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Disgusted by everyone, please help 2016-01-11 05:22:11 Post No.16671116
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Disgusted by everyone, please help 2016-01-11 05:22:11 Post No.16671116
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Disgusted by everyone, please help
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2016-01-11 05:22:11
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I've got a problem. A little over a year ago my older brother killed himself, and both my parents lost their shit, I can't stand them anymore. Furthermore I feel like my outlook has permanently darkened to the point where everything seems to bore me, I have no passion for anything, and the things that used to make me happy just don't anymore. I feel like everyone is disgusting, a bunch of stupid predictable cliched personalities, and I don't want anything to do with any of them. Everything is just a waste of time and effort. Should I kill myself and just be done with this shit?
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First of all how close were you with your bro? What have been doing with your time since his death and how old are you? The older you are the more independent you can be in your decision.
I can sympathise with you on having a brother. I have a brother that is a year younger than me and we've been tight as shit since I can remember. I don't know how I'd live with myself without him...
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And by everyone, you mean all the people you face with in person?
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>>16671116
You're likely reacting to your brother's death in your own way. I suggest therapy- your therapist should be able to draw out some of the emotions that are clouding your mind.
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here's the story
>be me, 18 , 1.85m , athletic beta, the guy that's always friendzoned
>girl really likes me (7/10)
>every one is telling me to date her
>i don't want too cause im not ready for a relationship... friendzone
>i don't like her that way
>shes a realy good friend
>other girl (9/10) wants to fuck and thats all
>she just dumped her sugerdaddy about a week ago
>she happens to also realy hate 7/10
>she happens to be a good friends ex
>she happens to love anal
>she happens to live down the street
>we send nudes, says she realy wants it
>7/10 hears and warns me not to continue
>9/10 invites me over in a week cause "the house will be empty"
both used to be really good friends.
image unrelated, but basically the same girl
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>>16671062
So basically love vs lust
Sorry for sounding shallow but it's hard to determine without pictures
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>>16671062
My friend fucked his next door neighbors wife. He said it was fun "like a game" I advised he not do it. It was going really good until he woke up from a 3 day coma and on some many pain killers that he couldn't look at me while talking because of all the hallucinated spiders flowing out of my eyes and mouth.
But hey think about all the times some pussy had been worth nearly dieing. I hope she's Cleopatra.
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>>16671092
>you will never have pussy so good it puts you in a coma
life is suffering.
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I'm a fairly attractive femboy/"trap" you could say
I'm pansexual, and was wondering..to any of the females that use this board, how many of you would be interested in having sex with a trap?
does the idea turn you off, or is it interesting? merely curious, because i'm interested in trying it, but I just don't know if many females would be into it
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>>16671061
Since we're being anonymous here, to be honest, I wouldn't ever fuck you. I like my men to be, well, manly. Sorry. I've told people that I would fuck a tranny so that I don't look prejudiced because I know people will take it the wrong way, but all it is is personal preference.
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>>16671061
Bullet to head you mentally broken faggot
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>>16671067
Thanks for the information, i'm honestly just curious.
I'm really into older woman like mid to late 30's how do I go about hooking up with an older chick? im 20 btw
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OkCupid, run thru the questions and only answer the ones relating to age differences.
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>>16670967
go into a bar full of older women
they'll hop right up next to some mildly attractive looking young thing they see
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Hit up your mums friends. They've been watching you grow into a juicy cock with a body attached your whole life and they'll jump at the chance to jump on it.
How do you go about having a gf when you're poor as fuck? I live with my parents and the house is beat to shit and there's ripped up carpet that doesn't cover the whole floor, my parents painted some of the rooms a rediculous pink color, the windows are all 200 years old and broke to shit, there's water damage everywhere every room is a shitty disaster. What do I do?
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>>16670790
Get a job and move the fuck out. I'm the process of that as well.
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>>16670790
If you find a girl that is in love with you she won't care.
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>>16670825
But it matters to me
So, is it a common theme for women to look at messages and not reply to them in a timely manner, or do women just not care about me? This chick's been off and on FB for the past 9 hours, and hasn't replied. She previously was asking questions and obviously wanted to keep talking, but this pisses me off. I've never had a woman talk to me actively like my guy friends do.
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>>16670722
Girls flake on guys all the time. It's happened to everyone. It's whatever just move on, literally stop overthinking it.
