What's the ideal girl? A non attention whore? a guy's girl? A manly girl? A girly girl? Why are American girls so confident and guys too? For me they all look perfect. I am Asian and I want to be good gf and have a good bf.
I see your posts about woman being horrible creature and mean and I want to be best girl I can.
I have personality disorder that I'm treating so right now I'm figuring out who I am or who I want to be.
Give advice and eye thank you.
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>>16900106
please be in London
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Not having a personality disorder is a good start to being the ideal girl.
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>>16900122
I understand this is true ...
But I can not change what its a fact in my life.
am treating to get under control
If women not only feel sexual pleasure, but in-fact feel it far more dramatically than men, then why do almost no women have any actual personal interest in sex aside from slutting themselves for popularity/money or whatever? Shouldn't women crave sexual pleasure just as much, if not more than men?
Even if you argue against "almost no women having actual personal desire for sex" you can not argue against the fact that men crave sex dramatically more than women do. Anywhere and everywhere makes that abundantly clear. Go to any erotic place on, say, this very website. Almost all men, no doubt, right? So why?
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In the most general terms, men are about quantity and women are about quality.
You can see this trend reflected in how GENERALLY more men are okay with casual sex and more women would prefer and actual relationship.
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>>16900093
How inefficient. If humanity was an efficient species then both male and female would be horny all the time, not just men. It is like it is designed so that men fuck multiple women and women only fuck one guy... Oh, wait. That's exactly how it is designed. Which is moronic as shit.
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>>16900086
>then why do almost no women have any actual personal interest in sex aside from slutting themselves for popularity/money or whatever?
It's like you've never even spoken to a girl.
>>16900093
I'd say its more about the stigma around girls that have had multiple sexual partners than anything else really. Girls are simply not comfortable disclosing these numbers because they might be labeled as sluts like Op just did.
Another thing is that a lot of men have learned all about sex from porn but are as clueless as it gets when it gets to actually making love.
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My cousin is rather busty. Anyone know any way that I can try to feel them? Mind it's not for sex.
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With your hands.
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>>16900044
truth or dare is usually the easiest way to go
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>not for sex.
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slim body with small saggy tits or chubby body with full, not that saggy tits?
Those are my two choices, I can't afford surgery
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Tits are only a bonus if everything else is already good.
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gonna have to go with the second one but I might be biased because I like fat girls
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Probably slim, can always fuck with a bra on
I recently had a fling with this girl I had dated in Highschool.
Two weeks into dating I realized I had a cold sore. I asked her if she knew any remedies, to which she broke down and admitted that she knowingly gave me herpes. I am sad now.
I now have 6 sores in my mouth, and so far nothing on my junk.
Needless to say we are no longer dating, what now? I am virtually untouchable to girls as cute as she was.
Pic related.
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>>16899360
Slap her. And then live you life like everyone else spreading herpes. This is honestly why I express my fear of herpes before I kiss someone.
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>>16899360
Are you in the United States? If you are, use your phone (in your pocket or w/e) to record her admitting that she knowingly gave you herpes.
Then sue her.
>http://www.oregonlive.com/portland/index.ssf/2012/06/herpes_verdict_in_portland_wom.html
What this bitch did is tantamount to rape. She knowingly did something to you without your knowledge that will negatively impact you for the rest of your life.
If that were me, I would make this girl regret the day she saw my face. Take her entire life legally via the courts.
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>>16899375
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Did you just compare herpes to rape?
Seriously?
Have you not ever actually met anyone who was raped? Do you know what rape is?
Also... if guarantee you if you try and sue someone over a cold sore in your mouth, something more than 50% of the adult population has, you will get laughed out of the court and get yelled at for wasting their time.
Babies. The both of you.
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>In college
>5 roomies
>1 comes out of the closet
>closely cut all contact with him
>never talk to him outside of class or respond to him
>locks himself in his room for weeks
>missing classes
>apparently 'accidentally' overdosed on medicine
Im not really one to sympathize but I do feel bad that hes trapped in an environment he's unwelcome in. Not quite sure what to do here. I think he should withdraw now because it only looks like hes going to keep spiraling. What are my options?
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>>16899284
What? Has he ever tried making a move on you? Haha, he just didn't want it to seem like a shock to you guys when he brought his gay friends over.
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>>16899291
Hes really weird. Like fedora tipping weird. He doesnt really have any friends so he stays in his room all the time.
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>>16899284
>what are my options
1: stop being a cunt
2: stop being a cunt
3: "accidentally" OD as well
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Can I get any advice on if I am being harsh, rude. tactless in my email to my project partner who isn't keeping up on the work level necessary? She's nice, but she seems busy outside of work and she hasn't done much and the work she has done is pretty bad... We have 6 days until finals and she's sent me a total of two and a half paragraphs for a whole research paper. I am well equipped, and probably more prone to being harsh and almost mean when i am irritated and I just don't want to come off like that. Here's the text...
