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The dislike of affection 2015-11-14 07:04:13 Post No.16460625
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Is there anybody else that really dislikes when people are affectionate to you? It really bothers me. I don't like when people compliment me, give me gifts, hug me, wish me Happy Birthday or other holidays, or really anything else. I purposefully work on holidays so I have less interaction with people on special days. I've had several people over the course of the past year tell me "you need to get a girlfriend" but I don't want one because it would fail anyways. I don't really know what advice I'm asking for, just curious if I'm the only one
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Anyone?
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Therapy.
Sounds like a depresso-anxiety mix.
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>>16460740
It's weird tho, because I'm completely fine being around people when I'm working. But when I'm off work, I don't want to be around ANYONE. And that's when my what you call "depresso-anxiety" kicks in. It doesn't make sense to me. I've thought about therapy, and I even started looking online for a shrink but I don't feel comfortable paying to sit in a room with a stranger and tell them everything. I feel more comfortable talking to you all
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Hey /adv/
So just a few hours ago I completely destroyed my forearm and wrist during a Football game. The doc told me I had little chance of ever doing contact sports, as well as basketball and baseball, ever again. They suggested that during my recovery time that I try and find a new "hobby". But aside from Track season and playing guitar I have nothing to really do from now on. I don't really know of any after school activities that pique my attention. Do any of you have any good ideas on what I can put my time into and not regret later?
Also broken bone/dislocations general I guess.
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Wtf happened?
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So, there is this Tumblr girl who said she would do a topless sign for me if I guess her breast size at the first try.
Any idea what size she might be? I'll share the pic if I get!
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another
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>>16460007
32 DD I'd say. Maybe EE?
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NEET and Shut-In Advice Thread (Version 118.5) 2015-11-13 19:36:40 Post No.16458883
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NEET and Shut-In Advice Thread (Version 118.5)
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Welcome to the NEET and Shut-in advice thread!
(Version 118.5, running since Oct. 31st, 2013)
Do your thing, NEETs and fellow shut-ins.
From 118's OP
>I'm also restarting the 3 day a week workout at 12:30pm and will be restarting the web lessons as well. If anyone is interested in participating in a live web development lesson let me know in the thread or in the channel.
>Take care everyone.
>Forum
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How should I go about stop giving a fuck about literally everything. Many people would say how lucky I am to have an opportunity to learn yada yada. But fuck them.. they don't fucking know how much I bust my ass off every single day, to still failing in all of the shit I am learning and then getting bad grades in the end.
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>>16459003
Consider what impact your giving a fuck has on the world around you. What is the net benefit of the fucks you've given? In most cases you'll find that it isn't even a null set, but solely a negative on your mental well being.
The next time you decide to give a fuck, take note of it, and carefully weigh the outcome for future reference.
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So does that forum even have anything that'll help neets or is it just a place for neets to be neets? Cause a neet is something I'm trying not to be, knowing more neets isn't gonna help that cause.
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I want to find out how to never sleep. Is this possibly, what drugs do I take and what side effects are there.
Backstory:
Im a software developer.
I have 2 jobs, 1 , a day job and 2, my own company that I am running on the side line (starting to pick up now)
Ive been working late a lot this year, many nights going to bed at 2/3 AM working on personal projects and my own company and then waking up at 7 am to go to work (day job). Some nights I just go through the night. I have done this for about 50% of this year.
When I start to feel weak I drink bioplus (http://www.bioplus.co.za/Products_org.aspx) or turbovites http://www.turbovite.co.za/products/turbovite-syrups/ and if its really bad I start drinking monster https://mobile.monsterenergy.com/za/en/products/monster-energy/, but I try to avoid that.
I drink other pills on a daily basis, some of which include bio strath and ginko biloba + vitamin b + gin seng and fish oils.
Some days , I feel no difference if I had an all nighter vs a full nights rest. Or 4 hours of sleep vs 8.
So I thought to myself, if I cant really feel the difference most of the time, why not try and cut it out completely. I feel that sleep is just a waste of my time. However, I do still beleive its necessary, but not sure. I think I would still want to sleep 2 days a week aka 16 hours a week+-. Im 26 btw.
Help
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Don't do this. Seriously. Not sleeping for long enough will kill you. I'm not joking.
