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Please Friends I need assistance, i'm scared and I don't know what to do. I want to burn weebs but I cant stop watching hentai. Im genuinley concerned. fix anywone?

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ALPHAS AND WOMEN..

how do you prefer to initiate sex.

im great looking, underwear model body, alpha enough outside the bedroom,
when I do have sex, im great.

however, my exes and current gf are submissive and anxious/nervous...
and im too fucking relaxed and chill of a guy.
I was never comfortable telling the girl what to do, or making power moves.. so I have a lot less sex than preferable

can someone explain the dynamics, the fine lines?

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what's the best plan of action for breaking up with a SO you're living with?

so far i'm planning to find another apartment before i talk to him about breaking up so i can get out of there as soon as possible afterward, but living with him while i know i'm planning to break up is difficult and awkward. i'm not sure how else to handle it though

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So I met a girl last night who I think is into me (her friend said she was and is adamant about us getting together). Got her number and we've been texting each other all day. Tried to see if she was available tonight but she's got some stuff going on for work. No big deal. What I'm concerned about is knowing when I might be getting too pushy when it comes to asking for a date. I told her to let me know when she's free. She apologized for not being able to do something tonight and said she'd love to hang out sometime.

Should I just continue texting her as per usual and then wait for her to suggest a meeting? I know it's generally on the guy to make the arrangements but I don't want to scare her off by continually pestering her.

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How true is pic related?

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Help me /adv/, ive been hearing voices quite frequently lately, and being only 18 im still a minor here in Nebraska. I pretty much have to bow to whatever my mother says, and I can't legally leave the home without her say so. I told her that I've been hearing voices (i have a history of manic depression) but she doesnt believe me. its almost like a crowd of people whispering behind my back, telling me i should just kill myself. [spoiler]It's starting to sound like a really good idea[/spoiler]
i've talked to about a dozen therapists/psychiatrists/psychologists, but all they can do it put me on more meds that arent working.
What do i do?

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I'm having a lot of mixed feelings about what happened last night. I'm just wondering if anyone wants to listen to story and help me out. I don't think she would be browsing /adv/ so I'm probably safe here.

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>Had a crazy busy couple of weeks
>Saturday rolls around
>Everyone's out if the house all day today
>Girlfriend is out looking at a college
>Looks like I'm gonna have the afternoon to myself.
>Getting kinda hyped for it
>Girlfriend gets home a lot earlier than I expected.
>Asks to hangout
>Tell her the truth, that I was hoping just to have some me time this afternoon
>She gets really upset
>She tells me she was really looking forward to telling me about everything today.
>"Well, were hanging out tomorrow, we can talk about it then. Or if you want I can call you a little later tonight and talk about it."
>"K, whatever, I'll just call someone else."

Did I fuck up or is she overreacting?

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Short summary:
>be male, 23 years old
>meet current gf 1 year ago
>we are very different. I'm a very rational, analytic, calm. She is very emotional, creative and unhappy with being idle
>her behavior raises some red flags but nothing too severe
>she finishes high school (not USA) and has to wait about 5 months to start college

Now comes the problem
>basically it was too hard and she quit, frantically looking for something else
>she moves away 1 month ago and starts her new apprenticeship 4 car hours away from my place against my and her parents' advice
>after about 3 weeks she realizes it sucks dick despite everyone warning her about the fishy job description beforehand

And just now this happened
>talking over skype
>I tell her to quit and move back with her parents
>she spergs out because her family was so "gruesome" with her, apparently her brother threatened to kill her for some petty bullshit
>I'm in college still and live in a small flat, don't earn enough money to support her yet
>I offer her to move to my place regardless, but under the condition that she cuts contact with her abusive family
>she spergs out and doesn't want to move to me anymore
>she mentions a male friend of hers that she could move to
>I call her out on this bullshit
>she starts saying dumb shit like my sister being an animal abuser because she's in an equestrian sports club
>she quotes some PETA article about horse races and high-end equestrian sports as proof
>I tell her PETA regularly kills animals in their shelters, with source
>she actually says that makes them slightly worse than my sister
>I tell her to shut her dumb mouth, especially since she has never met my sister before
>she doesn't regret saying it
>I ragequit skype and I'm fuming about this dumb cunt's behavior

Now what the fuck do I do? To be honest I want to just end this shit, she's been complaining about everything lately and apparently it's also all my fault. She wants to shittalk my only sister. (cont.)

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im really awkward and only have one friend and Im spending my birthday weekend alone. I need more friends but im too scared to make some. Can anyone give me advice on how i can overcome my fears

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OY OY OY OY!

It's me the great and mighty Kamina here again after many years.

It's been, I wanna say, four years since I've been on here and I suddenly got the inspiration to start these threads back up again!

You know the drill!

Post your problems and I'll do my best to solve them!

It's good to see you all again by the way.

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Can someone please help me understand my situation.

So I've been talking to this girl. She approached me at a party and then later added me on Facebook and gave me her number. We started flirting a bit but also had some genuine conversation. We hung out about a week later ended up fucking. Before fucking we actually had a talk about how we both enjoy each other's company and don't want shit to be weird after we fuck. We both agree the sex could be a casual thing. So she stayed the night and we fucked a couple more times talking about in between each go. We agreed it was really great and that it'd be fun to do again. So after that we kept texting. Kept flirting but also having real conversations. Then she started telling me she missed me. She would ask if she could come back over soon. She would use pet names like "love" and "baby." I thought it was really sweet so I played along. Then she texted me one morning being flirty so I told her to come over when I got off work. She liked the idea and asked if I could pick her up. I said yeah. Then when the time came to pick her up she started being very flaky and it's been strange ever since. She doesn't ever text me first anymore and when I text her I only get disinterested short responses. I thought maybe she just lost interest and thought that was really weird in itself that she would be all in to me one day and indifferent the next.

But then last night she texted me addressing me as "love" being cute again. We had a short conversation but I fell asleep. I responded to her in the morning when I woke up but she read it and didn't reply. I know she was drunk last night so that explains the text but it also must mean I'm still on her mind.

What is going on? Why did she suddenly stop making any effort to talk to me? I really would love to maintain this friendship even if the sex stops but it seems like she doesn't even want to chat casually anymore.

Is there anyway I can ask her about this without seeming too needy?

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How do you stop wanting a grill you have no hope of getting with?

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I just want to talk.

For starters, I'm fairly mentally unstable, and have been depressed for a long time, but never suicidal, except for recently.

Things have been going south, fighting with my girlfriend, father and aunt dying, didn't get a job I wanted, everything is fucking shit.

Is this what life will be like for me, for the rest of my life? Struggling with family, friends and other relationships?

It just seems so tedious and painful.

literally the only thing I had to look up to was my girlfriend, and right now, things are looking grim between us.

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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.

Avoid asking these common questions:

>Is it normal for me to go to a club/bar by myself?
Yes. Stop overthinking this.

>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it.

>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.

>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
Most likely

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing

>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complex's are a total turn-off.

>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>

>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking

>Brandon or Female Brandon
Piss off.

>Frog
Also piss off.