Hey I'm a 19 year old male with a 5.5 inch penis, what is the general opinion of women when they see an "average" dick
yes, I am a virgin.
>>16687992
i am a 22 y/o male with a 5.5 inch penis and i have never in my life had a complaint made by any of the 5 women i've had sex with.
ur good homie.
"oh look a dick"
bro, if you've gotten to the point where they're seeing your dick an average one isn't gonna put them off. if anything your insecurity will act as a self fulfilling prophecy.
>>16687992
Why are you asking about penis size when you can't even get a girl to be interested in you?
If you're at the stage where you're naked with a girl she won't take out a ruler and measure you out then if it's not a 9 inch python decide to leave.
That's literally the least of your problems right now.
>I'm 19
What a baby.
What are some excellent college majors to pursue? I'm planning on going the Computer Science route currently. If I could I'd major Physics but I've heard it's nearly impossible to get a job in academia.
Do what you want to do. It's not the major that counts, it's what you do with it that matters
>>16687920
Accounting
Electrical Engineering
Nursing +Pre-Med
Anything else WILL be called a meme major at some point on 4chan. (And to be honest, the above probably has as well)
>>16687923
That is false. If you can't get a job with your degree, you're wasting time.
Gf might be going to jail for 6 months to a year for snapping at a stalker.
I love her so much, what do I do?
Does anyone know what female prison is like?
>>16687896
Break up. She's gonna scissor like crazy in the slammer. Best get some stank on your hang down while you can.
For snapping at a stalker? Op why are you so full of shit?
So I might be a Borderline sociopath, I haven't been diagnosed but I've had problems for a long time an this clicks along with some other things.
Does anyone have experience dealing with this
See a psychiatrist, so many people are ''arm-chair'' diagnosing themselves.
>>16687891
>i haven't been diagnosed
Then you aren't.
My doctor won't listen to me so I can't get a referral and I can't afford going to the wrong person.
The reason I think I am is cause I have no emotions towards anything, when I'm alone I feel like a machine just breathing an eating an possible killing myself or someone else.
But when I'm with people all I feel is disappointment an sadness an just a roller coaster of emotions
How to socialize with girls?
I'm a 23 year old degenerate who works all the time and literally has no social life. Do I go to clubs or just meet girls at walmart/anywhere I can like a fucking loser?
>>16687872
Find a hobby that has public meetings/gatherings, go to said gatherings.
Are you asking how to meet them, or how to talk to them?
>>16687875
Where to meet them.
Is dating possible for an average-looking 28 year old who lives with his parents and barely makes minimum wage working part-time due to a mental disorder?
Dating? No.
Dating good looking/high quality people? Yes.
It'll be much easier if you're a girl though.
>>16687864
Did you get that around the wrong way?
>>16687866
Yes, yes I did get that the wrong way.
My bad.
Me and my girlfriend has been dating for more than 2 years now but, for some reason, sex has become so rare. When we started, we have sex more like everyday until slowly it became less and less. I'm 25 and she's 23, we both have careers which can be tiresome at the end of the day. But even during weekends or days when we're not too busy, she doesn't really look for sex anymore - She'd rather watch some movies or play games. I don't think feelings is the problem at all either as she does make me feel that she loves me but the sex just... it is just slowly fading.
The thing is, it makes me a bit insecure that maybe i am not sexually appealing for her anymore. I confronted her about this on various occasions but yesterday made me snap... she retorted that she doesn't need to re-assure me all the time and it hurts me deeply.
How do i get around this? Can i revive the spark in our sex life? Do i have just to live with this?
PS. I don't know if this helps but she is my first partner i had sexual intercourse with and I am her 2nd. We are also lesbians. :S Please don't burn me on the stake.
>>16687833
What did she say when you suggested having more sex?
>>16687840
She did say she acknowledges it and she will try but nothing really changes. If i do ask, she retorts by saying something like "but we just had sex last week" or something
>>16687847
You both are going to have to come to a compriomise, she doesn't need to have sex only when you feel like it, and you need some sort of sexual pleasure on a decent basis. This is a conversation that you're gonna have to have with her. If she won't change, you may have to jump ship.
Okay so, here goes. I met my ex around March 2013. We've been on and off since October 2013. We have a daughter together who is an absolute angel and I love her with everything I have. He cheated on me on August 2013 with my best friend, he chose another girl over me in 2014 and now he's dating a girl who is basically the town's bycicle (every guy I know has had sex with her). He's trashed my apartment, threatened to hurt me and yelled at me in front of our daughter. He's come home drunk and lived with me rent free for a whole year while I payed for everything. I had a dream a couple of hours ago that him and his current girlfriend were in and I physically assaulted his girlfriend and he didn't stop me. What do I do? What does this mean? If he's such a piece of shit then why am I still hung up on everything?
Because you might be clinically retarded. Have some fucking self-respect. Who cares if he's the father of your child. He's a piece of shit and you need to cut him out of your life. How could you let him live with you and treat you like that? I'm honestly angry for all females right now.
>why am I still hung up on everything?
what does that mean?
>>16687820
Right now, we barely talk unless it's about our daughter which he basically does nothing for. He always asks to see her but doesn't contribute AT ALL. I don't want to cut him out because I know how shitty it is to grow up without a dad around (my dad spent thousands of dollars in court just to get visitation). I don't want her to miss out even though I know it'll end up in disappointment, you know?
What's dating life in Japanese colleges like?
I'm not really a huge fan of the general mindset for it in the area I live in, and since I might go to Japan on co-op or to study abroad at some point, I'm curious.
What don't you like about dating here that you think you'll like in Japan? Not sure I'm following.
