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Hi guys, so my significant other wants to break up with me because they feel as if they are wasting my time and ruining my life because I'm not in college since I live with them out of state.

So basically my mom kicked me out in May. I moved to Florida with my S/O to start my life there. I've been applying for jobs and had no luck. I also had to take 3 months off from looking for jobs because my family member was dying and I had to fly back home. I'm flying back to Florida tomorrow.

My S/O wants me to stay home, but I have no family support whatsoever and wouldn't be able to attend school here regardless. They said they won't leave if I can prove to them that I can get finical aid and can attend classes this semester or the summer.

I want to apply for the FAFSA, but I'm concerned with applying due to my situation. I'm out of state and I don't have a residence. I basically live in my S/O's dorm and I am undocumented.

I plan on getting a P.O. Box when I get back home so I can get a job. And preferably work somewhere that helps with tuition.

Another thing is that my mother doesn't claim me as her dependent, the only benefits I have from my parents is health insurance until I'm 23.

Please guys, what should I do? Do you think I can get help with the fafsa?

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Alright, I need some advice.

>be me
>pretty quiet guy
>don't say too much
>mostly communicate in shoulders shrugs and primitive grunts
>hot blonde
>the adhd kind
>always saying stupid shit to get attention
>still hot
>takes every oppurtunity to talk to me and get my attention
>from asking me questions about the class or writing on my neck in pen
>not much experience with girls this bold so dont really know what to do
>nothing.exe
>shrug or one to three word answers
>one day
>asks me if i hate her
>says im always glaring at her or being grumpy
>"no"
>"so you hate me"
>wtf is this trickery
>two options
>i like you
>no
>"no thats not what i meant"
>crisis avioded
>gets more and more flirty
>currently in a long distance relationship
>been wanting to break it off for a while
>fuck it
>she also wanted to so it was a win win
>talking to my friends about asking her out
>they tell me she has a boyfriend
>wut
>tall black guy, not really a thug tho
>still dont want to fuck with him
>fuck

That is the story, the question is what do I do? Is she just trying to affirm she is attractive by flirting with other males? Does she actually like me? If I am going to ask her out how should I go about it?

Even shitty advice appreciated

Help me out here.

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hey,

I started getting back together with my ex the last few weeks. things were going well until I caught her in s lie and accidentally discovered she was dating a girl.

today she came clean about being more attracted to women and that I was the only guy she's ever been sexually attracted to and the only person she's ever had sex with.

she wants me to give her time to decide who to go with, as she's basically stringing two people along here. she confessed she still loves me and isn't accepting of her sexuality. I just don't know if this is going to become a problem in the future if she decides to act on sexual urges that my penis can't satisfy.

reasons for breakup were lying and lack of effort. should I just move on and forget about this or should I see what happens and go from there? will her basically lesbian sexuality get too far in the way?

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A short example of my life as a kid, is this normal? Was I being spoiled about not wanting to eat inside the restaurant? This happened several years ago when I was 16 but I still wonder about it a lot.

>on vacation
>mom wants to eat dinner 4 hours earlier than we’d planned
>i’m not hungry, being a teen with new smartphone, want to stay in car
>this makes her mad
>wants us to eat together
>accuses me of being anorexic
>i’m just not hungry
>offer to take food with me, not good enough
>mom yells at dad to take me outside and “shake” me
>dad says he doesn’t want to get arrested in america
>things get heated
>parents tell me i always ruin everything
>want me to move out
>i offer to go inside and eat with them
>it’s too late, mom refuses to eat, i ruined the mood
>drive her to the hotel, go to pick up food
>scared of them, crying
>get to hotel
>drank a lot, need to go to bathroom
>mom says i’m bulimic (not true) and have been vomiting entire trip
>says they have to watch me pee, otherwise i can't go
>wtf
>refuse
>things get more heated
>keeps yelling at dad to pull my pants down and force me onto the toilet, force me to pee
>dad says i’m too old for that
>she tries to compromise
>i can’t flush toilet and need to leave door open
>mirrors everywhere, this is gross, i say no
>call her perverted when she keeps insisting and pushing dad
>mom is furious
>says she’s done with us and is leaving
>hotel is next to highway, i’m scared for her, apologize and try to hug her
>calls me selfish cunt, pushes me away, throws stuff on floor
>leaves
>dad goes to look for her
>implies i ruined their vacation
>i’m crying because i think she killed herself
>dad doesn’t correct me
>is weirdly calm
>2 hrs of this
>he knew where she was hiding the entire time

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I'm having deep emotions about how bizarre and utterly unmanageable human existence is. Life turns out to be a lot more harder and A LOT more boring. Career and life disappoints are plenty. I hate the way my life has turned out, and I think about this constantly. I'm incredibly envious of those who have a good career, a social circle, and a great girlfriend and are successful in the endeavors they're passionate about. I feel like an utterly mediocre human.

I'm 25 & completed my degree after years of struggling from a mediocre state university with a slightly above average gpa. But now I'm left with a "now what?"

I have no hobbies, i have no passions, I have no purpose or motivation. I've mostly chose my field because it seemed sensible and I didn't know what else to do. I've never chased dreams. I've never done anything in my field. I'm not even particularly sure want to do this as a job. The constant rejection and pointless application churning during internship season was incredibly demotivating.

