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>>16909048
Tell you parents to get the faggots to stop.
Take a pen you are suspicious of a see if its a spy pen and show police if need be.

Start breaking them. When he complains, invite him to call the police, and then you will tell them exactly why.

>>16909599
Makes sense. But most of them are hidden. I feel fucking paranoid in the bathroom to the point I bathe/shower in the dark.

He loves showing off the content he records of other people so no doubt he's doing the same to us. I fear that he rigged the whole house.

Wait.

>>16908893
Move on but keep him as a friend. If he's single, go for it. Never put your life on hold for someone.

Gotta be honest with you, people in those sort of on/off relationships usually have a lot of baggage. That's why they can't maintain a healthy relationship. I've seen it happen a lot where they will end up cheating on someone else they date with the on/off person or break up suddenly to get back with them. Obviously I don't know this person that you are interested in but I think you should use your best judgement if you ever want to pursue him right after a breakup.

In general I would say move on and maybe keep yourself open to the possibility if you really want that but be cautious.

Bump because I'm in the same situation

>>16908899
Good luck!

"If she can be taken away by you, she can be taken away from you by somebody else."

Back off OP and move on.

I assume it's similar to how men keep the women they're juggling in check, which is basically being nice and friendly while at the same time making clear that the relationship isn't exclusive through their actions.

So, I think the "orbiter" solution is genuine friendship + fucking someone else in an obvious way and being clear about what you want.

If they want to walk away (side piece or orbiter) then you gotta let them

>>16908721
>i don't know how to be honest
>i don't have the lady parts to just tell the orbiters it ain't gonna happen
>but i still want their attention
>wat do

>>16908754
That's the problem, faggot. I am honest and they still cling to me. They know from the start that they're going to be friendzoned but the infatuation blooms anyways.

>>16908627
In terms of biology yes, it's a real thing. For instance, a troop of gorillas will have one dominant male, refered to as the alpha.

In terms of young, inexperienced guys spouting off online, there's some crap where they think they can be a dominant male without every interacting with any other males, or they think they can be part of a group where everyone is the dominant male. I think they get it from those "want to pick up chicks? just give me your entire life savings and I'll tell you how!" pop-ups you get when you download unverified torrents.

not really

>>16908744
that's gorillas. Humans are markedly different than gorillas.

OP like every good lie there's a grain of truth to it, but really - it's all bullshit. People are way too individualistic, society is too large (basically: you can just float to some other social group at will) and the idea is way too simplistic.

chicks do dig confidence though

>Why do women think men have some obligation to help with kids?

This is not a question that women ask, it's a law. If you don't like the law, change country.

>its a dumb law, get rid of it

This law protects women, if men would be absolved of responsibility from raping and impregnating women the amount of sexual assaults on women would increase drastically. Or think of it this way, what if your woman was raped and had to bear the child of a rapist because pro-life abortion laws block her from doing so? Is she stuck with the kid with zero financial aid? What if this was your woman who was raped?

We are a civilized society, if you're going to stick your dick in a woman you are responsible for your actions.

>>16908595
Your entire argument is based around the guy raping the girl, but I already said that that's not what happens in 99% of all cases and in the 1% that it does happen in the guy has way bigger problems to worry about than child support payments

>>16908626

>Your entire argument is based around the guy raping the girl

My argument isn't based on "the guy raping the girl", it's to prove the point that the law it is a deterrent to assault.

The woman has as much choice to keep the child as much as you have the choice to cum in her pussy, you are pretending as if the man is absolved of any action.

Please respond. I feel like shit right now.

Why the fuck would you live there, I'd rather live in a 12x12 storage closet with a single outlet inside

>>16908525
I had to find somewhere quick and the rent in this city is so high I pretty much take what I can.

Am I in the wrong for tapping the wall like that?

I know it's kinda passive-aggressive but if I started asking people to do things differently I'd be asking them a million times.

>>16908499

Talking about this with her and/or her parents is out of the question (as I mentioned, one disfunctional fuckbunch, I can't even begin to explain how this would wreck my husband's situation with his family). Her parents will start a war with us because we hurt their precious little baby, and she will run to mommy and daddy the minute we get remotely tough with her.

So the question is: Am I right to take this so personally? Would you too, in my case? And if so, how do I take it -less- personal? I have so much trouble shaking this off, because I feel this kid is manipulating me and my relationship from afar. I gladly put in the time and the effort to be there for her, but at least I want to have the feeling I get a little bit of love and respect back.

>>16908509
She's 17. You're how old?

