, I feel like I'll hurt his feelings and make him think he's not doing a good job.
If I say yes, I feel like I'm lying and I'll give him a big ego.

Is it me or is it a weird question to ask?
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>>16466814
"You were admirable, but let's see how you fare in round 2."
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He's stupid for not assuming you had better in the first place.
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>>16466814

lol, I'll sometimes ask after my gf has a particularly intense looking climax, but it's more like a, was that good? should we do it like that again? type phrasing .

A simple, "It was amazing. Just as good as the others" will probably do.

If he asks a follow up question (he probably will) just tell him, that while you enjoy it, you don't really keep track of that kind of shit.

Basically what you wrote here.

My girlfriend and I had unprotected sex a few days ago but I pulled out after a while. This was on the day her period ended. Didn't cum inside her. How likely is she gonna get pregnant?
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>>16466794
High possibility
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Highly unlikely. But don't do this shit in the future if she's not on birth control, it's not worth the risk or the anxiety.
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>>16466798
Kindly explain to OP how one can get pregnant from no cum.

Oh wait, I can: if you came shortly before penetration, there might have been leftover semen in your tubes that seeped into your precum, which then went inside her. But this is not even close to as likely to result in pregnancy as just cumming inside of her. Sperm are fragile little fuckers. So no, it's not a "high possibility". Perhaps this poster is a troll who enjoys giving people heart attacks?

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Background: known girl for 5 months at work, didnt speak to her for four months since i moved job locations, and since i move from locations. we talk to each other about life, we stare at each a lot across the room, and she's nice to me, and hold the door for me when I see her. She also every now and then had started conversations with me.

just made facebook (added photos), two people accepted my add, I then added her, and she has't accepted my add yet.

Questions
- Will she be creeped out to see if I have two friends on facebook? Looking at her photo gallery she is a very social person
- I uploaded four photos; three selfies and a cover picture of a sky.

So what should i say if she accepted the add and I want to go onto the relationship route? or what happens if she doesnt accept my add? I think i will give it up on it; if it doesnt go well. im prepared to fail and be rejected i dont mind.
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>>16466766
You made this thread already. She will probably be creeped out once she sees you have 2 friends, and then will realise you made the fb account with the sole purpose of adding her, and that will be creepy too.
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>>16466766
Also
>she holds the door for me

That's normal dude. I holde the door for strangers and vice versa, it's just being polite...
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>>16466777
yeah your right, but wouldnt she have second thoughts that i added two people before her? i tried adding 50 people on facebook, but they havent accepted my add yet.

>>16466784
yeah i think she is just being nice

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How do I deal with a nagging, critical boyfriend? I feel like I can't make my own choices anymore. I can't sit alone in my own room without him barging in, grabbing a cup and whining about why I left a cup in my room (which is basically his room too because he refuses to move into his own) . I listened to his criticism over eating KFC outside the tennis court that I went to watch him play at for two hours today! I feel like I'm married to a WOMAN. I asked for some space for a few days so I can' sort out how to deal with this. I can't get a conversation out of him without hearing criticism and it's getting stressful. Please help me understand how to deal with this.
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You could try...telling him this?
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Breaking up is a good idea, you should try it
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>>16466757
I have and I'm always shot down about it. I think I'm going to keep this break preeminent unless I get miracle advice :/

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To any fathers out there, if you son (around 17)told you he was attracted to little girl but NEVER acted upon his feelings, honestly what would you do?
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Read him the laws he is thinking about breaking.
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>>16466705
You mean laws that could be broken ? but what laws anyways?
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>>16466687
Tell him to hit up /adv/ with his gay bullshit

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I think I wanna try this nofap thing. Is it really that good? are there any secondary effects? like wet dreams, that kind of things. Also, didn't the semen in balls get kinda like "rotten" when not expulsed in a long period of time?
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I only fap 2-3 times a week, and don't death grip my dick. That's usually healthiest. As for the rotting semen thing I'm not sure. Just don't watch a shit ton of porn and use your imagination half the time and you'll easily maintain an boner when you're with your lady friend.
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Did it myself op. Just under two then realised it is mostly a load of BS. Not fapping isnt going to solve your insecurities or make you atheletic. Join a gym and put in a lot of effort or force confidence in social situations. Works much better.
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>>16466718
>>16466718
I kinda get scared because another anon said he had an erectil dysfunction because years of fapping to porn, I don't wanna have premature ejaculation nor disfunction of any kind on me. How long did you did it?

