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I've been married for a little over a year now and I think I am starting to have regrets about my marriage. All my wife seems to do is put me down. She constantly gets mad at me for cracking a joke or not doing something the exact picture perfect way she wants it. She never laughs with me. It becomes difficult to talk to her because she always has to argue everything I say. If I say the sky is blue, she would argue to the fucking grave that it is green. It seems like everything I do pisses her off, and if I make the tiniest mistake it ruins the rest of the fucking day. I have to be perfect 24/7 and it's so fucking hard. I came home ten minutes late the other night and she gave me the silent treatment for an hour. I need help guys.
I don't want a divorce, everyone in my family has been divorced and I don't want to be like them. I love her, I really do. The sex is great and we have it all the time, and when we do get along it's like we've been best friends since birth. But god dammit, she makes me so frustrated sometimes I feel like I could go insane. She stresses the hell out of me with this expectation of perfect. And I can't talk to her about how I feel, because she immediately takes offense and then I end up having to console HER. I don't want our relationship to end but if something doesn't change I'll either go nuts or have to call it quits... Please help me.
>tl;dr my new wife is hard to get along with
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so you participate in a completely outdated ceremony that serve no purpose other than vanity (cause i doubt you two are having kids anytime soon) then you wonder why shes being so vain. gee im not sure what could be the problem here with this one
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Next time she pisses you off, just leave the house immediately.
Leaving is a good way to tell people you're done with their shit. Just take the car, and drive off.
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>>16475107
Maybe you gotta talk to her in a rational way. If you truly were this 'best friend' kinda deal before you got married, sit down with her and actually tell her what is bothering you.
She will likely defend herself and it'll frustrate you but long term relationships come with this kind of mediation. It's always smart to reaffirm yourself before doing anything drastic or seek advice from someone you know is wise on the subject.
You just gotta mediate your problems and come to understandings when you hit that wall of stubbornness.
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Was getting a job a terrible idea? 2015-11-18 14:28:01 Post No.16475070
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I need help with my life /adv/
>be me 28
>living on disability for general anxiety roughly $720mo
>have my own apt rent is $188
>feelsgoodman
>but after bills and food I have around $100 left to last me the month.
I decide that I can't keep living like this because I feel worthless for my age and never had a job I can't see myself living off $100 spare money a month for the rest of my life.
My anxiety is manageable with my meds I still feel awkward as fuck amongst other humans.
A month ago I applied for a job at FedEx on indeed.com and went to a Sort Observation I didn't think much of it or expected to get hired, Well I got hired and this morning was my first day being a productive individual.
here's my problem/s I should've thought about before getting the job:
>Since i'm working now my rent will definitely go up but with the new job I should be able to cover it.
>Now that i'm working i'm sure i'll lose my disability means no more safely-net and kush living off $720 anymore if I decide to quit the job.
>If I will lose my disability i'll lose my insurance that pays for my anxiety meds.
Was getting the job a bad idea?
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Getting the job was a good idea. You should make a decent wage and while your rent will increase your other expenses should remain fixed. That means you should at least break even to start and you will get raises and etc over time that give you a lot more than 100 a month disposable. Also you might get insurance for your work.
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Op here. It's $9 @ 20hrs a week is that a good wage?
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>>16475350
That's literally what you make with disability, minus taxes
Why get a job when you're making the same amount doing nothing?
this morning at 7 am I got a text from my bf that said ok thanks babe. my heart stopped bc I didn t text him and I thought he must have sent it to me by accident and was texting another girl. but yesterday I saw him and we were texting before and I said I ll bring ur dry cleaning and he never answered that text and he doesn t have an iPhone sand sometimes his phone sends texts late but neve by a day... do u think that text was meant for yesterday and it didn't go thru or he s cheating ?? I asked him why he said that and he hasnt answered
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>>16475067
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You're being ridiculous. There is every reason to believe the phone could goof up, if there is no other reason to think he's cheating then you're crazy.
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Dead ass just ask him. Girls are fucking stupid oh my God.
