On Nov. 6, my fiance left me after 5 and a half years.
She moved to a different city for university studies in September. She is extremely busy with her new life. Which includes new friends and shit as well. She has a new friend she talks to a lot. I'm completely sure it's just a friend, but she talks more to him now than she talks to me.
It's fucked up how a thing like this can ruin 5 and a half years and a planned future together.
Anyway I begged, made a mess of myself etc. for 11 days now (don't judge, 5 and a half years is a lot!).
Is it time not to write back to her anymore?
What are the circumstances, why did she leave you? Was it just because she lives somewhere else now? She decided to break it off then?
>>16471182
She didn't feel like she had that kind of emotions for me anymore and if she did, she would only stay with me because she cared about my well being.
bitches aint shit but hoes and tricks
theyll never leave you unless they have another dick
your goal right now is to become too good for her, then you won't really give a shit other than for nostalgia's sake.
but cut contact please, you're wasting your time.
If she starts playing hard to get, is this good for the guy?
this girl i know flirts a lot in person, but won't text back when i ask what she's got going on on a given day
what the fuck is going on here? just an attention whore or does she want me to chase her
Why would she play hard to get?
>>16471200
Are you sure she's flirting?
Would you stay in a relationship with someone who was abusive in the past if they really did change?
In the past my girlfriend was kind of messed up to me. Off the top of my head was she isolated me from a lot of my friends and made me feel like they didn't really like me. And she would always put me down, and tell me like, i wasn't as good as her exes or something. There was a lot of things. She was sometimes violent, and she would like tear down my posters and stuff.
I posted on here and other websites and stuff back then, and people said the same thing most of the time, that i shouldn't be with her, but whenever i tried to break up with her, we always ended up working things out, and now we've fixed a lot of our problems. Like i've been slowly rebuilding all my friendships with people i isolated myself from.
But still, it's hard to let those things go. Sorry if some stuff didn't come out right, i have had a little to drink tonight, a lot of stuff is on my mind. Even more things than this.
The damage is done, but there's a chance of history repeating. Would you be willing to risk going through the past again? I think most people would say no.
>>16471140
i think about that all the time, like was it worth it? would i do it again? no.
But now, it's been like a year since we've had a serious problem and even then it was like the first one in a long time. It's not gonna happen again. She has changed a lot now, and to be completely honest, this is just me holding on to stuff from the past, but i don't know if i can let it go or even if it's the right thing to do.
i been reak sad for a long time even after we fixed the problems but ive been real sad and numb and i didn't have any feelings but on saturday i saw someone i really care about and i have been overwhelmed with emotions since then and i haave been recononsidering all of my whole life.
I'm shopping for good strap-on friendly things to fuck my boy in the butt with. Any recommendations?
Is he trained or untrained?
Do you own a holister? or not?
>>16471118
Not sure what you mean by "untrained" or "holister".
If you are asking whether or not he's accustomed to this kind of play, then yes. We've been doing this for a bit, but this is the first time I'm buying toys for this purpose.
C'mon /adv/, I'm hoping to place an order tonight.
Okay, so I just got back from subway, and I ordered my normal sandwich (footlong BMT), and I got it with provolone and mustard and ranch sauce and olives and pickles and banana peppers nad lettuce and onions and tomatoes and also bacon, and an extra large soft drink and 2 choco (thats what i call chocolate) chip cookies, and the cute latino girl behind the counter was trying to look away from my face and also holding back laughs. I realized I had just ordered what my stomach asked for and not what society would deem a sandwich with manners. Why people have to judge sandwich etiquitte is beyond me. Fuck those people. So anyways, my sandwich was apparently very unacceptable because everyone was staring at me when I went to get my soft drink from the fountain.
In a last ditch attempt to save face, I said my soft drink choice out loud while I poured it at the fountain. "Diet coke! I love diet coke because im watching my health!" and I made sure to suck in and lift up my chest harder than normal while I walked out the door.
So basically, I'm looking to start learning how to build a goal-oriented sandwich that shows that I have class and taste, I am tired of my dining habits preventing me from picking up the Ladies. For instance, what is a good kind of bread to start with, and what meat looks the best on it? Any help is appreciated.
Thanks!
10/10 thread, would read again
Get a Spicy Italian with Italian herbs and cheese.
tuna melt
on 6 inch honey oat
pepperjack
add bacon
toast
spinach, lettuce
Chipotle sauce, Sriracha sauce
heroin has ruined everything i ever loved
i can never go back.
