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>>16879582
Without

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>>16879582
Altogether

1. Go to drug store.
2. Buy anti-dandruff shampoo.
3. ?
4. Profit!

>>16878812
she hates your guts, a girl would only pay for the date and ask you out again if she didnt like you

cut it off now

>>16878813
th-thanks
what i meant was is this purely a friend thing or is she into me?

>>16878814
literally no way to tell from only this it matters more how she treated you and how she acted

>>16878622
stop posting the rest of the letter, never send this to anybody

You are so incredibly sweet by dealing with all my horrible bullshit, like my room, when I ate meat (I cut down with it about 90%), when I spoke bad to you or your mother (I really want to appologize to her), when I didn't try holding a

proper conversation with you (I didn't even realize, that wasn't my intention). I was a lazy fuck who couldn't be bothered to take you out on proper dates by planning things properly, and you sat quietly and enjoyed it all the way. I

made you drive such long ways so many times, I just feel so bad for being such a piece of shit whereas you were so kind and caring. I spoke to you like an asshole and you still loved me. You always swallowed the piss that I gave you and

sat there with me all the way with a smile on your face, because you wanted to make me happy. You did so much effort for me, spoke to me all the time and met up with me so many times while I was acting like an asshole. No other person on

the planet tolerated me so much, nor loved me... but you BOTH tolerated me and loved me. I am so incredibly sorry like you wouldn't believe.

I was going through such terrible times, and you were right there for me and helped me out so much, you have absolutely no idea how helpful you were and how much I appreciate it. I enjoyed every single second with you. Like I said when

the train left when I was going back to Birmingham, I'd rather wait 1 hour in the cold if that meant I could spend another minute with you. Because I love you.

--part 2

>>16878624
why not? I'm here for advice, I am oblivious

>>16878181

>dont tell men you havent dated before
>date a creep

whats the big deal?

>Best way to kill self

Wait.

>I see 30-year-old femanons posting on /adv/ and people already tell them it is too late
You realise that 4chan is about 90% misogynistic male teenagers, right? What the fuck do we know about the dating experiences of women in their thirties? Find some of your peers to speak to.

>>16878044
Perhaps electricity, like in the video game InFamous?
Or maybe sound, it would be cool for someone to shoot a sound shockwave at someone and temporarily deafen them or cause brain damage or shake the ground or something.

>>16878072

im avoiding elemental stuff in general. in the second show the main characters control fire, ice, and electricity. but im starting to realize there arent as many super powers out there as i thought, especially for the kind of show im trying to make which is pretty reliant on flashy effects as opposed to creative ways to use the powers.

sound waves arent a bad idea. visually wouldnt be too interesting but i could add a little make believe and glow to it. going through lists of like '100 powers' and realizing most supwer powers are REALLY oddly specific.

>>16878078
Hmm, I think you could create some really great visual mindfucks with a glass superpower, if that sounds good.

Do it yourself fatass

Hey. I've been depressed for about 7 years now. I'm 18 too, finishing high school. I've been hospitalized for trying to kill myself. I know you're probably tired of hearing that it's a temporary solution, blah blah blah. I know there are probably all kinds of things that led up to you feeling this way. But I really, really hope you don't kill yourself. Just take it day by day. If you want to lose weight, it really does make you feel better. I've been losing weight and it's helped with my self esteem, to an extent. I started at about 300, now I'm down to 200. I didn't even exercise, I just found other shit to do like play vidya and guitar. Find something you enjoy doing and maybe you'll feel like staying a little longer. Jobs aren't hard to come by, you're only 18 and as much as it sucks now, you'll get better if you try a little everyday. Find a hobby, it helps.

Start a journal. Write down the things that make you feel angry or worthless. It helps to vent, I think. I mean, yeah, death is great and all but it's probably not as fun when you aren't content with what you've accomplished. I think we're probably alike in more ways than just wanting to kill ourselves. Let's fucking get our shit together and find what makes us want to live, because it's out there. I'm goddamn sure of it. Then when we die we'll look back at life like, "damn, look at all of what I did," instead of, "This is terrible, I can't do it anymore."

>>16876683
I actually visit my girlfriend everyday but Friday is the only day I visit in the morning because neither of us have school.

>>16876683
She sounds fucking insane. You're better without her.
Do not tell your next girlfriend who you slept with.

Op she sounds sick, mentally sick.
Break up as soon as you can.

>>16876541
Let her, it looks pathetic and immature. Don't even block her or unfriend her. Just ignore it.

>>16876541

someone on a forum once claimed i had a tiny penis because i used a proxy.

so i posted a picture of my penis.

>>16876541
Obviously under-age.
But if you must fight fire with fire...
Explain she is only saying these in fear you were telling people about how raunchy her vagina smelled ;).

First you gotta tell us what you did in the first place

And the only scary jail is maximum security. The others are either school-like or vacation homes.

>>16876417

It's just some scratches on some floors I did when I was thinking about everything my parents did to me growing up and to that day.

