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Can I get a step by step guide to dates?
Say I invite a girl I'm talking to out to eat somewhere or hangout. What steps should I take to make it a date that at least ends in a kiss?
Also, how do I immediately let a girl know my intentions without coming on too strong?
I have this problem of talking to girls casually, being friends and then we kinda just stop talking as some other guy swoops in. I never know how to escalate things.
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I don't have time for all of it.
Pointers.
Don't ask for a date, tell her you're doing something fun, and that she should come.
No such thing as coming on too strong, just be honest.
"You're a cutie, let's hang out more, I'm going to the art gallery on the weekend, you should come."
He is swooping in cos you aren't making a move.
Man up, make the move, get rejected, try again.
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If you're going into a date thinking you have to kiss her or whatever you'll end up acting needy. Just have fun, act natural and adapt to her signals.
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bumping for interest
ive been told things just kinda come naturally. conversation and body language will be pretty solid indicators even in the shyest of women simply because of subconsciousness.
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is missionary harder to cum in?
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Why is it harder for my boyfriend to cum when we're doing missionary? Or when I'm on top?
He cums so much faster if it's doggy or I'm laying on my stomach. I have asked him, but he just says he doesn't know.
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>>16882908
Because he gets to see your ugly face and it interrupts his pornstar fantasies.
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Probably true to a point. Not cos she's ugly just because he's trying to concentrate.
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But he doesn't even look at my face. He looks forward or puts his face in my shoulder or closes his eyes.
I'm not that ugly.
Also could it be because he gets to see my ass? He always jokes about cumming quick when he sees it.
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I take an SNRI for generalised anxiety disorder, which helps me get outside more than I did 4 years back. However, my speech has gotten worse. I've noticed these last couple of years my speech has become more slurred, and I stutter more than I used to. I've also noticed that I'm finding it difficult to express when I talk.
What the fuck is happening to me? It feels like I'm suffering from brain damage.
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>>16882634
Speak to a doctor. It could be a myriad of issues. Check your med's side effects, you should have listed the actual generic name of your meds in the OP.
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>>16882643
Venlafaxine to be precise. My standard of written English has slumped considerably.
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>>16882643
Also, to mention my eyesight is poorer than say, 2 years ago.
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Is there any point in studying a language just for fun? 2016-03-06 06:12:40 Post No.16881856
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Is there any point in studying a language just for fun?
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I'm referring to cases where very few people living in your area speaks the language that you want to learn (eg. a Korean learning Spanish, an Australian learning French, etc).
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you get to experience more media in the original package, totally worth it imo
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>>16881893
I don't think Spanish music is popular in Korea and I don't think French movies are that popular in Australia.
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>>16881915
if u are learning a new language just for fun u should milk it for all its worth eh
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>long term bf and i take college class together
>sit next to each other at table
>we're not all crazy PDA and shit, we hold hands outside of class, but act normal in class
>we're taking a science class, so professor hands out shit for us to experiment on and pass around to observe
>bf always teases me, like snatches things from my hands or pokes me and other stuff
>dude sitting next to me hasn't entirely realized that we do this because we're in a relationship
>guessing he thinks im an easy slore just doing this to be cutesy with guys in the class
>starts doing the same shit that my boyfriend does to me (ie snatching things from the table and giggling trying to get me to take it from him)
>I just kinda made an uncomfortable face and didn't respond to the guy when he did that
All I can think is "Oh god, this person thinks that Im some sleazy college girl being an idiot with men."
My boyfriend started realizing it, and after the break of the class, he switched places with me, but it still continued with the guy sitting next to us.
What even do? He has not been completely forward like talking to me or whatever, but it seems to be escalating. We don't even see him after class so it's not like he sees us hold hands or kiss or anything. My boyfriend wouldn't say anything to him unless he actually says something to me.
At this point it's just really strange. What do.
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Tell the other guy that you're dating and that he needs to stop
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Tell the guy to cut it out and tell him that you act that way with your boyfriend because he's your boyfriend. The other guy is male, he needs to be told directly what the deal is, hinting will get you nowhere.
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I'm just worried that he's gonna twist it around on me. Like he'll say I was misinterpreting it or do some weird shit to make me look bad.
This has happened before in a slightly different scenario. They douchebag told me that my boyfriend should "act more like my boyfriend." and it got weird.and embarrassing.
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Is there any reason why I should continue learning Italian? 2016-03-06 03:09:58 Post No.16881336
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Is there any reason why I should continue learning Italian?
