Hey /adv/ anyone work graveyard shift here? What can I do to be productive when the hours are long and dull?
>>16690205
What kind of job?
>>16690205
Read books lots of books. If you can move around walk every hour.
Flirt with females
Hey guys, just a little backstory of my past two years that have been fucking killing me.
>be 16, go pretty much from one to the next
>next is different, wild, Irish,short, 8/10
>turns out we really click, like really
>Get blessing from dad within' first month
>Dad's fucking hilarious, on any drug he can get and only gives a shit about fishing
>Brothers taught me some hunting/shooting shit
>I'm an oddball, but part of the family
>Pretty much the best thing that has ever happened to me, got me out socially and all that
>her mum calls me her son-in-law
>brettyfuckingneat.jpg
>we are pretty much married without rings, pretty much my only friend as well
>she starts going to school in Toronto(2hrs away) and lives there too
>we always talked about the future
>I was planning to sell my guns and live with her, kills me inside, but I love her
>flash forward ahead to sometime last year
>Get a real decent job, ex no like me away from her
>Jelly.jpg
>start smoking, ex fucking hates it, I say "let's take a break then"
>we keep in constant touch, she starts going out, gets cocky
>posts slutty Halloween cost. on fb
>Erryone and her think "Great!"
>I ask how things are going, says she's getting to know her step cousin
>wut.jpg
>We talk later, her mum's side gives blessing
>I told her to never talk to me again
>Check and they are dating
>Proceed to hate myself even more
I've been sitting here trying to wrap my head around it. I have no friends irl or even online, have an amount of mental shit including depression and shit-tier self-esteem. She seems to have gotten it all, I'm just here all alone.
>tl;dr OP is emotional fagget that needs friends
>>16690116
Shoulda woulda coulda nigga. Move on I know it seems impossible but give it time
>>16690122
It was fucking perfect though. I could have been pumping that 'till I died. I guess that saying is true though...
>>16690116
>16
Time to leave kid.
Girlfriend and I dated for two years, broke up for a week, been back together for a month.
She hooked up with a rando during the breakup and lied about it until I bluffed about him telling me about it. Technically "not my business" but, fuck, that fast? That unapologetic?
Should I be fucking pissed or am I being a babby
The fuck do you think a breakup is. I think you should dump her if it bothers you but I don't think she wronged you.
>>16689888
She lied. it probably bothers you, judging by the fact that you posted about it, so you don't appreciate that behavior. Later on, she may do similar things.
Some guys don't care, and that's fine, too.
But for you and the way you feel, you're justified. The wisest thing would be to avoid further damaging issues and cut her out, and go on to find someone who won't do that shit.
>>16689888
WE WERE ON A BREAK!!!
Dammit Rachel.
How the fuck do I stop being so clingy
>>16689549
there's other people to interact with.
Get over whoever you're clinging onto and fill the gap with other things/ people.
Are you male or female, op?
>>16689549
Seek Jesus.
How to study like an asian?
Seriously. I try to learn more than 6 hours a day but after a while my head get a bit "foggy" and I can't focus properly anymore.
Any tips to counter that?
>>16688867
Vyvanse. I took 30mg (a typical pill) once during finals week. Researched for and bombed out a 12 page paper in a couple hours. Helps keep you focused, highly recommended. I haven't taken it since then, and have not felt any addiction or anything like that. Adderall will have a similar effect.
When you take it (after eating of course), start working/studying immediately. You won't feel anything kick in. Rather, you will look at the clock and realize you've been studying for about 4 hours or so.
>>16688903
Well, I assume it's not that easy to get it in germany? Would love to try it out.
>>16688919
Hmm. Are you a student? I got my pill from a fellow student who is prescribed so it was pretty easy.
Is it actually possible to get a GF while being balding/bald at 18-20?
I always see people trying to say that it doesn't matter, but it literally does. Redditors and other people like them always try to make things sound completely kosher and in control when they may just not be because of unfortunate events.
