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Ok so i was always complimented on my naturally perfect shaped eyebrows until i got high one day and decided to pluck the few tiny, nearly invisible, white hairs on a nose bridge.

Fast-forward year ahead and now i got group of about 15-20 black hairs on a nose bridge.

WHAT-THE-FUCK and how to reverse this.

Also i am a guy and nearly 22 years old. (If that makes any difference)
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>>16680193
Just shave it with a razor ever morning, takes literally 3 seconds
Or wax
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>>16680196
Yeah but what if "fucking with it" makes it grow thicker, darker and more often? Thats what i am afraid of.

Also what is the reason for this? 21 years old no hair (save few, white nay invisible hairs) on nose bridge and suddenly "aaah fuck it, lets grow some"? WTF man
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>>16680205
I'm almost certain it's a myth that plucking/shaving/waxing makes hair grow back thicker
I personally shave my nose bridge about once a week and have noticed no change in hair growth

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So this shit is I think growing out of my garlic, is it still ok to eat if I cut it off? What is it even? I tried googling but cant find anything
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Much like a potato that is the garlic trying to become a plant. Should be fine to eat unless it is also changing its hue.
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Are you that poor, or just too lazy to get new garlic from the store? The time it took u to take this photo, write it up and post it, is the time itd take to get a new one from the store
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>>16680178
It's either a shoot or a root.

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How to talk friend into being friends with benefits?
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You let the alcohol do the talking
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She might be spending the night at my place soon, so i thought I should try something. Also I don't drink
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Maybe it's a good moment. But you should be drinking.

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I got her when she was max 2 months old. She became clingy within the first week then became slightly more distant. After she went into heat we had her spayed and she gradually became more and more clingy again.

At this point she'll follow me from room to room, scratch and howl insanely if I lock her out of my room, she sleeps literally right next to my head EVERY SINGLE NIGHT. When I come home from work she demands to sit on my lap and cuddle. She'll stand up on my lap and rub her cheek against my head.. If I take a shower, a lot of the time she'll sit outside of the bathroom waiting for me. If I take a bath for too long she'll start howling and scratching at the bathroom door.

When I come home from work she'll immediately go to wherever I am and sit on my lap and sleep or cuddle.

I'm sitting in bed right now as I type this, and she's on my lap sleeping and cradled against my left arm.

The thing is when I first got her, I was the first person to hold her, and interact with her, and I would give her hugs and rub my cheek against her cheek etc..It was nice having a living teddy bear, but I have literally no privacy now and I am never alone, and I can't be alone without having to endure scratching and howling from the cat. I think I socialized her way too much. Fapping is annoying as fuck because I just hear crying and scratching outside my door.

She only does this with me, and no one else. I tried making her sleep outside my bedroom, but she just starts howling/crying and scratching at my door or she paces the house meowing. Getting another cat to keep her company only worked in the short term and now it doesn't make any difference at all.
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This has been going on for years and she's five or six years old now. I think it may be too late to train her to behave differently as I've just given up and allowed her to follow me around everywhere and sleep in my bed at night.

Should I just get sound proof headphones and give locking her out of my room at night another go?
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>Getting another cat to keep her company only worked in the short term
lol you're an idiot.
Pay her attention. If anything, you need firm behavior changing. This cat will be a life saver for you, so treat it well.
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>>16680114
Fuck, I will buy your adorable cat.

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if a girl is 4'11" 105 lbs is she fat?
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>>16680091
depends on how much muscle and fat she has.
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>>16680093
she eats mcdonalds/pizza/cinnamon rolls all day and looks on tumblr
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Does it matter to you is the real question

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I got scammed. I sold a camera lens through marktplaats (Dutch craigslist) and the money never arrived. We met in person and I saw him complete the transfer with his iPhone app but three days later the money hasn't gone through: €1500

It was my girlfriend's camera lens and probably her only valuable possession. We are low on money hence me trying to sell it.

I feel so violated and stupid and trying to stave of panic attacks. I've reported it to the guy's bank, I have his name and a photo of his driver's license and will make a police report later today.

I found his Facebook and made a fake profile m, first friending his friends and then him, but he hasn't bitten yet. The number he used to call is now straight to voicemail.

What is there left to do? Do I try and track him down where I think he lives? I don't actually have that info and his online presence is incredibly minimal. I'm just looking for something that can be done.
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Pretysure you can call/contact marktplaats and tell them what happened. If youve made the transaction thru there, they should enforce the payment and/or compensate you atleast
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>>16680090
He said it likes Craigslist which means nothing posted on there could be free in theirs eyes and said met in person to pay so that means the websites doesn't enforce anything
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>>16680108
Then the payment company.