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I'm a university student in Canada. I speak French besides English. I'm starting to learn Italian as I want to learn a new language and I have an online friend to practise with. However, I do know that Italian isn't very useful here and I will probably never truly use it unless I travel to Italy (I know some Music majors studying Italian but I suck at music). It's not like there are a lot of Italian people in my area. Should I continue learning Italian or not? Is it pointless?
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>Should I continue to learn this thing that will allow me to speak to a completely different group of people guys?
I dont know anon, if you have to ask then you probably should just quit.
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Trust me, when you're 30 and still single, you'll look a lot better to women if you have Italian as a hobby. So many people like get to that age and their only skills are Netflix and eating out
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>>16881342
I just dont get this ''Well but is it useful?'' type of mentality thats so popular amongs all of us.
Its a question thats been sorrounding me for years by other dumb people who will try their hardest to determine the VALUE of things instead of just appreciating them.
Jesus fucking christ dude you can learn a new language and even practice with a friend, you dont even have to be interested, you can just study 1 hour a day and fucking learn the thing because Italian is probably easy as shit.
Now you can go around and update your facebook pretentiously by putting three languages instead of 2 and you get brag rights againts all the other apeish motherfuckers that probably know only 1 language.
FUCK just fucking do the things
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Is online dating a legitimate way to meet girls
I always felt it was kind of unnatural but everyone is online these days. I just turned 18 and I wanna find a nice girl, but I'm kinda scared that there won't be any cute girls, because why wouldn't they have a boyfriend if they were cute?
Help me out guys
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Hi, I'm 30. My generation worked hard to make it such that younger generations would never think online dating was a weird way to meet someone. What did we miss?
Re cute girls with boyfriends:
- "Cute" is subjective; you might be into something that others aren't;
- Cute girls with boyfriends sometimes break up with said boyfriends. It's been known to happen.
It's really easy to try Tinder, etc., so just try it. At worst you can give up and post on /r9k/.
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>>16881224
I want an actual relationship not a quick fuck, tinder doesn't seen right for me
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Puppies and kittens are cute.
Would you date one of those?
Why are there so many sluts that dress the same, and how can I stop being bitter about it? This whole leggings thong is just fucking ridiculous. I would just never be able to date someone who would wear something so revealing, and 90% of the population (at least on campus) wears them.
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>>16881111
Fuck you the leggings/thong is amazing. My dick has never been happier. I've literally gotten to stare at vaginas of most women because of it. What a time to be alive.
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>>16881111
Instead of being bitter about those people, seek out and appreciate the other people you like and get along with. They do exist.
I don't like that type of dress either, so I'm thankful I have a girlfriend who dresses in a way I find very nice.
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Yeah, but it's distracting as hell and I wouldn't want a gf that shows her thomg to everyone.
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I'm 24 years old and finally started dating my first girl (pathetic, I know). She is from my university, and she is incredibly attractive (literally used to participate in beauty pageants), and this is the first girl I'm really doing something serious with. Here are my concerns;
1. The biggest thing is that I have not told her she is basically going to be my first, well, everything for obvious reasons. I am pretty sure she would see it as a red flag if she knew the truth, but it just hasn't been brought up yet. What do I do about this?
2. I have never really gotten affirmation for my attractiveness level so I always assumed I was not that good looking at all. This girl cares a lot about her beauty and that is clear and obvious. The main thing I have going for me is my charisma; I can engage with pretty much anyone and have them feeling good and having fun. Honestly, I'm not that good looking. I look like a white 2pac who is slightly skinnier. Is it actually reasonable to think that this girl actually likes me for my personality despite being the type of girl you would normally classify as vain? I'm just afraid she will get someone better, because I will never ever be on her level when it comes to that.
There's more, but I will just start with those things. The first one is obviously a HUGE issue and I need help knowing how to play my hand.
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>1. The biggest thing is that I have not told her she is basically going to be my first, well, everything for obvious reasons. I am pretty sure she would see it as a red flag if she knew the truth, but it just hasn't been brought up yet. What do I do about this?
if she is really into you she will give no fucks about it, might even found it cute.
>2. I have never really gotten affirmation for my attractiveness level so I always assumed I was not that good looking at all. This girl cares a lot about her beauty and that is clear and obvious. The main thing I have going for me is my charisma; I can engage with pretty much anyone and have them feeling good and having fun. Honestly, I'm not that good looking. I look like a white 2pac who is slightly skinnier. Is it actually reasonable to think that this girl actually likes me for my personality despite being the type of girl you would normally classify as vain? I'm just afraid she will get someone better, because I will never ever be on her level when it comes to that.
if you think too much about it you will get paranoid soon, remember, she choosed to be with you, if at some point she lose atraction towards you, well... this is not something you have control anyway, so just enjoy and be happy that you have her now.