"If I am being honest this isn't doesn't look to be going in a good direction. The observations in these are pretty face value and don't go into any of the films we were going to research (except for The Fly) and aren't what I would say are strong. I get the feeling that you may have been preoccupied the last few weeks, which is totally understandable and I can't blame you for whatever happens outside of school, but as a project partner this is disappointing. We have about 5 days left and I feel like you've only watched one of the movies we talked about and you've had a concrete layout of what we had to research for three weeks and even some of the paper itself for almost two weeks. And last week you still thought we were doing horror movies and I had to ask you if you understood what we were doing for you to tell me that you didn't. I plan to have the paper written in the next couple of days and the Power Point done as well, but from what you've shown me so far I just don't feel comfortable putting your name on either. "
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>>16899235
Part 2.
"I don't plan to be in class today, I've got something else I will be doing and then I'm going to work on the paper. This is a rough conversation to have this late into the quarter and I wish I didn't feel like it was necessary, but I just don't feel like you've been able to put in the work necessary. I feel bad having to do this but if I don't receive anything more substantial from you by the end of today I don't think we can continue as project partners. "
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>>16899235
Oh just suck it up
In college I had some crap like this my dad said just suck it up. As long as YOU get the grade. So- if she isnt jeopardizing your grade then just suck it up.
Welcome to the world
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>>16899241
Clearly I am if I'm going through with it. You're not really acknowledging my question.
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I'm so tired of being alone, not having anyone to talk to outside of internet forums, not having anyone who cares about me (orphaned), I just want someone to tell me they love me and be able to tell them I love them too.
I'm a khv and have trouble looking women in the eye. I've never had gay thoughts in the past but I'm considering it now, I think I'm bi but I've never tested it. The only time I ever went out years ago (to a bar) I was hit on by a cute, well dressed guy who brought me drinks but I didn't realise he was hitting on me till my "friends" told me later, we spoke for maybe an hour and it was really nice, I was so comfortable around him. Thinking back on it now I feel so stupid for not realising and not pursuing him.
I'm wondering how I meet gay guys and how I identify guys as gay, I'm really shy and often visibly shake in social situations so going to a bar again is no longer an option for me. I've thought of using grindr but in the end that is just a hookup site, I don't want to hookup I want to take things very slowly, I want to snuggle and hold hands and let my emotions develop with the relationship.
Aside from this and my social problems my life is on track. I have a good career and a home, I just want someone to love me.
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>tfw no replies
Is it because it's gay advice? No one will help unless it's girl advice? :/
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Gays are fucking everywhere nowadays you find them just like anyone else, and don't pull that dumb IS IT COS I'M GAY THAT YOU WON'T HELP only 20 minutes after you made a thread bullshit you needy annoying fuck.
Stop idealizing fantasies for yourself and accept that you need to not be a child and you most likely can't have a little sickeningly sweet fairy tale relationship. People hook up then the relationship happens AFTER. Use Tinder, or something.
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>>16899217
>Is it because it's gay advice? No one will help unless it's girl advice?
Yes now fuck off and kill yourself faggot.
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Opinions on this method? I'm getting ready to give it a go(The reasons don't really matter), and I had some questions.
I hear that the 'balloon time' brand of helium tanks sold pretty much anywhere that you can buy helium as a person that isn't running a business are cut with 20% oxygen. Will this actually prevent me from dieing? Are there alternatives I can pick up as a layman? I live in NYC so buying a gun is out of the question because the place is an authoritarian shithole that doesn't get the same rights as everywhere else in the country. I heard nitrogen is a good alternative but I've googled around and haven't found anywhere that actually sells that shit to laymen. Will two 'balloon time' tanks get the job done to account for the oxygen cutting?
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>>16899054
>I live in NYC so buying a gun is out of the question
Nigga, take a bus/train trip. Hitch a ride. Go to Vermont or something. You can pick up a gun easily there.
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>>16899058
I'm a poor fag. It would cost a shit load of money to take a trip out of the city and buy a gun. And this is the north. I can't just walk into a store, go 'Hello good sir, I'd like one shotgun, please!' and walk out with it. Waiting periods and background checks abound, and they're not going to sell it to me when my address is in NYC.
Have you never bought a gun before?
Besides, this isn't a gun thread, I need help with this particular method.
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>>16899054
>I hear that the 'balloon time' brand of helium tanks sold pretty much anywhere that you can buy helium as a person that isn't running a business are cut with 20% oxygen. Will this actually prevent me from dieing?
Fun fact: Earth's atmosphere is only 20% oxygen (most of the rest is nitrogen). That's why helium is cut by the same amount: it's not the atmosphere you're used to, but it's perfectly breathable. Scuba divers use it sometimes.
So yeah; an 80/20 helium/oxygen mix will not kill you.
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I think my neighbor has been literally beating his gf at night
Last night, i was trying to sleep and i woke up to an argument going on at my neighbor's house, and i thought something was wrong, so i called the police in case her bf was hitting her.