>>16876417

Also, im concerned what will happen financially. I'll prolly lose my job and fail my college classes for not being able to attend.

Have you tried meetup?

It works for people in areas without as much to do like mine when you want to meet new people.

Also less sketchy and time-wastey than stuff like tinder.

>>16875977

hi OP, fellow socal anon here as well. have you considered just playing it single? you just got out of your first and only relationship that lasted an entire 1/3 of your life. maybe you should see what your life is like when you aren't building it around a woman?

especially in los angeles being single has a LOT of benefits. there is so much to do in life and explore on your own that you dont really NEED someone with you 24/7

chill. take a year off. maybe two. just focus on things that are enjoyable that dont involve arguing with a woman. if you meet nice women in the process thats great. but focus on you for a bit.

>>16875987

by meet up i think he means meetup.com which i also recommend just for more fun things to do. theres a wide amount of interests you can meet people and just chill and enjoy. great way to make casual friends, sometimes they develop bigger bonds.

>>16875987
No I haven't taken a look at that one, do it require a social media account (or cost money) or anything to make? I'm not really interested in paying to meet people... but I will definitely check it out. I know that there is a lot to do in SoCal, I just cant think of anywhere that I appropriate as a place to meet a girl (outside of just going to bars every weekend).

>>16875993
Yea, I'm taking one year of being 'single' before I try to jump into another relationship. However, I sort of get this creeping feeling that if I don't make efforts to start my life (getting married/having kids) its going to pass me by and I'll be 40 before I know it (that's how my 20's felt anyway).

So I guess in this year I'm just looking to start doing activities that enable me to meet people I would be interested in dating. Right now my interests are primarily homebody stuff that really limits my ability to meet others. Also, its hard to strike up a conversation with someone at the gym or while hiking without looking like a creeper.

>focus on things that are enjoyable that dont involve arguing with a woman.

That's been the best part about this separation. Daily arguments were killing me (sometimes multiple daily arguments that lasted several hours). I feel refreshed already and I feel like my home is once again a place I can go to recover, not get additional stress.

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>>16875913

depends entirely on the context.

>>16875913
if there was a easy way of doing this I wouldnt be alone in my room again tonight

>it's like 700 dollars just to get a room in a 3br apartment
I'm sorry but I think you're actually too retarded to be an independent adult.

>>16875883
>Rent here is insanely fucking high it's like 700 dollars just to get a room in a 3br apartment

Implying that is a lot. My studio apartment costs $2500 a month, and it has 3 rooms. I have a pretty average paying job as well, before you call me a millionaire.

700 is not insanely high for a room. The only reason I pay 800 a month for my room is because I make 60k a year and could walk to work if I wanted. If you make shit then yeah it can be a lot.

Look for jobs in other cities first. Apartment shopping comes second. If you can't find a job do a 2-year specialized certificate program at a jc or join the military.

Would it really make your life better if a doctor told you "you have a mild form of autism?" Would that comfort you?

It really is a wide spectrum, and when it truly needs a diagnosis, there's no question about it. "Autism" can range from someone who CANNOT communicate with words and flies into a violent fit if he's touched, to someone who is basically 100% functional but somewhat socially awkward.

If you're more in the latter category, if you've been alive for years and you still have to question whether or not you even have it, you're probably better off going undiagnosed. They can't really treat your or help you. All they can do is give you an excuse. And I've seen people use this excuse to AVOID improving their lives and going out of their comfort zone. They actually just settle into their bad habits and get worse, because they suddenly feel validated in doing so.

>>16875703
I do want to improve, but mainly because I am studying at the moment also interested in it because my parents mistreated me and I could possibly have something else.

Examples
>Girlfriend is mad at me and I can't tell so she flies off the handle and yells at me alot

>I like sitting in my room alone not talking to others for months and people keep telling me off for doing it

Other day on the train it was crowded and I couldn't tell if this guy was getting off so I tapped him a bunch of times to make him turn around but he didn't. So on the way home I couldn't help but hit myself, I get weird looks and people ask if I am OK I would like to tell them I have autism so I don't feel as outcasted.

Also I posted on 4chan years ago because I had trouble communicating and they were very worried I had autism, I have the thread on 4plebs if you want to see?

It stresses me out

Stuff like that

>>16875667
What are your opinions on:

> trains
> baseball
> jujitsu
> sonic the hedgehog (or Naruto)
> magic: the gathering
> deviating from routine

>>16875565
Fucking an escort will not make you feel an better about yourself. It will not magically change your personality.

Buckle down and change yourself. Stop pushing women away, treat them like people or friends and shit gets a lot easier.

>>16875565
Sex is overated, and you don't need it to become a better person. If you have self esteem issues it is rooted in some other personal problem

>>16875565

It's not shameful, OP.

>>16875361

fuck I wish I lived near you, I'd come over and make you take basic care of yourself until I wasn't feeling pissed anymore

>>16875361
You need to get up before you get sick.

The short walk to the offie for a few cans of Mocne 14% becomes much shorter when you're depressed.