>be me, smoking cigarette outside an art event
>I yawn
>the girl next to me says "that's a big yawn"
>we start talking, it's a very flat conversation
>we go inside to a bar, she writes her number on the receipt and gives it to me (didn't buy her drinks as I had already given up at this point)
>tell her I have to leave, she kisses me on the cheek
>I text her a few days later, no response
I don't really know what to make of it. I'm a 4/10, she was probably a 7 or 8/10. I obviously have NEVER been approached by a woman in my entire life, up until this point. Do women like to do this kind of thing for kicks?
i wouldve called
>>16898324
Yes, women do shit like this all the time. Don't bother trying to figure out why. I am saying this because most men drive themselves up the wall and get enraged because logically it doesn't make any sense. Never question why, just accept flakes will be flakes and fuck them.
>>16898324
As a girl I find 10/10 guys unappealing. I suppose it just my subjective experiences but they seem to turn into arseholes, not grounded at all. As a result I love guys who seem a little introverted. I want to build them up and support them. I get off by bringing him pleasure and being his rock. I would be the kind of girl who would give you my number. It would be this reckless choice made in the heat of the initial attraction. If you didn't call me the next day I would feel utterly foolish and be pretty pissed with myself for making a rash move. If you texted me a few days later I would think you're a little odd. You weren't attracted to me enough to call me the next day or you left it instead long enough to to realise you hadn't had that impromptu shag for the week. Either way, you weren't that into me. So, that's my interpretation but who knows what she was thinking. Either way you dun fucked up by not texting her the next day. Fuck what the dating books say. Women want you to be attracted to them. The just don't want you breathing down their necks. If you really want to give it ago just write back about how you feel honestly, that it was a bit of a surprise she would talk to you. If nothing else you will just be ignored.
I walked in on my boyfriend of 4 years giving a blowjob to another guy.
I don't know what to feel. I don't know if this is real life. I'm sitting here posting from my laptop in my car in front of our apartment wondering what I just witnessed.
Drive away and never look back. Also get yourself some comfort food.
>>16898253
Drop him. no emotion and no regret. He blew another man, he wasn't the guy follow.
easy.
walk away lady. walkkkk awayyyy
How do I stop feeling like shit? My boyfriend of 3 years has a low libido, and my sex drive is constantly through the roof. I didn't think this would be a problem, but I feel like utter shit every time I get rejected. At first it was manageable, but after so many months of "I'm too tired" or "I don't feel like it", it brings you down. He says it isn't appearance or physique or anything, and that he wouldn't want to put in the effort for any girl. Hearing that makes me feel like there isn't anything that we can do, and that this will never change. Is there anything I can do?
>>16898213
Yeah, you can throw down the gauntlet and tell him if he doesn't go get help for whatever his mental issue is, you're going to leave. Bottom line. You're a fool for staying in a relationship like that. I don't care how nice he is or how compatible you are or whatever else you'll try to rationalize. He's a guy. There are billions of others. Millions of those guys will be just as compatible and cool as he is. You're settling for a shit relationship, and cheating yourself out of a great one with someone else, who will be both emotionally and physically satisfying.
So if he won't go get help (he probably has depression or some other stress issue), you're gone. Bottom line.
>>16898213
He sounds like a lazy fuck. Tell him to use a dildo on you or something if getting it up is the issue.
Break up perphaps... Not much else you can do.
How the fuck do people do 9-5 office jobs?
You get less than four hours a night to attend to your personal affairs, and almost every major company in Australia is paying monthly (seriously... what the fuck).
So not only do you have to be super careful with your spending, you get fuck all time to enjoy yourself. This is literally living to work; not working to live.
Can anyone explain to me how to make the most of this? Because the chunk of my day that get's wasted is starting to affect my mental well being.
>>16898177
that is a lifestyle of a drone.
Like the ant colony, the majority of the inhabitants are just worker ants.
