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Where can I find people who just don't give a fuck? Like, people with whom you don't have to be walking on eggshells when you're around them.
For example, if you farted in front of them they would just laugh at it with you, and wouldn't act like socially conditioned pretentious bitches and reject you.
Or if you called them a stupid retard, or made politically incorrect jokes, they wouldn't be "offended".
People who don't care about social status, but only care about the fun of interacting with a fellow human being.

Fuck, why do I have to live in a society of dogma and selfish ideals? We're all going to die in the end, and there will be nothing after that as far as I can tell possibly. Just eternal emptiness.
Why not just live a life of fun, without being worried about what status others may give you?
Oh and don't start with the whole "muh I care about how I will be remembered". Soon after your death, nobody will give a fuck about you. And then some time later, the universe, and everything which inhabits it, will cease to exist. And there's no way to escape this fate.

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>GF came back from holiday trip
>Colder than usual
>I ask her out, says that she'll "tell me later if she can"
>Forgets about it, goes to her best friend house instead, doesn't say anything

>Asks her out again
>"I don't know if I want to, these are the first vacations where I don't rest"
>Tf does that even mean.

GF is now colder, doesn't say "I love you" like she used to. Has time for friends and shit, not for me.

Already asked her if there was something wrong, that if she need help. Says "there's a lot of stuff that keeps me stressed" but doesn't say anything more.

WAT DA FUCK TO DO

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My girlfriend and I of 5 years broke up about a month ago. How the fuck do we get back together?

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So me and my ex of seven months broke up. A brief back story goes like.

>meet girl at work
>she has plans to do road construction to make bank for college.
>we get together and plans change to include me.
>she starts staying at my house within like a month.
>see signs she's a slut, never really trust her.
>on the road trip up north for road construction see her texting her ex's
>basically end up chocking her eventually because she wont stop
>I spend the majority of my 1,500 a week on her and our expenses so she can save for college.
>ends up giving her parents about 2k behind my back because they are really poor.
>not too mad because I know they are poor but upset because she didnt tell me and seems like her own parents where using her.
>get back to our home state for her to start college
>I stay in the girls dorm with her for about 3 months.
>our sex life has been going downhill for a ling time
>can't last long/mental block because she told me she is 18 and slept with 9 guys some of them black and also my younger brother before I met her.
>in the end she throws me out

What do guys I still love her but I feel it going away everyday and I dont know how I feel about that. She was the first person I ever loved seriously. It doesn't hurt as much anymore and its not the pain I want to forget it's forgetting about her and all the fun times we had I dont want to forget. It's been about a month of no contact from either of us and I almost sent her a facebook message this morning. So should I just move on or what?

Try to get back with her or try for closure?

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How do I stop thinking about it?
>be me
>long story short
>work at banquet hall
>quit around November 2014
>dated ex co-worker for a month in the spring of 2015 and broke up
>needed money for the holidays so I work there again
>have our work Christmas party few weeks ago
>second time I've seen her since I came back
>didn't make an effort to talk to her
>talk to other qt from work instead
>next day is new years eve
>texts me at midnight asking if I'm going to mutual friends nye party
>think it's odd since I haven't talked to her in a few months
>she wants me to go
>tell her jokingly she Should pick me up since I'm right sheen the street and she knows where I live
>she says sure
>I'm more surprised and read into it
>picks me up and we go to party
>she seems happy to see me
>get to party and I commence the flirting
>she's semi going
>as the night goes on i can see she's losing interest
>she starts getting ready to go
>I pull her off to the side and ask her why she texted me
>she tells me that she was looking through hey phonebook and not to look into it
>she still needs to give Me a ride home
>takes me home
>gets to my house, I thank her and tell her not to text me anymore
>texts me later that night asking why, said she was confused
>I drunkingly try to explain that I felt she was leading me on
>at the end of things I reiterate myself and tell her not to text me
>ff a few days, feel guilty about the situation
>realize I shouldn't have lost my cool and not asked her that question
>mfw when I realized I dropped my spaghetti and potentially ruined any chance I had with her
>it's been almost two weeks since then and I keep beating myself up about it
>I still have to work with her
>How do I amend what I have broken?

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One of my friends got really drunk and messaged my gf saying she was really hot.

How do I react to this?

To be fair, he had to be carried to his door because he was fucking REKT.

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Is being attracted to little girls better than being gay? Like in a moral sense

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Here a story guys, 1 Month ago I've met a Korean girl in Sarajevo, and I fell in love with her. Decided to tell her but that was her last day in city, but before that we have shared our contacts. Fast forward one month, it was last night . I told her that I like her I had to, and she told me she likes me too! And she asked me if I could come to Korea to visit her, later when she is finished with her traveling.
Now I need a lot of money for that trip, and there is no fucking way to earn or save that kind of money here in Bosnia. So i made a fundraising , and here I need your advice. That project won't go public till it has raised 100$, so I need your advice where should I share link so It can . I won't post it here because than I'm asking you to help me out.

Any advice is welcome

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>Be me
>Be at a bookstore checking one of them bookshelfs
>Qt is also checking one like 3 mts away
>Look at her
>Look at her again. She was lookin at me and stops when I do. This happens twice.
>She moves to the bookshelf next to which I'm checking
>Spaghetti.gif
>Take the book I was looking for, pay it and get out of the bookstore

Did I lose an oportunity?

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Why do women like Russians so much?

At least here in Portland, they're so affectionate and flirter with Slavic men. Whether actually from East Europe or just native Portlanders of Slavic descent. And some of these fucks are chubby, out-of-shape assholes with no physically attractive traits to speak of. Yet still, they're always popular with girls. Gorgeous girls too. Why?

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really good ways to get a man to lose interest in his gf? (without cheating)

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im thinking abot doing a small tattoo
where do you think is a good place for a small tattoo?
what should i tattoo?

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How do you reverse a growing addiction to cutting?

I've restarted cutting and the frequency and depth is increasing at an alarming rate. I don't want to end up gross and scarred and unlovable.

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I have severe anxiety and panic attacks. Having trouble even leaving my house. I don't wanna take antidepressants I do take a benzo if it gets really bad. not sure what's the cause and ideas or advice?

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Hello there, what can I get you?
Something you need to talk about?
We can talk about me, too, if it helps get your head clear.
Just enjoy your stay.

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