The next night, the neighbours were back to their screaming match.
I listened in and i could hear what they were arguing about.
apparently her son wasn't his and he found out about it.
i raced back inside and called the cops for the second night in a row, and the police showed up, talked to the couple again, and went on their way.
should i keep doing this /adv/?
i don't want my fellow woman to get hurt, but i dont want to be a target of her bf's anger either
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>>16899009
You should mind your own damn business. It's not up to you to police their relationship.
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> defending a cheating whore
cops usually tell you who called if they get asked, you better start minding you're own fucking business your slut enabler.
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>>16899009
If she wants to leave she can leave.
Just as she chose to fuck someone else and let this guy think it's his kid..
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My husband teaches at a high school. He loves posting photos on Facebook, particularly photos of our two kids. Since he posts so much stuff on FB, I don't really pay attention to who is liking his stuff. Anyway, one day I accidentally saw his FB chatbox (whatever it is called) when he was logged into FB. Apparently he kept in contact with this girl who graduated two years ago and they tend to message each other around once a month or a bit longer than that. It appears that she sometimes likes his stuff on Facebook too, but she never likes his family photos. Should I be worried that my husband is interested in her? I think it is pretty obvious that this girl has some feelings for my husband - most high school graduates couldn't care less about their former teachers.
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>>16898949
What is their conversation be like?
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>>16898949
>they tend to message each other around once a month or a bit longer than that.
if they really liked each other, there chats would be more frequent
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>>16898953
TV shows, books, hobbies etc as well as my husband occasionally mentioning our kids and her updating him on her college life.
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Atoms and Microorganism/Cell
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If we copy a microorganism/cell atomic structure and if we put it together atom by atom would it be alive?
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>>16898913
Not if that's all you do. The best you could get just by copying the molecular structure would be something akin to a corpse. It wouldn't respond to stimuli, or exchange gases, or carry out any of the other basic life processes.
If you went deeper, copying a creature on a quantum level instead of a molecular level, that might work. We don't have a sure answer to that question yet. But molecules definitely aren't enough.
We don't yet know how to carry out the final step of animating biological manner. We have a limited ability to restart a stopped heart, using cardiac massage and defibrilators, but these are blunt instruments that only work in an extremely narrow set of situations, not the general case.
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>>16898913
Of course. But you cannot imagine HOW FAR away we are from being able to do so.
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>>16899060
>I have no idea about biology but I'm gonna talk anyway
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People that learned a new language
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People that learned a completely new language they had no knowledge of to the point of being fluent and able to use it like their mother tongue. How did you do it?
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got to practice it erry day
just chip away at it
Jeder Tag, lese ich die Deutsche-Welle Zeitung, oder schau ich ein deutsche Let's Play, und naturlich I benutze Duolingo und Memrise
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dunno if I ever quite got to the point you describe, but immersion plus dedication to practice.
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>>16898751
Yeah, I'm learning Deutsch too.
I already know the grammar because I pick up that kind of stuff (in theory) but expanding the vocabulary is so hard.
http://bs.to/andere-serien
There is a lot of popular shows here dubbed into german so I watch it on one screen with google translate in the other and just type out everything they say but I keep coming back to most words. Duolingo is very time consuming but slow.
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If she gives you her number as "anonette work", that's bad yeah?
We're coworkers
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Why'd she give you her number at all?
I don't have my co-workers numbers (besides the ones I might speak to outside of work) and I'm not sure why I'd need them for work purposes. I only have my bosses number.
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>>16898729
We might catch up sometime, she wanted me to go drinking
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There is something called making friends. I hate it when guys misinterpret my intentions.
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>massage therapist
>pretty good at my job
>work for a couple of months
>random clients get horny
>didn't notice cause naive as fuck
>happens more and more
>30 something milfs comes in
>moans, jiggle ass, grinding, flashes tits
>hot as fuck
>don't do anything though
>she rebooks a week later
>I make her cum and I cum on her tits
>feels bad man
>ruined me
>>massages are more sexual now
>always wondering if they want to fuck
>feel creepy
>probably am
>no one complains tips are actually better
>but walking on thin ice
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you're basically doing foreplay for a living. Lol naïve is right.
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>months later
>new job
>everyone professional
>feels good
>I still find myself pushing the boundary
>hunting for the horny housewives that want me to finger them
>find a few
>never cross that line
>my work is a sloppy boundary pushing mess
>feels good though, tips flying in
>no complaints but I feel like I creeped out a few clients
>getting tired of the sexual clients
>hate that I think sexually while I'm working
>hate worrying about my job
>crossed the boundary with a new clients everything is worse again
I feel like I shouldn't do this job anymore. I'm looking into a new career now but really did enjoy this one. I got to meet new people and literally take there pain away with my hands.
Any advice on keeping the job but Idk not being a creep?
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>>16898721
>Any advice on keeping the job but Idk not being a creep?
Get a girlfriend plus healthy sex life with her and your problems won't be anymore.