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try craigslist casual encounters, use protection

>>16889910

>bi

grindr or craigslist or adam4adam or a public restroom, or just staring at a guy on the bus for too long.

post a pic tho. where are you located? certain areas rely on certain means of hooking up more than others

Maybe someone else is looking for the same thing.
Maybe you should meet friends and go to clubs and meet people at these clubs that want to do some dirty stuff.
Maybe you should pay for a prostitute.
Maybe you should change your autist ways, it would probably be good for getting people to think you're attractive and want to fuck you. You gotta seem attractive.
Honestly tho I feel you like sometimes I just want a nice orgasm and to be dirty with someone

No - but people don't get them because they need them, they do it because they want to

>>16889900
When you make a mistake in judgment that you dont see and your friends slap some shit in you.
Its literally the purpose of friends. Go read nicomachean ethics by aristotle so you can understand what a friend is.

>>16889900

>something goes wrong in your life (by your own doing, or simply that of an indifferent universe)
>your friend steps in to help.

depends on the definition of need but i once woke up in intense stomach pain. turned out my appendix was bursting. i could not drive myself to the hospital. called a friend at 5am, took me to the emergency room.

>>16889892
Of course. But it's better to bed them than just kiss them. You need to find a keeper based on broad criteria.

>>16889854
Why dude you now have the godlike power of control over burning hot pots, pans and food.

>>16890315
I will also be worse at video games since I won't be able to feel the buttons!
Masturbation will also be slightly less pleasant!

>>16889848
it ain't a date. don't pay.

>>16889856
But I want to show I am boyfriend material

>>16889848
This is where you see the difference between alpha and beta behaviour.

"Hey I'm looking forward to seeing you. What'll it be? Breakfast somewhere that serves (pick something interesting) or coffee at (name the place). It's my treat."

This says "I'm interested in you" and "I'm decisive" and "I'm not insecure about details"

You should start looking for a job now, but be clear that you cant start until June/July. Don't move until you've been accepted and you want too. (That said if you want to move and college is just an excuse, by all means go for it now)

>>16889859
Okay, I understand.
College is not an excuse to move (more of an excuse to get out of my comfort zone), I would prefer to save my money and stay home.

Do you recommend I put my current address or the address I'm moving to on my resume?

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>Inb4 poo in the loo

You're not fat but it wouldn't hurt to get bigger. Hit the gym, overdose on the protein and bulk up a bit.

well she said she'll think about. don't bring it up again with her just keep doing what you do, if within 2-3 weeks she still doesn't then you can tell ask her again, in a jokingly way.

>>16889826
an attractive female that works retail? she fucks her manager/higher up.

guarantee she's fucking other co-workers. did you even scout this out?

>>16889840
Aight. Thanks for the advice.
>>16889845
She just started. I've worked there for 3 years. (19 now, she's 18)

>>16889800
why not just, y'know, break up with her?

>on the rocks

means what exactly? arguing a lot? can't seem to come to compromise about something?

>>16889812
Well.... because I would like to be friends with her. And so when I tell her "y'know, I love you, but I can't take anymore" i.e. when I'm close to quitting, she changes enough to want to give her another shot.

SO I guess that answer boils down to:
>I want her
>So I'm being a pussy about it
She's had lots and lots of shots at making good on her promises. It's still hard to keep saying no when she's hitting you up every day begging for you.

>Get all these cool ideas
>Tell parents
>Mom's fine with it
>Gives me the whole "Whatever you want, darling" speech
>Finally go up to dad, tell him what I want to be
>Not even given a chance to explain why
"Anon, you're not going to be a fucking cop, and that's it" - Anon's dadbro
>Why not?
>He lists off a bunchof bullshit from bullsit he watched on propaganda shit
"Police are murderers, and killers, and scum. They're taking our rights away, Anon, the law is just terrible. They're like the military and blah blah blah"
>Never thought of how my dad was such a propagandafag
>You could tell him some bullshit story about how Martians did 9/11 and he'd buy it
>Still have no idea what to do, still want to be a cop
>Know theres a difference between "Justice" and "muh justice"
>Tell dad's girlfriend (My ma and pa are split up)
"You don't want to be a cop, Anon, there are some that are terrible people, and they see terrible things"
>Uhh... yeah I get that
>She then basically tells me that cops eat like shit, and are lazy or fat
>She's a fitfag, which is ironic given her weight
>Know that pops and his girlfriend don't give a shit about what I'd want
>Keep telling me this stupid stuff on why cops are bad people
>I know that some are, but it's not necessarily the badge that's evil, it's the people wearing it
>Kind of that loud minority that get's the media's spotlight.
>Dad and his Lady obviously think I'm some sort of asshole because wanting to go into law
>They're always trying to pressure me into getting all A's and shit
>Tried to for the first quarter, got too strung up on it
>Became one of those gradefags that almost wept over a B-
>Grades dropped, rate of Nihilism increased
>Went from a 3.9 GPA to fucking 2.6
>I know I'd already be branded as a failure to pops if I hadn't shown them
>I want to say I don't care, but I obviously must
>Genuinely feel terrible thinking about it
(2 / 3)