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How do I tell parents that I smoke? Consider that they are kind of emotionally unstable. They tend to overreact and sometimes hard to talk to. they wont really hear me out etc
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>>16475049
Tell them you're on heroine.
When they freak out, go like "Jk, just smoking some cigs, nothing to worry about"
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>>16475054
Heroin*
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>>16475057
lol
but really that is a bad choice imo.
got anything to justify your answer?
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Watching this video blew my mind, and I thought now this is a sexy dance. Just look at the women, they all look like they want to fuck the guy right there on the dance floor.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fgmQ9F8mV28
I have now signed up for a class to learn it, and the first class was already a lot of fun (its a latin dance called Bachata, I think you can dance it to music like RnB as well).
In your experience, is dancing a worthwhile skill to learn in order to become a more attractive man?
If not, what would be? (Already trying to look my best (working out, good skincare routine, dress well), have all right social/conversational skills (takes me time to improve), pretty good at cooking, very good career.
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>Already trying to look my best (working out, good skincare routine, dress well), have all right social/conversational skills (takes me time to improve), pretty good at cooking, very good career.
So what do you want out of a girl? You seem well off to bone town. As for dancing, it's not important but it's not much beyond a ritual to attract women. Not really with skill, but more as a gauge that shows you can and want to entertain her. What you might need is to find places that will expose you to women. The class is a start. So just keep at it.
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>>16475047
>Salsa
>not Forró
You won't be fucking anyone, mate.
>there are classes literally everywhere for almost any dance discipline
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>>16475047
or just get money and you won't have to bother with anything else.
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I have this really goddamn disgusting taste in ny mouth and it's really starting to get to me. It's completely nauseating.
I keep brushing my teeth, flossing, chewing mint, eating another things, but the taste just won't go away.
Swallowing my saliva is awful, I keep craving to just spit it out.
I can't explain what's the taste like... It's like rotten eggs, I guess?
It's overall in my mouth, but it seems a little stronger under my tongue.
My breath seems to smell the usual. Not particularly bad.
Do I really need to go to a dentist just because of this?
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>> 16474942
Check for tonsil stones in the back of the mouth and pop em out.
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>>16474964
Damn. Didn't even know what those were.
I looked in but I saw nothing, but I'm gonna wait till someone else can do it for me since looking at it by myself is kinda hard.
Thanks man.
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>>16474942
Might be a good idea to go to a mental doctor instead
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My life is over as of half an hour ago. I'm not going to go into details but I cannot handle one more day of my pathetic worthless life.
So, my question is, what is the easiest/cheapest way to kill yourself?
Please don't answer with some bullshit about life getting better and/or me just needing to ride the low out, etc. I've heard it all before, and it doesn't and won't make a difference.
Just help me do this one last thing, please.
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I've heard taking a shower in diamonds is the easiest way to go. Or flakes of poisoned gold in caviar.
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Get a gun and shoot yourself in the head. Least painful and quickest method of all. Or go to the top of a high building and jump off.
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Nylon rope. Hang yourself. Knife and a bath tub and cut your wrists upward. Use warm water. No pills. They are costly and not always a chance of peaceful sleep od.
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Alright faggots, this may be another "cheating gf" thread, but I'm hoping to unleash your creativity here. I'll try to keep it short:
>A month ago while she was away on a business trip I opened her FB and read some of her conversations
>She was planing to meet this guy (ex-bf), wasn't sure if she has still feelings for him. They were going to the movies that night
>Dude is in another city that she goes occasionally to (work related)
>While I was reading, she called me and told me that "some IP is logged in my fb"
>I told her that it's our IP, i'm installing quake on her PC
>immediately after she changed her FB password
>Since then I an information blackout
>She went there one more time last week.
>Still not sure if she has slept with him
So, I need help logging into her FB Messenger
>She is glued to her phone 24/7, since lately she's taking with her it even in the bathroom
>Always logs out on her PC
>Has all kinds of security notifications and logon alerts on FB
I want to be sure when I confront her. If it's some kind of chat-flirting only, it will fade away and I can live with that. Otherwise I'm kicking her out.