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>Friend breaks up with boyfriend.
>2 months later she starts coming on to several guys, me being one of the more serious ones
>texts me about how I'm the only one that understands her
>"idc I'll never sleep if it means I can talk to you, you're worth everything."
>feels good even tho I know theres a possibility its fluff
>do this for a two weeks.
>literally says stuff like this for two weeks straight, video chats me everynight
>she initializes all of this
>go watch star wars with her
>shes grabbing my upper thigh during the entire movie.
>two days after movie she says that her feelings faded
>wtf
>and she doesnt want a boyfriend because she wants to focus on her best friend that she pushed out of her life because her ex didnt like her
>literally hurt but decide to be friends anyway
>ask her to senior prom
>"Nah my best friend wanted to ask you sister code I hope you understand"
>turns out her best friend did want to ask me
>find out real reason that flirt girl didnt want to go with me was because she wanted to ask another dude
>mad because she said previously she would say yes to any guy that asked her to prom
>question her about this quite obviously angrily
>she starts saying that I dont care about her happiness
>says im possessive and selfish
>says that I'm at fault here

Ok I'm beta af and I dont know what the fuck I'm doing. I honestly think I'm not at fault here but I might just be biased towards my own actions. I need someone to tell me why I'm wrong because I cant wrapmmy head around it. Best friend agrees with me but I cant take her word for it cause I think shes just sucking up to me cause she likes me. Is there a reason I shouldnt think that she led me on? She did lead me on am I wrong? Am I actually retarded? I can only really think I'm at fault for losing my temper but I dont know. If any more info is needed I'll try to provide some context
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Yes lead you on hard but she sounds retarded so pursue someone more normal and close the book on her.
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>>16680055
Probably this. You were just one of the many rebound guys. Its her fault move on and dont fuck crazies
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>>16680046
Her best friend likes you. She cant date you anymore. They probably had a talk about guys they liked and she agreed to give you up to her best friend.
That being said tell her its cool. Tell her you feel used and abused as an emotional tampon. Let her know that its your fault and you understand that when she was down, you enabled her to squeeze dry as a replacement. That you wont do it again.
Then stop looking to her for attention. Hang out with the girl who likes you. If the friend wants to hang treat her as you would the friend of a friend. Dont give her special attention.
This is not just about relationships, its a life lesson. Tunnel vision is what makes people miss out on amazing opportunities. You really want this girl but what if you taste change and you like the type of girl sitting beside you. Dont fawn over manipulative people. Nothings worse than watching someone chase someone whos no good for them.

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>me a freshmen in college
>take an engineering course because i'd like to
>worth
>having a problem to understand every lessons per session
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>fail.jpg
>give me some advice/adv/.
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Don't do engineering
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>>16680056
b-but i liked it.
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>>16680067
Which field. Which uni

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I'm not sure what to do next.
Yesterday I dated a girl I knew a couple months ago. This is not our first date and she even introduced me her parents already.
During the date I told her "I like you" (you know, in plan "I want to be your boyfriend) and she just get nervous and never answered me.
We finished the date and she never replied to that. What should I do next? We will go out tomorrow but I'm kinda nervous.
Should I ask her how she feels? should I give her more time to think?
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are you Spanish?
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>>16679991
Just give her time to think, and pay attention to how she acts on this new date. Maybe ask her at the very end of the date if she still hasn't brought it up.
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>>16680141
Yep, Colombian. I apologise if my english is bad.

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Can a relationship with a compulsive liar work out?

Dated this girl for 4 years, big lies and small lies everywhere, made up stories, made up shit, telling me she did stuff when she did not, and vice versa, just a cluster fuck of meaningless lies, some lies had truth to them some were completely made up.

Either way after all this time i suggested she may have a compulsive lying disorder, she actaully seemed pretty happy to finally figure out what the fuck made her lie about such stupid shit. She claims she is working on it and right now she is literally doing whatever i say and trying to answer and be honest with everything.

The problem is i don't trust her, she's lied to me so much i just can't trust that she really is being honest this time. She's never cheated or done anything bad, only ever lied about times before she knew me.

I guess i worry for the future, i'd love to stay with her but hate if our relationship revolves around me constantly questioning and checking on her to catch out her stupid lies. Can a relationship like this work?

