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Is there more than one "the one"?

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Don't know where else to post this, but here's a fucked up high school story

> be me, a couple years ago
> still in high school
> dream of one day being a film director/screenwriter
> realize my means are limited
> to fix this I go on reddit and create a community for screenwriters and filmmakers
> filmmakers can post there saying what scripts they would like, and screenwriters can post their writing
> I post something there that I wrote and it gets made overseas

Before you continue reading you should watch the film. Turn on subtitles: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kYL-W9FexRk [Embed]

/tv/ said it was shit but idk I didn't think it was bad for an amateur effort. Anyway,

> super stoked, share it to my friends
> family is afraid my Catholic school will be upset
> they try to pre-empt them and email my counselor before any angry rich parent causes a shitstorm
> this backfires, as soon as they watch it I'm not allowed to come back to school
> I can't believe it. Not only did I not turn it in for a grade, it was made in another country. It had literally zero connection with the school.
> have to get a psychiatrist to clear me to come back
> claim they want to make sure I'm not a danger to myself or others
> the "or others" part made me fucking furious because it implied I'm like an Elliot Rodger
> one day get called in to the office so I can come back
> they agreed, but they also said that I shouldn't have shared my film with anyone. As in, the thing I worked hard on and was proud of.
> I refused to apologize because I knew I wasn't in the wrong
> the dean of students who did all this shit still said hi to me in the hall often, and every time it filled me with rage
> highly doubt they would have cared if I was rich

But do you want to know the worst part about all this? I later found out they let a horror film with a ton of nudity film ON CAMPUS one year. And they got mad at me when I made something mildly edgy completely unrelated to the school.

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I met this girl- she's great, funny, intelligent, very beautiful... but there's a catch. She has a dick.
I'm very confused about my feelings and emotions because I really like her and stuff but on the other hand it's like "boner, stop". I'm so so so so confused. Can someone make sense of all this stuff in my head for me? Thank you.

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hey there /adv\! so I have been with my amazing girlfriend for a little more than a year. She is really great but we're both young so I don't know if I want to be with one girl my entire life, but so far it's great. before her I had one serious girlfriend, which I have to see sometimes. today I saw this ex a lot and it was hard not to stare. like wow. I am loyal and honestly for the past 6 months I have barely even talked to other girls besides my gf, but I am having thoughts about my ex. a lot actually. I feel like they've been suppressed for a while. before you tell me I'm a cheating fuck, I don't want to cheat. actually I never would, that's horrible. but can anyone relate? what should I do?

tldr: have sexual and sometimes emotional thoughts about ex , definitely mostly sexual. been with amazing gf for 13 months. what to do?

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How do I start doing things again?

Was very depressed and just spent all my time sleeping and shitposting.

Now all I do is shitpost, gym and a part-time job. Can't get myself to do anything, lack the energy and concentration to even read books.

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>23yo male here, with a bit older gf
>2 years into relationship now, but don't live together

hey /adv/, been feeling down lately, i guess i'm just thinking too much.
Here's some stuff i can't get over with, how do i deal with this shit. I

How do you deal with the fact that your gf had a few relationships before her, the fact that she had dicks in her.
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Why can't my gf seek only contact with her gender? I can't deal with the fact that she has male friends. Can't deal the fact that she talks with her ex (they don't talk per se, they do congratulate each other on special events like christmass and stuff), i asked her to remove him from fb, gave me vague answers, but didn't remove him. It just bothers me, even tho i know she won't have anything with him, can't she just cut contacts?

Also can't get over the fact that one day, she might have a crush on someone. And/or is fantasizing on someone.
She watches porn, tho not regularly, she watches it like once a month. She watched bukake and some weird groupie stuff..

She never gave any thought to sexual satisfaction, she masturbates daily, and sometimes it's a bother because i'd like to do it but she's not really that into it. She still has sex, but just isn't so enthusiastic about it... I've talked about it with her, and she stopped doing that, but she still masturbates reguralrly. I just get pissed cus i'm pretysure she can proly think her ex or whoever is banging her.
I just dunno, i can't accept the fact that women are such liars, and live a blissful life...

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Do any anons here have experience with this in terms of avoiding infections or general uncleanliness? It's the hottest damn thing, but obviously minimizing the chance of infection is a priority as well.

Is there any way to accomplish this sex act without throwing health to the wind?

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This might not be for /adv/, considering there are people with actual problems here. But seeing as this site is fabled to be one of the most horrific in the entire internet, I made a new years resolution to become a member. The exact resolution was that I would be able to go on any board, participate in any thread, and know what the fuck everyone would talk about.
To sum up, I'm asking for a 4chan survival guide.
Pic unrelated.