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Op you're getting used like a faggot. No advice on how to catch her but I'm sure you'll find out sooner or later because people are stupid. Gl
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KICK THE BITCH OUT SENPAI I PROMISE
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>>16474897
Yeah I know I am. But I can't wait anymore, it's eating me from the inside. I want to confront her asap
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/b/ didn't really help out so posting here.
Next week I'm going to be homeless.
I'm 19, I live by myself in cooperation with an institute who helps young adults who don't have parents and or have problems behaving.
Because I don't have any neurotic/psychologic problems they're going to stop helping me.
(Stop giving PGB, that's like a budget for clients like me.)
I don't have any income what so ever and I failed my study because of motivational problems.
To get a job I need to be signed to an adress so yeah, I'm pretty much chanceless in life right now.
I'm planning on doing something illegal, if it succeeds I have enough money to rent a room and get a job. If it fails I'll be in jail but at least have a roof above my head.
Help me /b/, what should I do?
(The Netherlands.)
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Help me /adv/, what should I do? *
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Steal a fucking car
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I can't really tell you without knowing more.
But I can say breaking the law will fuck your life up more. If you go to jail you will be even more fucked later on.
Try to find some friends in the world, find some other help.
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So I was on Tinder and started talking to a girl who has more or less exactly the same interests as me, even studies the same (and we're talking pretty niche stuff here).
So she says "You could always teach me how to X", X being a simple cards game I happen to be good at. So I take this as a sign of interest, and reply something like "Yeah, sure, sounds like a challenge. How about next week?"
Silence ensued. I can get that she isn't interested after all, I've always been rather bad at interpreting signs, but is it wrong that I feel a little bit offended that she couldn't be bothered to say "No thanks" instead?
It just seems rude, y'know. I'd post the entire conversation, but it's not in English.
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How do the conversations go? That sounded like an invitation from her to me and I would've played the same hand as you.
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>>16474827
Women are never direct, they don't want to hurt your feelings so they'll leave it up to you to figure it out.
Anyway, just drop it OP. Don't get stuck on one girl and talk to as many as possible. I wouldn't unmatch her just yet though. Also, some women are on Tinder just for a confidence boost, and some just to ho around so don't take it personal.
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>>16474922
I'm obviously going to drop it, although I am considering going for the "You know, a simple "no thanks" would have been fine as well", just because.
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I'll try to give in idea, no exact formulations though.
>me: so what are your hobbies?
>her: reading, drawing, all kinds of indoor stuff
>me: "oh you seem like a pretty laid-back person, that's nice" (most people in my field of study are these ultra sporty outdoors types)
>her: "yeah, you too then?"
>me: Yeah, i enjoy playing cards, and cooking and *insert other indoor stuff*
>her: Oh, you can always teach me how to play cards (I think it's "whist" in English) if you know that game :D"
>me: yeah sure, I'm a decent player haha.
>her: "Yeah, my family tried teaching me but it wasn't a big hit"
>me: "Well, seems like a challenge"
>her: "I think will be haha"
>me: "Accepted, wanna meet up next week?"
Lots of smileys, and interaction, which I interpreted as interest on her part. I do not know where I went wrong, but ah well. No biggie.
How do you deal with having depression for the rest of your life when killing yourself is not an option?
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>>16474825
why exactly isnt it an option anon? Im not encouraging anything, genuinely curious. Im right there with u tho, the thought of my loved ones mourning over my death is worse than the life im living
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>>16474825
You fight it. You seek help wherever you can find it. You set up an environment that counters its effects, to whatever extent you are able. But mostly, you ACT.
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>>16474841
My mom needs my help to look after my sister.
>>16474854
>You set up an environment that counters its effects
Can you give me an example?
ok i never do this but im bugging. PLEASE give me feedback
Been with my girlfriend 8 months but i cant get over one thing.
2 months into us being together she got a text from like her only guy friend shes known since she was in kindergarden. Hes her brothers roomate. He said "we should hang out some time:)" to which she replied "just us?" and he said "yea just as friends i feel like we havent hung out in a long time" and it basically ended from there. But she swiped the message away initially until i confronted her about it a week later.
