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>Is this normal?
Yeah but if you actually act on it then you are taking steps back instead of forward.

>>16464925
what do you mean?

>>16464927
>I often dream we are getting back together
If you chase up your ex boyfriend you will be back here complaining about how a dream has made you more miserable.
>It's been 4 years for god sake just let go.

>>16464867
Don't go too fast with anything, or rough. Unless she's asking of course.

Kiss slowly at first, use your lips a lot. Some girls like a lot of tongue, while others don't care for it so it's usually best, after you've been lip kissing for a bit, to just lick her lips a little, or gently press your tongue against her lips as your kissing. If she opens her mouth, play with her tongue gently but don't shove your whole tongue in her mouth. A lot of people don't like that on a first encounter, but if they do they will let you know. Gentle nibbles on the bottom lip is also nice.

Lots of foreplay is always nice. Caressing her back, arms, legs. Kissing her collarbone, neck, nibbling on earlobes. Most of this will come naturally as you get going, but lots of foreplay and touching and such is usually the key.

Of course sometimes you both just want to jump right into it, which is fine and by all means fun. Afterwords though, when your both cuddling, try the gentle caressing and nibbling and such for a fun round two ;)

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>>16464867
Ignore
>>16464883(inexperienced)

Prep before sex:
>jerk off -last longer
>eat a lot of carbs-more stamina
>eat dark chocolate -better erection
When you kiss her do not try to force tongue right away taste her mouth first and suck on her lips. Try to start this while standing up and as you are kissing her grope her ass make sure you get your hand under her ass where it curves in at the bottom and play with it. This is a very sensitive spot for women and will make her very wet. You can start to kiss her neck lightly now and gauge her reaction. Make sure not to grope her too hard in the moment of lust. As you kiss her neck use your natural hornyness and maybe maybe take a light bite and go back to kissing her.
During this kissing phase after you have gotten her super wet start to play with her pussy. It helps if you washed your hands before hand and have short fingernails. This part is very important since it will give you an idea on how to give her a proper orgasm. First touch her pussy from outside her clothes. She may push you away when you try to get in but don't worry as long as she seems comfy and not bothered it's part of the game. Once you get actually in her pants (remember to keep kissing her though out this phase) start to explore her pussy with one finger. Curve that finger up ward(or down ward depending on the pussy) and look for a small bump inside you will know you found it because she will react very strongly when you paly with it. This is the womans g-spot remember where it is when you are fucking and you can make her come without a doubt.
Once you have explored the pussy and are comfortable with pussy play you can not go on to the main even unless you would like to foreplay more .
If she is a virgin make sue you don't act too wild if she has had sex before you can kinda just go in. Don't forget the condom while you fuck make sure that you remeber where her g-spot is and fuck her accordingly. cont..

Its your first
Relax youl know what to do

You're gay. Sorrry to break it to u man

>>16464866
Nigga I fucking wish it was that easy.

>>16464825
>I have fucking E.D. at 22 years old
well it's game over man sorry.

Help a kek out senpai

Do you have low self-esteem or wonder why your girlfriend would possibly pick you out of all the other guys who are "better" than you?

Or do you say you trust her but deep down actually don't?

>>16464799

Paranoia sucks m8, you have to make therapy or break up with her, this only get worse with time and will consume you.

>>16464758
Don't treat it like a POS. Take it for walks and play with it. Also it's very helpful to have a dog trained.

just give it food, give it some space to live and it will be a happy dog

>>16464758

I have a sister who's allergic to dogs and does anything to avoid them. Too bad that every dog in existence seems to think she's the greatest thing ever. From this I've learned that basically just ignore them and dogs will do anything for your attention and approval. They're desperate like that. Even shy dogs will grow to like you if you use this method.

>>16464744
on what happen or the picture?

>>16464752
Thoughts on what happened

>>16464744
>whats your opinion?
GAS THE KIKES RACE WAR NOW

Bump please

Also i want to say that im not really a relqious person but i belive god is watching us.