I mean personally, I don't like bald heads. It doesn't really fit my personality or my interests, and I think hair is nice. It really does not make sense to me when people say "just b confident bald guys are sexy", no, they're not, at least to someone like me. I don't like Jason Statham, I would rather be a Last Airbender or One Punch Man looking ass nigga than that musky looking retard.
Just do like Trump and you'll be fucking 10/10 Russian super models and rekindling patriotism.
now, I'm going to list off some "sexy bald guys"
>ESAM, from competitive Smash Brothers
>Mew2King, from competitive Smash Brothers
>Anthony Fantano
>Mahatma Gandhi
>Vladimir Lenin
>2Pac Shakur
>DMX
>Bernie Sanders
>John Mccain
>Kyle Gass, from Tenacious D
did I miss any?
>>16688572
no, I hate Vladimir Putin. I think that guy is a douchebag.
My only options are probably a girl with daddy issues who has a bald dad.
>tfw gf used to fuck famous musicians
how do I get over it?
Have sex with that musical pussy.
Be you, and be comfortable in being you.
If you don't like who you are, do things to become the person you want to be.
Once you have certainty in your identity, regardless of other people's opinions, you will be fine.
In addition, you need to do all the necessary behaviors that make someone attractive (be a person that other women desire, understand what women find sexy vs. what a man finds sexy, fuck her well, have a code by which you won't break, even for her).
stop caring about it you insecure little beta
I'm an 18 year old HS senior who really doesn't have any friends or has ever had a gf. My supposed best friend just freaked out at me for telling a joke and he cancelled plans we had. Is college actually better than this? People sometimes talk to me, but other than that, I spend my days alone and never even get texts. Girls never pay me any mind, and I've been rejected or just flaked off every single time. I'm told I am handsome and I'm not socially autistic, it just makes no sense.
In short, can I anticipate better times when I start college?
If you go nowhere except your dorm, your classes and the food hall, then yes you can expect the same thing.
>>16673503
Okay, then what should I do there? It's not like I can go anywhere here without being invited to do so. Nor do I really want to with these people...
Help. Life is suffering.
Idk if I'm overreacting, but I'm kinda angry.
I'm travelling and my boyfriend is feeling kinda lonely, so he gave his skype name in one of those skype threads where there are a lot of thirsty thots.
I'm pretty jealous and I have some trust issues due to some problems we had in the past.
Should I do something about it?
>>16668507
>one of those skype threads where there are a lot of thirsty thots.
You mean horny, sexually-confused dudes willing to jack off with other sexually-confused dudes.
You're right to be worried, but you're worried about the wrong thing.
>>16668516
What should I be worried about?
>>16668516
Like, one of those girls added him.
There ARE meme thots there, not only dudes.
I saw my friend drag an unconscious girl back to his room where he had sex with her. Should i tell the girl or mind my own business?
>>16690014
Why the fuck didn't you get a piece of that?
>should I be a piece of shit or should I not
gee anon I don't know
He's one of my best friends and I don't want to ruin his future
>go on a couple of dates this week with three different women
>one asked how big my cock was
>one asked what my fetishes were
>two asked if I masturbated to them yet
>all three asked how much money I made
Whatever happened to tact? Is this what passes for modern flirting? None of them seemed trashy, either, and only one I met on an online dating site. All three are STEM educated (two chemistry, one actuarial science) and 25-26 years old.
I'm attracted to modesty. Give me a girl who looks good in a dress and I can have a smooth conversation with and things will be dandy. I'm a little prudish myself so it catches me off guard to meet women who are sexually aggressive like this. It's a major turn off.
>>16689966
Come to my team. I won't ask if your dick is big enough I swear lol
Anyway,don't date.
>>16689966
>dating working women
Won't find modesty there.
>>16689966
how the does one go out with three different women in one week and I can't find one female in my 22 years of living how
So basically I dont interact with girls bc im scared of being labeled a creep. Like I'll look at a girl and look away if she looks my way and try my best to not talk to her without her talking first. This therefore fucks me over bc girls want me to make the first move but I can't because what if they just think im creepy for doing so. It's kind of a trap and i was wondering if any of you guys know how to get out of said trap.
