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I need help with making a decision. This is my case: Yesterday I was surfing on the interwebs and one of them had an advert for a dating site, with a couple of real accounts that are there, 5 men and 5 women. I realized, that one of those women is a girl I used to go to the college with (not the same class, but the same year and we shared English classes together (I'm from a non-english speaking country)). Now we are 23 both.

So in the college I kinda didn't like her. I mean yeah, she was beautiful as angel with super pretty eyes and sexy lips, but IDK why I didn't like her. Not really hated, nothing close to this, and I felt she didn't like me too, or anyone from my class actually (it always seemed like her class and our class were kinda feuding, IDK). But anyways I wasn't thinking about having a girl back then and definately never considered her as a probability when it comes to dating game.

So I clicked on her account picture thinking right away that's her (she uses the same picture on fb and that dating site). Something touched me when I was reading everything she wrote on her account. If it was a totally unknown girl to me I would make a account and write to her instantly, but it's her... I don't know what to do because of that. But everything she wrote on her account is real, she seems so nice in my eyes now because of that, and I agreed with 100% what she said there (and those are things I thought no other person could think like me, so that's even more amazing, but I won't go into details). Why I'm still considering whether to write to her on facebook or not? I'm kinda scared. This whole situation is weird as hell, I'm scared that she will laugh at me if I try to holla at her. We never spoke, AT ALL. I wouldn't even know what to say to her. Tell her the real reason why I'm writing? How she may react to all this? I wouldn't like anyone of her friends to know. What do BROTHERS? (and SISTERS if there are any here)

NO, I won't give you her pictures.

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Social retard here. I'm supposed to be meeting with a Ukrainian girl tomorrow to go Iceskating near my place in London, she's up for me and will meet me. Im travelling the followig day and i finish work at 5pm the day we're supposed to meet, so I suggested she meets me at my place because I need to change and we go from there, however she didnt
reply. I dont want to come off as needy so i'm going to next her again tomorrow afternoon however im wondering if I made any stupid mistakes? I started talking to her a couple days ago so yeah

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I got scammed. I sold a camera lens through marktplaats (Dutch craigslist) and the money never arrived. We met in person and I saw him complete the transfer with his iPhone app but four days later the money hasn't gone through: €1500 It was my girlfriend's camera lens and probably her only valuable possession. We are low on money hence me trying to sell it.

I've reported it to the guy's bank, I have his name and a photo of his driver's license and made a police report last night.

I found his Facebook and made a fake profile, first friending his friends and then him. He finally wrote back an hour ago: (translated from dutch):

Hello, good afternoon, this is ******, who you have been looking for this whole time and you have completely run my name through the mud on Facebook accusing my of fraud while you don't know my side of the story. If I was going to defraud you why would I let you take a photo of my driver's licence. I am now being approached from all sides that someone is looking for me. That of course scares me and I have made contact with you. You are right that no money has been deducted from my account. I discovered that later (yesterday). I definitely did not scam you. I think you should first here someone else's story before shouting all kinds of accusations. Something happend with the transaction causing the money never to arrive. Therefore I propose an appointment and we will solve this together. Would you please remove everything from facebook that has anything to do with me. Together we can solve this because it's very annoying that so many people are approaching me while the story isn't true at all!

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Basically, I'm 18 and a virgin, met a girl off tinder, masturbated about 20 hours before it came to fucking her. We had quite a lot to drink on the night before so pretty dehydrated and stuff but my dick wouldn't go hard when I was on top the next day not drunk.It was fine when were just kissing but it wouldn't go properly hard when it came to it I couldn't stick it in. Could it be because of the alcohol? I'm meeting her again on Saturday, what do I do to make sure I can actually fuck her this time?