I belive a sinner and a non sinner might be a bad combination of marriage....

Idk

Be expected for a secular relationship until you get into a fight, especially over issues that can be answered "god said so."

I had a semi-religious girl, but she's since been convinced that it's all just bullshit. She only believed it because of her parents, maybe she is the same.

It all depends, man. Some people take it very seriously and wouldn't marry outside their religion, some aren't nearly so strict about it. Just pursue the girls you want, and see what happens.

How opposed would you be to "playing along?" Like, if you really fell in love with this girl, wanted to get married and start a family and all that, would it really be so hard to sit in church an hour a week and be polite, just for the sake of the family? That's pretty much what most of them are doing anyway

Is he really suicidal, or just depressed and trying to get a rise out of you?

Some people say the craziest shit to get a reaction out of you.

>>16464386
He's not saying anything but we're playing the guessing game again.

It's when he vaguely implies that something is wrong and then I have to guess what it is.

We were together for two years and he is yet to figure out that the whole "there's something I should probably tell you but you'll get mad so I'm not tellin'" is more infuriating than literally anything else he's ever said, done or thought about.

My guess is that he's either found something that he has concluded as my infidelity (which can easily be a 4chan post that he thinks is written in my writing style, which he claims to be able to recognise anywhere), or that he hasn't eaten for three days.

And for the life of me I can't get myself to not care.

Why do you still talk to him?
If he's so awful, why don't you just do like my previous gf did and forget that he even exists.

Start asking "who is this?" every time he messages you.

If he asks you how you're doing just reply with
"I'm fine".

>>16464380
it's no big deal for mos people, you just ask her if she wants to go out for a coffee or a drink some time, usually a few days later

there is a lot of theory about how long is right, some say too soon you seem needy, too long she loose interest

I just think as long as you actually meet up is good

I have to admit, that if i gave you my number and you don't text me very soon i'm going to think you are pulling some PUA crap or aren't very interested. Both reasons to move on. Don't overthink and text her as soon as you feel like it, which probably alreafy happened since you made a threaf about it

Wait 2-3 days. Don't you ever visit /r/seduction ?

Help a fella out

>>16464327
Josh?

>>16464369
Josh who?
What lol

>>16464290
Anon just admit you have a kekolding fetish and get it over with. You know you'll be happier once your gf is masturbating you while whispering in your ear about giant dicks.

Yeah like i even tell her i dont care about other guys like id be fine with a three way. Its just when she tells me that another guy did something first or before me. For example, we slept together the 2nd day we met but i learned she slept with some guy the night they met and that pissed me off. Or we we fucking reverse cowgirl where she lays back and put her legs in the air, I thought I was the first to do that with her but I learned that was not so, she did it with the guy who was right under me in size which again I harped on for a little.

You're pathetic

Regularly strike up conversation with men you often see.

>>16464179
It's rude to talk to strangers where I'm from.

Only creepy old men hitting on teenage girls do that.

>>16464181
I guess it depends where you're from and what you do, then. Coworkers and classmates were really what I was talking about.

what is it with women and the constant talking

why not just lie next to each other in silence, enjoy each other company in the dark quiet night

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Fear of running out of things to talk about is actually what kept me from ever pursuing a relationship. I am really interested in this.

>>16464125
this guy though, he's my best friend. I've known him for 2 years. I spend nearly all my time with him, I've lived with him for 3 weeks before we got together. I see him for at least 2 hours a day. So yea. I'm sure though with a relationship where you see each other less it'll be fine.
He's a really sweet guy that I don't think would mind all that much, but it just is all beginning to feel so fake and unnatural.

a lot of time women just want attention and nothing more. this is mindblowing at first because we men see giving attention to women as purely preliminary to sex. that's just the way it is

Then how do some of the young guys at that bar score with the women?
What do they talk about? What does he say to get her interest?

>expecting to get laid after one dance