>>16470990
Feelin you bro.
I'm an alcoholic.I'm drunk now.
Substance abuse, it's fucking radical.
All the time you're sober, all you feel is "I wish I was drunk now". Same with heroin, eh?
Knew a guy who was an addict like you. Heroin was his thing. He said that he'd wake up with ciggy burns on his chest, sheet, and shirt. Get so fucking blasted that he wouldn't even feel it as it burned down.
Said that was part of why he stopped.
Don't know if that motivates you or not.
I'm a drunk. I've tried stopping. It's so fucking hard.
Guess you gotta ask yourself whether its worth it. Is there anything in your life being sober for?
Your relationships where allready broken when you used and got addicted by fagotoin.
Cool stop being weak minded or is this the part where I'm supposed to feel bad for you?
I fucked a coworker and now she's acting mad at me and I don't know why. I'm 27, and was a virgin until a couple days ago. This new girl is 18 and your standard sort of attention whore. I didn't really care for her, and thus wound up being basically the only dude at work who didn't give her all the attention, and that just made her try harder and harder to get me to like her, until she basically said flat-out that she wanted to take my virginity. No talk of relationships or anything, and we're not even really friends, so it seemed to me like it was supposed to be just sex.
I made a thread here around then asking if I should get it out of the way just so I won't be 27 and a virgin, since that's probably detrimental to getting relationships with girls that I actually care about, unlike this one. It was a pretty unanimous yes, so I did. She asked me to spend the night so we could go again the next day, so I did. We fooled around some more in the morning, and she wanted to go get breakfast at some coffee shop, but I didn't really want to spend money, so I left.
Now she's acting all weird, not hanging on me like she usually does, and acting like she's mad when I try to talk to her. I guess that's fine, since she was a little annoying to begin with, but I'm not sure why that's going on. Is it just that she got what she wanted and I'm not interesting anymore, or did I do something wrong?
>she wanted to go get breakfast at some coffee shop, but I didn't really want to spend money, so I left
There you go. Not much of a mystery in the slightest.
>>16470989
Pretty much. Least you could have done since she helped you lose your permavirgin status.
>>16470991
>>16470989
Wait, seriously? I'm basically supposed to buy her a gift afterwards?
I want to keep fooling around with her to get better at this, so how do I fix this?
I see many people creating threads seeking for advice. I'll try to do the opposite and offer some advice.
What's troubling you? I'll be glad to help
I`ve already posted this but it`s not getting any responses just like your thread so I don`t really see the harm in bumping a general advice thread:
Alright /adv/ this is something thats been on my mind since my Father found my copy of "Depression and Anxiety for Dummies" and acted a bit surprised.
How come my parents never noticed my depression? Even people that I only interacted with on an occasional basis noticed that I was down in the dumps all the time and asked if I was depressed and dealing with anxiety.
Did they just think being sad and reclusive was normal behavior for me? Did they not realize that I didn`t have any friends for years? I really have no idea how this could have gone unnoticed.
>>16470978
Alright.
I used a loser who played videogames 24/7. theb I decided I wanted to do something. Mainly wanted to do good in school and get Gf. Fast foward about 2 months.Got straight A's getting switched into top classed soon ..also retaking classes I failed Before. But Still no Gf and I kinda started to hate everyone because everyone is dumb as fuck and Shit. But I'm pretty sure this girl I like is pretty smart atleast in like history and stuff so I like her and I think she likes me. But I'M kinda see it as a waste of time now. I don't want to wasted to much tine on a gf but i'm till want her sometimes. Idk I guess I am pretty much just asking if I should even go for it? like it would probably not last anyways but should I give it a shot anyways? or will I just waste my time in the end?
>>16471074
*sorry about grammar. I'm on a crap mobile*
I've never visited this board before, so hello everyone. Anyways, I'm a hypochondriac. I worry to the point of actually getting sick about being sick, and then I worry that I got sick because I was actually sick. It's pretty shitty.
Finished my second year in college, got a job and everything has been going fairly well in my life. Then I notice this lump. A hard, painful lump directly under my nipple. When I squeeze it hard enough, I get a clear liquid that comes out some times. As a hypochondriac this fucking destroyed me.
I call my dad for advice and he sort of says something along the lines of, "you're just worried as usual. It's probably a pimple or something, men rarely get breast cancer".
Is he right? I've asked him and others if they think I am sick thousands of times in the past, and they have never been wrong before. Am I over thinking this, or should I go see a doctor? I've been feeling lightheaded too with headaches, but that might just be the constant stress.