Humans are quite similar my friend,
>>16898177
You get 2 days off, and evenings off. That's really nice. The way you "deal with it" is by realizing this is what most people do, and you should feel lucky to have an office job. You could be toiling away at a 60 hour a week manual labor job, which will ruin your body and you'll be on welfare after 50 because you're incapable of working.
As you age, you stop giving a shit about "muh free time" for video games or Netflix or partying with bros or whatever else you feel you have to do in the 4 hours after work. You, like most everyone else, will get tired at 8 and will watch an hour or two of TV or play on the Internet until it's bedtime, and you'll be glad to go to bed because you realize other shit is pointless and you'd rather sleep than fuck around on Call of Duty.
Promise. You will eventually get that way. And it may sound shit to you now, but as you get older, you really do stop giving a damn about what you care about now. And it's not the job that did it to you. It's just part of getting older and having your priorities change. Time to grow up and realize that all the free time and fun time you used to have was simply because you were a kid. No one gets to be a kid forever, unless you're stinking rich. You're not, so grow up.
If it's taking a toll on your brain, see a shrink. No shame in it. They help even folks who don't have mental problems. They'll give you some clarity that 4chan can't.
>>16898177
>9am - 5pm
>8 hours a day working
>~2 hours max drive and prep time
>8 hours of sleep (being generous)
>6 hours left to do whatever
Sounds pretty good to me. You can get a lot done still. Plus the weekends are free, so not too bad.
What is your schedule like? Maybe you can change priorities around?
>>16893576
Kinda' regretting the new length, although... thoughts on new haircut?
>>16898161
Damn you look like a faggot.
It's a vast improvement from the before pic
>>16898161
Cut it shorter. Like this.
Anyone have any experience with side girls? My girlfriend and I got together young and never had anyone else before each other, and I want to experience new things without losing her. Pic not really related.
Why don't you just man up and leave her instead of potentially hurting her by being selfish and going behind her back.
>>16898053
This. Pussy is pussy. Stay with the pussy you love you tremendous faggot.
>>16898067
Thanks for the advice.
I can't figure out citations, and I was on short time so I just sent in my MLA essay with nothing more than the works cited page.
Am I going to get thrown out for plagarism?
Bullshit. If the only problem was that you couldn't figure out the citations, you could still have sent the actual essay you wrote. It sounds like you didn't bother writing the essay, and are using the "can't figure out citations" as a shitty excuse.
As for if you'll get kicked out, it depends on the policies of the place where you're studying.
If you don't properly mark your paper with citations, then yes, they can view that as plagiarism and they very well could punish you however your school deals with that.
You sound pretty dumb if you can't figure out how to cite a paper, so nothing really lost.
>>16898000
He literally said that he sent it but just without the in text citations.
Drop the self-righteous act and learn to read
>They told me to be myself
>they told me to relax and find someone 'right for me'
>they told me to not change my personality
>they told me to lower my standards
>she said she wasn't ready for a relationship
>she said she just wanted to be friends
In the past 3 years I swallowed the redpill, embraced the misogynist lifestyle, bulked up.
I fucked people's girlfriends. I had threesomes. I blew loads into women who weren't on the pill. A married woman gave me a rimjob. I throatfucked a girl who manipulated one of my friends into the friendzone.
I emotionally manipulated my ex into letting me smash again, told her I cheated on her multiple times (did I? ;)) never spoke to her again. I ghosted and toyed with women who were looking for relationships- women who had dozens of poor nice guy orbiters who didn't know any better. I enjoyed leading them on and dumping them for no reason.
It's so satisfying breaking women. All the years of frustration they cast on my old self. All the frustration they cast on their unsuspecting beta SO's. Paid back in full.
The most genuine piece of advice is to lift weights, become the Douchebag Chad you hate, and claim your revenge against the modern woman. It can be done, and the personal rewards are great.
Sure that sounds like good advice if you're into that sort of thing.
>>16897664
>I ghosted and toyed with women who were looking for relationships
>I enjoyed leading them on and dumping them for no reason.
