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post your best drawing and we'll tell you.

>>16910484
I haven't drawn for years, I want to start up again and pursue it professionally.

>>16910488
You better be very young or have a cushion job then

>>16910299
Have 1 kid. 50/50 its a girl and you are all good. 50/50 you'll have a boy and you can train him to become an elite prize fighter and earn millions. Either way, you end up winning

why?

>>16910329
Or I could raise the boy as a girl and encourage him to get on hormones?

find a job in an area where you would like to visit.

im an american currently learning german for hopefully starting a life in switzerland at some point.

>>16910288
Well, it is very unlikely that you can move to Switzerland due to the fact that you are not an EU citizen

>>16910293
thats why i would have to apply for a visa, get a job, etc.

and do that for many years to get any sort of citizenship. learning a language should not be the primary reason for wanting to start a language.

if you want to learn a language you need to have a reason why you want to. not just cause. find your reason why youd want to

You save most of it because your broke ass when you graduate will be glad you had a rainy day fund.

>>16910249
I already put some away. This is extra to what I have

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Legos.

>>16910053
5/10

Fucking niggers took another one.

Who cares. Once you go black no one wants you back.

Coalburners should be gassed.

Move on OP, dont waste your time with this so called white girl. Shes probably trash anyways, as are all white girls that hook up with niggers.

>>16910053

Take this bait where it might work. Somewhere like /pol/ maybe.

>>16910051
Have you tried just giving him head?

Is penetration painful or are you just scared?

Sexual dysfunction therapy sounds like a good bet, having so much anxiety that you clam up (get it?) and can't have PIV is pretty extreme.

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Dear Femanons,

Let me explain my issue.
I am unable to see you women as something different than a cum bucket.
I have been taught this is wrong, you are people like everybody else, and you deserve respect... so I deliver accordingly.
I Would never harm anyone and feel shit when somebody is uncomfortable around me.
However, I cannot bring myself to see you as human beings whose personality I might want to discover. I am not interested in you, but just in what you can give me.
You are like objects, I see you as sex toys and nothing more.

I think you are aware of this and perceive my distance, so you don't want to deal with me and avoid me because I don't have what you define as a "genuine interest" in your person.
I still maintain my interest is genuine -- but just physically genuine; not emotionally genuine.

In a sense, this all makes sense. It's a straightforward action-reaction: you perceive me like that, so you avoid me. Full stop.

What I don't understand is when I am blamed for treating women like men. Why is this thing a critique? As a man, I don't have women rushing to me to care for my emotional needs; occasionally, people give me material help, but this is as far as it goes. Hence, since I'm supposed to find within myself the energy to go on, I have hard times putting up with somebody (usually a woman) who is always craving for my approval, my (fake or genuine) interest, etc. I assume everyone has to do this kind of job and become self-sufficient; I am not here to provide people (and especially strangers!) with emotional freebies -- especially when it is not reciprocal.

But isn't this what women say they want? To be treated like men. So here I am, I treat you like buddies and nothing more... but you do not forgive this way of acting.

So I am in a bit of a predicament: I follow your directions and treat you like I treat men. However, when I do so, I am blamed for not being empathic enough, etc.

Thus, my question:
>What do women want?
>What do you want, femanons?
And, in particular, why do you treat me like a robot devoid of empathy when I make you face this question.
"What do you want?" It sounds excellent. Maybe it is even over-empowering. Not easy to answer, of course, but that's precisely the point: do I make you feel uneasy by asking you what do you really want?
Why do you crumble and leave me when I ask you this question? Is it because I think you are like objects? Is the way I think of you more important than what I provide you with?

Please explain.

>>16909974
>>16909973
TL;DR
Replace what women want with what do people want. Relationships aren't some sort of game where if you put in X you get out Y.

How old are you?

>>16909924
28

>>16909929
You really should just try to stick to meeting only other poly couples, in that case. You're too old for people just to pass it off as phase, and you're not going to have much in common with standard couples, anyway.

Are you involved romantically with the other women, or are you just in it for the guy?

I'm just curious, I used to be in a 2f, 1m relationship myself.

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>>16909908
Nope that was totaly ok
Unless you were staring at the cashiers boobies like a madman.