There's more I'd like to ask advice on but I'll wait and see if anyone is interested in this thread.
>>16470977
Tumors don't leak, ya shit.
It's a pimple.
Or a cyst now cuz you keep playing with it.
>>16470983
It's been here for weeks though, wouldn't it have at least shrunk by now?
>>16470984
Then go to a clinic and have it cut out.
It's a cyst. It's there for a while.
You're not an Americunt are you?
Either way stop playing with it. Stop poking it.
Ask someone who has passed Calc 1,2 and 3 and almost finish with linear algebra. Math Education major btw. Already have a job set up and waiting for me at a private school paying 16 on the hour.
>>16470931
Who scored the winning touchdown in Superbowl 13?
...
What, that's it?
>>16470931
Explain the Albigensenist Heresy.
I am 19 years old and I graduated high school last year. I currently have two Cisco certifications and a job in the IT field. My job pays really well and I have my own two bedroom apartment to myself, so I feel like I am doing pretty well for a 90s kid; I didn't turn out like a total fuck like the majority of the late 90s kids did. I live on my own because I am single and none of my friends my age have jobs; they are smart/stupid and live with their parents. I just wanted to give my background before I ask my question. My female cousin has had a long term best friend that I have liked since I have met her. Both of them are younger and are sophomores in high school. Would it be wrong of me to try to date/talk to my cousin's friend? I am worried what my parents would think/how they would view me.
TLDR: I am 19 and I want to date/talk to a sophomore in high school. Is that wrong?
Pic not related
Thank you for reading.
Fuck her anally first.
Anon always comes through thanks man.
No matter who you date, you're always going to be faced with the opinions of her parents.
Check your state or country's age of consent laws. It's not necessarily illegal to simply date or talk to somebody that's not of age, however if you two are dating, expect people to start thinking you are doing stuff under the sheets, nom saiyan?
My personal brotip is if you have any concerns like this, you're better off either waiting until she's older or dating somebody else.
I'm considering saving up to get myself a nosejob, it's the only feature I hate about myself. It doesn't look so bad front on but my profile is just disgusting
has anyone had any sort of work done?
bum
>>16470812
Post pics?
>>16470812
i mean, how bad is it? i think plastic surgery is a stupid thing to do unless you are literally ugly because of a certain feature. although i have to say, my ex girlfriend was cute, and then she got a nose job and now shes kind of hot.
goddamn, it had to be after we dated.
Gf have a status "i love you more than pizza", what should i put as mine to surpass it?
She's really into pizzas
:Did someone order extra sausage on their pie?"
>>16470738
Pizza loves me more than you. Which should I choose?
>>16470738
I love you more than two pizzas with a side of garlic bread.
Long story short, my mother has access to my bank account. I trust her with funds but recently I got a job she would not approve of. What's a believable story about how they pay me besides direct deposit?
You're a hooker/camwhore, aren't you?
How about you take her off account and don't let her judge you, she should just be happy you have a job
>>16470700
>>16470699
No. I work at a place with someone she would disown me over. I'm already living with a roommates I just don't wanna strain our relationship
So bros
At the age 25, I finally got a girlfriend. We had sex a few times (awkward as fuck, still learning etc)
But anyway...I've been seeing her for a couple weeks now - why don't I love her? Like, I just don't love her. A buddy told me to dump her as if I don't love her now I never will, however most have seemed to tell me that love eventually comes, and I'm thinking too much.
But for real, I just dont...I don't feel it. I swear to God that I think it has something to do with us banging on the second date. I don't know.
I almost want to tell her that I appreciate her for opening a new world for me and that she's great, but that I don't feel a loving connection with her.
By the way, she's fine and she shares all my taste in everything. She's actually a really cool chick, I just...I don't, I'm not excited to see her.
>>16470676
>But anyway...I've been seeing her for a couple weeks now - why don't I love her? Like, I just don't love her.
You've only been together a few weeks and you expect to be in love with her?
>A buddy told me to dump her as if I don't love her now I never will, however most have seemed to tell me that love eventually comes, and I'm thinking too much.
Your buddy is a retard
>>16470690
>Your buddy is a retard
This.
>>16470676
>>16470690
Agree with other anon, your buddy is a retard and has probably never been in a relationship.
Love takes time, experience, dedication and commitment to come around. Give it time. Or speed things up and get in a super dangerous situation together and survive it, you'll bond fast.
You're fine OP.