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hey 4chan, why does my bf prefer to watch gay porn and look at dudes? is that something some hetero guys do or do i have to worry?
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>>16907966
He's probably bisexual or using you as a face to not reveal his gayness. You'd know which better than us.
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>>16907985
The correct term is beard.
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>>16907990
That was at the tip of my tongue, thanks.
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So this is a general question for everyone, what are you turn offs for a guy, I'm asking both genders but the men will be for potential friend wise and the women potential dating wise.
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insecurity
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>>16907940
Would you break up with a guy over it?
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For men if they :
overuse cell phone
never smile
worship Satan
have coke dick
For girls if they:
have idiotic arm tats
wear fake glasses
are stupid
This girl moved away yesterday about and we will be about three days drive apart, 15 hours when I go back to school in a couple months. I told her that we should break it off because long distance relationships don't work (Right after this message). This morning I got a wall of text from her telling me we can make it work and that long distance relationships can actually be better because of knowing the person on the inside or something. Her friend is also messaging me telling me I'm a horrible person for coming to stay with her for a couple days before she was leaving when I was just going to break it off when she left. I guess I did fuck up, I was just trying to push it to the back of my mind and just spend time with her. I haven't responded to the message even though she knows I saw it a few hours ago.
>Dubs decides what do
Just kidding I need actual advice though
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>>16907896
Ignore her
or feed her some bullshit about how "if it's meant to be, our paths will cross in the future"
Just tell her that although you would still love to have her as a great friend, you don't want to be romantically involved over a long distance.
If she tries to object make up some story about how you had a really bad LDR relationship and resolved never to do one again.
Rejecting people isn't easy op, but sometimes you just gotta be tough. A relationship is a two person thing. If you're not in to it, no amount of whining and begging on her part can fix It
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>>16907896
Don't lie to her OP, if you truly aren't interested in her, if you don't like her, then yeah just break it off. If you too are someone who wants to make this work, then make it work, don't give up on her, you'll regret it.
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What advice? You already figured out LD will only make you miserable.
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I kind of want to start using Tinder, not to actually meet anybody but just to see if anyone is actually interested in me. But I mean, I'd love to meet someone, just not a dtf kind of person. I want an actual relationship, could Tinder be the place to do it? Or is it legit just a meet and fuck place? Does anyone else use it? What's it like?
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people on tinder are the same as people irl
every individual is different, with different expectations, etc.
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I just ended a 2 month relationship with a girl I met on tinder.
She was a 20 year old virgin (she had a hymen and everything) who had never had drugs or alcohol.
Definitely not what I had expected, Tinder has all kinds
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does tinder work if you're a loser?
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quick question /adv/
should I wake up my husband with a bj or sex?
why and why not?
>no I won't ask him, it would destroy the surprise
>it's technically rape
>woke him up with a handjob once, he enjoyed it
>made him fuck me while I was half asleep, he enjoyed that too
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>>16907776
obviously yes. When I had a gf she would do it sometimes, was pretty sexy
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>>16907776
you phrase it like it's a joke that he could accuse you of rape. But if the roles were reversed, it would be no joke at all.
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>>16907784
but he can't consent, isn't that kinda creepy?
I'd really like to wake him up with sex but idk, I think maybe it would be weird waking up with him on top of me
>>16907792
I didn't mean that, english is not my first language
that's exactly why I'm asking, actually
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This website is funny and has quite a bunch of messed up (cancerous) posts/people.
Should I just quit ?
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>>16907712
There is no real reason not to. It's a time sink. A way to pass time. Nothing horrible about it, just a comfortable waste of time with illusion of novelty.
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Honestly the only reason I still come here is to kill time while listening to music, because my other hobbies are either things that can't be done while listening to music, or reading, and reading starts to suck after hours of doing it.
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I feel really useless, I'm lonely and I want a relationship but every time I think about it I just get depressed because I don't see what I can offer to anyone. I'm a poor student, I don't have a steady income, I either study (even then I feel like I'm pretty dumb) or play videogames or draw/paint all day. I feel really fucking useless... like how would I even take a girl to a date if I can't fucking afford shit? How am I going to make her interested in me when there is nothing interesting about me and I'm shit at everything I do? How do I keep up a conversation when I have nothing to say?
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>>16907688
You do realize that generally people who have relationships in college are:
a). From rich families.
b). Good looking
c). Party kids.
d). Some combination of the above.
Your logic isn't incorrect.
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>>16907717
you forgot the first thing..
e) people who love each other
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>>16907717
What he said OP, do you want a gf or a hookup cause that's what college is for. Almost nobody comes out with a real girlfriend
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What makes a guy handsome? 2016-03-12 17:37:44 Post No.16907566
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What makes a guy handsome?
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So its weird to ask this but what features makes a guy handsome?
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From greatest importance to least:
+personality (be confident, be the life of the party, be interesting and socially valuable to everyone else)
+face
+chest (don't be fat, be muscular)
+salary
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>>16907580
Face is my biggest issue, I have a big head, and a fatish face so I grow a beard to hid my double chin, but it looks like shit even if I groom it but I feel like I look worse with the double chin
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>>16907566
- confidence
- hairy chest
- big forearms
My girlfriend has broke up with her boyfriend 2 months ago. They've been together for 3 years.