>>16909917
i'm female, with a boyfriend of my own so that wouldn't be a problem...

plus she was asian, so it's not like there was anything to look at in the first place (and before you guys rip on me, i'm asian too)

>>16909908
Server here. Your request wasn't especially odd or unreasonable, but if I had a customer that made it and I didn't know how to meet that request with the particular register system I was dealing with at the time (and I almost certainly wouldn't, because this sort of thing doesn't come up often), I would panic and immediately look scared. It wouldn't be because the customer did anything wrong, but I'd instantly be worried about having to inconvenience them or my other customers at the time by taking a big chunk of time just to figure out how to accomplish this, or outright refuse without being sure it couldn't be done. You're fine, though. If it ever comes up again I recommend just working it out among yourselves unless you don't mind waiting a while for the bill to come back.

>>16909827
Seems alright. The only issue is it might happen again.

I... wow, damn. I'm impressed. You're taking this in the most mature possible way ever. You love him and trust him so much you took this as a warning rather than "OMG YOU CHEATED!!!1". Yes, cheating is awful and I won't advocate for it, but the way you're taking this will be for the better.

Congratulations.

>>16909827
OP if you were a man everyone would be calling you a cuck. Divorce him unless you dont mind sharing him I guess men really are the important ones in the relationship

Dated a "perfect" girl for 2 years in college. Very catholic, no sexy time. Biggest waste of time in my college career. Dump her, you won't be marrying her either way. Finding out if you're sexually compatible with a woman only after you've already married is also dumb and dangerous.

>>16909535

Get rid of her. Why would you even waste your time with this hole?

>>16909535
Its also proven that the less amount of partners she has the more likely she is to stay faithful.
If you are the type of person to divorce someone over sex than leave her because its a huge deal to you.
Its no so with me.

End it all as in killing yourself or ending it all as in solving a common problem faced by billions of people around the world?

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>>16909478

Wait so lets analyse your post.

>I feel I can't make a connection with people of the opposite sex

Which you identify as a problem but then...

>I think this shit isn't worth it all

Implying that literally think its not worth it (for what reason?) or dont care at all.

Then if you have identified it like that or, in the other case, dont really care about the opposite sex then why

>I want to end it all the easiest and painless way possible.

Which implies the contrary of what you are trying to convey with your message.

That you actually care and feel the pain of not being, as you call it, able of making a connection.

Instead of us telling you how to kill yourself (at least not yet) why dont you provide any more details so we can delve more into your situation and find the source of the problem because, believe or not, there is a source and it can be found through human ingenuity and a carefully performed analysis.

>>16909478
Quit being a sad piece of shit, take a couple of shots of the cheapest liquor you got, walk up to some lonely looking hot POA at a bar or party and be a douche.

Fuck that ho, leave her and bang a rail of white lightning off the toilet seat of the nearest buffalo wild wings bathroom stall.

Tear off your shirt and affirm to the stars that you are ALIVE

FUCK anyone who tells you that you can't be happy, including yourself

Also, props for posting best girl

If you want to make money, become a dishwasher at restaurant.
They almost entirely hire drug addicts and felons.
A normal person would get fired in no seconds at all.

But it's a shit job.

I guess read more books? They're cheap if you join a library.
Maybe woodworking or something?

Honestly, I'm in the same boat.
I'm drunk now. Already drank like 1/3 of vodka.
Wish I had something else to fill my time

>>16909272
Well the thing is I used to work 15 hours a day counting driving around with 2 jobs making minimum wage.

Suddenly I work 40 hours nearing 60k and I don't know what to do with myself.

My mother always told me the good part about working all the time is you don't have any time to spend the money and now I know the feeling. All my ideas involve spending money.

>>16909290
I'm right with you buddy.
Got the same 9-5 shit.
I come home around 4, cook for a few hours, and then I have like 4 hours of nothing.

I watch an episode of something, play a video game for an hour, and that's still 2 hours left.
I just keep drinking to pass the time.

Maybe we need friends?

I usually have a towel near my bed and jizz onto that.

I just get up, cum in the shower, and then get back to bed.

>>16909246
The whole point is to avoid leaving bed, jest cum and go to sleep.

>>16909086
Any specific example of a feminine thing that you don't want to do?

>>16909086
It is. Its just a logical leap to a possible explanation. Its harder to refute because its possible so you have to attack the logic used to come to that conclusion.

>>16909086
Ask them to explain themselves. Once they start talking, and seeing the baseless assertions the argument is founded on, they'll realize how retarded they are