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The side effects are death moron.
Your body compensates for exhaustion by releasing catecholemines that make you feel awake and alert. Chronic sleep deprivation will almost certainty give you heart problems and increase your risk of getting a laundry list of diseases
It's common sense
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>>16462280
Thx, Ill take all the advice with an open mind. If its going to kill me, I wont, just trying to figure out if its possible without being "bad" for me.
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How to wake up immediately when alarm clock rings? I usually turn it off and fall asleep again, but I have to wake up with no excuses in next days.
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1) Delete that pic because this is a worksafe board.
2) Put the alarm clock far away from your bed so that you have to walk over to it.
3) Put your toothbrush and toothpaste next to it. As soon as you turn it off, start brushing your teeth. By the time you're in the bathroom spitting and rinsing, you'll have lost the irresistible draw to return to bed.
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SFW board ya dingus
oh and set multiple alarms
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>>16462202
Very loud and put it far away from you.
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>be poor
>have poor family
is it even possible for me to become a pilot
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>>16462174
Join the Air Force
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Try being poor with a wealthy family. Good grades scholarships and loans, friend.
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Nigga that's easy as shit, get a loan and start taking lessons. Put on a few hundred hours of unassisted flight time and get yourself a license.
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My anxiety is interfering with college.
It seems like every time I have a writing/speech assignment, I get very anxious knowing I have to work on it, which feels uncomfortable, and so I procrastinate quite a bit. Of course, eventually I do end up doing it, but the closer I get to the file that I'm working on, the more anxious I get.
As I'm working I remain anxious and, without realizing, I walk off my computer and start pacing around with a jumbled mess of ideas in my head, trying to think of more or different ideas. Pacing like this is very wasteful because I think it happens so I would further procrastinate. I try to catch myself getting up from my chair but I don't always do, and end up spending a wasteful amount of time just pacing around and being anxious.
Not sure what to do. I have a speech assignment that's due on Thursday and I should be working on it, but even the moment I think about doing it I just get anxious and I want to get away from that feeling.
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I have the same problem OP, I'm putting off writing an eight page paper.
The only way to get past this is by facing your anxiety and using that nervous energy to get it the project done. You need to get out of your comfort zone.
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>>16462177
Yeah but what makes me anxious is working on the actual thing. I can work and keep working on it but I feel like I'm just getting so overwhelmed by everything in my head and the anxiety that I end up just walking away without even realizing. Sometimes I'll just start doing something else and go like "o shit, how did I end up doing this? I need to work on my speech", completely forgotten that I have a speech to do.
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>>16462188
I know how you feel but unless you get it done soon you'll only be more anxious. It's easy to say 'face your fear' but that's really the only answer here unless you've got medication for your anxiety.
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>be me, 4/10
>female orbiter (for lack of a better term) has decided to stop talking to me
>she says it's because she wants to talk to me, but wouldn't be able to bear seeing me with someone else
>she was a good friend though
It feels like a breakup in some ways. Cheer me up /adv/
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date her?
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>>16462137
wtf, you're a 4/10 why aren't you dating her? is she a 1?
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I'm in this situation right now as the girl--not the first time I've done this either. Just know that whatever pain you're feeling now is just a portion of the pain she spared herself by cutting you off. It's all for the better.
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How to stop being needy? 2015-11-14 20:57:20 Post No.16462042
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So I fucked things up with the last few girls that came my way, and I think it's in part thanks to me appearing desperate/needy. The thing is, with some of these girls, I was still in the process of getting to know them. So, we'd be texting back and forth, and it would go from taking 2-3 minutes to 30-45 minutes for them to text back over the course of just a couple messages. Anyway, when I was talking to these girls it was usually during my free time, so while waiting for them to respond, and my mind would wander and I'd start worrying that I said something wrong. Pretty soon, I start to get fed up and ruin my chances by texting back something along the lines of "Hello?" or "You there?" which I know is wrong. Anyway, how do I learn to stop giving a fuck if it takes awhile to respond? I mean, these girls must think we're stupid or something, cause people are glued to their phone 24/7 these days so there's no way it should take that long to get back to me. Also, how do they expect me to be amazingly fun and entertaining within 10 minutes of introducing myself? Especially since they only reply with one or two words most of the time, double standard, right?