Yet she told me face to face that she still thinks about him which means she probably have feelings for him.
One thing you should know, this guy was a motherfucker he treated her like shit.
She was doing everything he asked yet she refuses everything I ask.
I need help to know what to do, we've been dating since a months but we know each other for 6 month.
Any help would be useful, be straightforward... i'm really desperate here
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She's on the rebound. You're the rebound guy
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When this happened to me it turned into a huge mess of a relationship for us. Same amount of time together and everything.
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>>16907570
Did you spend time with her or not ? Because for me it's whenever i ask something, she says no. And when we see each others she hates it i can see it in her eyes
Option 1
>reliable and mature
>financially secure
>close family and friends
>no sex
>no spark
>very little in common
Option 2
>lots in common
>amazing sex
>amazing connection
>not that social, can withdraw at times
>not financially secure
>slightly chaotic lifestyle
Which one would be the best option? Option 1 seems like the best long term option but I crave the connection I have with option 2. Option 2 is absolutely perfect but a relationship would be quite difficult to maintain in the beginning. I honestly feel this person and I could be fantastic together long term though.
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>>16907384
Wich one makes you happy the most?
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Option 2, connection is more important.
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>>16907392
When it comes to relationships just always choose whoever makes you happy, if it's a high risk then fuck it, take it, you don't want to realize one day when you are 40 with a stable family that you let go the love of yor ilfe just to have a less risky option
TL;DR you may regret choosing someone that doesn't really makes you happy
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I'm flying to Ontario today, and I don't usually take planes. I've got a SD card with porn on it, but will it get confiscated? Should I leave it at home?
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why are you bringing a sd card with porn on it on a plane in the first place?
But no, probably not. They'll probably think it contains photos or something.
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>>16907275
Alright, thanks. It's in my 3ds. I wouldn't bring it, but it also has some games and Smash DLC on it.
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even if they took it out (which they wont) and even if they had a way to look at what's on it (which they dont) who the fuck even cares? Having porn is not a crime, they sell Maxim and shit in the airport.
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I am an American girl with a German online friend. A while ago, I told him that I will stop studying German as I have no time for that and I have more important things to do. He suddenly said that he has been sad lately. When I asked him why, he just said that he doesn't feel like he is loved and when I asked him why is that he said he doesn't know. Is he upset about me not taking German?
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Possibly?
If he doesn't know so why bother?
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>>16907253
>he doesn't know
What do you mean? He doesn't know what?
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>>16907258
>when I asked him why is that he said he doesn't know.
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How do you ask for sex ? 2016-03-12 13:51:27 Post No.16907062
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Long story short just went from autistic virgin to autistic virgin w/ GF, it's been 2 weeks and we don't see each other that much but i'm seeing her today and staying over at hers. We're quite in love but since I'm a shy autistic, who's whole childhood was raised under religion, I don't know shit about being in couple. We do love each other and kiss and make out but I don't know how to bring the sex into the couple, it's the obvious opportunity for me as for her, and she's probably forgetting about it since she knows I'm an autistic dude and she takes it slowly, to go at my pace, but I guess she'd love if I step out and make our relation even more intimate.
Do I bring a condom and just like tell her I'll hit that ?
Do I ask her casually in a message before coming ?
Do I ask her irl and just go out to look for a dispenser or a drugstore in the evening when i'll be there ?
pic not related
> tfw you slept with her but no sex
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Bump, sorry I need an advice on that.
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>>16907062
You say you already make out? Just take it a step further next time. Shit ain't rocket science dawg
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>>16907146
Sorry I'm not as experimented as you dawg.
What does it mean, take it a step further ? It doesn't help me at all, I don't know if I should ask, or just do it after without even bringing the subject, and if I happen to bring the subject, how do I put it ?
Don't underestimate my autistic side, I don't have a fucking idea.
Don't say it like I should slide on her and just get it over with.
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What's your daily routine?
I've been a NEET for so many years (I'm a student now) that whenever I try to structure my day I'm either too strict or too lenient.
I've only gone to 10% of my lectures and barely done any work
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Stop using computers during the evenings, it will make it easier to go to sleep on time.
Then you can get up earlier in the mornings.
I've found getting up early in the morning is cultural to achieving things in life, and it's what everyone expects you to do if you're a "hard working" person.
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wake up at 430 AM (fucking kill me)
work at 6
lunch 12 to 2
go home at 6
smoke weed
chill with dogs
sleep
rinse and repeat for the last 2 years
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>>16907004
>lunch 12 to 2
That's a long lunch.
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I am 27. I have a job with no future. A boyfriend who hates me. And virtually no friends since they all either moved or started families. I am left behind..what do you do when you can see no future in which you aren't a burden to everyone around you? No prospects? The only thing I have going for me is the fact that people find me attractive..and that will fade soon enough. I am pushing 30, and I have done nothing worth noting in my life. I don't even have some stupid fucking hidden talent. I am nothing.
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Don't really have any advice. But at least 4chan is here for you :^)
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>>16906762
Most of the world isn't that talented and work dead end jobs. At least you are attractive. All of your issues are fixable too.
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>>16906778
Well, then I have nowhere left to go.