I asked if they had fucked and she lied and said no, kinda laughing that id even think that, but they did 3 months before that day, when she was blackout drunk and on xanax. She said she didnt even remember anything but found out in the morning and said it made her sick. Im not sure what to believe. Either way she lied about it and at one point I was at her brothers apartment and we were all getting fucked up. (before i found out) My gf's friend (we can call her J) was intending on sleeping with my girls brother but fucked the roomate instead. (this grosses me out that my girl and her best friend slept with the same dude in a matter of 4-5 months) Then in the morning J mentioned the event in a kinda joking way which rly fucked me up. Since thenn ive been extremely jealous and paranoid about a lot of things. She also used the lie to her advantage once when she got jealous over a girl intereacting with me on twitter, before i knew about it. She has blocked/deleted him off every social media platform tho, which is kind of reassuring but its so fucking hard to get over for some reason. She always tell me how much she loves me and i believe her. I also have a lot of good times with her but cant shake this. Sorry this is a mess i might b rambling. What the fuck do i do?
TL;DR gf lied about sleeping with guy friend while fucked up few months before our relationship, shit got me fucked up
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It bugs you now - it's going to bug you for ever.
Lies always stick in the craw and liers stick to their form if they don't suffer huge consequences.
Move on - tell her you can't be with a girl who lies and she will improve if she can, but not with you. She will beg and cry but that just means she wants to get away with lies in the future. Not good.
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>>16474801
ok im open to all replies but since then she shows me literally everything. her snapchat recents, her texts, her twitter messages. And its not voluntarily, its random when im feeling paranoid and ask her. She also had said she wants to spend the rest of her life making it up to me and comforting me. A factor to keep in mind is how early on in our relationship the lie was
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>>16474805
I feel for you - you think you can solve this and you can, you can have a nice life with a slight undercurrent of paranoia that poisons your whole relationship. You have it now - don't you?
Leaving her and starting again will teach you both what you need to be comfortably at ease in a relationship. What you have now is not that! It may be acceptable, but it's not that.
Feel free to go on with this relationship but IMHO you will hurt her, and be hurt.
Good luck anon
Hello all~
I don't usually post but tonight I am looking for some advice seeing as my friends don't fully get the situation. I'll greentext to shorten it all.
>be with boyfriend for over 2 years now
>he's gone out tonight for some chicks leaving thing with his work crew
>he packs a large bag
>I get sus
>snoop his inbox's
>he's having pre drinks at the girls house
>didn't tell me
Anyway I feel really suspicious when he drinks because a few months back he started inboxing some 17 year old saying how she was so beautiful and gorgeous and amazing.
>apparently it's the alcohol that made him do it. He even lied about sending her nudes awhile back.
Anyway while snooping I saw a message that he sent to some chick.
>we should meet up for coffee on _____!!!
>the time he suggested is when I will be at work
>he's called this chick gorgeous and stuff to my face so yeah
Just looking for some advice on what to do. Anything will help.
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He sent nudes to a 17 years old ?
I'm pretty sure you should call it quits OP, guy seems like a handfull and I don't think your should trust him. And there's really no point in continuing a relationship if your trust is broken.
Alcohol is never an excuse btw.
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you should head over to Splitsville
hear its nice this time of year
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>>16474734
Easy, just don't allow him back into your life after tonight.
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>you're me sized
Does she want to fug?
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>>16474677
She's just having a conversation. Jesus Christ, why do men think everything a woman says is a sign of interest?
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Don't ask us, ask her.
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>>16474683
Then what is a sign of interest? Enlighten us.
Can you make much money as a stripper with c cup saggy deflated tits? I'm young though
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>>16474676
If you suck dick yes if not it's an up hill battle.
Why would I choose the ugly bitch over the pretty one with perky tits if I'm paying.
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>>16474676
No, if you want to make loads of dough you gotta have nice bug perky titties
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>>16474676
why strip when you can make as much money, and more, as a camgirl, without having to deal with costumers and management in person?