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Because you smile like you are actually crying.

>>16683275
No default expression and your eyes are unfocused.

u look sad

>>16683258
>my fiancé has hammered it into my head early on into our relationship that she has no intention of becoming a housewife
You fucked up in continuing the relationship then

>Is it wrong to have these views in 2016?
Not really. There are girls out there who want this, but I'd say they're in the minority. Most girls want at least a part time job

>What are your opinions on the matter femanons?
It's not for me.

You were born in the wrong decade, boy. Most girls that try to be a career 'housewife' end up as hooker sand strippers when they realize that the guys that make nice comfy incomes want to spend it on hookers and strippers instead of being monogamous. Pure economics has destroyed the nuclear family. Good going free market.

>>16683258
While that is the preferable way a marriage should work if you have children (1 parent stays home) your fiance let you know this was the way it would be. You are not going to change her mind.

>>16683065

1. Yes, it's abnormal.
2. Whatever, just don't tell people about it.

>>16683071
Should I like, stop doing it?
I feel like if I told my sister it wasn't ok socially that would make things wierder.
Is there another excuse that I can use or should I just tell her flat out that most people don't do that

also why the fuck did my parents never say anything about it?
They say things like "go find your sister and take a shower" like they are obviously advocates of it

>>16683001
A fatter Adrien Brody

>Why the fuck aren't you taking me seriously please ask relevant questions

>>16683001
a fatter Michael Fassbender

Stick ur dick up his butt

Are you a 10 as well? Are you big? Is she in love?

Deck him.

I was relaxed and had a lot of lube and was in love and comfortable and all of that and it was still one of the most painful experiences I've had in my life. Most of my friends also told me that it hurt their first times (yes, plural), but one of them says she felt nothing. It might depend on dick size (and most importantly dick width) and also on your own vagina. People are different, it might hurt for you or it might not. About the blood: with me, I did bleed but it wasn't a lot. One of my friends says the bleeding was super intense and stained her sheets pretty bad.

It's not that bad. Uncomfortable yes, but I hesitate to call it 'painful'. I didn't bleed. You probably won't enjoy it the first time, but there's really no guarantee you'll be in horrible pain.

It really just differs from person to person.

>>16682865
>Honestly, I feel like that's all BS. Sex shouldn't hurt and if you're turned on, have lube, and relaxed; it should be an enjoyable experiences for both parties.

This is true
If the guy you're with cares about you and isn't lazy, it shouldn't hurt at all.
In my experience it usually hurt because the guy was too lazy to do adequate foreplay and I was too timid to just say fuck it and put my pants back on.
The last guy I was with absolutely did not want to hurt me what so ever so we took our time and eventually had great sex. We used lube because I'm pretty tight and there was a lot of fingering, dry humping, oral, etc

Stop being lazy

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>>16682702
It's a fundamental part of your personality. You will have to make yourself very uncomfortable by forcing yourself to stop lazing around until being lazy is what makes you uncomfortable, because the problem is being lazy feels good for you even though it's bad. Be mindful of when you're being lazy and understand the negative effects it's causing. This will motivate you to stop procrastinating and wasting time. You have to understand how bad it is to be lazy. Look at where laziness has gotten you.

Be mindful.

Grills love that shit, why do you want get rid of it?

>>16682595
I can't tell you have an accent.

>>16682597
I don't like it.

Next time you see some woman sitting on a bench tell your gf "I bet she feels good sitting on something hard like that

"Hey, you ever wonder how many orgasms are person can have in a row?"

The best sex is when your girlfriend is the one badgering you for it. Calm your tits and get sexy for her.

I'd be interested in knowing this as well.

Date/crush on another girl, literally the only possible option.

Your crush is your friendship. Follow that feeling.

>>16682469
If you have a weight room start spending 2hr a day. join track too. Multivitamains and healthy food.
lose weight gain charisma and girls eat that shit up.

>>16682585
also aim for under classmates

Get a GED. Go to community college. Get with all the sluts.

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>>16682445

it's extremely rare in real life.
Dating sites have shown that black males are rejected the most by white women and asian women, and basically only black negresses reply to them.

They go after white girls cause black girls are loud, obnoxious and generally hideous.

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>>16682445
They don't, it really only occurs in Hollywood and in porn.

I wonder why it's so common there when it doesn't reflect reality? Are they trying to change peoples attitudes towards it? Who would want that?

You're asking a lot of questions. Why she put them up, if she'll take them down, if she's upset, if it was intentional... and then you come and ask us more questions.

It's your relationship. You should talk to her.

Maybe TELL her how you feel instead of just asking. Because if I'm being honest with you, OP, you sound like the one who's upset.

>>16682442
Because she is a whore lad. I'm guessing you didn't show her any attention which is why she posted her tits on social media to get all these "beautiful <3" comments from betas.

Post pics, /adv/ is a great judge of whether a woman is whoring it up too much.

Trust us. Would we lie to you?

>>16682379
Join the Marine Corps

>>16682379
are you virgin? if not why?

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O52jAYa4Pm8

Is my theme song going to get me laid?

>>16682340
Try something more snappy
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Getting mixed signals from a girl.
>talking with girl I knew from HS on facebook
>graduated last year
>see her occasionally while I'm working
>Tell her I like her and ask her out
>"awww" not "I like you too"
>says she's busy but will be free some time next week
>suggest what we should do. she likes it
>ask what days she's free, needs to check her work schedule
>change the subject
>seen but no reply 3 hours ago

I'm probably overthinking this, but the possibility that she's just being too nice to properly reject me is making me anxious.