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Ok, femanon in first year of uni and a lot of things have been pointing to the fact that I'm actually being stalked, but I don't know what to do about the situation, things that point to the conclusion that I'm being stalked:
1st incident
>lose wallet day before going to a movie
>two days after movie get message from campus security
>someone found wallet and gave their info
>text them
>say they will bring wallet back, that they found it *that* morning at a bus stop
>wat.
>give them my address since they said they'll just deliver it to me (nice)
>leave wallet in plastic bad attached to mailbox
This alone does not make me think someone's stalking me, it's just supporting evidence to what happened later as this unknown person now has all my contact info available in my wallet
>walking home in dark
>not paying much attention because I live in a relatively safe area
>look back
>person peering at me from behind a building I just passed
I think it's probably nothing, but become more alert
>I look back again, they're still staring
>they pull head back behind building
>peek
>nope
>speed walked home (didn't want them to be intensely aware that I knew they were watching me if they were dangerous)
I forgot to mention I've also been seeing the same guy everywhere, including at that theatre where they followed me downstairs to the bathroom
Cont.
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>>16904025

I demand you post titties immediately!
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>>16904025
>in theatre
>go downstairs to bathroom before movie
>nothing downstairs except m/f bathrooms (m on left, f on right, roughly twenty feet apart)
>look behind just as I enter bathroom
>guy standing 10 ft behind me
>eye contact
This freaked me out, but I automatically kept walking into the bathroom
>stood in hall of bathroom for a minute to check if they were going to follow me in
>they didn't, so I did what I had to do and walked back upstairs
>didn't see guy upstairs or any other time that day

I don't think I can call the police since they haven't done anything and I'm unsure whether I'm even being stalked, it could very well just be paranoia, how do I lower the chance of this type of thing happening?

TL;DR- possibly being stalked, what do?
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I know it sounds canned, but surprisingly, wiki-how's can sometimes be pretty useful in life.

http://www.wikihow.com/React-if-You-Think-Someone-is-Stalking-You

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Totaled my car, what do I do with it (if anything)?

2009 ford fusion. Frame is bent out of whack, engine is fucked. Cops had it towed to an impound lot.

The lot wanted the title/deed to the car and $75 to take it.

Do I retrieve it and pay the towing fee to scrap it? Would I even break even?

My dad suggested just not following up with them and letting them do whatever with it, rather than paying them to take it, but he wasn't sure if it was legal.

Would this legal, and would there be repercussions for abandoning it?
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>>16903949
Don't pay somebody to take it. It's worth money, even in that state. Generally, most junkyards will pay you a few hundred bucks for it, and some will go pick it up somewhere to get it. I'd recommend calling all the local junkyards and finding out if they want it and if they'll give you anything for it. I know that there's one in my area that will pick up just about anything with four wheels (or less) and give you a couple hundred bucks for it. The lot is ripping you off, especially asking you to pay for them to keep it, as they will make money off it no matter what.
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>>16903949
Also, your dad is an idiot. If you abandon the car, the lot can charge you a daily fee for the car being there (if they're not already) and you are legally on the hook for it to a point. I don't know what the limit is, but even if you disappear, they will turn your debt into collectors and it will follow you wherever you go.
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That's not even near "totaled". Just sayin.

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What's adv"s thoughts on short replies from girls and guys?
Is it a form of friendzonging?
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>>16903848
It's a sign of the times. People are horrid at replying, if they reply at all. The modern youth is comfortable with "easy come, easy go." They don't realize it's rude, because it's all they've ever grown up with.

So don't take offense to it. It's rarely anything personal. If you don't agree with it, find more talkative/respectful people to interact with.
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>>16903851
Get outta here grandpa!

>>16903848
Means they're busy, blowing you off, or not the texting type.
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>>16904035
If they're busy but still giving you a reply back, that's good?

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Okay. So when I was 13-16 I had such an amazing body. I stayed at or under 100 pounds. I wasn't honey though. I loved my thighs, they were so small. My waist, my ribs, collar bones. EVERYTHING was perfect. Well, not so much anymore. I think I'm around 120 now. I eat so much junk food it's ridiculous. I'm gonna post a picture bc I wanna know what my body is considered; tiny, skinny, average, thick, fat.
I'm 5'5. I have scoliosis so my weight carries more to my right side. I really want honestly on what body type I have please.
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*boney not honey
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You're skinnyfat. Lift stuff.
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Hit the gym.