>>16687783
I don't have any expectations for Japan, I'm just asking.
I guess I'm slightly conservative in that I don't really enjoy the whole hook up/drinking/etc thing that seems to be commonplace in American colleges.
Japan is very pure, but you may find it boring
would it be possible to kill myself by holding a metal pole during a thunderstorm?
>>16687723
no. go outside
Depends on where the pole is. Depends on the type of metal. Depends on where you are holding it.
The chances of lightning striking that pole are small unless the pole were very very tall.
Go outside anon
>>16687730
>>16687735
obviously id have to be outside.
how can maximize the possibility that a lightning strike kills me?
Getting tired of it.
my personal assistant just had a shouting match with the accountant today.
Lots of insults, 'why do I make a quarter of what you make if I'm twice as old followed by accountant shouting my PA's salary), then the PA 'Because you're no where near a quarter as smart' and then called her a 'hag' and told her to 'fly off on a broom'
So, I had to fire the accountant- Not good. Someone is now mad at me, and the company, and has a list of our clients, margins, fucking everything.
Now, I need to do the accounting myself, on top my 70 + hour work week (which I was getting used to because it was 90+ when we didn't have an accountant... now it's 80, and I have another 20 hours a week because I put half the time I saved back into the company)
So what the fuck do I do?
This is the 5th female employee that my PA has had a shouting match with- I can't fire her because she's the only one in the company other than me that does good work.
What the fuck do I do? it's a company not a zoo
5 times sounds like your PA might be more guilty than you think.
>>16687665
Your PA is creating work for you, actually, with all these shouting matches.
>>16687665
Never fire your accountants, finance guys/gals and IT staff UNLESS you have a really good reason to do so. Do your accounting and get rid of your PA.
whenever I my girlfriend goes out to parties (without me) she always texts me being all lovey-dovey, saying how much she loves me, saying shit like she wants to marry me, wants to be with me forever, etc etc.
Alcohol is usually involved, to more of an extent than other times.
What is this about?
Alcohol lowers inhibitions
This is about which shampoo you're going to use in order to keep your horns clean and shiny.
>>16687646
Explain?
How long does it take to learn how to become sexually responsive/feel pleasure if you have a vagina? How many times do you have to fuck before your nerve endings get to work?
>>16687569
Um, you may be expecting too much out of your (new?) vagina.
>>16687572
What should I expect from my vagina?
>>16687609
Not much, have you interacted with your clit?
How do I will myself to get my fucking shit together? In terms of school I'm barely staying afloat, and almost got kicked out of college this semester. I'm overweight and lack both the self esteem and social skills needed to be able to establish anything longterm or romantic with a girl. I look and see people around me who are successful and happy, and all it does is make me depressed and angry at my own inability to feel like I'm living a meaningful life. Came very close to killing myself a few weeks ago, but didn't. Just looking to vent on 4chan because I'm not good at talking about my problems in real life, because I feel that A) They're first world problems that aren't even that bad, and I'm probably just being a little bitch and B) I don't like to let people see who I am past the surface. I would say that for a good portion of my life, I've been masking my personality and actual feelings.
I just want to fucking lose weight, have a relationship with someone I can relate to, and be successful in life. I'm upset at myself because I have no reason not to live up to these goals. Aside from not really having a father figure because of my parents getting divorced when I was 4, I've had a pretty good life in terms of stability. I do feel that my Mom was too lenient with raising me, but I don't see how I could be mad at someone for something like that, as it feels like it's just an excuse to deflect responsibility. At this point I'm just venting so /ventgeneral/ I guess.
Both of your premises, A and B, are false. If you kill yourself, that is a real problem. And you need to let people in.
My older brother is in the same boat anon. He's overweight, and unemployed. All he does all day is sit down and play fallout 4 and go to school. Recently however, he went out and applied for work in random places where I live.
Go to a gym anon and work the shit out of yourself so when you lie down in bed, you can smile and see that if you're capable of going to the gym, you're capable of bettering yourself. I believe in you OP.
Don'the they have a counseling office at your college? Use it, OP.
>21
>Not by an stretch of the imagination a good person
>Was officially diagnosed by my psychiatrist as a sociopath a while back (not trying to be an edgelord, promise)
>Despite this I still managed to end up with a girl
>Been together 2 years now
>She can't speak, was in an accident, vocal cords were fucked up severaly when she was a kid
>Somehow despite me being a sociopath, and her not being able to speak we have made things work really well
I think I love her? I'm not sure, I honestly don't feel much of anything for anyone, but I do for her, just don't really understand what it is. Anyways, I don't know what to do. We just had our two year anniversary, everything is going smoothly.
Thing is I feel like she is dooming herself by choosing to be with me, because she knows my mental health condition. On top of that, I'm like a passionless fucking hole. For as long as I can remember, I've pretty much been indifferent to literally everything. I'm currently working towards a major in college, but it doesn't mean much to me. I was homeless for a while, and I could honestly live like that the rest of my life, it doesn't make a difference to me one way or another. Despite that, I still understand that I have obligations to see to and whatnot.
I just want her to have a better life than being with me. I'm by no means a psycho, or wish harm upon anyone, and I've ALWAYS gone out of my way to do right by her, but I could just fucking leave and drop everything one day without a second thought if the mood really struck me. Should I stick it out with her, or end things?
The moral sociopath.
>>16687463
I don't feel a moral pull per se, But through lots of therapy, I've learned enough to know how people should be treated.
I certainly wouldn't feel bad for doing something I shouldn't but that doesn't mean I don't know that I shouldn't in the first place. I'm not an unthinking savage.
Depends on how she feels about you as well. If she loves you as much as you do then I'd say give it a go.