>>16689941
Let me provide you with a simple decision making guide regarding this topic:
Are you attractive? If so, you aren't creepy. If not, then you're creepy.
Eh, they can still feel your attraction to them. Use your words to develop your emotions towards them to more than just "wish shed fuck me".
T. Someone who has to start doing this with my mom and brothers gf because they hate me since I act how you describe
>>16689944
>Are you attractive? If so, you aren't creepy. If not, then you're creepy.
http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2012/09/creepy-behavior-difference-attractive-attracted/
>>16689941
Solution: Just stop giving a fuck and start doing it until you get over it. Confidence goes a long way in curtailing creepiness.
>20 yo
>no serious gf
>still a virgin (a gril blew me once it was ok)
>future looks ok starting to learn software engineering soon
>have like 1/2 good friends and another 3-4 semi
>felling down as fuck for about a month about not having a gf
i dont know what to do desu i keep trying to push my self to do things i dont really want to not think about it, i have allways had thought of killing my self but usually i try to do shit to make them go away, its looking pretty grim for me i really need something to help me forget
>>16689586
Are you me? I'm all of those things except your major
>>16689595
Since nobody else is responding to this thread
>feeling cautiously optimistic with new semester
>qt girl in my philosophy class, I'll ask her out for coffee soon
>looking for someone to take a good picture of me (tfw Sartre minus cross-eyes) to use for friendsy or other dating app
>if all else fails, I'll just wait for the right person to come along (not "The One", just someone who I like and who likes me)
Don't lose hope, OP. And even if you are lonely, it'd be a pretty petty thing to throw your life away over. It would devastate your friends, family, and even people that barely knew you. Bertrand Russell nearly killed himself as a lonely adolescent but went on to become one of the greatest philosophers of all time. There was no way he could have known then that he would go on to do anything great, he just stuck it out.
>>16689669
Ill probably wont end it i got family and friends that love me, i just want a qt gf and to afraid to try and get one
I just want a girl to hit on me
Hello male of 21 here, I've come back here to get some advice.
I've been seeing this girl for a while to the point where we're in an obvious relationship.
I'll start off with saying we're busy people but do make time to communicate a lot. We see each other at least once every month and it works so far.
We've been getting to the sexual activities. I haven't been able to do too much to her because we usually are together at the end of the month and that happens when she's on her period a lot.
Last time I was with her we had the house to ourselves for 5 days with christmas. We did a lot of stuff but were unable to have sex due to some issues (she was starting to bleed again and she is a bit too tight for me), so we did other stuff to have fun.
At one point she rimmed me, which we both know is a fetish of mine and she was eager to provide. Afterwards we talked a bit about it and she said she liked it, and she liked how I reacted.
Then now she just said while she did like it, she felt a bit dominant which made her feel less sexy as she puts it. We both concluded it might be because I haven't been able to do much dominant to her (I'm usually quite dominant) and left it at that.
Is there anything I can do about this? If it starts to become a problem I guess I need to stop hoping for rimjobs as it might scare her off? Some general advice please.
Just slap her around and call her dirty things. Claw back into the domination factor as you enjoy it or that'll be your assholes last kiss.
>>16689532
I like your choice of words.
I just have to make her feel submissive as she does it? Any other tips to do that than you mentioned? I'm quite in a vulnerable position when she does it so I'm a bit at loss on what to do.
>>16689532
>>16689535
My wife wants a divorce, after a short 2 years of marriage. She's cheated on me, and basically just been immature, and though it hurts, I don't mind moving on to better things. Neither of us want to end up solving this in a court, but I'm hung up on one thing - She wants to keep a new car I purchased after we were married. It's entirely in my name. I know she'd never be approved to continue paying for it, and I don't want to pay for her means of visiting her new boyfriends, I'd rather just sell the damn thing and pay down the remaining loan.
Is she allowed to ask for the car? I can't find what Canadian law says about specific stuff like this.
>>16689429
>he fell for the marriage trap
>>16689429
Sell it before you start the divorce.
>>16689429
Bruh, she aint entitled to anything she cheated, tell her to go ask that other nigga to support her since she wanna go violate something as holy as marriage.