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I want help dealing with some feelings I have. They are neither right, nor wrong, but I would like help explaining them.
With the two recent celebrity deaths of Rickman, and Bowie. I've had a number of friends so affected by this, they had to call out of work, or their day was ruined. I find these feelings so strange. I mean, we don't even know this people, we only like them, because of their art, and It seems like this celebrity worship has gone too far. What are your thoughts on the issue?
p.s. I do think there death is horrible, I just don't think it should effect someone to the point where they feel like a piece of them is missing. I mean people are comparing these people to family members.
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Your friends are really weird and probably lying to get laid.
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>>16687447
yea, it really does seem strange.
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Your friends think they have a relationship with people on TV. But they don't.
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Polyamory.
Arguments for it, arguments against it?
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>>16687398
Pros:
>If you're a really attractive man or an at least average woman you can get more fuck.
Cons:
>Otherwise you get less fuck.
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Hard to swing, hard to swing.
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>>16687398
Great in theory, ignores that it's hard coded into our dna to be possessive and jealous people when it comes to sexuality and emotional connections.
It's sort of like communism, great in theory, not actually possible to be put into practice.
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hey /adv/
I am a 20 year old who has never really dated or had a relationship. It's been about a year since I even had a girl interested enough for making out.
Am I a destined forever alone?
What am I fucking up? Pic related, its me
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>>16687386
Sorry man, you're just pretty fucking ugly.
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>>16687386
2/10
lower your standards, go for the land whales.
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That's fucked I wouldn't agree with what the other dude said. You're not ugly and you obviously have a sense of style. Confidence is key. Just don't really try too hard with a girl cuz if you even think there's a chance that you're coming off as trying hard then you probably are.
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Before my girl that I'm about to marry was with me, she was really in love with another guy, like dead head over heels in love with him, he made her cum and shit, and she loved the fucker a lot. Well, he dumped her, and she claims she doesn't care for him at all anymore. How the fuck can I stop being so jealous over her previous relationships? I mean, she's had sex with a few guys before, but she never really loved them she said. We've been together for a while, but jealousy of her past has literally been tearing me apart and I'm afraid it's going to harm out relationship. What the fuck do I do?
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This is why you don't fucking talk about previous relationships with your significant other.
How the fuck did you even know that she was head over heels with him and whatnot?
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Bang her in the ass. Make her come in the most degrading ways you can dream up.
>You'll thank me later.
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>>16687361
I agree with this. First of all, it will make you feel dominant. But also, she will come to need you/want to be dominated.
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That's practically my daily life issue - that's the reason I still believe I don't deserve to have friends, girlfriend, friendly attitude towards me on the work and in general.
The point I reached with it - when I'm being yelled at, I genuinely think I deserve getting that.
What do you think, is this curable since I've been this way now for over 5 years?
Or is it the way nature to tell me I'm a freak of nature?
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>>16687320
I'm the same way. I have moderate social anxiety on top of all of those things too. The only way I've been able help mine is by being outside and being around people. The more I sat in my bedroom by myself, the worse my self hatred and feelings of isolation grew. But if you can see a therapist/counselor, that might help too.
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>>16687388
>social anxiety
isn't that a bit diffrent kind of thing?
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>>16687320
I need you to elaborate a little more than just "weak character".
And do you have any examples of what you did/didn't do to provoke people to yell at/mistreat you? I can't say off the top that you didn't deserve it unless I know the situation. Just elaborate anon.
Somehow my roommate wrangled a girl over, and he's no good with them. I'm happy for him, but it's getting close to 10 at night and he's hooping and hollering at Harry Potter with her - and they're marathoning it all because Alan Rickman died. I'm ratcheting down for bed and the noise is annoying as fuck.
Should I barge in on him and tell the two of them to shut the fuck up or just swallow hard and let them keep going?
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>not understanding the bro commandments
Leave him the fuck alone. Deal with that shit and root him on
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Yeah help a brother get lain.
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they'll be fucking in due time, just let them have their fun
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My girlfriend just sent me two snaps (pictures) that weren't meant for me.
