I need some tips on how to motivate someone.
Believe in yourself.
Money.
Either give them money or fine them.
>>16675199
Maybe I should clarify my situation. I'd like to help motivate my boyfriend. Specifically I'd like to help him find a job. He's been depressed lately, so it's been really hard for him. He avoids filling out applications even though he does want a job.
Me and my ex stopped talking for a week after I hurt her so I started texting (romantically) this girl I met at the mall, it led to nothing because the girl stopped texting back
Weeks later I run into my ex and we start talking about back together, she looks through my phone finds the texts and claims I was cheating. I didn't really feel like arguing about it since it was 6am so I just left. I will agree that it was a bad thing to do a week after ending a one year relationship but was I really in the wrong? I had thought we had broken up and the relationship clearly wasn't healthy.
Pic related is something we made on the beach
> Pic related is something we made on the beach
You're cute and made me laugh. You sound young, how old are you? It's all gonna be okay.
If you were broken up you were broken up. That's really the end of it.
>>16675100
I'm 24 and she is [spoiler]18[/spoiler]
>>16675107
That's what I thought too.
Is hair loss really completely genetic or is it
>chronic stress/depression
>sleep deprivation
>toxicities in body
>pesonality disorders that cause overeating, lack of exercise, and lack of motivation
>lack of fresh air and physical activity and sunshine over a long period
>awful diet and lifestyle
>lack of sunshine and other vitamins
I'd like to ask this about hand size, jaw width, chin size, dick size of course, oh and shoulder width for good measure.
Jesus christ what have I become.
Nearly entirely genetics, sorry.
medfag here. almost entirely genetic, partly chronic stress.
sorry bro.
I have to write a resume to apply for a job at my college campus, and uh...
What the fuck do I actually put on it? I don't really have a lot of applicable experience (but I'm gonna make something up), no honours or awards or anything like that... not exactly a lot of skills either.
I'm in the process of restructuring my resume. I'm fairly happy with it so far. I removed company names and dates but hopefully this gives you a good idea.
>>16674922
>highschool
>college youre going to
>jobs
>volunteering
>program applications you know
>any other fucking skills
>go learn something you lazy asshole
>do you even have friends
>you dont need a resume to be a dish washer
Don't they have a career center at your college? Helping students with their resumes is exactly their main job.
Hi,
I'm supposed to take an eye test in a few hours, because I need a new pair of glasses.
Since I'm high on heroin, my pupils are constricted.
Is that going to make a difference? Should I take that test some other time?
>>16674835
reschedule desu
>>16674835
yes it will make a big difference.
Reschedule for another time.
>>16674835
Yeah reschedule. Next time you shoot up/snort/whatever make sure you do enough to kill yourself though. It'll make a major difference because society will be minus one worthless junkie.
Yesterday I posted a thread with this same image saying I felt hollow and depressed in my relationship, and detailing some things that happened recently.
I read all the comments saying I should talk to her, and I did, and I got mad and we've been having a huge fight for over 24 hours now. That ugly feeling between us doesn't seem to be getting any better.
She just went to sleep and told me to write a list with everything she does that I dislike, citing there were "tons of things" she disliked that I did as well. Should I actually do it or is it a trap/hopeless?
Trap. Trap everywhere. I'm taking this because I'm a girl too. There's nothing you can do. If the girl didn't seem like willing to change,she'll hate you forever for what you talked. At this point I don't think it's wise to repeat that subject now. Move on and do it the other the day when she is in a good mood.
>>16674830
It's a trap. If you guys fight now, what magical formula do you think there is that would fix it at this point. This 'list' sounds like catalyst to end it. Will you fix what she perceives, would she fix what you perceive?
Make a list of the things you LIKE about her, turn the tables. It's still likely a lose lose, but who really knows.
>>16674830
A whole list would just be petty and childish. Think of the major things that bother you, think of why they bother you, and think of a way that they can be fixed.
I'd say write it out simply so you can have the entire thing well thought out instead of blurted out incorrectly in the emotional heat of the moment. Don't bring it into the conversation though, just say you thought about it.
Try not to be accusatory and focus on how things make you feel. "When you do this, I feel like ____" or "It makes me _____"
If you guys can't sit there and talk about your feelings then what's the point
I've been thinking. If one person won a billion dollars, and gave a million to each person in America, what exactly would happen? Would it even be possible? I'm guessing everyone would quit their jobs? Or if you did keep it, would you be bored with everything life would have to ofter? Just curious what everyone else thought about it.
>>16674798
Inflation. I think you also overestimate how far a million dollars goes. Especially when people are suddenly given it and use it recklessly.
Also this isn't advice.
>>16674798
>Would it even be possible?
Afraid not. $1 billion would be enough to give about $3 to everyone in America.
>>16674798
lol someone believed the meme...
What's the most painless way iyo to an hero?
>>16674782
cut open your stomach and strangle yourself with your intestine
>>16674782
What makes you think there's no pain on your next stop if you did that?