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>>16670722
she's busy or not interested. Either way you're investing too much energy into it. If she really wants to talk to you, she will. You're wasting time sitting around waiting for a response
If you fill your time with productive activity, you won't notice the lack of responses and you'll be a more interesting person that people will want to talk to.
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What'd you actually send her?
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I can't get it up, guys. Like, with a girl. Am I broken? Watching porn, boners come easy. With a girl, maybe I'll get hard initially, but then she's grinding on me, and honestly it just kind of hurts my balls because she's got her thigh pressing up in my crotch and I go limp. Then for the next 20 minutes or so I'm trying everything, and my dick is just fucking sleeping there. Honestly this probably ruined a good thing I had going with this girl. Help.
I'm going to try cutting back on alcohol. I'll also be doing kegel exercises more regularly, but past that I'm not sure what else there is. Masturbate less maybe?
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How often do you whack it to porn?
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>>16670728
Maybe once every other day on average. I made a point of not doing it that day, although I did watch porn and I guess "edge" for a bit without cumming. I thought that would help get me in the mood but nope.
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>>16670741
1.) Stop watching porn, especially the whack ass commercial porn. But just stop.
2.) Do something active. You'll be surprised the immediate effects it will have on your libido & circulation. Weightlifting, running, rock climbing, stretching, etc.
3.) If a position isn't comfortable for you just tell her. Don't make it awkward, but at the same time don't try to power through physical discomfort.
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How do I learn to be a man? More specifically:
How to have a sense of self-respect and dignity.
How to take responsibility for my actions.
How to be a productive worker.
What counts as manners?
Confidence.
The ability to think logically.
A good opinion of myself.
I was raised by a single mother, and she told me what she thought a man is, but as I'm a visual learner and she never showed me these thins in action, they never sunk in.
Also, I need to learn to respect women too. How can I do this if I have the (justifiable) reputation of a perv and a creep? I just can't help but think of nothing but sex. All my friends laugh and make fun of me for being a creep who is constantly trying to get laid. I just take it, because they're right.
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OP make a video of her showing you how a man "takes over" in the bedroom
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Look for a good, manly figure. There are tons throughout history. Remember, all men have their flaws. Admire them for their bravery.
Get a manly hobby. Technical guy? Mechanic. Tough? Rugby. Adventurous? Mountain climbing. Everyone should have one good hobby, don't be afraid to dabble in other things. If you have something to focus on, you'll think less about sex.
Want to respect women? Easy. Don't go too far out of your way to help them, be polite and sincere, and for the love of god don't be that guy in a fedora that says M'lady. Remember that a woman is mostly you with a vagina and maybe some breasts.
Manners are simple. Never make assumptions, master a good handshake, look people in the eyes when you talk to them (don't stare that's weird), and be honest with people. There are a few social norms you should probably know, that it's nice to hold a door open for people, or offer your seat to a woman (especially if they have a child with them), those sorts of basic things.
Self respect comes from liking who you are. Don't be a pushover, but don't be a brute. You aren't the most important, but you're up there. The golden rule is "Do onto others as you wish done to yourself". If you treat other people nicely, do you not wish yourself to be treated nicely as well?
Own up to every mistake you make. Don't let pride overtake you. "The buck stops here".
On that note Teddy Roosevelt was really manly so go borrow a book on his life some time. Good luck.
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A man protects and take care of the ones who he likes. Take is as the motto of your life. You want a great movie showing how to be a great man? Watch La vita è bella (Life is Beautiful), the 1997 italian movie. The protagonist protect his son against the horrors of a nazi concentration camp. This is a real man.
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Just need some thoughts/advice
I fucked a married manager at work. She's not my manager, nor is she involved directly with our department. But still, married and a manager.
She obviously has been neglected physically, and I can tell she's latching on to me. I'm not that attracted to her physically or personally. Also, her husband is actually a really cool dude. It may or may not be a cuckold situation, which ironically I don't support or encourage.
I'd like to get some external perspective on how I should approach this. I don't mind having fun with her for a few weeks and giving her what she needs, but ultimately I don't want this to last longer than that.
Should I tell her husband, or ask about their marriage, or just cut it now?
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Tell her husband? Hes going to beat the fuck out of you. Dude....you broke code.