The first one she was wearing an oversized buttoned collar shirt, and the second one was a picture of a shirtless dude laying in bed with her. She meant to send them to her friend, I'm guessing, because they were captioned as if she was continuing a conversation.
I don't even really know what to do right now. I want many things, I want to sleep and not wake up. I want this to be a bad nightmare. I want her to not exist anymore.
Please help /adv/ before I do something very bad.
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>>16687172
go call up a prostitute and snap her back a picture of you laying in bed naked with the whore like "omg u too???"
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Send them to her parents.
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>>16687175
LOLOLOLOL
thats hilarious.
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I am a president of a uni club and I fucked up by tweeting a sensitive information out. I removed it quickly and saved face but everybody, (lower-rank execs) started getting mad at me and called me stupid and told me what possessed me to do such stupid act blah blah on our club group chat. Pretty much downright disrespectful.
I maintained composure so far and havent said anything but soon, I have to.
What do you think is the best course of action for me? I don't want to look like a pussy or look like an insecure guy that comes out to defend himself.
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If it's your last semester, just do what I'm doing. Drop out of the club and just focus on your school work, and your career after school.
I fucked things up at school and got a lot of students pissed at me. Thankfully I graduate this spring, so I'm just focusing on my school work and riding it out.
Spending less time at school (when not in class).
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>>16687124
Give us more information. What kind of private info was this? Why did you tweet it out?
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>>16687158
It's not. But I have a similar plan. Thanks for bringing that up.
>>16687173
it was regarding a normal dance/networking event we were throwing and tomorrow was the last day to buy tickets. I simply tweeted everybody come buy there are (number) of tickets sold already.
They got mad because I tweeted the actual number.
Ok, so I'm a 23 year old woman. I've been dating this guy for 4 months. He makes me feel very comfortable and I've been exploring myself sexually with him. I don't want to be in a relationship with him, because I'm in med school and he's already graduated doing his residency.
Ok cutting the story short, I always wanted to have a menage with another chick and I didn't know how to bring it up, so I obviously complicated it and told him I had a friend, but in reality I don't. He said that he'd love to have that experience which brings me to the subject I need to hire a prostitute without him knowing that person is a prostitute.
Question #1 How would you feel about that if you were him? Would it matter if it's a hooker or a normal person? Am I a bad girlfriend? I'm just afraid that he'll not go for it if he knows she's a hooker, so I don't want to risk it.
#2 How do I hire a prostitute? Where do I go? I need her to be like a normal chick, not like a ho. I'm talking about the way she talks and everything. I need her to pretend she's someone she's not and do exactly as I tell her.
I'm dead serious about this, guys. I have no idea where to begin. I need someone to play along and go away afterwards.
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>Backpage.com
>choose your city
>select "escort" under the adult section
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>>16687121
Thanks. man. Although I still wish someone would tell me if what I'm doing is a bad thing or not. Does it matter if she's a hooker or "not a hooker" (I put normal person there, but I don't mean to be an asshole), I guess hookers are normal people. Does it matter if he never knows it's a hooker? I feel kind of bad for lying.
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If you live in Winnipeg I'll do it for you.
I am an 18 year old virgin (male) and the thought of having sex is scary for me. It's not preformance or size or something along that nature, it's the shape of my penis. It's slightly curved to the left and I'm extremely scared that when I have intimacy that the girl will reject me or be freaked out by it. Is this a normal thing that some guys have? Do I need to get this check out by a doctor? I'm sorry if this is the wrong board, I am new to 4chan.
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Everybody has a different dick. Be thankful yours isn't the shape of a question mark or pointing straight up or something... You are fine dude.
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>>16687100
> mfw my dick is an ampersand.
Existence is pain.
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No one gives two shits about what a dick looks like. You gonna get all nervous if a girls pussy doesn't look like the ones you see in anime? Hell no you're gonna fuck it. They dgaf either
School killed all the creativity I used to have. How do I get it back?
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Please...