It's going to be incredibly painful for everyone that cares about you. So why should it be painless for you? drink Drano, handcuff yourself to a bed and set it on fire
Yoooosooooo
I met this gitl at a party and it turns out we had a random connection walking down the sidewalk one day that got my butterflies going. But turns out shes 16 and im 22 , im not sure if i should go for it or not legal age in my state is 16 , what are your thoughs my buddy is 25 dating a 18 yo right now so makes me feel slightly better about it.
To add she seema really fun and is totally my type when it comes to style and personality.
What do?
>>16674707
Don't even bother man. You're at completely different stages of life, like this girl is picking out prom dresses and you're old enough to have completed college and started a master's degree.
I just don't see what you guys would really have in common in the long run.
If its legal why not?
Don't do it even if it's legal. You don't want that kind of reputation, seriously.
My boyfriend won't stop adding porn bots on smapchat, used to do shit on kik all of the time, and he keeps looking at traps.
I'm about and 8 or 9 and he's a 6 or 7 and I love him but I'm tired of him putting me through shit. I'm tired of constantly finding new shit.
I don't understand how I'm not enough, I'm willing to do basically anything he wants me to do, he's finishing up school so I work and provide for both of us and I get him basically whatever he wants.
What should I do?
>traps
Leave him
You know what to do already.
>>16674635
you already know what to do.
hes an autistic manchild that will never grow up. im going to take a wild guess that you met him here?
whats a good way of dealing with loneliness, i feel like no one cares about me and i think my place on this earth seems null. I just want to have someone i can do nice things for.
>>16674611
>I just want to have someone i can do nice things for.
Volunteer somewhere.
>>16674614
they won't think its creepy that some young guy choose to volunteer on his own choice? Okay then.
Lately I've been feeling almost the same op. I personally just try to fill the void by just focusing on work, college and hobbies. I might try to join an club or two, maybe you should consider the same. Maybe we'll both end up making new friends?
Hi /adv i need an advice regarding smart drugs, im taking drugs that can increase your mental output. the following medications i take are:
Piracetam
Modafinil
Fish oil
Gingko Biloba
Multi-vit w/ royal jelly and ginseng
Glutaphos
my question is how do i maximize my mental learning and minimizing the risk of cirrhosis and bleeding?
are my drug of choice safe? how do i use it safely thanks
What, No snake oil?
>>16674608
i dont like the taste of snake oil.
>>16674593
I don't know who told you this, but taking supplements isn't going to make you any smarter than you already are.
Want to get smart? better go hit those math and science books
My boyfriend's ex used his credit card for about 1,000 dollars recently. She admitted to it and didn't even really apologize. Just kind of said, you should have changed your pin.
He doesn't want to press charges and didn't even bitch her out at all. He says it isn't worth it, but to me, it raised major red flags.
Am I crazy for thinking he must still have feels for her?
>>16674589
Could be he just wants to move on and not get into yet another argument with her. If my ex did that shit I'd probably just get the money back and try and move on asap. Of course it could be what you think, ask him about it and see how he responds. don't like accuse him though
>>16674589
Did you find out or did he tell you out of guilt?
Unless he has something to hide he'd do something about it.
>>16674589
It sounds more like he knows she's a psychotic black hole of endless drama, and for him, it's worth it to lose $1000 and change his pin, rather than get drawn into a fight with her. She clearly did this as a move to get his attention, he knows that, and he's not giving her what she wants.
If he still had feelings for her, he'd get drawn in. He'd fight. His response pretty much sounds like he's just sick of her shit and would rather just end this situation quickly.
We will have been going out for 2 years in March which makes this very difficult. We are both shy and don't have any friends. I like hanging out with her but she never took the relationship seriously. She makes stuff up in her mind like Me asking to put "in a relationship" on Facebook was a conspiracy to get back at my ex, when I asked her if she loved me she was thrown off that I'd ask about love she said yes but she wouldn't ask back because she already made up her mind that I don't love her (this was months ago) I find myself generally having to prove myself while she doesn't do much but tag along.
This weekend my friends setup an old school LAN party, I went (told her about this days in advance) and she got mad even though she could have wen or texted me that she wanted to hangout. And now accusing me that this has been a "pretend" relationship. This comes at a bad time because I thought we would be moving in together in a month or two. But I can't stand that I have to provide and do everything in the relationship. I really do like her, I find her very attractive. I also have tried finding dates when I thought the relationship was over before and no one would go out with me. It worries me that I'll be alone if I do break up.
Pic related, dat ass. It's what's at steak here.
She sounds insecure about the relationship. Have you asked her why she wants you to validate your relationship constantly?
>>16674492
Having no friends and being used a lot I guess she likes the feeling of being pampered. Which I like to do but she doesn't do it back and claims I'm using her if I don't.
I'm no expert but try being a bit of a hardass or demanding and controlling. She would probably respond well to it. The acting out is a way of testing you. Be more rough. You can't change who you are though.
are all women bisexual?
>>16674442
If Kinsey is to bepieved, then no more so than men; women just aren't as good at hiding it.
I've seen studies that say men can't be bisexual but all women are. Has to be bullshit though because I'm bisexual, many men are.
>>16674442
Doubtful, but women don't have to be "masculine" and reject anything vaguely homosexual the way men are expected to