I'm not happy with my life and not passionate about what I'm doing. I don't even know if I even have passions. I have these crazy pipe dreams of being in a creative field but those don't make money. I might even hate it because I've never done anything of the sort. I come from a very poor background and my family has expectations.

I feel I've never particularly had control of my life. I feel I'm a plebe and that even if I get a job in my field it will be boring and mediocre and not what I actually wanted. I mostly see myself as a mediocre slightly miserable 30 year old.

I'm currently I'm stuck between studying for grad school entrance exams(GMAT or LSAT), applying to jobs, or just going in a completely different direction and saying fuck you to the conventional road. But honestly I haven't done a thing for the last month. I need some help in terms of what I should look into doing next and how.

what do I do?

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I don't know if I'm still in love. I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years and I think about what other women would feel like, what it would be like to get to know them and be with someone not like my partner. I love her, and I'd do anything for her but I don't know if I'm attracted to her anymore. Is this normal? I don't really know what to do.

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This white kid is gonna fight me. What do? Pic related. It's him.

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Came at home at 10 am and my boss called me right now and said if I could do a double from 5pm to 9 am and I said

"I don't think so, I'm sorry"

Should I have worded it better? I mean seriously I would have 3 hours of sleep and then 2 hours commute into 16 hours of work but she wouldn't care if I'm tired.

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Recovering from psychosis, too much weed.
>tfw voices in head for a year
>actually followed them
>turns out just audio hallucinations
>tfw expected full recovery

Need femanon to talk to

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I had a crush on a girl in uni, first time I ever really had a crush on anyone my age who I could talk to. Just before Christmas break I start talking to her. She's really friendly too me, we flirt quite a lot, she starts the conversations with me, smiles a lot, more or less tells me she likes sitting with me in lectures and stuff.

We go on Christmas break, she invites me to do a bunch of stuff with her once we get back. In fact we even sit watching a show in her room on her bed UNDER A BLANKET.

I stupidly tell her at this point that she was my only good friend on the course. That seems to deject her a little bit. All throughout the week we don't talk, she doesn't show me any interest at all any more.

We wouldn't see each other for another 2 weeks after this week and she doesn't want to meet alone again (always says she's busy at whatever I suggest). I get frustrated and tell her how I feel via text. She rejects me brutally, tells me she's aromantic.

I don't think that's true though, I definitely think there was a time where she did like me. All in all we were 'friends' for about 2 months or so, maybe longer and I had a crush all that time. Did I wait too long to ask her out? What mistake did I make?

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>get introduced to a chubby latina girl through a friend of mine (she's his coworker)
>she's cute but overweight, and the kinda overweight were it goes to her shoulders and face despite her belly not being that huge
>I'm into /fit/ so she ends up asking for fitness advice since I look good
>she ends up asking me alot about fitness and really expresses a desire to lose weight
>show her how to count calories and explain as a girl she doesn't need to really build muscle, and that with basic discipline weight loss is very easy, it just takes a few months to start seeing noticeable results
>really happy someone wants to better themselves
>she adds me on facebook later
>end up chatting to her (she's articulate and we talking about a dozen different things)
>after we end up talking about boyfriends/girlfriends she says she's never had sex, and would like to lose her virginity to me
>keep in mind, I'm not a virgin and I can get girls when I try
>also she is kinda not that attractive, her complexion and face aren't horrible but her fat is in all the wrong places and also I'm not huge on brown girls
>I told her if I did, it would have to be be discrete and I really don't want to get into a relationship because I have college coming up and I'm moving soon
>(didn't say it was because of her size, felt bad since she was so nice)
>she's still down if I'm willing to make her first time nice and not just leave as soon as I'm done

Okay, is this a bad idea?
I was a pent up virgin for years until I got in shape and lost it to my first girlfriend, so I know that I would have loved a more attractive girl to throw me a bone even if we didn't date.
But I don't want her to get super attached because while she isn't very attractive that feels scummy and she is genuinely a good person.

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i think im gonna hang myself with my shoelaces.

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Yesterday morning I was walking towards the bus stop and less than 200 feet in front of me a man jumped off a 6 story building, he faceplanted right into the ground. I'm shaking. I was with him while a man across the street ran and called the police. He was still alive, but I didn't say anything. I was in shock. He was moving his shoulders but died right there in front of me moments after. I didn't see a ton of blood, but he just looked very broken.. I can't eat or sleep. It was so bad. Maybe I should have given him words of comfort. I literally couldn't speak, my mouth for some reason went dry, I couldn't say anything if I tried.

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I lack the balls to kill myself. I lack the will to keep living. Doesn't seem likely to get better either, as it's got steadily worse for years.

Any suggestions other than sit and wait to die?

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Gf wanted to take a break for a couple weeks and not talk. Said she had to figure some things out. She said there are issues with our relationship. Issues that she never ever brought up to me until she initiated the break. It's confusing as hell because she's never been like this before. This weekend will be two weeks since we talked. Should I contact her at the end of this week or should I wait for her to message me? Any ladies with an opinion on this?