>The most genuine piece of advice is to lift weights, become the Douchebag Chad you hate, and claim your revenge against the modern woman
So you think you're Braveheart, but you're actually just an asshole.
To each his own
I enjoy my current relationship where we would cuddle, watch movies all day and eat pizza much more than my old one where I snorted cocaine off her tits as her friend sucked my dick
Hi, autistic 18 year old here. I wanted to find some like-minded people, but my interests include and are limited to anime, games, and daydreaming, so it's kinda hard. I'm not even invested enough in anime/games to call myself a weeb/nerd.
My plan was to go to some place outside where people generally don't go, and wait there until I meet someone. This doesn't seem to be working though, I thought loners like me would go to places like that but I haven't seen anyone yet. I guess they must all be holed up in their homes. So how do I meet lonely autistic disinterested lazy selfish pricks IRL?
>>16897662
Your plan sounds hella autistic. Idk try craiglist. Are you in school? Join a club or attend some events.
>>16897670
I'm a NEET, and isn't Craigslist a good way to get murdered? And yea I guess it does sound pretty autistic
>>16897662
>Wanting to meet assholes
>Going to places where most people do not go
>Assumes people who are lonely assholes go outside of their house very often, let alone meet someone like you
>Implying assholes are not cynical enough to even be willing to talk to you for a reasonable amount of time
>Not wanting to be more outgoing, socially capable, open-minded, etc.
Your plan is bulletproof.
My gf was abused by her step dad and raped by one guy we both know and one of his friends. I feel so dead inside because I liked her and got along better with her then I have any other girl and we already have a near impossible relationship where we don't see each other at all.
We were so committed to make it work and then I found all this shit out and I'm afraid to be with her because of how much it hurts me. On top of that its making the whole world seem dark as fuck like a life can be so easily ruined by cowardly acts and the people get away with it and the life of the victim and everyone around them is ruined.
All I can think about was what happened and all the details and it scares the fuck out of me that two random guys had completely controlled my girlfriend and did whatever they wanted with her.
I've never been stressed or depressed like this before
Can you afford a shrink
Fix your run-ons
>>16897655
Kek
How do I get past that phase where fucking everything reminds me of her and jams a knife in my heart which wrecks me for hours?
I haven't spoken to her, I've blocked her on Facebook, I deleted her number, and it's been like two months. But it still hurts. I wanna just get over it because I'm sure my friends are tired of me being bummed out over her. It's like my heart won't fucking listen to reason.
Started picking up a couple hobbies like playing guitar and audio recording but no dice.
Get a new gf
How long did your relationship last?
>>16897618
hobbies aint gonna do it. find a goal and a passion. and go to the fucking gym and get those endorphins.
"but I hate exercise"
cool dude, but you need the endorphins so do it cause its good for you. like vegetables.
Alright boys, looking for some solid advice here.
So here is the story, be prepared it's gonna be long:
Been dating my grill for near 3 years is a 7/10 feelsalrightman.jpg
Going al-right up until the last month.
Lost my job due to redundancy feelsbadman.png
She starts being weird. - Obviously isn't happy with my lack of employment.
Grill is at university. We are both young ones, don't live together.
Anyway she has recently made a group of friends that she goes to party with or whatever. Totally cool with that and let her know this (I don't like clubs).
Grill stops speaking to me 100% usually she started conversations. Not seen her in person for 3 weeks now. In the past few days I have not attempted to make contact in hopes she will. Does not.
Below is a rough account of the last 3 days of our conversations. Starting at 3 days ago:
However, before I get into this I need to set the stage if you will with our conversation 5 days ago.
As she has been being off with me for near a month now I simply asked her over the phone if she was still into me. She said yeah, she loves me. Asks why i’m asking. Tell her i’ve been real down since losing my job. Seen the doc about it. She says something like this:’I mean i still love you, that won't change. If i'm being honest I've been thinking about what i want for the future and things yeah’. I say I don’t know what that means, but if you’re going to break up with me just do it. She says that isn’t what she means she just means she has been thinking about things – But that doesn’t mean she wants to leave me at all and Idon’t need to worry about anything like that. I ask if I can see her soon as we havn’t met for a few weeks. She says she doesn’t know when we can meet. – Feelsbadman. Conversation dies and we both go to sleep. – Needed to write that up as it comes up later.