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>>16880993
1. Do not ever tell girls that you're inexperienced, a virgin, etc. If a guy that's wanted by many women is dating a girl, women view that as a complement. If a guy is wanted by no women and is dating a girl, women view that as gross/insulting.
>huge issue
No it's not. Don't ever tell her she's your first girlfriend, first sex, first whatever.
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My wife is pregnant and I don't want the child because it is a female. How do I convince her to abort?
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Nice b8 m8
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>>16880767
tell her that you're actually half black and there's a good chance the baby will come out looking like a nigger
srs
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>>16880780
But she is very progressive.
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I was at a party and my friend gave me a lapdance. During the lapdance i came and she freaked out... Now things are awkward between us. The last time we hung out we barely talked or make eye contact, and i was hard the whole time. What do i do?
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what do you mean freaked out.
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whooops
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That bitch asked for it if she's unconfortable with it it's her problem
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So my girlfriend left me 3 months ago, together for 7 years, which sucks, and i still want her, but thats besides the point.
We speak fairly often, mostly texting, usually me leading but she is eager to talk to me. Here's the thing, she asks me if I've been with other girls, and she acts all strange if i talk about other women. She seems jealous, i think, i can't be sure.
But she left me, she doesn't want to be with me, why is she asking if ive been with other women, why is she jealous?
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It probably has less to do with you, and more to do with her ego.
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>>16880135
I dunno, i want to ask her the same thing, i don't because id rather not actually know, but i do want to know because im jealous.
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>>16880149
Well if it's going to affect you negatively don't ask. I say focus on moving forward with your life after such a big commitment. Stop initiating texts with her and if she has fondness for you it will build with some distance, but don't expect anything since she did leave you.
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Okay so first thing is that i tend to be sadistic and non-empathic. So i pretty much talked to my friend who i think could be semi-depressed? trough Facebook. She pretty much said that she wishes not to exist. We talked about some paranormal shit and then i mentioned a way of non-existing that would require death(pretty much just for keks). Then i said even if she did that she would still exist in like 1%. She said it's too much of % and then i said something like "IDK then, you should consider killing yourself, that could be like 100% of not-existing." She then disappeared and i thought she just went to sleep because it was late etc. But she didn't respond to me for next two days and i'm getting a little bit nervous. Facebook says she is online from time to time but she never even reads my messages. Just mentioning she knows about my complete lack of empathy, we know eachother for almost 10 years and she never made that a problem. Did i go too far this time? I seriously didn't have bad intentions, i just thought about this as a way to solve her problem.
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Anyone? I seriously have no idea if i went too far or not.
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you did
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You went too far by far. She was depressed and wanted someone to listen, and you seem to have said, "just kill yourself, LOL!!"
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Can someone explain to me what's "so bad for you" when it comes to losing weight quickly? I'm on a pretty intensive diet right now, and I've lost 15 lbs in just over 3 weeks, which my coworkers and some other friends are saying "is terrible for me." Last year I did the same diet, and I lost 25 lbs in 6 weeks.
I feel absolutely fine, my energy is solid, and I have no problems that I'm aware of, plus I'm finally down from being borderline obese to having a healthy, normal BMI, which seems to me to be a lot more important than "losing weight too fast."
Is there something terrible that's going to hit me that I'm unaware of?
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what do you mean by intensive diet?
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>>16879744
Crash dieting has been proven to be ineffective.
Also can cause hair loss.
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1. Not all of that weight is fat. Most people ignore that muscles need calories as well, and as a result you can lose quite a bit of muscle from these kind of diets.
2. Loose skin will accumulate in your body. Not only will the skin not have enough time to adjust to the fat, the muscles being lost through these diets like I said in #1 will make it even worse. Sometimes plastic surgery will be the only option.
I told you what makes them bad. Personally, I'd ask you to just stick to 2 lbs lost per week at most, but it's your decision.
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Should I drop college and get a job?
Because of several reasons (some of them medical) it has took me longer to graduate than most people - I'm 24 and still in college, I started when I was 20 because I went neet for a couple of years.
I don't think there is much prospect for my majors, and both often involve work I'm not very much into.
I also want to get a job because I don't want to keep leeching my parents. They're okay with it because I'm "studying," but considering how much time I have spent in college without getting a degree it'd be a lie to say I've made an effort (even if I felt it that way).
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I'm in the same place and want to do the exact same thing, so monitoring this thread.
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>>16879710
What's your major anon?
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>>16879676
I dont know if this is your case, but it sure was mine and it helped.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jhb5lfqSIw8