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Got this girl off okc first date went awesome..cool chick...problem she she texts me like ALL the fucking time...ill wait in between my texts to try to give a hint but once i let 2 hours slide and text her back 30 seconds later...boop text. Do i tell her. I appeicate her liking me but damn
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You inform her when you are busy?
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>>16466681

goddamn men complain when girls don't text and complain when they do
complain girls play mind games when they wait and when they don't "oh noo"
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>>16466685
Yeah i told her im at work or with a friend etc...i havent directly been like yo stop texting im busy but ive been nice about it ive been telling her im busy and still buzz buzz buzz

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Just had sex with the woman I love. My penis is only 4-5ish inches long. I couldn't make it stay hard for the life of me, and when I did, it kept slipping out. Then I cum so quickly. I can't actually go fast or else I cum ): Really feel like she's going to leave me, even though she said everything was fine. Really feel like dying to know I'll never be able to properly fuck a girl.
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>>16466653
are you 12?
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Calm down, friend, she's not going to leave you. And you are not broken. You were just overwhelmed by anxiety. It happens to a LOT of people, especially when they have sex for the first time. It will help to talk to her about what happened, explain what was going through your head at the time. She is the woman you love. She is the best person for you to talk to about anything, including this. If this problem persists for a long time (it probably will not), you can see a sex therapist. They are wonderful people.

(Btw, if anyone in this thread says something along the lines of "yep, you failed" they are trolling you and apparently get hard ons from making others feel like shit)
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Good thing women don't love men for their penises like men love themselves for their penises.

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>date girl for 2+ years
>I was too immature, gf wanted more than I did
>I didnt treat her well
>She leaves me and immediate starts seeing someone else (within 2 or 3 weeks)
>I was heartbroken and very depressed. Posted on /adv/ a few times about it.
>I turned my life around...got /fit/, got promoted at work, etc
>8 months go by, finally coming to terms with everything and realizing my life is pretty good
>ex gf texts me out of the blue telling me how sorry she is
>At first I was stand off-ish, but enough time had gone by where I didnt care anymore
>She convinces me to come over to talk. We end up fucking.
>together for 6 months after that, then I ended it. Broke her heart.

Its been about 3 months now since I ended it with her. And I am starting to second guess myself. I miss her to death. But I ended it because I still am not sure I am ready to get married, and I know deep down she is. It hurts me too much to be leading her on when I am not ready. I did that in the beginning and I really regret it.

I try and think about how bad she hurt me and how I felt, and the fact that she probably was cheating on me with the guy she started dating right away (if not physically, definitely emotionally). That makes me feel better, but I know I hurt her this time around and I miss her a lot.

Any /adv/ice would be awesome. Just want to get an outsiders point of view.
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It's going to continue to be a cycle until it breaks. Move on and find someone else you like or want to put time into. Do yourselves both a favor and stop playing with her and your own emotions.
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>>16466645
And we're done, /thread.
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>>16466638
you want advice but you didnt ask a question.

Guys, if you found out your BEST FRIEND(guys have been through allot) sent dick pics to a 13 ur old girl who kind of said she didn't want them, what would you do?
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>>16466624
Go with it to police
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>>16466628
But he's your BEST friend
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>>16466624
How old is your best friend? Explain to him that the 13 year old could fuck up his entire life forever if she wanted to and that what he's doing is idiotic.
>>16466628
>Go to the police
Fuck that. You really think the police and the court system are going to meter out justice by... ruining this kid's entire life ?

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Bunch of people in one of my class cheated on the last test by having a copy of it beforehand. How do I go about snitching on them to the professor? My university email? A burner?

Normally I wouldn't give a shit, but the class has a curve and I gotta beat the average. Plus I'm a spiteful bastard and those assholes didn't share it with me
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Do you have proof that they cheated? If you do, just send it to him anonymously. Make a fake email account and send the proof to him.
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Snitches get stitches OP, nobody likes a tattle tail.
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bust those non-sharing arses

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