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She's a bitch, what more do you want.

Just leave her be, you gain nothing from calling her out but an ego boost

She might be a bitch but you sound like a fucking asshole.

Grow up. She owes you and your shitty friends nothing. Get some help before you permanently ruin your life.

>>16891044
drops them how? does she tell people "I don't want to talk to you anymore, have a nice life"? or does she just go long periods without talking to anybody?

if it's the first, she's either a bitch or has mental issues. if you decide to give her a piece of your mind, it will have more impact if you're specific. tell her it's rude to just abruptly cut people out of her life for no reason. then at least there's a tiny chance she'll catch a clue and change. if you just call her a bitch, you accomplish nothing other than (maybe) getting someone back for hurting your feels.

if it's the second, try to be more forgiving. some people just don't associate with their friends much, or they'll have brief periods where they feel social and then need long periods of solitude. maybe just tell her you feel ignored and left out.

what are you hoping to accomplish by telling her off?

In today's world? It doesn't fucking matter. Know what does? Networking your ass off.

Also found this funny since I work as a chemist. My BA is in philosophy.

>>16891033
how do i network

>>16891029
Have you tried drugs and alcohol?

If not just give it time. You'll think about her less and less as time goes on.

>>16891032
I'm considering alcohol. Will that really help?

>>16891029
Fuck another girl.
Not even kidding. The attention from another girl will take the edge off what your brain is doing right now (which is literally addiction withdrawal).
Dating and sex with another girl is the quickest way to get over it.

>>16890972
Why do people (you) lie about their feelings on here

WAIT

BETTER YET

WHY DOES THIS HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH ADVICE?

>why do things that happen or not happen to people affect their feelings
Serious question: are you autistic?

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>>16891796

>>16890969
Nobody gives a fuck.

>>16890976
Thanks friend

There's nothing illegal going on in that scenario. Maybe speak to your local newspaper/radio station as a starting point?

Are you serious?

>>16890960
We don't actually know your brother.
Just go through things you both know. Show him albums, photos, games. Whathaveyou. Assuming that missing out on his whole puberty was pretty much all that happened.
If there's more damage, like brain damage.. Well, that's out of your hands.

>>16891045
I'm looking for whatever brings him back. I was thinking of smells because that triggers something in the brain

>>16890911
Serves you right for putty women in a pedestal.

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>>16890905
Stop wanking you silly billy

Cut your dick off.

>>16890905
as long as you aren't rubbing it to kiddie porn there isn't really anything wrong with it.
I'd advice to start doing some other things besides being alone in your room. Work out outside or go to a public library to study.

>>16890897
Start with "hey, anonnette told me we'd get along and that I should add you. How's life?"

>>16890897
Never, fucking ever follow a women advice on dating.
They don't even know what is good for them, let along what is good for others, specially men.

>>16890952
>They don't even know what is good for them, let along what is good for others, specially men.

Ironic that you post that on an advice board...

>>16890874
Shoegaze concerts I guess

The best way to meet people like you is to join groups with similar interests.
Shoegaze is tricky because at this point shoegaze is fashionable, which means hip people surround the scene. But try going to related, more niche/outsider scenes, like the noise scene, the goth/darkwave scene, the avant-garde scene, or something like those. Old books is a more promising lead because readers are a very specific group, especially once you eliminate trash (romance, paperback thrillers, etc.) readers. There are places to find fans of classics, and antiquity.

Do you think you might have a specific mental disorder, like Asperger's Syndrome, Schizoid Personality Disorder, or anything else? If so, there's a group for pretty much any of those things. Also, have you already committed to a grad school? Because a tech-heavy school, like MIT or Caltech, will be a great place to meet like-minded people. Of course, any school will have clubs for things like classics/classical studies.

Also, consider dating sites like match.com. The pay sites have users who are more invested in actually finding someone, and unlike free sites, it's less for losers who are just on the prowl for pussy.

Anyway, check out the Japanese shoegaze/noise band Xinlisupreme, and the obscure proto-Surrealist novel The Other Side by Alfred Kubin.

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>>16890895
There is only a marginal shoegaze scene in the small European country I live in. I was diagnosed with asperger's as a child and had an awkward adolescence, even though I had a girlfriend for a year. I wouldn't consider myself autistic, if I can find someone I relate to then I have no difficulty forming a relationship, it's just I've arrived at the point in my life where I don't meet new people, and I'm terribly frightened of any unfamiliar interactions for no particular reason.

I went to college expecting to be surrounded by learned peers and interesting individuals, but everyone I've met there has been utterly banal. Their interests don't diverge beyond a superficial interaction with popular culture. I thought I'd finally fit in and have a chance to meet some people with ideas and hobbies that were new and exciting, but what I ended up in was High School 2: Electric Boogaloo where everyone just drinks a lot and listens to bad EDM. I don't drink alcohol, I take opiates and functional stimulants. My inability to fit into the college culture has led to my becoming isolated and lonely and extremely hateful of everyone around me. Sometimes when I walk around campus I have an unexplained rage directed at everyone I see. Obviously this psychological complex of hatred for my peers isn't doing my ability to adjust any wonders. I just want to find someone like myself who's a bit strange and not congruous with existing social environments.

I'm going to graduate school in Medicine and most likely it will be even worse given the socioeconomic background of most medical students.

Until the date where they talk about it and say, "Hey, I don't want to see anyone else."

Only after you agree to be in a relationship.

>>16890856
Personally.. I'm waiting for the third date to see how I feel about it. Still want to get to know her a bit more.

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But the thing is i don't know how to correct that, because even if i know my friends love me as i am, i know i can be really annoying sometimes, and i really don't want to. It's just my humor, i try to control it but it always comes back. And i figured out i don't even really know how to be nice, and that's probably because i've always considered people that are just "nice" as boring, and i don't feel like coming up to people and being nothing but nice because i'm scared that they'll think i'm seeking for attention and that i need to be accepted.

I need to know how to deal with this, because it's fucking up with my social life even if i always manage to meet great people, i realized i don't get respect because people believe i don't respect them. I try very hard to stop behaving like a prick but it always comes back.

(2/2)

you are not polite
if you can present it with some humour ppl will still like you
you have to forget fake ppl who always smile and talk bullshit though, they cannot understand you

>>16890831
If nobody has any nice ideas then I'm just going to go ahead and get a tattoo.

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>>16891554

>>16890828
When you start posting on 4chan.

>>16890794
With the possible exception of the money, absolutely none of this is any of your business.

>>16890800
>waste cash on dumb shit
>no cash to make a living
>mooch off his own son

yea, its entirely his business

try moving away from your dumb whore of a mother anon

Haha what a slut

You're basically a cuckold, anon :DDD