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That'd bullshit redpill stuff from that shit hole /b/. It's not good advice, fuck off with that shit

>>16894886
Fucking redpillers. That's not advice for getting laid; it's advice for becoming a total creep.

>>16894904
>>16894913
Delusional women please go.

Your opinion on the matter is literally menaningless. Harmful even.

Every woman wants an alpha bad boy, but they'll lie about it.

>>16894480

Stop having casual sex and try to have a lasting, meaningful relationship with someone you genuinely care about. Don't rush into a relationship just for the sake of having one. You'll go from fucking to making love, and there's a world of difference between how each will make you feel. Also, stop the cheating. You'll devalue your partner pretty quickly.

It's called being a ho.

>>16894480
>Have sex maybe twice a week depending on conditions and logistics.
That's completely normal. Even once a week is healthy.

>>16894494
I think I lack in will power.

Actually I know I do, any tips on how to build my will power?

I know you might think this is bait or trolling but I'm seriously struggling to cut it out of my life.

I think my adhd might be a problem to it but I hate blaming my adhd.

6 years I've smoked nearly every day and I hate myself for it more and more.

just don't do it...it's a lot harder to do something than not do anything. I quit drinking after 6 years drunk by just not doing it anymore.. you have to just want it, like actually really want it for you or it won't stick

I was that way too and it even made my girlfriend leave me stuff got so crazy and her one condition when we got back together was no more weed and I said okay , it's been tough and I've smoked it after a few drinks when I'm not thinking straight but if you have some like example a girlfriend there as a constant reminder that if you do have that joint you long for then you'll be alone , my girlfriend was a massive part of me giving it up

Well it is kind of creepy unless you guys have mutuals. Just go to tennis and see if she calls you out on it. If not then just bring it up casually

>>16893958
I reckon if i was patient and not added her i wouldve proabably gotten with her. I think i blew my chance big time adding her on fb. What do?

>>16893958
Should i cancel the friend request before tennis?

i'd say leave it long and start lifting weights / eat a balanced diet to fill out your body. your hair looks fine.

Realistically bro, you look like a mop threw up on your head. Get a hair cut, something trendy. With the shaved pubes beard dilemma, beards are a great way to hide a weak chin and jaw so it might be better to just deal with it and grow a beard.

Well, first thing is, as soon as you change for a woman she won't respect you anymore. Second, you could use a haircut, since you're young and edgy looking you could pull off some edgy hairstyle likeshaving your sides and leaving your top long or something

Also any good videos?
I wanna crawl before running if that makes sense. Nothing too crazy at the moment, all I've done is choking, spanking, and light face slapping, not even name-calling or spitting, which is something I guess I'll work in soon.

>>16893559
>Any advice?
Throw that book away. And the rest of the series, if you have them. It's not just badly written; it's misinformed to the point of being flat-out dangerous to newbies.

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>>16893568
Two Knotty Boys for bondage videos, always have scissors at reach, agree with your partner the do's and not do's before hand, have a safe word, respect it and don't believe the crap you read in 50SoG

How's your diet and exercise habits?

>>16893406
Diet: I eat a lot. I have to. I take nutrition pills so I don't have to eat as much veg. It's mostly meat, carbs, and sugars.

Exercise: I walk pretty much everywhere. I have dedicated exercise at minimum twice a week.

I'm in very good shape, 22, 6', 140lbs, 52-57bpm average resting heart rate.

>>16893395
medfag here, your lab results are useless without a proper h&p.

how long have you been feeling this way?
worsening or getting better?
any daily patterns? things that make it better or worse?
and when you say fatigue, how badly does it affect you at work/daily activities?

>>16893236
Ignore her. Act like you are too busy for her. Somehow make sure she notices you interacting with other women.

>>16893236

No, you're fucking done.

Describe "casual."

Goddammit guys if you're going to post a letter here ANONYMOUSLY you can give some details.

any opinion or suggestions are welcome

>>16893120
>for almost a year
lol
op pls

>>16893153
for a year been talking a lot. started last year april, is that a probleM

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>>16892990

Sure. Then you and her can become besties while plotting to bring him down with his side piece.

For real though. You can if you wan't. You don't have to go into massive detail, but a heads up could save her some drama. Be prepared to get some of that hate turned on you though.

>>16892990
If it was bad enough to bother you, it probably would upset the other woman.
So yeah, you'd be doing her a service. Since he probably won't stop fooling the poor woman on his own accord.

Or you can just push him away and not get yourself involved. No skin off your back.

>>16893006
Not at all this. It's just that they are pretty serious and I feel TERRIBLE for her.

>>16892741
You have a crush. Ignore it and don't act on it.

>>16892749
i know i do
im not an animal i can ignore my crush, but will things go back to normal after it fades?

I think half my problem is i forgot the excitement of a crush. but i do know the security of a loyal loving gf is better

What do you want us to say to you?
Nothing we say can help. You have to make that decision on your own and realize that you are already replacing your girlfriend (in your head) with someone else, based on a hunch that she might like you back.

Now that doesn't scream love or loyalty to me. I don't think you are ready for a commitment and I think you should reconsider your relationship with your girlfriend.