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where do i start? i have no idea.
how do girls even dance? all tutorials are basically about swinging your booty. how about some moves that actually look awesome?
the goal is to get better body-controle

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so this girl I made friends with a long time ago during a trip just notified me that she was gonna be in town soon and wanted to hang. we never slept together or anything and as far as I know she still has a bf and it's just a friendly meet-up

problem is my gf is batshit jealous and will either flip her shit or get really quiet and passive-aggressive about it and she'll probably transfer her anxiety over it into some other avenue later on. She's done this with all my female friends, HER female friends, random acquaintances and strangers.

Frankly I don't even want to say anything back to this other girl and just ignore the whole thing, but that's rude isn't it? Should I come up with some excuse?

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My sleep cycle is completely upside down.

I'm a 21 year old guy currently living on my own.

This month I dont have any uni courses, so I'm just lifting and trying to prepare for courses that start this coming month. However my sleep cycle has become completely upside down.

I went to bed at 6am and wokeup at 2pm. I'm considering staying awake until 8pm tommorow and then sleeping as I'll be really tired and then waking up at 6am the following morning.

Any advice?

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Requesting oldguyfags advice.

Anons who are over 35 - we need your sage advice. Millenials are fucked, we need some proper guidance. Teach us how to live a good life.

Post your advice here, it will help everyone a lot. On any subject, really. Just give us your input. Where have you gone wrong? What should we do? What shouldn't we do?

To start off the dissussion, I'd like to ask: is there any sense in making a career? Can I just be a travelling English teacher? Because all I want from life is travel. And I want some work that would allow me to see the world. But some part of me says that I should just find a full-time job and commit to it. But I don't know why do I need money? I've got my own place, I have enough money to live - so what's wrong with me?

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Hey /adv/.
I'm going on a first date with a girl I met at work and I need some advice.
I get along with her pretty well, we understand each other, share many interests. I also think she likes me because I notice how nervous she is around me, but so am I around her.
I asked her out on a date and we want to get something to drink this Saturday.
Now comes my problem.
First of all, I'm a kissless virgin.
But I really want to leave this behind me, as I said I came thus far to ask her out which seemed to me 1 year ago.
I really think I could kiss her on the first date already, but I don't really know how to steer our date in that direction.
I had a couple dates before and it went all "Let's be friends!" from there on.
I don't want this shit this time.
I'm really confident that kissing her on the first date already might work.
And I really want to do it.
But as I said, I don't really know how to go beyond just a "friendly" conversation as I never went this far before.
I want to send the right signals.
Could you guys help me out?

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what would be a good skill to learn? i got some time to kill. preferrably something that i can learn in a rather short time and that i can learn at home with online tutorials.

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So, long story short, my boyfriend found out that I have a "high number" of past sexual partners, and he has not been handling it very maturely. He refuses to answer my texts or calls, and when we are at home he simply locks himself in the bedroom and ignores me.

For context, I have slept with around 100 men, which isn't too excessive for a 34 year old woman who has been sexually active since she was 15. Sex is a just a fun thing for me to do and in the past I liked to consistently indulge myself in a new man every couple months to change things up. But now, I want to settle down with him.

What can I say/do to make him feel better? He only has had 2 partners before me.

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Okay probably going to get a few trolls on this or just people calling me a pussy...

Me and my girlfriend of 6 years broke up for 3 months.

We are back together now and have been for 3 months. But whilst we were broken up she slept with 8 guys.

Some she only known for a day and claims she only did because she was drunk.

Ive only slept with 2 women in them 3 months and I knew them for a while and didn't jump straight into bed with them.

Should I be bothered about her sleeping with 8 different guys whilst we were broken up?

Should it make me think less of her? Would you think less of your other half if it was the same situation.

I should note we was 14 when we got together and she has only been with me before the 3 months.

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what would be your PERSONAL requirements for considering to date a girl with a kid?

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I like making people open to to me, and love making them feel vulnerable.

Why?

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Would it be weird to meet my 17 year old LDR girlfriend or should I wait until she's 18? The age of consent where I am and where she lives is 16. I'm 21.