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I'd say find a hobby. Look for something you really like (such as programming or music or acting) then look for inspiration from others. If you like programming, take a video game and try develop some urge to create your own video game. Playing Ocarina of Time this past year made me want to create my own game. This could all be bullshit tho
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If you were actually a creative person, school would have been validating. If not, your personal life would have been full of creativity. You're probably just some emo fag who draws anime and isn't very imaginative.
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It's in my upper pubic area closer to my closer stomach, i dont know what it is but i scratched it and it bled like crazy, it just stopped. Any medfags wanna help me out, should i got to the doctors?
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*closer to my lower stomach
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probably an ingrown hair
wash yourself more often
if it starts getting really red or leaking shit then go to the doctor
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>>16687074
Not a doctor, but it might be a very aggravated ingrown hair.
So...i'll approach this girl tomorrow (the one with the tattoo,btw, she has another in her forearm too, some random eye and triangle) (I don't know if i can post her face though)
She works in a cellphone store, basically i'll ask for some semi random shit, and then, at the final, i will tell her something like "hey, do you have a telephone number?, I want to know you better and i can't develop a talk right here when you're working and you have to adress customers before lose time with some random dude"
And if other girl address me i will told her when we were finished "Ok, we're done, now i want to ask something to your friend"
The last time i went to store I noticed how she was throwing glances at me, plenty of them, and i only know her name (because the other people in the store called her by it) and the fact she doesn't have a son (i don't know why she told a retarded story about how some random oldfag thought her sister was her daughter, i want to believe it was to give me that serious information). I'm 100% sure she have shown interest on me, the only thing i would like to know is that if she has a boyfriend, but i guess i can't play with all the cards
Also I am not sure if I have to tell her at the beginning "How are you Sophie?", or "Hello Sophie", because she haven't told me her name, but i have listened it
Anyway, does anybody have done something like this?, or perhaps does somebody have a nice tip or advice to me?
Don't take literally what i quoted, I'm not in an english speaking country
And it would be awesome if you guys can help me to spot what could the tattoo says, I'm sure "May H....", but what more? Anyway, don't worry too much about this, "May" is also a female name right here
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>>16687068
Oh no. Please no, don't do this. I'll elaborate when I come back cause I gotta go do something but everything you're planning to do is a complete disaster, not to mention that you jacked her pics online already like a creep.
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>>16687068
>i only know her name (because the other people in the store called her by it
>Closely examines a her and her conversations
>pulls picture from her social media account
>noticed how she was throwing glances at me, plenty of them
Dude, she's watching you because you are creepy as fuck. You have literally never met this girl and you have A.) Stalked her social media and posted her picture on 4chan, B.) Frequently visit her place of work to ogle her and eavesdrop her conversations. This is creepy, dude. Abandon ship and leave the poor girl alone.
You are scaring her.
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>calling a random girl by her name when she hasn't given it to you
>explaining you overheard it and remembered it for maximum creepy
>asking someone who works at a cellphone store if they have a telephone number
I like where this thread is going OP, please go on.
You should start with "I asked these random people online what your tatoo says by stealing a picture of you through stalking, but they couldn't make it out either, c-could I see it?".
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how do i respond to this
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Charge your phone
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by charging your phone battery
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2% battery? are you insane? who lets their phone get to 2% -.-
Tell me something that hurts to put in words
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>>16686845
Donald trump is running for president
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>>16686845
Everyone I know likes me, but I have almost no real friends and I've only had one gf in my life
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I feel that the people around me just tolerate me because they work with me and just act nice in hopes that I'll leave them alone. I pretend to be smart because I hate how stupid I really am.I always try to do things in the most unconventional ways so I've an excuse if I fail at it(which I usually do). I'm a pathological liar and can't stop even though I hate myself for it and try not to lie all the time. I see no point in living past 30 as I can't really see myself in a situation where I'm not struggling. I give up on trying to accomplish anything after I've failed only a few times yet can't stop myself from continually making attempts without actually trying and getting more and more angry with myself .