If she pisses you off, just don't talk to her. But you should never hold a grudge, if and when she comes around and wants to talk to you again. Holding grudges is never the mature thing to do, even when it comes to other adults, let alone children like her.

>>16908499
>>16908509

She keeps acting like this because it has obviously worked for her in the past. lots of kids do this kind of thing but they normally grow out of it before 17. It is clear that her being spoiled rotten has had a negative effect on her. Its awful personality trait to have. well you probably already know this.

i dont think you are wrong to take it personal, she is acting in a very disrespectful way and she is a major part of your life. Treating it like a small issue, makes it a small issue in his sisters eyes. sounds like your husbands whole family has ignored this problems of his sisters. Its an issue that needs to be taken care of now. if i didnt want her actions to have a negative influence on me, i would just see her disrespect as a reflection of her ignorance. His parents sound like fools. Too many women grow up with this shitty attitude.

>>16908480
mate, I'm 22 and i dont even grow half that amount.

>>16908480
Oh and I guess shaving the neck is a given right

>>16908480
what you wanna do is get out your tweezers

pluck approximately 50% of your facial hair evenly

after having done this, grow your beard out long and continue to pluck occasionally


women love a man with a see-through beard

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Anyone? Surely someone can empathise with this.

nobody likes a jealous little bitch

why don't you guys have big dinner parties with all the friends+gfs?

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>>16908722
Sorry for wanting to actually spend time with my friends.

Haven't had much time this term since there is a lot more work and less money to do stuff with. I want to do something together like before some of us got girlfriends, but at least one of them is always a little bitch and goes crawling to his gf because she can't stand being away from him and thinks its weird if he hangs out with just the guys.

His girlfriend is honestly fucked in the head by the way.

>>16908312
Try talking to a Mortician

>>16908318
well that doesn't make.. hmmm...ok..sort of does, in a crazy kind of way.
Hmmm, my wife was a doctor. She knew the "death cocktails" that terminal patients got. But can't discuss that with her now cause she got cancer and died.

can you not google methods?

a fast train is pretty much foolproof

Welder here. I learned from an old timer as a teenager, never went to school and landed a pretty decent job that paid for me to get my certs (the ones necessary for my particular job). I can bring 1300, 1400 a week depending on where I'm working. The only catch is; I have to travel all over the east coast, climb 300-400 feet to actually do my job and pretty much have no life or relationships outside of the guys on my crew. And they tend to be annoying redneck types. I'd say you really don't have to go to school to become a welder, but it sure won't hurt.

>>16908287
http://www.abctennessee.com/education-training/apprenticeship-training/

Here is this, but i dont think they pay for your schooling even though they say it is an apprenticeship program. Or something they teach you.

Have you thought of being a lineman?

The guys in my company (large utility provider) are paid very well once they reach journeyman status and I'm pretty sure they're permanent employees. I know they get benefits.

There's a reason they do get paid a lot though. You could go to work one day 2 miles from your house and never come back.

Also watch out for certain kinds of union work, especially stuff like construction. They can pay well on the upswing but as soon as there's a downturn they can have trouble finding work without losing union status.

>>16908228
If you are certain that no amount of logic or relaxation/breathing techniques are going to help you at all, then maybe it's time to seek professional help.

>>16908228
You're not taking any drugs are you?

>>16908457
What are some relaxation or breathing techniques? Logic won't work, these feelings are irrational as shit. I'll be sitting at my desk and as soon as there's the first "there's something behind you" thought, it just gets worse and worse until I get up and sit in a corner to do my work where nothing could sneak up on me. I also can't close my eyes in the shower because I'm always worried something will be there when I open them. There's a lot of things like that

>>16908120

Nurses seem to be a common appearance on okCupid. Along with fat women, single moms, and religious fanatics.

Stats is tough. You will probably need to couple it with the Actuarial exams or at least SAP/some coding to make $.

I dunno if nursing is still well paid, but from what I understood it's dropping back to the levels of a shit job.

>>16908151
Other way actually,

boomers are starting to retire and they need healthcare providers to meet that need

>>16908151
I've had some experience with using R, API, Web scraping, SQL and Regex. But not being able to find an internship while also doing bad in class has really made me emotionally unstable.

>Do I seriously just have to turn my fucking phone off or turn off all notifications if I'm sleeping with multiple women ?

First world problems, everyone.

>>16908116
Yeah, no doubt. First world fucking going on too.

So how do I handle it?

I honestly don't see the problem here. If you're playing the field then women understand you're sleeping with other people... and that they're going to text you sometimes. These girls DO understand you're not in an exclusive relationship, right?

I mean if you're carrying on a text conversation with one girl while out on a date with another, either, that's pretty rude too.