You broke code
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>>16670615
Don't tell the husband. Straight up tell her that what happened occurred in the heat of the moment (yes, this implies you think she is hot, this doesn't hurt anyone) but that you respect her and her husband and should discontinue.
If you tell her husband, your job is probably gone, just something to keep in mind.
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>>16670623
No, he won't. Even if he was inclined. I grew up pretty rough, and like I said it could reasonably be a cuck situation
>>16670624
Wouldn't lose my job, but that said you're right probably better to talk to her about it. She wants to come over after work tonight.
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>be me
>20
>Community college in San Diego
>1.5 years, no friends, rejected, 'lets just be friends talk'
>short[5'7] but otherwise not ugly/above average
>feeling like ill be foreveralone
>just got into University of California, Davis
Do...Do you think it will change over there?
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Not unless you make an effort to make things different
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If you couldn't make friends in a more lax and friendly atmosphere in community college, what makes you think that you will make any friends in a more serious, rigid intuition in university?
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>>16670495
I mean how, I ask people to hang in class, they are always busy and older than me
I join clubs but they meet bi-monthly
I go to events but everyone already has their cliques.
What the fuck can I do differently?
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I have no friends except one.
He's lazy, lives off of welfare and won't even spend the 5$ to pay me a visit. He shows no interest in anyone's lives but his own. He shits on other people's opinions or feelings and always expects the exact opposite of what i've listed so far from anyone else.
Long story short, should i drop him and enjoy a completely friendless life or should i stick to him and continue the only thing you can produvtively talk about - video games - and just accept that i can't expect anything from him. Ever.
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>>16670462
Eternal loneliness and solitude or eternal annoyance?
Kinda in a similar position to you. Would love to slit my wrists instead but I have debts and responsibilities.
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>>16670462
you should drop him and work on improving yourself so you become a more interesting, more attractive person and make better friends
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I would suggest trying to make work friends and or joining a club.
Failing that play Wow or something similar, there are literally guilds where people spend 80% of their time on vent and skype talking and 20% leveling and its sure better than being 100% alone.
im just so stressed right now. I cant eat away my stress because if i eat i feel terrible about myself. I cant masturbate because if I masturbate i feel guilty. I cant play video games because they just make me even more stressed. I cant watch T.V. because stupid shit pisses me off. I just have no outs right now man. I am in such a fucking bad mood all the time, I went to use the restroom and my sister was doing makeup or something in there and needed it for a few minutes, and it eventually went to shouting and me punching the wall i was just so angry.
I just dont know what to fucking do
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Breathe. Relax. Meditate.
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>>16670377
Go for a long run or work out.
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How about putting some music on and ligting some freeweights? Or closing your door and doing a bunch of stretches and situps
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/adv/ what's your IQ?
141 here.
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298. Hows it feel to be borderline retarded, OP?
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You won't be getting real answers and IQ tests don't mean anything.
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>>16670320
this
>grandma calls me today
>SELAM ALEKUM <name>!
>Don't respond
>Come on, say it back!
>Uh, I'm busy with something, I'll talk to you later, sorry
We said goodbye and I hung up. I'm a Bosnian so this Muslim shite is really hanging over me and I can't escape it. I haven't been a Muslim for over a decade, but they don't know that otherwise there would be a shitstorm.
But now I am transitioning slowly to becoming a Christian, so it's disgusting to me to utter Islamic words and phrases, like when I used to as an Atheist who didn't give a shit.
How should I approach my grandmother the next time we talk?
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>Go from Islam to Sanity to Christianity, the most retarded of the religions
Fuckin really dude?
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You fucking answer to an old woman's greeting you pussy.
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If you tell them you alienate yourself from your family and risk being disowned. Personally I would tell my parents first and let them give the news to everyone else and you live your life. If they won't talk to you or make a big deal out of it, you have to live with the decision.
Or the easier more comfortable way is to lie and pretend you are muslim.
Neither choice is good but you gotta pick one anon.
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I'm so racist that I put both Ben Garrison and /pol/ to shame.
What can I do to change this?
if it matters, I'm a brown 5'10 beaner
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Racist to which race anon?
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>>16670211
Every one of them.
Jew's, Negroes, Chinese, Japs, Arabs, Europeans, Tartars, Circassians, Meds, Americans. You name them.
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>>16670229
Hmmm...I suggest you blow your brains out.