I'd rather not give out details because that's when the thread turns into a 5 hour thing of explaining every tiny detail of each lie and lie detector love professionals come in with their professional as always "DUMP HER" advice.
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>>16679912
>Can a relationship with a compulsive liar work out?
Only if you genuinely enjoy being lied to. Otherwise...no. No it can't. And that's the truth.
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Fucking run. Just run
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>>16679917
The thing is she has only ever lied about her past, and as much as i hate her for this stupid shit, sometimes i feel happy with her, and push it aside, she's never done anything whilst in a relationship with me (like 95% confident here) I just feel if i can push aside that she may be bullshitting about her past whilst i am with her things can be okay.

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What should I do?
>come home
>wife says she wants to talk to me
>says it's about her son
>says she wants him to go to religious school
>tell her no
>they are not good
>she insists
>says it's her son anyways, and she was only being nice by asking me first
>get mad
>yell at her and leave house
I know I fucked up. should I just forgive her?
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Tell her the priest will rape his ass.
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We warned you about single mothers. Reap what you sow.
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>>16679903
we were best friends in highschool, but she went wild in college. I felt I had to help her adjust to being normal and raise her son.

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I'll skip the >tfw bullshit because I have more pride. But not enough that I won't make the thread.

In short, I find the prospect of getting any kind of sexual relationship with a girl impossible. Is it really as difficult as it seems?

To go the lengthy route. I'm not ugly, my bombshell matches on tinder tell me that much. Though I'm not charming, my success rates tells me that. 1 in maybe 15 girls(Probably one in ten when I really try) I get to a stage where they give me their number and then get to a stage where they say a meet up is possible. Then it crumbles and goes no further.

This kind of applies in real life, but often I find the girls that are really clearly into me are too innocent(I study history and most of them are from that circle) for casual shit. I've had sex with 4 different girls, two as one night stands and two as mid to long term relationships but recently I've had an ungodly dryspell.

My ex says I'm cursed with overthinking but I've gotten just as much success being manipulative of the truth as I have being completely honest in who I am.

Is it really this difficult? From what I've seen of my brother, one girl opens the floodgates and I'm sitting here struggling to get that one.

>Pic related, its one of my matches.
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>>16679858
Everybody goes through dry spells. I went through a several-year dry spell.

Is there any super-stressful shit going on in your life right now that could be influencing how you come across to people?
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>>16679924
I wouldn't say super stressful, but there is some stress.

I'm doing a degree I don't enjoy and its taking away time from doing the shit I love. Though that kind of stuff never stopped me in the past, I got girls during times of depression and, in one case, when I had to catch crazy slipping grades.
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>>16679939
Do you find yourself talking to girls or to people in general about your problems a lot? Sometimes if I'm preoccupied with stuff, I'll gab about it and not realise it til I notice the person is bored.

How come you don't enjoy your degree? Is there any way you can make more time for the things you love? Shift your schedule around or something? If not this semester, then over the summer?

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what's some romantic shit i can do for the girl i like?
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>>16679845
tell her to suck you off in the rain
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Make your intentions clear and take her out on a date instead of doing favours for her and expecting her to return your affections for it like the Nice Guy you are.
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>>16679845
finger her butthole while youre fucking her

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Going on a date tomorrow and still have no idea what my plan is. She's vegan and currently has a boot on her foot, so I'm kind of limited. Ah, also she's really thin, so probably no outdoors for long periods past sun set.


So far I have either:
Grab food/hangout
Elevator picnic


P.S. Chick isn't new, dater her a while back and she just moved back into town. A bit of rekindling, hence my want for a unique date
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Take her to a doctor, she sounds unhealthy.
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>>16679836
>Elevator picnic
wtf is that

Why no outdoor for long periods past sunset? I mean, you could bring a jacket, she could feel cold and you could be a genlteman. As long as you're not a pushy m'lady (which I'm assuming you're not otherwise you wouldn't have had a date) it'll give you a lot of points.
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>>16679844

You obviously don't live where it gets actually cold. Here in Wisconsin it's like -10 out right now. Being outside for extended periods of time blows even in full winter attire.

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Any advice on dumping a guy?
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>>16679817
have sex with his best friend
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>>16679817
A bit of context, OP.
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>>16679817
do it in person if possible, only jerks break up over text

think of what you want to say beforehand because shit's probably gonna get emotional

do him a courtesy and tell him why you're breaking up with him. if he's acting like a jackass or is immature or whatever, he can't fix that stuff about himself if he doesn't know what's wrong

give him back any of his stuff that is still at your place and set a day to come and collect anything of yours that is at his place

after that, it's probably best to cut contact unless you're both 200% sure you want to stay friends

take a deep breath and move on

if he begs you to take him back, even if you want to, don't do it unless he's spent at least a year fixing whatever it was made you dump him. even then it'll never be the same and may not work out

that's about all there is to it, good luck OP

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