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>>16892390
cont.
>Met this girl online, then we met up
>She comes from a broken home, and almost going homeless because of her family
>She started to like me alot, and I started falling for her.
>I save her from her family and we been together for 4 years
>Help her get a job at where I work out
(Big mistake)
>Got fired a week later because of her.
>Then my car broke down
>Trying to get a job, but nothing works out
>she works at that job for 6 mouths, and makes new friends
>Friends push her to leave me, thinking I will never get a job
>One day she doesn't come home, I call her
>She tells me, she with a few girl friends
>Call her again
>Some redneck hick picks up the phone, say (I'm busy fucking your girl)
>She takes the phone, saying he's joking
>I get mad, saying I'm coming there now
>She then tells me, we need time apart
>Comes the next day and grabs the PS4, 3DS, and some of her clothes
>Tells me she going to see her mom
>Call her the next day, that guy on the phone again
>Then she gets on and tells me, she going to get the rest of the stuff.
>Told her not to show your face near my house again, you cheating whore
>Wants me to split our stuff 50/50
>Told her, we never got marry, like plan to this year. So you don't get shit from me.
(Got the bitch a promise ring and everything. Cost me 2K. Some promise)
>Find out from one of her friends, that she been cheating on me for a mouth because another friend got in her head, and told her she too young to get married, and he doesn't have a job. Fuck him, and live life, like a real woman.
>She slept with two other guys while we were together, I could never forgive her.
>The week she been gone, I got a high paying job, a new awesome that I win in a contest, and won $1000 bucks from a lotto ticket
>Life was looking good again, even if I was sad that the love of my life became a Florida whore.

If you really want revenge you will move on amd will be unnafected by whatever your ex says or does.

That's the best revenge. Good luck.

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>>16892406
The week she been gone, I got a high paying job, a new awesome (Car) that I win in a contest
typo

cont.
That's my story
Now she knows how great my life is, she wants to make me suffer like I was the bad guy in the relationship.
I save her from the streets.
I got her an ID, and a job.
I was even helping her get an GED.
I'm also fucking fit( Took Judo for 5 years), this is why none of her friends want to mess with me.
She 21, I'm 27.
I don't need this in my life, I just want to live decently.
Right now, our life would have been perfect with all this money I'm making, but no. She ruin her life, and now she lives with a bunch of strangers.
Last time she call me, she gave me a sob story of how her new friends cut her, and she got in a car wreak, almost dying.

Told her karma is a bitch.
Now, I have many ways to get my revenge on her.
No, I'm not going to post nudes, I'm not that evil.
I just want her to go back to her mom's place. So she far away from me.
>I was thinking of posting her Kik or email on random sites, so a bunch of guys can post dick pic to her, so her new boyfriend thinks she cheating on him too.

>Or post her debit card online, since I have all her bank info on my computer, but I won't use it. That way, she will be out of money, and has to go back to her mom's

Those are the only two things I have., other then a manger I know from my old job hates her, and been trying to get her to quit, not fire.
So they don't have to give her any money.
They told me, since I been gone, she became this disgust little troll that hops around the store.

I know I shouldn't let her get under my kin, but what kind of monster you have to be, to be with someone for so long, and go become a slut, out of no where.

I will never understand woman, are they all like this?

2/2

So I messaged her, saying how "we won't be able to meet anymore, I'm graduating while you have another semester, so I might as well tell you how I feel all these time" and confessed. She was unfettered. She's all "haha" and "why so gloomy"

Lo and behold I asked her out on a date. She continued the conversation like "dating" is something regular. I mentioned "date" a few times in our conversation, but she doesn't act weirded out nor does she sound happier about it.

So she went back to her hometown, while I stay at the dorm because I still have some stuff that I have to finish. I messaged her, and she invited me to a water park with her. Maybe she's busy with family or friends, but she doesn't seem to be answering my texts as frequently as she usually does.

I don't know, does she really like me, /adv/? I really like her and I don't want to make the same mistake my sperglord self in the past did with my first crush. I'm just afraid that maybe she's close with me because I'm "the senior who helps her a lot and gives her advice".

What do I do /adv/
I know relationships come and pass but I want to at least have a serious one for once.

>sometimes with me telling her to "be on guard" and "don't trust anyone you meet in uni"
What the fuck?

>>16891659
sounds like she likes you but is unsure about being in a relationship with you. are you good looking and confident? often people will not enter relationships with people because it might reflect badly on them. if you are creepy, she might be worried about how her friends act. obviously i dont know you and you could be alpha as fuck, just hypothesising.

No. 1 tip: don't be such a dick OP.

>>16891522
I heard reading helps.

>>16891532
Noted, got anything else?

>>16891147
CONT (2/2)

In addition, it seems like she only showers once every other day and wears the same underwear pretty often. This sort of bothers me because I consider myself a very clean person. The fact that she is constantly having bowel issues makes me almost disgusted. I also know that women have discharge from their vagina. Believe it or not, this has actually helped me to think about when I'm really turned on so that I don't feel bad about coming onto her and then getting rejected.

I don't know how to bring up these sex drive issues without causing more HARM than good. If I make her aware of the situation, it will probably make it worse. She already has depression and anxiety and self confidence issues. I could bring up the problem but there's no realistic solution to it. Then, in addition to other problems she has to deal with she has to deal with our relationship as a problem, which it never has been.

These are issues I thought people dealt with after 20 years of marriage, not as young twenty year olds.

What do I do? This is my question.

>>16891169
Fuck man

Like I honestly can't even think of a legitimate thing to even attempt

Really your only solution would be to break up, but that comes at the cost of her sake.

You sound kinda pretentious and a little self centered saying that it bothers you that sex isn't often and that shit, but it makes sense.

Honestly you might as well just talk to her about it, and try to sort it out that way, if it makes it worse then you just gotta break up if it really bothers you so much.