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Would appreciate some advice, especially from any females lurking.

There's a girl who works in the same building as me for a different company. About twice or three times a day she enters the office I work in either to make coffee at our coffee machine with her female coworker or to print something off at the printer next to my desk. She asked me a question about a two months ago whether the building manager had turned up yet, and when I looked in her eyes (I realize it's cheesy and maybe pathetic) I was really overwhelmed both by her eyes and her general attractiveness. She smiled at me when I looked at her but I don't know if she just smiles at people that way. I am a pretty quiet person and the office is quiet, which means me talking to her will become obvious to everyone there (some 25 people) that I'm "chatting her up".


I fear making my attraction to her known because she is probably privately educated, attended a top university, and is from a wealthy or at least upper-middle class background.The thing is she seems pretty quiet (I'm not projecting some pure qt identity onto her) and I know she is very interested in the kind of music that isn't cool at all for most people our age, which is the same for me. Sometimes I tell myself it's worth doing something, other times I tell myself not to embarrass myself and possibly frighten or repulse her. I also fear that I've left it too long, as most girls perhaps like to think the man they want is so attracted to them that no amount of shyness, insecurity etc will prevent them from approaching them.

Sorry for the long post.

Any advice on what I should do?

I can give further information if anybody is willing to help.

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I probably just dropped out of uni.I'm not blaming others,it was my laziness and carelessness./adv/, how to handle anger, self-hatred and shame?

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So I message this girl first everyday. We do end up texting back and forth, and we have been out a few times. Im just curious, would it be a bad idea to not text her first today, and see if she makes a point to text me? Lets say she doesnt text me, does that mean she doesnt really want to talk, but does because I text her? I asked her out last night, and she told me should would go out if nothing comes up. So I think she does like me.

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This is going to sound odd as fuck. But this is starting to get frustrating.

I'm a 25 year old male, and I'm popping boners like a fucking 13 year old who just found daddy's porno stash. So much so it's starting to hurt. My sex drive has been flat lined the past 2 years, nothing has happened and interest is sex was at a all time low. I recently met a girl that I developed feelings for, and no exaggeration. I get hard every single time she texts me. Literally, every. Single. Text. The problem is, we talk a ton. So it's almost like I have a constant boner, and it's really starting to make my nuts ache. Like it's not even fun. My balls hurt all the time cause of all the boners. This might be a joke to you all, but I'm fucking serious. This hurts. Because of geographical locations it's not like we can meet up even once a month. So sex isn't really a cure. How do I stop getting all these boners????

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Is there a way to fix my trust issues with men without therapy?
Most close male encounters, starting from my father, have left me feeling completely worthless and although I crave a male partner I feel like I can't keep opening up and getting hurt. Granted it's opened only twice on a major scale but it really fucked me up further. Because I'm so shy and reclusive, the guys I get involved with are usually the outgoing pushy type, i.e. don't care about other people's feelings much.

Is there a way to make it better? Just suck it up and fake it until I find someone who cares about me or should I just resort to professional help?

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Dealing with severe clinical depression leaves me at a disadvantage when it comes to staying positive. When I feel down, it's never just a bummed out feeling, it's always this dark, Lonely, lost place I end up in, with no one there to talk to about it.
My friends all have kids, husbands, their own problems and stress that they talk to me about, and I do my best to help them with always, and I feel like a burden when I try to talk to anyone when I myself am down. They don't understand that I can't just snap out of the funk.
Whenever I get like this, I always end up here, wishing I knew how to talk to someone, just one single person that gets it, and is happy to just talk all the time, about likes and loves and life, or even when it's just being frank about how shitty depression is.

It's like....I wish I had a living diary. Someone I can tell anything, and they'll still be there the next day. I don't have that, and idk how to have that, and I feel like I've missed my chance or something.

Why is it so hard these days to make a friend that Wants to be a pillar in your life as much as you are in theirs?

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Gf of 5 years just found out recently that I have a ts fetish.... I forgot to clear some stuff on my phone and she opened up a post I made about trying to pic trade with one... I played it off as something from here, as that isn't unbelievable... But she sprinkles in comments that suggest it's on her mind, and then she flat out asked me about it after a few days... I told her it was 4chan but there was enough there... I'm not sure what to do, on one hand I love her, we've been through so much stuff together and had each others backs when no one else would.. But on the other hand, we fight a bit, and there were a few times I caught her trying to cheat on me, but I forgave and moved past.. And she does have some qualities that could really be dialed back a bit.. Not that she isn't a good person... I know this is going to come up again, and I know she is going to call me out on it, but it worries me because no one else knows this about me... It's something I wasn't ready to tell anyone yet and now im freaking out a bit.. Please help.