Hey there,

I'm together with a fantastic girl since two months and things are going perfect. Comparing these first two months with other relationships before this one stands out as especially fulfilling and easy-going. Yadda yadda, it's all perfect.

Except for one thing: she's done sugaring in the past and still wants to do it. The term means something else to different people so here's the gist:

>Rich men who are lonely / lack the time for social life decide to spoil a pretty girl

>they go out nicely, high-quality dinner in fancy restaurants, stretch-limos, champaign, stuff like that

>on top of that, they pay the girl a certain amount (round 500 bucks) for the evening

>every sugarbaby can say how far things can go with the sugardaddy. Most sugarbabies are dependent on the pay so they will prostitute themselves

Now, my girlfriend said she never prostituted herself through that because she never really needed the money. Here's her situation

>she has met with relatively few men. One every two to three months

>as I said, never had sex with them. But she did go out in a stretch-limo, was spoilt with presents and fancy dinners

>doesn't need the money but would like to be more independent from her parents from whom she receives a monthly allowance

>Considers it sex-work since she's selling her appearance and body, albeit never for sexual favours. Not even making out, just as arm-candy

>likes the luxury

I'm not sure how to deal with her making money through being arm-candy for rich men. We're both in college and have little money, just the basic stuff and some money for leisure.
I kinda feel like the whole sugaring trade is unethical. There are starving, systemically disadvantaged, uneducated people who could be relieved with aid and these men - I have seen their profiles on sugaring websites, don't give a fuck. They go around boasting about their status and choose to indulge with their money and "spoil a princess".
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Dump her.

She's obviously not committed to the relationship.
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Please go tell this story to one of your parents. I can only hope they have the decency to beat the shit out of you for even entertaining this situation. Either that or seeing them cry over what you've become might knock some sense into you.
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>>16903768
>>16903768
>fantastic girl
>shes a whore

hahahahahahahahahhahahahahah.... AAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHHAA

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Hello
I wanted to know if here are gingers who had or have girlfriends? I never had, 25 KHV now :(

Where did you meet them?
I am from europe
I tried online dating but the women didnt even click on profile ( used different sites with viewer count)

The only ones who seem to like it are japanese and korean girls. On okcupid the only likes i got were from asians.but i dont live there ,sadly

Would like to read from ginger fellow experiences.
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>>16903741
Move to Asia . You have the opportunity to leech on Asian fever babeh
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Yeah right as if i would find a job and speakcthe language
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>>16904094
Do you have a college degree from an English speaking country?

If so, you can have a job there with plane fare to and from in a week.

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How do I stop ghosting people? Always when I make friends with someone I avoid them completely, I made a friend in university and then stopped going and blocked his number. I also have the urge to delete and block my only online friend and often feel like he dislikes me. What can I do against that?
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>>16903309
Seems like you're just a spiteful dumb fag who likes to think his absence hurts or affects people.
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The only cure for this is a hot dick.
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>>16903322
Don't be gay just because he posts anime you thirsty fuckboy

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How late does a period have to be before you can say they've stopped?
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>>16902904
If you're around fifty and they've stopped for about two years.
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>>16902910
I'm 21 and I last had one in january.
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>>16902912
Are you preggs?

ITT we post small questions
post in here if your too scared to make your own thread or think its not a good enough question.

try to keep it short. only include essential info.
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What kind of job should I look for while trying to build my art portfolio?
I've worked in retail and in an office and neither gave me enough time to work on art or money to live on.

What kind of roles have plenty of hours at unsociable times, don't require a degree and might even give me art contacts?
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>>16902867
try the swing/grave shift at a gas station. or maybe spend the hindred bucks and get a guards liscence and become a security guard at a parking garage/loading dock. theyre needed 24/7 so you could probably get one thats late.

ones that might get you art contacts though? thats tougher. maybe try and get a janitorial job at a college and visit the art classes before/after your shift. this last vit might be very difficult.

good luck to you anon.
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>>16902867
Barrista in a fashionable city.