Day 3 - Finally give in and text her at 11pm after a fullday of the usual 0 contact like: 'hello??' - Says she's been too busy all day inboxing and texting people from her uni course to arrange things she needs to do for class. Accept this, move on, speak for about 10 minuets and she says she needs to sleep for the next day.
Day 2 - 0 contact. Give in at 7:30pm this time and message her. Today she has been busy going to the movies to see deadpool with her female friend and attending a zombie chase thing. I asked why did she not bother speaking today and her reply was :'Can't speak when getting chased by zombies or watching movies, duh'. I ask what she is doing this weekend and she doesn't reply for an hour: 'Sorry I went for a bath'.
I ask again - 'I'll be busy sunday'.
I say something like:'Oh right, so can I see you this weekend or..?' Her response was 'Sure'.
I say - ' Well if you're too busy it's alright. We can do something some other time?'.
Response: 'Idon't know, I'm real tired i'm heading to sleep'.
Day 3 - No attempt at speaking is made again. Give in at 11pm – See screen caps from messanger. Removed time stamps n stuff. Blue = Me
Pink = Grill.
What adv can you give me friends? What would you guys do in this situation?
Just give it time man. Hold yourself off, and don't talk to her for a few weeks and only then will her true colors show. If it's not meant to be, then so be it.
>>16897639
Thanks for reading and replying and for the advice (:
To further the story as I forgot to add today being day 4---
Grill has gone out drinking with her friends. Made no effort of speaking during either the day or night. Using the ignoring strat like you suggested, only problem is I find it hard desu.
I need to vent about sexual frustration. My GF of one year will not have sex with me. We're both virgins ( me 19, her 18) and she wants to wait till marriage. I figured one day she would give in to temptation. We used to make out but one day I almost got to finger her while making out but she stopped me before I got my finger in. That was 3 weeks ago and since we have not made out once. Just a peck on the mouth if we kiss. Every time I try to make out with her she says she is too tired. What am I supposed to do? I love her but I'm really getting stressed out
>>16897560
> I figured one day she would give in to temptation.
Well you figured wrong. That wasn't a smart decision. Now you're emotionally invested with an incompatible partner. It's going to hurt, but you need to let both of you find someone right.
>>16897578
We are perfect matches in everything but sex. We get along and never fight. She just has really religious values. I'm a Christian too but i wanna have sex.
>>16897596
>we are perfect in all ways except one very big deal-breaking way
M8 this is how all incompatible relationships usually are. You can try to talk to her and come to a mutual compromise, but I'm assuming you've already done this. And even if you haven't, I don't think it will work. You should never enter a relationship expecting a person to change, especially not something probably deeply set in their core values.
I get incredibly angry when I see black men with white women. I don't even know what it is but its infuriating. I don't want to think this way but I can't stop it.
Spend less time around places such as >>>/pol/
It will wane with time. Just remember that you don't have any say in who women can and cannot date. You should focus on your own interests, not the interests of others.
>I don't even know what it is
Sure you don't
>>16897477
I can't logically explain it to myself. If you think it's the dick size thing I'm 7.5" and pretty happy with it and I know that statistically there's barely any difference in dick size between races. I'm disconnected emotionally and logically
I don't know what to do :/
Find out one of my friend is a camgirl, somehow she knew, I care about her and I don't want to lost her, I knew I shouldn't looking her up but my curiosity is so fuck up :/
Please help, my mind are so fuck up right now
What's the problem, again?
I don't even understand how this is upsetting.
The fork in the road is clearly visible and lies ahead of you. I mean, what's the question, even? Do what you think you should do.
>>16897138
Did you hack her account, or something? Or is it a public blog that anyone can see?