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Generally, maybe means no.

Just leave her be. If she is interested, she will start to show signs.

>>16672986

I'm of the opinion that maybe probably means no but it's not a good enough answer. Don't go down like that. Be confident and tell her you want a yes or a no.

>>16673000
Sadly this is truth.

I'm guessing that's your case, so yes, I guess.

Suicidal thoughts are, by definition, a clear sign of depression.

>>16672977
Dunno if I'm clinically depressed, didn't see no psychologists

Ignore the typos I'm posting mobile

Nah. You're already in there. Don't listen to her words, listen to how you're fucking her. That's about the most serious relationship two human beings can engage in. You have to lead it to where you want it to go is all.

>>16672879
How do I not give a shit that she's probably fucking other guys?

>>16672759
If your ethnic, suicide by cop
If your white, helium tank

Have yourself committed.

>>16672759
Just slit your wrists, it doesn't hurt so much. Or drink booze and freeze to death.

Keep setting up dates or just have him over to hang out. Texting is a terribly weak form of communication, it's face to face talking you need.

>>16672726
Talk to someone, within his hearing range about how much you like sucking dick

>>16672726
He used you as cumdumpster; you can try to text him and reach out but I'm 99% sure he doesn't care.

>>16672648

Side question.. did they disable bumping?

>>16672603
Thats hard, try to notice all her flaws

>>16672603
Just ask your friend to let you watch as they fuck.

>>16672583
First off, stop trying to find the girl you want and start opening for the girl you need. We all want chicks with huge tits, 10/10 faces and so on, but be sure she doesn't bitch all the time, treats you like a walking wallet and disrespects you.

Try to find your second half, someone who'd sell their souls for you. Even when she doesn't look like the girl of your dreams, give her a place in your heart and you'll get it back thousandfold.

My wife was my coworker
Try find a job with mixed employees. Good luck

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My first girlfriend just kinda threw herself at me. I knew her sister and she told my first girlfriend that I was taking Spanish. I agreed to tutor her and from there she started pursuing me and asking me out on little dates. I basically ignored her and barely gave her attention because at the time I thought she was really out of my league. Ended up being my girlfriend for about 6 years.

My second "girlfriend" I met at work. I didn't really talk to her much, but when I went to a co-worker's retirement party she came up and bought me shots and was flirting with me pretty hard. After that ended up inviting her to like coffee before we worked and we saw each other for a bit. Turned out she was a huge whore though, so I broke that off.

My current interest I met off Tinder. Which is a pretty lame dating app, but this girl seems legit. We've been talking for weeks, but haven't set up a date yet since she's busy with school.

At least in my experience I've never let woman I'm interested in see me as a friend. I think that's how a lot of guys fuck up. Not to say that can't work, or that I don't have any female friends, I just think it puts in you in a worse spot than if you don't let it get to the "friends" level ever.

>>16672583

I've been in like 3 relationships and had 5 girls I dated for a short time. Most of them were through friends, which I met during birthday parties etc, and the other ones I met through work.

Also, yes, I don't consider myself "alpha". I could probably get girls during clubbing, but I'm not the type to approach girls I don't know at parties. Unless I am really fucking drunk and I can barely remember what happened the next day.

Just a small confident booster, even the best looking guys from my group of friends, which date quite a lot, barely get approached by girls at parties. They are almost always the ones to initiate.

>>16672576
If it's a celebrity or fictional character then yes, that's normal
Anyone your partner knows in real life is a bit much unless you're both okay with it

Its normal to a very slight extent.

Like IMO saying it once or twice a month about a celebrity is normal

If its all the time or about someone obtainable, fucking run m8

Mine does, but we trust each other and are not monogamous.

What is the big deal? I smoked it every day lol

Bring snacks.

im just not sure what to expect. what does it feel like?

Travel aimlessly. I hop on a bus and just sleep there, not giving a shit where it goes.

>>16672575
Fuck I gotta try that.

Have you tried literally killing yourself?

>>16672460
No, it's just statutory rape if you bang her.

How old is she? Most purple don't realize that age of consent in most places, including most states in America, is 16.

Also how old are you?

>>16672466
16. I'm 20.

> I feel as though I have schizophrenia instead, and I'm very depressed because of that.
haha, what? who cares

>>16672419
>who cares

I do. I believe I have it, and it usually leads to a permanent and continuous deterioration of personality and intellect. I wouldn't like to live this kind of life, hence the depression.

>>16672418
>The reason why I think I have schizophrenia is because this diagnosis was made during my first hospitalization
Is this really the only reason you think that, OP?
If so, don't worry about it.

>>16672388
>Is it worth it, for him?

he's a big boy, if he wants to do it and it goes south you're not to blame. he knows what he's doing.

>>16672401
I guess that what I am concerned about is that I wouldn't move there for him.
He thought about it and he's old enough to make his decisions, but I still feel guilty and selfish.

>>16672436
Well, do you think you still want to be with him? If he's willing to just come on a visit, give that a shot and see how you feel?
If the spark is still there, I say go for it. Better to have taken the opportunity than not.

Can someone kill all cheaters please? Why the fuck is it so hard for people to be honest. Just break up if you're not happy!

Anyway OP I'm in a similar position and I think we should just get back out there.

>>16672358
Time. It's unfortunately the only correct answer to your question. Right now you're not in a place yet to be able to put all of this in perspective. It will come eventually. But it might well take a year to do it. However, to give you some light at the end of the tunnel: when you do finally get through this phase, you'll be stronger than ever.

>>16672363
>>16672363
Wellp, I was afraid of that. I hope I don't take a whole fucking year to get over this shit, I really don't want any more time wasted on this woman.

>>16672355
Trojan or Durex.. doesn't matter .. Just make sure you put it on correctly.

Leave room at the tip. then roll down the head of your penis..

You won't really feel much with a condom.. but don't take it off.

Oh.. it's gonna be great Anon.. that worm soft as silk feeling around your cock.

Make sure you don't go too fast.. be very slow and deliberate and enjoy it.

Keep a few condoms near by.. can unwrap it .. put a little lube in the condom then over your dick.. make sure lubricated condom side is out..


Having sex with a girl is 10 times more intense than masturbating.. orgasms are more meaningful and incredible.

>>16672355
And.. after you take it off... tie a not in the condom like balloon and put it in the trash and don't flush it down the toilet. If you are afraid she might steal your cum to get pregnant take it with you and throw away in a dumpster outside.

Trojan or Durex

Don't go with flavoured one on your first time

Make sure you put the condom the right way

Btw, don't put on the wrong hole.