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I'm from Hong Kong. My major has nothing to do with languages/business but the idea of doing a language as a minor appeals to me as I get to learn another language without paying any extra money. Should I minor in Spanish or French?

Spanish
>Took a course at uni and did a lot of self-learning by myself
>I like the way Spanish sounds more than French
>Spanish spelling and pronunciation is easier than French

French:
>Began to explore what French is like around a month ago
>French culture, history, literature and cuisine seems more interesting
>Would prefer living in a Francophonie country as opposed to a Hispanic country (moving to somewhere such as Colombia? No thanks)

Should I minor in Spanish or French?
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up to you
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>>16902737
you can learn two languages, you know
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bump again

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>last week have a girl hit on me at tennis
>track her down on fb using her first name and add her
>now shes completely ignoring me at tennis
What do?
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You acted like a creepy stalker and you're surprised that she's reacting like this?
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>>16902639
No he wasn't creepy for adding a person on facebook. That's normal human behaviour.

Maybe she's just not in a good mood right now OP. could be something personal in her life. Try talking to her (in real life), ask how she's been, etc.
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>>16902643
Shes talking with everyone else. I literally just added her. And now shes the polar opposite compared to last week. I saw her and said hi and she looked really awkward as opposed to last week where she actively talked to me.

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I'm Hispanic. I have a friend from another country who started to learn Spanish around 9 months ago as she has always wanted to become multilingual but she said that she picked Spanish only because she wanted to learn a language that she had someone to practise with and she said that she could practise with me. She studied a lot of Spanish in these couple of months and she could communicate with me in Spanish (her Spanish grammar was far from perfect, but I could understand what she was saying). She finished the Duolingo Spanish part in less than five months.

Recently, I've been chatting with her much less frequently due to the fact that I have a lot of stuff to do at school. The last time we talked, she started questioning about why she was learning Spanish, stating that even if she got the opportunity to move to a non-Anglophone country, she would definitely not pick a Latin American one due to low standards of living there. She said that she was interested in learning German as one of her friends from another country is studying German for her German degree and she said that she can practise with her instead (the two of them are in the same time zone whereas time zones are an issue when it comes to me and her chatting together). She admitted that she have always liked Germany more than the Hispanic countries. A couple of days ago, she told me how she had started to self-learn German.

Is she pissed at me for not chatting with her as much or what?
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>>16902622
Jesus. It just has to be about you, doesn't it?
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>>16902632
Sorry I didn't get what you were trying to say. My English is not that good.
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>>16902622
Women change anon. It's not you, and don't think for a second it was because she got bored learning Spanish.

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I'm 20, I'm also a virgin. I finished 2 years of my petroleum eng degree, but I'm going to be NEET about a year because I was going crazy in school.

I have a bunch of money (75k), should I go to Thailand and spend a bit of money and fuck girls so I stop overvaluing them? Before it's asked, my Grandparents died.
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No you should not go to Thailand to fuck prostitutes. For fucks sake. In 5 years you will look back and realize what an insanely idiotic waste of money that was.
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I say do it, you're only young once. Go bang some ladyboy sluts
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>>16902542
What should I do this year?

I'm NEET in a suburb with no one my age and no contacts in this city.

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I'm in my first year of university, I've made no proper friends even though I don't try to look threatening or creepy or anything. My flatmates all seem to want to spend time with other people. I thought I got on well with my lab partner but she never wants to sit next to me, even if she's alone and so am I. What have I done wrong? How can I make myself more approachable? It seems like people have established themselves into groups already, and I've become 'that creepy guy'. I don't think I'm ugly enough to avoid (I've had multiple proper girlfriends and a one night stand here), what could it be?
Thanks /adv/
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You're probably creepy
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>>16902513
Do you smell?
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>>16902521
I hope not, I shower every day and use those nice smelling sprays.
>>16902520
I don't see how I could be creepy, I just sit down, write my notes and leave?

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How do you get a boyfriend when you're fugly and autistic?
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>>16902331
Ill be your boyfriend.

Boom. Another problem solved.
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[email protected]
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date someone else that's fugly and autistic.

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