What should I do, /adv/? I can't see any point in going for the highest grade since Pops already thinks I'm some cop-faggot. But looking back at how far I've fell, am I really redeemable at that point? I went from a fucking 3.9 to a 2.6. It's this constant feeling of "I can't care enough" and "I care too much". What should I do?

>>16889811
Your parents are people just like the people on this board. Do you think the people on this board know shit? some do, most don't. Kind of like parents. Most of them don't know shit about what's best for their children.

Your father and dad's fuck buddy (lol, and you're taking advice from him, the divorcee) don't know what's best for you and can't make that decision for you. If you want to be a cop, be a fucking cop. Just make damn sure that's what you want. Go meet some cops, ask if you can job shadow them. Go do some ride alongs. See what's up.

As far as your grades, stop blaming your parents. Your grades are your responsibility to improve; their opinion is irrelevant on this.

I think you should buckle down, get good grades, go follow cops around and see what's up, and then make a decision. But don't let your grades job over some daddy issue shit man.

>>16889724
Encourage her to lose weight, and explain that there are many ways to do it. If she keeps denying you sex, suggest you get into an open relationship because you don't want to go without it. Don't be a beta henpecked cuck, you have to set the law. I do the same to my wife, and I have sex 4 times a day and am served my meals.

>>16889661
they tend to seek serious relationships and hold a close knit group of friends (or have difficulties maintaining friends).

if she's giving you excuses every time you ask to see her then maybe she's not only introverted but also uninterested. obviously i can't tell you with any certainty.

>>16889661
Introverted girls who are busy require a lot of work and understanding. If the stars aren't aligned just right them you're destined for a sporadic friendship. Stop trying for a while, may be she's just sorting some shit out.

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>>16889661

>Do they ever like to talk? Is long silence periods normal for them?

Every human being is different.

"introverted woman" is not like a model of a fucking cellphone, they aren't identical. None of us know this girl or anything about her, so, who the fuck knows whats normal for her.

Make a decision and stick to it. If you're searching for reasons to stay with someone that generally disappoints and confuses you regularly than maybe you have your answer as to whether or not you should keep her as a friend.

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>see pic
Now get a hold of yourself. You have a job, you have just below a 4.0, you are an athlete. Your girlfriend may have broken up with you but shit happens. Once you are able to get in touch with someone who knows you talk to them. To hell with dating for a short time and get your shit together. Once you do get back to it.

>>16889656
Looking at all this. This isn't bad. Why would you want be in a committed relationship with some one who does feel attracted to you, imagine how painful of a divorce that'd be if it stuck out in near future you'd bendeeper in slums, Your grades are better than most people, you helped a charity man even if they threw it away you tried talking your mind off one thing than another.
Have you even thought about doing something or yourself. It doesn't hurt standing on your own feet. In the end you'll feel better knowing if you gt in a relationship or anything above comes down on you you'll know you have an experience like this to depend on and get your ass out of. You shouldn't feel regret over anything you feel you put 110℅. You should be footing up your ass if you layed in bed not try to pick yourself up. Just really follow through with something YOU want everything you explained seems like nothing you want. You'll be fine don't worry

>>16889656

take a weekend off. its hard to, but make the time, find the money.

i realized ive never been on a vacation. ive had time off. ive visited family. btu i never actually went on a vacation.

so this weekend i rented a hotel for two nights. you know the sad part? its only an hour and a half away by bus. maybe an hour by car (which i dont have so moot point). i didnt see teh point in throwing down money or wasting extra time traveling to enjoy a beach far away when i got a shitty one here.

but i wont be home. i wont have my phone. i wont have a computer telling me 'hey i know its technically work, but editing this scene here would be a lot of fun'.

isntead ill have soft serve ice cream. and beaches. and maybe thunderstorms at the beach cuz its been freaky weather lately, but im totally okay with that. take some time just for oyu and being out of your house is a MUST.

it took me 6 years to realize this

>>16889641
Is that a man?

>>16889759
If it is I didn't know

BUMP