S-sorry about the novel.
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I've recently had this problem. She's probs not that all into you, or you have to much time, My guess is you have to much free time. Find something else to do, Atleast's she's replying.
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I guess it would be easier if I were funny. But I'm not that... uh... funny.
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>>16462060
Not the case, i used to make a guy laugh all the time, but people have busy lifes, If she's replying to you that's a good sign, but you need to find somthing else to occupy youself otherwise you're going to drive her away from you.
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I like my boyfriend a lot, and I think I love him. But there are things he keeps doing that I just don't understand. Even when I've told him it hurts my feelings, he still continues to do these things:
>make fun of me for being slower mentally
>call me ugly, stupid, etc
>jokingly do things that terrify me, like put lit lighters in my face, or more recently, touch me with knives
I know he likes me in his own way. He's told me on many occasions that as much as he likes me, he hates the fact that I have such low confidence in myself, and that I'm unwilling to assert myself. Is he trying to get a rise out of me? I'm just confused...
I always make him angry whenever I try to talk to him about these kinds of things. I'm always worried he's gonna break up with me or tell me to go away if I push him to talk, though.
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I'm not the smartest girl, and I'm not the most attractive either. He's comfortable with me, and feels like he can "settle" with me. He acts like he's training me to be an adult.
I feel degraded and even more unattractive whenever I realize this about him. I like him a lot though, hes really goofy and weird. We have a lot of conversations and "arguments" because of our different opinions on many topics. We play fight and have tickle fights all of the time, and he pushes me to be better at the things I do.
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He doesn't respect my feelings though. When he really hurts me, he apologizes, but at that point I'm already crying and upset.
I don't even know what I'm trying to ask anymore. I'm just really confused. Please help me, /adv/
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It's kind of incredibly dumb for him to say you shouldn't have low confidence when he's constantly making fun of you. That's unfair to you.
Also, he should definitely not be calling you ugly. I understand jokingly saying that you're "stupid" (like in a cutesy way, I'm not sure if your boyfriend means it when he says it) but ugly?? Really?
He sounds childish as fuck and if he can't compromise and stop being a dick to you then maybe you're the one who should break up with him.
So I just met this girl from my holiday volunteering group for school and it was love at first site. We had anal sex for the first time last night and I woke up and found dried up pieces of shit on my dick and in my pubic hair. Gag
Needless to say I'm disgusted. I instantly lost all attraction to her this morning.
What can I / should I do? How do I politely tell her she's a gross human being?
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You had anal and you didn't prepare for the highly likely possibility of it getting messy? Bro, get over yourself.
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>>16461995
How do you prepare for something like this? I've had anal countless amounts of time and never once saw one piece of shit.
I just think this girl has a feces issue
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Top kek
Y'all r dirty op
How do you develop self-esteem when you've nothing to be proud about?
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>>16461927
do something to be proud of
duh
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http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2011/10/30/6-tips-to-improve-your-self-esteem/
http://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/in-depth/self-esteem/art-20045374
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/hide-and-seek/201205/building-confidence-and-self-esteem
Also going to a therapist helps.
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>>16461931
I'm too old to do anything genuinely impressive anymore.
Before I hook up with this person on tinder I need to know is it a chick or a dude?
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>>16461917
>pvt message for bookings
You know that person is a prostitute right
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>>16461917
Who cares? If it turns out being a guy, don't be such a faggot. Just suck her dick.
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>>16461924
Wouldn't that be gay?
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What's it like to do heroin? 2015-11-14 19:34:55 Post No.16461863
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What's it like to do heroin?
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Hello friends. Despite its bad reputation, doing heroin has always sounded like a good idea to me and would probably make me more fun. Unfortunately I don't like needles and it would affect my performance at work, but it still seems like a good idea and I wish I could do it.
What's it like to do heroin? Should I do heroin?
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You can smoke heroin too...
I've done it one time and it just felt like I took a bunch of vicodin.
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>>16461863
>doing heroin has always sounded like a good idea to me
Mind if I ask why?
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>>16461863
There's way better drugs than heroin that you can use socially at parties and such that are fun, like good coke or molly. Heroins just...fuckin bleh. It's no fun.